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By Tracee Cornforth, About.com Guide to Women's Health since 1997

Why Have I Missed My Period? Am I Pregnant?

Tuesday July 15, 2003
Women's Health Forum: Help! I have missed my period. And I never have before in my life. It's so strange. I have pain sometimes at night like I'm going to start my period but I don't. I'm very tired all the time and hungry. Also I get dizzy and I am constipated. I feel sometimes like I have gained alot of weight but it might just be from all of these problems. I haven't been dieting, working out hard, or been under stress. I thought I might be pregnant as my husband and I have been using the "pulling out method" for awhile now. So I took two HPTs and they were both negative. Then I went to the doctor. She told me the HPTs weren't accurate because it was too soon. But I took a blood test and it was negative also. I have another doctor's appointment coming up soon. But I was just wondering if anyone has any advice while I'm setting here on my thumbs. What do you think?

Comments

June 15, 2006 at 11:18 am
(1) kady says:

OMG! the same thing is happening to me right now! I have a doctors apointment today so we’ll see what happens. I took 1 pregnancy test and that turned out negative too. I dident have my period for 2 monthes then the next month I had it and then again this month nothing. its so frustrating i just want to know whats going on.

July 29, 2006 at 10:53 pm
(2) shaneka says:

I am going through the same thing right now that you are going through, i took 2 hpt’s and a blood test and both were negative and i have all the same symptoms, so if you figure out what was wrong can u post it and let me know, because me and my boyfriend are worried also.

October 13, 2006 at 12:12 pm
(3) Sarah says:

Hey, I just read this, its going on with me to! Let me know girls!! Im 19 and a little worried!

October 17, 2006 at 7:54 am
(4) me says:

i experience exactly the same thing. only thing is, i had heavy petting with my guy and he didnt even open his pants. can i noe why too……??/ i very woried.

October 31, 2006 at 11:40 am
(5) Sarah says:

hi this is also happening to me but my nipples arent sore and i don’t know whats going on…my boyfriend and i have been using the pull out method but i’m not sure if i can be prego…i just wwant to know :( let me know! plz Sarah

January 2, 2007 at 4:17 pm
(6) Brittany says:

hello. i’m 15 yrs old and i haven’t had my pd for over a month now. my boyfriend and i have been with eachother for a month now and we are both still virgins (and we made a promise to save ourselves until marriage). i’m really scared. can anyone help me please??

January 10, 2007 at 3:35 am
(7) Vincy says:

guys i am also going thru the same thing, its been 1 and 1/2 month and i havent seen my periods. preg. tests came negetive, i am realy worried, please if anything let me know.Cheers Vincy:)

January 13, 2007 at 5:01 pm
(8) Same says:

Same thing for me but now that I missed I am getting over the; sore boobs, mood is better, more energy, neg. tests taken, but why did I miss? Please can someone reply?

February 3, 2007 at 10:28 am
(9) No Name says:

this is happening to me now too. i’m 3 days late–i’ve never had intercourse, but i have had outercourse. and the sperm got on my vagina, but not inside, so i am sooo worried. i just don’t know what to do.

February 3, 2007 at 10:59 pm
(10) amber says:

if i miss my period but i not get fat or nothing like that what should i do about it ‘

write back to me

February 19, 2007 at 11:13 pm
(11) Barbara says:

all you girls should just go see a doctor. I really dont think this is to uncommon. It’s most likely nothing to worry about. Whatever it is you can handle whatever is put in front of you. Good luck!

March 10, 2007 at 5:59 am
(12) sharon says:

well this is happening to me. i’ve done to HPT but bothe neg can’t pluck up courage to go to docs but will have to. think mine might be down to the fact i’ve joined a gym and go 3 times a week for 30mins intensive training my body not used to this much excercise so maybe its adjusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

April 7, 2007 at 8:55 pm
(13) Melly says:

Same thing happened to me ive been pregnant before and had one abortion, so i knw if i was pregnant it wouldove showed up, i have another appt this week but im afraid if this is happening to alot of women mayby its a conspiracy … alil freaky if you ask me im alil frigtened now and i never wanted to have my period more then i do right now.

April 15, 2007 at 4:18 am
(14) ... says:

i think the same is happening to me. and im bluddy petrified.
again let me know if anyone finds anything please!

April 16, 2007 at 11:37 am
(15) Ann says:

The same thing is happening to me. Its the first time in my whole life I’ve missed my period. I’ve recently started Lexapro for anxiety, I’ve read that in rare occurances a missed period can happen. Too, I recently started a new BC Pill. Dr. said very common to miss periods in the first couple of months. I’ve taken 5 HPT but all are negative. Dr. said if I get overly concerned to come in for a Prego test. But after 5 HTP Im thinking there is some other connection. Any thoughts?

April 20, 2007 at 5:30 pm
(16) Jennifer says:

Nine times out of ten, if you have missed 2 periods you have a very high percentage that you are pregnant. You can not depend on HPT alone. There are many common symptoms during the first eight weeks that will happen. You can experience bloating, frequent headaches, nausea, tenderness in the breasts, darkening of the nipple, food cravings, drowsiness, and mood swings. Sometimes these symptoms occur because of stress, change in environment, getting of birth control, etc. The best advice I can give you is to wait until you have missed two periods then make a doctor’s appointment to see what’s going on with your body.

April 27, 2007 at 5:14 pm
(17) Erin says:

It’s happening to me too. Not sure what is wrong. Never felt like this before. Im worried . I go to the doc next week? My period has been one week late every month since Jan. And this month nothing.Ive been cramping mildly for three weeks off and on. I’m two weeks late, bloating, burping like never before.I’ve taken two test and both were negative. I can’t wait to find out what is going on with my body. i will let you know!

May 4, 2007 at 4:44 pm
(18) Lauren says:

i am 11 and i have started my period when i was 8 and i always have regular periods but now i havent had my period for 3 months but i am still virgin! i am really worried! how that possible to miss 3 period even i havent had sex! can anyone help me please?! i havent got any symptoms like nipples sores, headache alot, mood swing etc.. i am only 11! help!

May 30, 2007 at 5:31 am
(19) Cassandra says:

Im in the same boat. I turn 30 the first of May and it was the first time I had ever missed a period! There was a lot of stress in my life leading up to it so I took a couple of HPT & finally started a week & 1/2 late. This month the same thing but no stress, I am a week & 1/2 late again this month. Im going to take another HPT when I wake up this afternoon (work midnites). Im going to make a appt with my doctor and see if they can tell me whats up & look into possibly getting my tubes tied. I dont like the idea of doing it but I dont want kids & neither does my husband. If anyone knows whats in the water to make us miss the periods please reply!!! Maybe its the heat!?

June 1, 2007 at 9:25 pm
(20) Sarah says:

i’m 17 y i’m still virgin ..but the period stoped those last 4 months ..i’am gaining wight ..in those 4 months ..
i have no idea about what happening ..i’am soo worried plzz help me

June 30, 2007 at 1:27 pm
(21) Melissa says:

Same thing is happening to me, it is almost the end of the second month that I have not had my period. Ne and my Boyfriend have been using the pull-out method, but there is something called pre-ejaculation that I heard can get you prego! I have taken two EPTs and both negative! My nipples are really sore, I have gained weight and I am hungry all the time! What is wrong with me? Let me know if you find out anything!

July 1, 2007 at 6:46 pm
(22) sam says:

im 15.my period is late but i have been having mild cramps(only on the left side) for about a week, but only for a minute or so, then nothing. i havnt felt any other changes tho. im really worried but i havent told my boyfriend because i dont even know if i should be worrying!

July 11, 2007 at 2:55 pm
(23) STEPHANIE says:

PLISSS TELL ME WHATS GOING ON BECAUSE THE SAME THING IS HAPPENING T ME PLISSS LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPEND

July 16, 2007 at 3:44 am
(24) yanerra says:

same thing also happen to me..im 19 rite now….im having sex with my guy aldy….n when im doing that its abt 2weeks later after my period..but,my period didnt come….im so worried….my guy also keep asking me,if my period aldy come or not….im so damn worried abt this problem…plzzz..anyone could gve me an answer abt this?….thanx.

July 18, 2007 at 1:49 am
(25) Leesuh says:

Hey Im 17 and have only had sex once recently and used a condom. Im pretty sure I cant be pregnate but my period has never been late before and its already three weeks late! I took a pregnacy test and it said negative…nothing else is wrong besides i have low pains/cramps. What is wrong with me? I havent had any weight gain or loss and I dont think I have had stress or anything.

August 30, 2007 at 11:15 pm
(26) kristen says:

hey lessuh…im going through the same thing just as everyone else…but i only had sex once too! and we used a condom.

& its just im so worried b/c i never missed a period before either…

but i DID read that when you have sex it changes the rate in your hormones so that may mean that your period is just changing thats all and may be a little late……thats what i hope lol

September 20, 2007 at 6:14 pm
(27) sh says:

same thing is happenign too me. I was due to come on the 15th of September, but nothing happened. I took several test and went to the dr’s office, but all came back negative. I feel as if I am. My pd is not usually this late. Am I taking the test too early, please explain when you should take the test.

February 3, 2008 at 1:42 pm
(28) Janet says:

The same thing is happening to me too!
I’m 15, and I’ve been having cramps, but my period isn’t coming.
I’m off by a week so far.
I’m so worried, I don’t want to be pregnant.

February 9, 2008 at 12:21 am
(29) annonymous says:

the same thing is happenign to me im a week late. where are all the answers

February 19, 2008 at 11:56 pm
(30) TJ says:

Ok, for all you girls that are in your pre-teens, THIS IS NORMAL. When you first start your period, you may miss a few times. If you aren’t sexually active, I’m sure you have nothing to worry about.

February 22, 2008 at 6:49 pm
(31) Heidi says:

I’m in the same boat as everyone else. I’ve been married for five months and this is the first time in my life I’ve missed a period. I was on birth control for the first month of marriage, but its made me so sick it wasn’t worth it. We both want kids, just the timing would be way off right now. I’ve taken 3 HPT’s and all were neg. I made a Dr. appointment because thats the best way to find out. I read somewhere that sometimes your body doesn’t even ovulate every month so there would be no reason to have a period if you didn’t ovulate right? I don’t know for sure, but I’m kinda relieved to see that I’m not the only one out there going through this.

March 3, 2008 at 4:41 pm
(32) tif says:

hey im 17 and i am 2 weeks late…. and my period is never late ….i took 2 pregnancy tests already but they cam out negative…. i have been getting pain in my stomach but they only last about a couple or minutes…im really nervous and so is my boyfriend…. please if anyone finds anything out … please let me know!

March 4, 2008 at 11:36 am
(33) Jen says:

I’m in the same boat. Never missed a period. (Was on BC) Went off Jan.1. Got my period on JAn.28 and now i am over 1 week late! 2 HPT Neg. Went for a blood test this moring and will hopefully get some answers. Does anyone else have any info??

March 8, 2008 at 8:05 pm
(34) appleton says:

Missed period does not mean pregnancy. It is also extremely common for women to miss a period when on, or have just gotten off birth control. Missing periods do not necessarily mean anything is wrong. The suggestion for the day is to see your doctor if other symptoms accompany the missed period and don’t worry too much about it. God bless and take care.

March 11, 2008 at 2:09 pm
(35) Elizabeth says:

I think the majority of you are most likely experiencing irregular periods. I say this because most of your ages are young and you haven’t had your period long enough to become regular. If you think that it could be something “more”, then speak to your mother, guardian and go to the doctor.

March 14, 2008 at 7:36 am
(36) Sarah says:

So I also have these symptoms- missed perios, weight gain, period-like cramps, no pooping…. There are lots of people in common, but are they prego symptoms?

March 15, 2008 at 11:29 am
(37) Kezia says:

im going through the same thing im 15 and i have irregular periods anyway soemtimes they are brown all the way through for gods sake but anyway i go by 28days per cycle so i have some idea where abouts my period will be but this month its 4days late this is the 3rd day i dont no if i should be worrying or not or leave it for a week because i havnt put on any weight there had been a slight change in my appitite as in i have been eating more for a bout 3 months. but then again i just turned veggie so it might be adjusting im baffled and have no idea. my breasts are hard and sore to touch but i dont know if its growing pains because my breasts are not fully developed. i have done 2 home tests too they both came negative but im terrified of injections
i wouldnt worry untill u have missed 3. its normal to miss one or two when we are young. good luck godblesss…

March 17, 2008 at 2:14 am
(38) Amanda says:

so basically me and my boyfriend had sex, and he came inside of me. I am not on birth controll, but have a tendancie to skip a period here and there. this is almost the 7th week I haven’t had my period. is it possible that I might have an infection of some sort, it seems all the pregnancy tests I take come out negative. I’m very confused.

March 17, 2008 at 9:26 am
(39) Lillian says:

I am in the same situation as every body i have been married for 6 months now but i have missed my period since i married i have taken 3 hpt and all were negative but i have never taken birth control since i was born if any one knows what makes us miss the period please reply

March 17, 2008 at 4:21 pm
(40) AB` says:

Same thing is happening to me. I guess it’s pretty common to miss a period once in a while but I’ve had mine for 20 years and the only time I’ve missed before was when I was pregnant.

This time I have an ovarian cyst that’s causing a delay in my cycle. Three HPT’s all negative and then an ultrasound showed an ovarian cyst which is throwing my hormones out of whack.

March 19, 2008 at 8:04 pm
(41) Jessie says:

Well,I now realize that this is more common than i thought.Ok, I was suppose to get my period around the 5 is now the 19 makes me about 2 weeks late my boobs are sore , thats about it. Took like 5 hpt!! and all negative, went to local clinic and still negative, which made me feel alot better, I dont have any other unsusuall symptoms..It only worries me that i havent gotten my period yet,i’ve never missed one either, how normal is that..any thoughts??by the way i made another appt.lol to be really sure.

March 19, 2008 at 8:06 pm
(42) jessie says:

By the way, Jen you posted a comment on march 4th, what happen since the blood test??

March 23, 2008 at 2:30 pm
(43) AH says:

The same thing is happening to me. i took the morning after pill because the condom broke i had my period once after that then not for two months then again very light. i took a 2 pregnancy tests and they were both negative. what is up with that?

March 23, 2008 at 8:00 pm
(44) samantha says:

I know that it can be common for “women” to miss periods, by this I mean women who have had their periods for more than 5-10 years. I am 30 got my first period at about 12 and a half. I have 4 kids also had my tubes tied in May ‘00 for almost a year now my periods have been getting later and later now I am almost 3 months late and have NEVER been this late. I did some research and found that it is very common for women to have some sort of Pituitary malfunction and/or a pituitary tumor(benign). The pituitary gland is responsible for hormones, thyroid and sugar levels. I am going to the doctor tomorrow to have a few blood tests done. I know I am not PG as I have taken 3 HPT’s all were negative. I guess I can only hope that the problem is with my pituitary gland. I will update when I get results back……..Happy Easter gals!

March 24, 2008 at 1:25 pm
(45) Erin says:

My period is a week late and I am usually like clockwork. I’m not on the pill, but we do use condoms. I’ve had at least three normal periods, not anything light or spotty but completely normal, since we last had sex. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. I am more stressed than normal, but I am still concerned. Wouldn’t I know if I was 12+ weeks pregnant though?

March 27, 2008 at 8:55 pm
(46) AHPG says:

if i were to be 4 months pregnant how much weight would i have gained?

March 28, 2008 at 6:03 pm
(47) SHANICE says:

YESS O M GODD I TUK 2 HPTS TEST AND IT SEYS NEGETIVE IM SOO SCAREDDD 2 GO 2 DA DOCTOR I MISSED MY PERIOD 4 2 MONTHS NOW ….I HAV A FELLIN IM NOT PREGNANT BUT U KNEVA KNOO …MA MOMZ IS GONNA KILL ME IF I AM PLZZ I NEED ADVICE!!!!!!!

March 29, 2008 at 5:36 am
(48) Skyler says:

So all of us girls here are basically in the same boat. blah blah blah. Seriously, the smart thing to do is WAIT and NOT WORRY. Stress can post pone your periods even longer. And like mentioned above, irregular periods happen alot in young women. If you don’t have your period within 2 months, then i’d go buy a test. If anylonger, and tests still show negative, go to the doctor. It’s the best thing to do. Take Care!

March 31, 2008 at 9:48 pm
(49) Player Hater says:

Does anybody know the answer to these quistions????????Me too!!!

April 2, 2008 at 2:46 pm
(50) CHELSEE says:

OMG! ITS LIKE YOU’RE TELLIN MY STORY!

April 10, 2008 at 8:42 am
(51) kesley says:

omgggg !!!!! dats like me but am 18 and wer not using the “pulling out” method or any contraception and i’m havin the sypmtoms aaaaaaaaaa help am worried xxxxxxxx

April 11, 2008 at 12:11 am
(52) maria says:

same stuff i checked with HPT negative…
girls i am new to US i would lyk to go for a blood test but i have no insurance can u please tell me wat will it cost for me to do a blood test

April 11, 2008 at 12:33 am
(53) maria says:

sorry here is ma mail id please help mi

dlovergal@yahoo.com

April 11, 2008 at 9:58 pm
(54) nina says:

Ok here is the deal i have been feeling really lightheaded and eating more and more and peeing every 10 to 20mins but i took two preg tests and they were neg. I havent went to the doctor yet but i am almost a week late on my period could i be pregnant?

April 21, 2008 at 10:36 am
(55) pedaline07 says:

Im 26 my boyfriemd is 34. ive missed my period and they NEVER skip! i only bleed when having intercourse and then it stops. I have taken a HPT and it did come out negative. i havent been stressed or had any heavy activities. when i het my insurance card i will be going to the drs. my adice to other ladies or young female is to see your dr and ask question then. Blessed Be!

April 26, 2008 at 5:02 pm
(56) NESSA says:

IM 14 YEARS OLD AND I DIDNT GET MY PERIOD LAST MONTH AND A PART OF THIS MONTH TOO. AND IM WORRIED AND JUST WANNA KNOW WATS WRONG WITH ME.

April 30, 2008 at 2:02 pm
(57) emma says:

i was due on the 17th of this month,so i am late,this is the first time with me to, i an always on time give or take a day, i have done three test and all where neg,its very strange that so many of us are i the some boat,
i was getting scard that there might be something wrong with me,
either way i would like to know if i am preggys.

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