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Is There a Way to Make My Period Start?

By August 7, 2003

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"Someone please help me! I am 14 years old. I am getting scared, I have not had my period yet or had barely any signs of getting it soon. I am going to be a freshman and would hate to get it during class one day as a surprise, does anyone have any ideas on a way I can make my period start sooner?" - PMS Forum visitor. Find out when to expect your periods to start.

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March 6, 2007 at 10:19 pm
(1) LoveYou! says:

Okay. i feel ur pain. i am 14 and i turned it in febrary. i have had a couple things. But i am scared i waanna get it, i wanna be mature. i am grade 8 and my friend in grade 7 has it already:(. just let me grow up. yeha i DONT wanna get it like in class at highschool!!


March 24, 2007 at 4:15 pm
(2) anonymous says:

I’m also fourteen, and am going to be a freshman next year i still dont have my period. ideas anyone?

March 27, 2007 at 11:14 pm
(3) yo yo says:

Im 13 going on 14 and i terrified. all my friends have it and Im literally the only one in my classwho doesnt have it! I want it but everyone says I dont want it, I just want to fit in! =[

March 28, 2007 at 5:42 pm
(4) concerned 2! says:

omg help me 2 im 14 all my mates have got it i dont but i told them i did 2 fit in how shameful is that i really want it !!! help me please

April 12, 2007 at 6:41 am
(5) Caiti says:

HELP!!! Im 12 13 soon and I want my peroid BADLY all my friends have had theirs and Im left out!!! I have all the signs but Im so alone!!!

April 20, 2007 at 8:59 pm
(6) *A* says:

im 14 to and i havent gotten it i have all the signs and like ive had discharge for 2 yrs now… can i make my oeriod come sooner?

May 19, 2007 at 1:23 am
(7) sa says:

i know exactly how you all feel. im almost 14 niw and havnt had mine or any signs of it. all of my friends have it and even a lot of my 6th grade friend s have it! ((and im 2 years older!!)) i really just want it to come so i can fit in and stuff. i hope i dont turn like one of those girls who get it wen there 16. and i REALLY dont wanna get it in class and stuff. i wanna ge t it this summer that would prob. be best. :] well anyways im jabbering on but i aree wit u all and im really worried

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(8) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(9) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(10) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(11) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(12) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

May 19, 2007 at 3:15 pm
(13) Key says:

I wan my period 2 i had the discharge every day for 5 motnhs my momsays i will get it just have patients

June 3, 2007 at 12:11 am
(14) BRENDA MARIE!! says:



June 7, 2007 at 3:33 pm
(15) secret says:

hi same here i am 14 going to be 15 and i never got it. i have all the signs but i still dont have it yet. i told my friends i had it to fit in but i dont have it. i wish this summer i have it. my mom got it wen she was 16 i hope i get it earlier and not at school but my friend is 17 and never got it yet dat sucks

June 7, 2007 at 3:37 pm
(16) mellissa says:

yea same here i am 13 and i never got it . i cry at night so i can get it but it never happens. i wish there was a way 2 get it faster. u cant have a baby w/o havn your period. and i want to have a baby now i had sex before but since i never had my period i couldnt get period. I WANT A BABY NOW

June 9, 2007 at 8:42 pm
(17) Becky says:

I’m 14 yrs old and I haven’t had my period yet either. My mom said i’m just starting to get the signs. Even though I want it I try not to stress about it. When it happens, it’ll happen. But getting upset or crying over it isn’t going to make it come any faster.(I know this from experience)Nothing will. But lukily there are things you can do to support what your body is eventually going to do. Eat right> Don’t skip breakfast! Get 8-9 hours of sleep a night. Exersize regualry. And keep a journal. Yeah I know it sounds lame but Orginizing your thoughts will make you feel better.

June 16, 2007 at 11:17 am
(18) Maddie says:

ok girls…..if your only 12, 13, 14, 15….its possible to not have your period…the latest age i know about is 18 so you have nothing to worry about, you girls are still at a young age to get it…but if you havent had any signs og getting it or your 19 or 10 you should go see a docter…but you have nothing to worry about cause i didnt get mine untill i was 16 i was worried too but im not now you just have to be patient…thats all i have to say

June 16, 2007 at 11:19 am
(19) Maddie says:

its me again i meant to write if you havent had any signs oF* getting it…..sorry

June 16, 2007 at 11:22 am
(20) Maddie says:

wow i made alot of mistakes i meant to write if your 19 or 20*…..sorry again

June 16, 2007 at 11:26 am
(21) Maddie says:

me AGAIN…i also meant to write if you havent had any signs at the ages of like maybe 16, 17, 18, 19…..then you have to go see a docter….sorry AGAIN:)

June 16, 2007 at 11:36 am
(22) Maddie says:

if you dont eat rigt…. or get enough sleep…and your not in shape…you might not get it….i used to never eat right..so i started eating healthier…it turned out to be good for me so then when i was 16 i got it…this is me again the person that made alot of mistakes….i just had to add to what i said anyways…and i was really happy because i got 2 things out of it…my period…and i am really healthy now…i play alot of sports still(they are my life)…and i get enough sleep….and i havent felt better…and if you have your period and you play alot of sports like me…then you’ll have your period for like 3-5 days then you’ll have time off of your period longer than other people that have it…i just had to say that:)

BYE…hope the things i said help you girls to get threw things

June 17, 2007 at 8:31 pm
(23) Periodless Girl says:

ok girls totally frustrated… i am 16 in 2 months and still havent gotten my period!!!… feels like for ever..i have EVERY sign in the book and still waiting patiently.. even my 11 y/o sister seems to be maturing faster, her boobs are almost the same size as mine..ahh! If she gets her period before i do i’ll just die! I have done some research and found SOY products contain small amounts of natural estrogen hormones in them..estrogen is usually at an all time high in your body when your on your period so according to my research it MMAAYY! help speed up the process.. since recently i enjoy a few great glasses of chocolate soy milk every day! Maybe it’ll help… at this point i’ll try anything! Well stay strong ladies.. PEACE

June 20, 2007 at 5:36 pm
(24) Havent got my period yet :( says:

hey i ahvent got it either and i jsut turned 13 none of ym friends got it yet but i still wanna get it and appearantly u get it earlier of u weigh more cuz u then weigh enough to support a baby so all u girls are probally skinny and i think thats why i ahvent gotten it yet cuz my mom got it in grade 6 and im in grade 7 almost grade 8 so dont worry it will come when ur reay!!!!

June 26, 2007 at 12:06 am
(25) flatty says:

ah. dont you hate it!?

im almost 15 and almost in grade 10 and i havent had it. but yea. i dont even care about gettting my period. i just wanna have sum boobies u no! i feel so uncomfortable wearing bathing suits and dresses and stuff and for dancing those girls who just look so pretty in their leotards and then theres me. little flat chested kid. people think im in like grade 7 or sumthing! im pretty much in grade 10 now. how bad is that!


July 14, 2007 at 12:21 am
(26) justlikeyou says:

hi im 14 and going to be a freshman this year, and like all of ya’ll i do not have my period. i wear a 34 A bra and can fit into some 36A bra’s and i thought after 3-6 month after you get your real bra.. whitch was the beging of 8th gread you should get your period… well it’s been a whole school year and the beging of another and still no period. I do have discharge and stuff. my friend has hers and she’s alwyse like… if you don’t get your period soon… you should go to a doctor… and that imma be super super SUPER tall… and im afaird of that.. i’m 5’3″ now and my mom is 5’6″. i know she’s just cares but it kinds hurts you know. my mom got her period at 14 so i thought so would I.
Imma start eating healthyer and drinking soymilk
so i can get it and stop waiting and being embaressed when all my friends talk about thier periods.


August 21, 2007 at 7:55 pm
(27) Chelsey says:

Hey. I’m 15 and will be 16 in Oct. I haven’t gotten my period either. My mom says if i don’t have it by the time I’m 16, she’s going to take me to the doctor. My cousin said the doctor may induce my period. I hope it will just start on it’s own.

October 7, 2007 at 11:32 am
(28) may says:

i am 11 going on 12 and i am worried cuz my mom got it when she was 12 and some of my friends got it…i have a friend that got it when she was 10..I WANNA GET IT SOO BADLY…..



October 8, 2007 at 1:32 pm
(29) yoya says:

i know how u feel im 12 and i really want it!

October 10, 2007 at 3:51 am
(30) may says:

i read this thing and it said that if u eat helthy and stuff u will get it lagjter so i am eating junk LOL :D

October 22, 2007 at 3:58 pm
(31) Carey says:

Trust me ladies… you must enjoy your lives without it! I didn’t get mine till I was almost 15…..and am happy for it! There are a lot of people that get it later than others….some get it as early as age nine. So no worries…unless you are hitting 16. Then I suggest you see your Gynocologist. :)

Periods suck….trust us!!

November 19, 2007 at 2:46 am
(32) Mc..cm says:

I dont know i wanna get it earlyer i hate being left out…..any segustions on ” how to get it earlyer???????

November 24, 2007 at 11:46 pm
(33) girl who feels your pain says:

ok first of all, melissa, if your only 13 and already having sex, please stop, your going to end up getting an STD and i know for a fact your not ready for all the responsibilities of your own child. but anyway, im 15, almost 16, and i havent started either, so i feel all of yalls pain. i know your period sucks and everyone who has it doesnt want it, its just the fact that ALL of my friends, infact pretty much EVERYONE i know has started and i feel like a little girl. for the girls who actually have boobs, lucky for you, cause i dont. i hate wearing bathing suits just because im completely flat. im not asking for huge boobs, but id just like to have SOME. im not sure that your can really do anything thats going to make you get your period any sooner, but if anyone have some sure things please tell! i have discharge, and everything besides the boobs so you would think i would get it soon, but its been like that for a loooong time, so if i dont get it soon im going to the doctor. i think we all just have to be patient and try not to think about it and be thankful that everytime we hear our friends say they have cramps…we dont! well…stay strong!

November 29, 2007 at 8:38 am
(34) May says:

I already have boobd deveopment and i am 11 going on 12….soo every girl is different…i still dont have my periode…but i think i am gonna get it in aroung of age 12 because my mom got it when she was thirteen and it says that evey jeneration it gets erliyer but it stopa at aroung o age 10….
Ohh well just gotta wait

December 17, 2007 at 6:20 pm
(35) kristina says:

hey im 13 turning 14 in may and i dont have my period either i have the discharge for about a year now and i have pretty much all the rest of the signs well i think im going to get it soon well can somebody reply cause i rele need help figuring out if im gunna get it soon!

January 9, 2008 at 4:24 pm
(36) HELP says:


January 9, 2008 at 4:28 pm
(37) HELP says:

iwant my .(period)

January 24, 2008 at 8:39 pm
(38) Poor Periodless girl says:

ok so i just turned 12. I have pretty big boobs even bigger thanmy friends who already got there periods. So im 12 and i have had all the signs ever mentioned in all the articals. Well my mom and sis got theres at the age of 11 and well your spose to get your erlier right? So all my frineds got there periods and are like oh youll get yours soon. And i really whant it NOW!!! So even when i get a normal stomach ache all my friends and sis and even my mom are like its coming. And i really do hope it does but… It never does. I really whant it b/c all my friends have it. And well I really whant it too and…
God this is turning really long!!!
ok soo is there any way to get your period faster??

January 25, 2008 at 6:04 pm
(39) steph says:

ok, i am flat, im in eigth grade, almost none of the signs, and im going to be a freshman in the fall! i hate it when boys at school say stuff about me being flat behind my back, it sucks. plus, i eat really healthy, im skinny, and i exercise ALL THE TIME!

January 25, 2008 at 6:05 pm
(40) steph says:

ok, im getting confirmed this spring and im COMPLETEY flat, i have almost nothing!

January 27, 2008 at 5:01 am
(41) BuZz says:

i am 15 and got it when i woz 14. if ur feelin left out pretend u already got it- ur friend arnt goin to cheack – just where a liner and carry some pads in ur bag so it looks convincing.

January 31, 2008 at 3:32 pm
(42) Ashley says:

You guys don’t worry about it i am 13 years old and trust me you really don’t wanna get your period. You may be surprised but alot of people in 8th grade didn’t get their periods yet. Well, good luck! and btw you cant make your period come any faster.

February 2, 2008 at 4:13 pm
(43) Wendy says:

I’m 14 and I felt the same way as you… until I finally got it. It totally sucks, I would love NOT to have my period, trust me, it’s a pain in the but, you really don’t want it to get here, trust me.

February 8, 2008 at 10:09 pm
(44) katelyn says:

girls girls. dont rush. my goodness. wow. fitting in isnt everything. and there are plenty of other ways to do so. and having your period isnt one. figure this. you have to go to the store to buy tampons.. gosh how embarrasing. you have to go to the gynocologyst. and deal with being self concious about the possibility of blood stains on the bum of your pants. im 18. i didnt get my period untill i was a sophmore in highschool. i never wanted it to come. you girls are 12 and 13 wishing you had it… whats wrong with you!?! youll have it for the rest of your life dont stress. and the more you stresss about it the later its going to come. stay young have fun. and live it up. =)

February 11, 2008 at 12:02 am
(45) mystery says:

you know what enjoy it you’ll eventually get it, once you get you get big cramps and they hurt bad and you’ll be wishing you got it later. just because all of your friends got theres doesn’t mean you don’t fit in, they just devoloped earlier, im 13 i just got my period 3 months ago, everyone starts at a diffrent time, theres nothing you can do, if your over 16 go see a docter.

February 23, 2008 at 2:53 pm
(46) Ashley • I will survive• says:

hey people.thx
Before I read some of your comments I was scares as hell. Now that I see I am not the only one I’m not as scared. I am 13 and I have some bombs, they aint hug but I like them, I have had some signs of getting my period soon but I am not worrying to much anymore. In the last few months I have started getting little spots, not much, not often, and not regularly but its the first year so its normal. I have done lots of resarch on getting my period and everything you all are going through is completely normal. If you have bad concerns though and don’t wanna tellypur parents then to some research or ask other people like school nurse, guidance counciler, or even ask your doctor qt your next check up. Ima do that last 1 if I done realy start getting my period by then. I’m just gonna try not to worry cuz thinking about it scares me like I don’t wanna have to go to a gyn cuz I don’t feel comfortable with a stranger, or anyone, sticking there hands and stuff in me or all over me ugh so I’m praying I get my period this summer but even if I don’t I aint gonna think to much of it I’ll I’m 16.

Just hang in there and relize probably most girls have gone through this feeling, my best friend did but then she just started getting around x-mas and understands me and understands me so much… She just tur we 15 and was scare but got it

Well I talk alot ahaha bye

March 1, 2008 at 12:15 pm
(47) ??? says:

Im 14 nearly 15 and dont hae my period and i dont no when it is goin to com!

March 6, 2008 at 11:38 pm
(48) Jazmine says:

okay im 13 turning 14 in 3 months.

i havent started my period either.

sure i feel left out but come on, do you really want to wear a pad under your p.e clothes? ew! and sure you can wear tampons but their not the safest things.
then theirs cramps,bloating,headaches and alot more but i just cant name them right now.

the doctor told me that its weird because all the girls in my family started when they we like 10 0r 11. :/

i’ve had discharge for the longest time too but i dont really know what that means.

so yeahh.
im not looking forward to my period. :/

March 8, 2008 at 7:25 pm
(49) anonymous says:

I am 13 gonna be 14 in a few months and I am seriously the ONLY one in my school who doesn’t have my period yet. I mean I know I can drink soymilk but I don’t want it to come just because I faked out my body with Soymilk hormones. I want it to happen naturally and I really just wan to fit it. I have discharge and normal size boobs but I am kind of small so idk…

March 15, 2008 at 3:01 pm
(50) alice says:

hi im alice
im 12 going on 13 im reli worried cos most of my friends av started and i avent and i feel like a little girl a reli little on wat do i do??

March 18, 2008 at 9:48 pm
(51) Mariah Monzon says:

I havent gotten my period yet either and i am soooooooooo scared but i told everyone i have at i get it and i really think if i tell everyone god might give it to me butt i feel ur pain a lootttttttttttttt!

March 20, 2008 at 8:49 am
(52) lucy says:

hey i got my period in january and i was quite happy cos i had been waiting for it for ages then i got another 1 in feb but i havnt had 1 since, i no this is normal but i still want it!! but listen 2 every1 else, ur gunna get it if ur the right weight for ur height and ur healthy, not too skinny but not chubby. i really wanna get mine bk cos im 14 in october but i no that as soon as i get it i will want 2 get rid of it, just remember soooo many of u are goin through the same thing so just stay healthy and be prepared for the day


March 29, 2008 at 1:53 am
(53) marissa says:

hey everyone I’m 14 years old 15 in July… I’m a freshmen and I dont have my period yet I’ve been having signs for about 3 years now but I dont have any boobs only like little bumps like an inch. Is there anything I can take to make them bigger or speed up me of getting my period. I really want it :z

April 3, 2008 at 7:16 pm
(54) luisa says:

Hey! I just turned 12 have 34B back and stomach pain and get realy dizzy. I really really want my period!(by the way,4 all yall that want big boobs, drink a glass of milk with every meal since boobs r milk ducts!) seriosly it realy works! I read somewhere that exersizing and eaton junk delays ur period. Sleeping and baths with lavender relaxes ur muscles and slows ur period to come faster. Also DONT overdue the exersize because that causes ur period to delay. Last don’t stress or else that’ll slow down the prosses! Good luck!:)

April 9, 2008 at 8:04 am
(55) shateara says:

heyy im 14 and i dont have a period and i want it but alll mii friends have theirs and i just want 2 get mine and mii mom get hers whne she wazz 11 and if i dont get mine soon the my mom iss goin 2 take me do the doctor =[

April 13, 2008 at 4:38 am
(56) Ashleigh says:

Omg You guys are sooo not alone im 13 going on 1 but i am so unhappy the other day 5 of my flat chested friends told me that they had started their period and now i no im not the only one but we have all got to you know be patient blah blah blah but i dont want to be patient and i wish for it to come all the time like my friend she is in year 7 and she has it all ready and she lives downstairs from me and now that really upsets me we are even the same breast size…….i will start catching up on sleep and eating healthily.

April 18, 2008 at 1:58 am
(57) rachel says:

i hope this helps a little.
i’m 17, i had sex when i was 13. yes, i was late just like all my friends. it’s just how your genes are. i didnt start mine till i was 14 and all of my friends started when they were 12 and 13. it just goes by the women in your family. believe me, be happy you havent started. because periods can ruin a lot of things. haha. all girls are different. look around. some girls your age have boobs, others dont. there’s a girl who goes to college with me, and she JUST started hers. she’s 18. it just goes by the genes, stress, and if you have any kind of illness. example: hypothyroidism, diabetes, etc.

just wait it out.
it’ll come.
it’s not like your going to be the only one in the world who’s vagina isnt working properly.
hope this helps hun.

April 18, 2008 at 2:01 am
(58) rachel says:

also to the girl who has “big boobs”, milk doesnt do anything to your boobs. im lactose intolerant and have had big boobs since 5th grade. you also get it from women in your family. but the only way you can get “big boobs” is by exercising your arms. believe me. my friend went from a B to a C in 3 months from doing arm workouts. it builds the muscles under your breast tissue. i model now and i have 40 D. which boobs suck because they give you back pains and no guys ever pay attention to your face when your talking to them.

April 18, 2008 at 2:09 am
(59) jessica says:

To that Rachel girl, your absolutly right. Girls, get over the fact you havent started. Enjoy being a kid. And working out does wonders to your boobs:D I also model and my neice is having the whole problems with her menstral cycle. She always wants hers to end because she goes to parties every weekend. I know where she’s coming from too. And to tell you exactly how to make your periods shorter, masterbation. I know it sounds nasty and i’m not talking about anything “all up in there”, just rub your clitoris. And you’ll ejaculate making more blood come out. But make sure you are wearing a tampon or pad because it’s not the most beautiful looking thing in the world when you do it. I’ve had the problem all the time. When I would have a photo shoot in a couple days time and i started my period a couple days before, I would be soooo mad. Because i do swim wear and working on Playboy. And no one wants to see your tampon string or pad all in there. So I asked my good friend if she knew anything, and she said “masterbation”. I thought she was psychotic. But I tried it, giving her the benefit of the doubt. And it actually worked! I went from a 5 day normal period to 2 and a half. It was wonderful!!!

Hope this helps yall out!

April 29, 2008 at 3:04 pm
(60) period wanter says:

Well I am 12 and I havent gotten mine either but I am fine with it I mean it is supposed to be horrible, but I really want boobs cuz My cousins and aunts and my mom and every woman in my family has big ones and i almost am flat. I know that at this age I will not have big boobs but my cousin who is also 12 has a 38A and my other cousin whos 9 is already a 32A I am only 30A!!!

April 29, 2008 at 3:08 pm
(61) period wanter says:

soory my name nezt time is period not wanter and what I meant to say las time was that if anyone knew how to make your boobs grow larger faster to plz help me!

April 30, 2008 at 5:35 pm
(62) With u! says:

I’m with all of you on this one! i’m 13. My mum got her period when she was 13. Almost every girl in my grade has their period but me!!
I want it.. i want to be mature! I have all the signs! And i have HUGE boobs, (bigger than mum) and i still dont have it!
:( any advice?

May 14, 2008 at 9:43 pm
(63) Kayla says:

hey. i am 13 years old and 13 wicked soon. My mom said like last year that she got her period when she was 12, and that i would get it soon. of course, i didnt. my cuz that just turned 13 and is in the 7th got it b4 me, and i told her that i got it to fit in with her. now, every time i see her, she has her period and i say, i just finished my cycle, so i dont hav anything. t sucks. so, i talked to my doctor that thought that i should have it by now, bcuz i have had all the signs. and to the people that say we shouldnt want it, we have the right to thinking what we want, and it is really exciting. i have even prayed for my period and said things like wen it says like ask a yes no ?, i ask about my period. and wen chain things say make a wish, i always wish for my period. i need sum help. if u think u can, email me at x13itskayla13x@aim.com
please. and sry so long!

May 14, 2008 at 9:46 pm
(64) Kayla says:

sorry i meant 13 and 14 soon

and all those that say that its embarrasing to buy pads and stuff, i dont think it would be bcuz no 1 like looks at it seriously or talks about it and says, this girl was buying tampons. no. cashiers dont do tht. so, if you dont hav ur period, want advice (i know a lot about it), or wanna give me advice (please do this i can always learn more), email me at x13itskayla13x@aim.com. thanks

May 28, 2008 at 8:31 pm
(65) Tamika says:

I am 11 going on 12 i want my period so bad iv had discharge for about a year now I want it sooooooooooo bad my friends say im pheenin to get it and how im lucky I dont got it i kno itz painfull but im soo ready for it i wanna be able to walk around when my friends are talking about itand say i finally got mine

June 14, 2008 at 3:24 pm
(66) Flee says:

I am turning 14 on august 21 and i am completely flat have like 1 sign out of like them all and all my friends and guys make fun of me all the time

July 10, 2008 at 5:51 am
(67) rihano says:

I just turn 15 last month n i havent get my period yet.All my friends have had them.I feel left out.They said that they r so jealous of me coz i havent get it but i am so jealous of them coz they have got it.What should i do? I tought i was gonna get my period last year.I’ve waited so long.

July 10, 2008 at 5:54 am
(68) rihano (again) says:

Im kinda flat too.Im really2 shy to ask my mum to bought me bra n all the girls stuff :(

July 13, 2008 at 10:38 pm
(69) The Period Guru says:

HEY girls. I literally read every single comment….that took a while.But seriously, those of you between the ages of 11 and 14 should not be worrying at all! And for those of you slightly a few years older have nothing to worry about also. No one, not even GOd can help you get your period. It is you and you only. The way you treat your body and what came with your genes is all that matters. I’m 16 in a month. I think I had my 1st period, but it hasnt been followed by any others. I do wonder and wish, but I’m almost 16! If I’m 17 and it still hasn’t come that is when i will worry my butt off (and go to the doctors)…but did u notice how many girls on this site actually don’t have their periods, but say that they feel left out? How can you be left out if there seem to be so many others just like you!

All I can say is to be patient…talk to your mom or any other female adult…do some more research about the topic online (but don’t believe EVERYTHING you read)…and stay positive. Not having your period isnt really horrible. Having a tumor located in your brain, to me, is really horrible. That is lifethreatning….not a missing period.
Smiles and Brave faces girls! It will soon come your way!

July 14, 2008 at 1:02 pm
(70) kayla says:

im nervous too… i skipped 5th grade and i have developed a little but im only 13, going into highschool as a freshman next year. i havent gotten my period yet and i know that it supposedly sucks but i wanna mature before highschool soooooo bad. my friend got it at ten and my sister got it at eleven. i feel so stupid!

July 14, 2008 at 4:55 pm
(71) danielle says:

well im 14 …15 in oct and i just started yesterday(july 13-2008)
and i was not expecting it except abou a month ago i was spotting dark ehhh
and alll my friends have already had it and im not joking i was really scared of getting it during high school and not being prepared ahhhhh but im now that i have it its nothing great when you wear pads it feels like a diaper your constantly thinking about if you leaked awwww it sucks but luckily my mom said hers last 1-4 days =]

July 16, 2008 at 5:00 am
(72) yula says:

I just wanna know why you are all so ancious to get your period? Im 27 years old and want it to go away! lol Its not that great. More of a pain in the but then any thing

July 16, 2008 at 9:44 am
(73) BabyCakes says:

Hii :) i started my periods when i was about 12/13 im now 16 and i hate having my period. its nothing but a stress constantly worrying if you have leaked and you feel uncomftable most of the time. and talk about belly pains ouch ! dont worry if you havent got you periods right now they will come when your body is ready :) and believe me as soon as they do you will be wishing for them to go away im sure. :D

July 18, 2008 at 2:25 pm
(74) Amanda says:

dont worry i thought it will never come i thought i woldnt get it til i was in 9th grade but over the summer it happend but it ucked cuz i dodnt wont to were tampons yet so i couldnt go swimming for 5 days. trust me you do not wont to get it it willruin u i remeber the last day i got it ihad the horrible cramp i got it july 1 2008 and it didnt end til the following week i am 13 trust me that god u dont have it

July 18, 2008 at 2:52 pm
(75) washington21 says:

Girl, it’s okay. Everybody get’s there period at different times. My mother got her’s in the middle of high school. I just got mine a couple weeks ago. Trust me, you don’t want it. I bought 32 pads and used them in 4 days. Not good. You become a very miserable person in life. You see soo much blood, so many cramps, and spend lots of money on pads and tmapons. Don’t say you want to get it, just have fun now. Good Luck In Life

July 26, 2008 at 2:18 am
(76) horseyhugger12 says:

i am only 12 but i really,really,really want mi period. mi friend is 12 and she got it her boobs are huge and i am sooooooooooo flatchessed i am really jelious. i know everyone says that it sucks,but i will live though the pain. i eat very healthy and ride horses every weekend and on the weekdays (when i am on vaction) i sleep very late like untiil 2:30 in the morning. can u not get it early cause u r stressed out? please tell me cause if yes i will do anything to calm down!!

July 26, 2008 at 8:42 pm
(77) Angelina says:

Hi. I don’t have my period either. I am almost twelve and I’ve been having that discharge thing for 3 months. It comes, like, every day. I am so mad. My friend got hers when she was 9, and her boobs are humongo. And she’s 2 months younger than me! My mom got hers when she was almost 14! (She wasn’t 14 yet, but she was,like, 13 and a half)!
And I’ve had some signs, except I’m completely boobless.
I feel so babyish.

July 27, 2008 at 10:30 pm
(78) HERE2HELP says:

I understand how you feel, but there is no need to worry at all! Don’t worry about if you are gonna get it at school, you could get it ANYWHERE ANYTIME! All you have to do to prevent that from happening at school,
is to wear a PAD (not a tampon) just incase!
It’s really not the end of the world. =D
So when you actually get it, nothing shows through your clothes!
Don’t think about it, when your time is right, you’ll know it. WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT, and we will get it at different times!

Anyway guys, I hope I helped.

July 28, 2008 at 9:59 am
(79) Haylie says:

“I just wanna know why you are all so ancious to get your period?”
It’s because we want to be mature. To us, it’s a great feeling.

July 28, 2008 at 1:49 pm
(80) aisha says:

im eleven and i havent started someone plz help me everyone has started all my friends even my bff

July 28, 2008 at 1:56 pm
(81) skys the limit says:

im eleven and i have been dischargind for ever and my friends have started someone pllz tell me what to do to make it happen

July 28, 2008 at 11:22 pm
(82) peach says:

okay so. i was alot like all of you. i wanted to get it really bad. then i did. you guys should just enjoy being young because the truth is it suckss. so bad. mine are not as bad as alot of my friends its about a week(or less if you’re lucky) of disgusting blood slowly dripping out your vag. you practically loose a week of your life every month. really they are not fun or cool. love you all. take this to heart please. :)

July 30, 2008 at 2:58 am
(83) Mar says:

Number one reason why girls don’t get their period is because they do not have a normal enough BMI (if they’re anorexic) or if their BMI is too high they might have irregularities. If you eat right you should get it soon, but most girls usually get at around the same time their mom got it, so if your mom got it when she was 16 then don’t expect to get it when you’re 9. Another reason could be that you have PCOS, so you don’t get periods at all, or once you have started getting them you don’t get them every month (more like every few months). If you are very concerned speak with your doctor, otherwise just be patient. Good luck girlies!!!

July 30, 2008 at 4:50 pm
(84) SportyFluff says:

Ive Been Having Discharges 4Ever It Seems Like! Im 12 N Worried. My Mom Got Her Around 15! Some Of My Friends Have It. 1 Of My Friends Had It During School! Im Goin In2 Middle School N If I Have It During School, That Will Suck Bc All Boys Make Fun Of The Girls Who Have It.

Plz Help!

August 2, 2008 at 7:07 pm
(85) mee says:

ime 14 i havent started my period yet but had sex could anything hapen2 me…? wbs x x

August 3, 2008 at 11:47 pm
(86) gingy says:

just wear a panny liner in class and when you do get it just change it to a pad/tampon

August 4, 2008 at 5:21 pm
(87) maxine says:

i am 12 going on 13 and i have white stuff in my underwhere but i still dont have my period


August 5, 2008 at 5:03 pm
(88) Jennifer says:

Im 16 years old.. i got my period last year! i dont have cramps at all and ya periods do suck!! you dont want it….
i got lucky because i got mine late..if you are worried about getting it during class just carry stuff in your purse! Dont worry if it does come during class just go to the nurse…i got mine during school..it scard me..lol

August 5, 2008 at 5:09 pm
(89) Lucylulu says:

OMG! you little kids having sex!! You are sooooo stupid!!!!!!! Dont do it! Save sex for when you get married! Im 16 and im waiting till im married!

August 7, 2008 at 4:56 am
(90) mariah essien says:

I’m 11 but I had my period already but you don’t want to have your period because It hurts for me. I get scared that when I go to school people might smell me and i smell like fish because your blood smells like that mariah

August 8, 2008 at 7:07 pm
(91) wants her period says:

ok for the people who are all like you dont want you period it sucks shut up. i mean we probably wont want it when we get it but right now we just want to be women and grow up faster! mature. i am 14 going into the 9th grade and one of the only ones of my friends who hasnt gotten their period. my mom got hers when she was 16 and i am really scared i will be 16. my doctor said 6 months to a year and if its a a year i will be 15 and 1/2!! ahh someone help me

August 9, 2008 at 1:35 am
(92) LoSt AnD cOnFuSeD n So MaNy WaYs?!?! says:

im 13, going on 14 in september and i havnt had it yet, i have had all the signs for about a year or two now, and all my friends have it.
i feel so left out!!!


August 9, 2008 at 8:10 am
(93) sophie says:

come on
all you girls at the age of 11 or 12 complaing SHUT UP

im fourteen and dnt have mine and ur twelve U DNT NEED TO HAVE THEM AT THAT AGE


August 9, 2008 at 11:52 am
(94) wants her period says:

thank you sophie! they really need to shut up

August 10, 2008 at 3:41 am
(95) Jamie says:

Hey everybody that hasn’t got their period yet. I ASSURE you. You WILL get your period. I got mine when I was 12.. even more creepy though? I got mine on Halloween day!! AT SCHOOL! and yes. It did get on my clothes :/
But I assure you. You’ll get it. Have patients and enjoy the time that you don’t have it. But when it does come? Start out with Playtex Gentle Glide Slender, or Tampax Pearl Lite. EASY insertion and it makes you feel even more comfortable with your period every month it comes! Especially for beginners. But be careful!! Wear a liner along with them, because they don’t absorb much!
Hope this helps

August 11, 2008 at 8:41 am
(96) jaana says:

I dont y you are all fuzzing about a period ? I mean its not the end of the world if you dont get it yet.I got mine when iw as 12 but didnt really want it then but it just cmes when it comes .

August 11, 2008 at 10:10 am
(97) jj says:

im 11 1/2 and ive had my period

August 13, 2008 at 10:30 am
(98) im 14 says:

i havent had my period yet and im 14. my boobs r small 2. im worried if ill ever get it

August 14, 2008 at 3:39 am
(99) Misa says:

You are damn lucky not to have had your period yet. Periods can come as late as 17, it is perfectly normal you haven’t got your period yet. I got mine at 9 years old and it was awful. I was very poorly with my periods, being sick and fainting, getting migraine. I nearly went to hospital once. So be pleased that you are a late bloomer!

August 15, 2008 at 2:56 pm
(100) Lissett says:

All you girls are f*kin stupid. Seriously.
What the hell do you mean by “I wanna be mature”? That’s a mental process not physical.
There was also this girl named Melissa who is only 13 and already wanting to have her period only because she want a kid. WTF?! Seriously. You can have a kid even before that. There’s a record of a girl who had a kid at 5.
But really what is the rush? The sooner you get it the faster you go into menopause and then also you start getting in risk of getting cancer and other diseases that you can die from.
Ya should all be happy that you haven’t started yet.
And what the heck is ya’s problem about fitting in?
Society is so corrupt these days seriously.
There is no such things as an age that your period is supposed to come. You can get it as early as 7-8 or up to 18-20. It depends on genes, if you exercise a lot it will make it come later, stress, the more you stress the later it comes, and your diet. I don’t mean anorexic diets or anything. I mean, if you don’t eat enough, your body can’t concentrate on developing thus making it come late.
But honestly all of you f*kin kids are retards.
E-mail me if you’d like. I’ll answer all the BS.

August 17, 2008 at 10:15 pm
(101) m0nica says:

omg im 14 tooo. itssss so annnoying! i hate ittt=( wait is there anyways to get it quicker. i cant stand my boooooooobs need to grow! ahh

August 19, 2008 at 5:23 pm
(102) haley says:

for the little kids who are 11 or 12 on this shouldnt be worried.some people get it at 15
i got mine at 13. so stop complaining
its really annoying,i dont want to be mean but really stop worryingggg

August 20, 2008 at 5:42 pm
(103) Perdygal8 says:


August 20, 2008 at 10:49 pm
(104) Giuliana says:

hey im ten an i got my period a month ago the signs that you’ll have will be red poop, pain under the belly button, mood swings, cramps, and a weird stiky disharge when your about to get it.

August 21, 2008 at 2:54 pm
(105) frenchkittyluv says:

ok omg ive had discharge 4 more den a YEAR and im 12!!!!!!!1 ALL of my frinds hav their period! i just want it to b ovrwit so i don hav to worry bout gettin it in class!!!!!!!

August 23, 2008 at 8:13 am
(106) laura says:

hello its alright if u havent had ur period yet,its nothing to do with your mums period because everyone different for me as exsample my mum got it when she was 15 but im 11 and got it now just dont be worried itll come you will most probbaly get a lot of pains before it comes and remmber have you even started puperty?

September 5, 2008 at 12:52 am
(107) Sara says:

Hi.. Im fourteen, and I DONT want my period. The only two things that bother me is that, well, I just entered high school and Im afraid of getting it in class.. How should I stay prepared? Because my school is really strict about bathroom breaks, and if I do get it, what happens to my clothes? Do my pants get red? What if I wear white skirt or something? And also, Im suuuuper skinny. No matter how much I eat, I just DONT gain weight. I want to.. I don’t like being this skinny. Is there any way to gain some weight for someone like me who didn’t have their period yet?

September 6, 2008 at 11:17 am
(108) ashley says:

i’m 17 i don’t have my period yet and I DONT CARE its great i can watch all my friends suffer ahahah i know i will get it soon…. but quite frankly all you girls shoudn’t care! seriously if u just live ur lives confident and free without having ur period ur bound to have a better time than living a life worring about some stuff that comes out of your vagina!!! like seriously!! ur not alone look around there are lots of girls like u! ur not alone!
have fun beenign able to do what u want when u want before your freedom can only last 3 weeks in a month!!!

thanks for reading


September 7, 2008 at 12:01 pm
(109) sadf says:

i am 14 going to be 15 in 4 days and i still don’t have my period. i pretend like i don’t care and make fun of my friends when they get cramps but honeslty i am like the only one in my grade who doesn’t have it have pubic hair some armpit hair discharge and i started budding like a year ago. i fit a AA bra but wear an A and my friends still make fun of me. when will it come? i don’t really want it i just want boobs and i am a sophmore!

September 9, 2008 at 8:53 pm
(110) rell says:

im 10 lots of people including my doctor say well your getting your peroid soon my aunt been telling me alot about sex and peroids



September 12, 2008 at 7:52 pm
(111) Little Girl says:

Whoa! Chill out everybody! I am 13 and I just got it this past December, and you know what? I hate it!! I know it feels like you really want to fit in right now, but after you get your first one you will want to hit yourself for ever thinking that this was going to be “fun” or whatever is going through your heads.

I will admit, that if you are older than 15 this is definetly something to start worrying about. When I was 12, I asked my doctor about it, and she said if I didn’t get it by the time I was 14 she was going to give me a shot, to jump start it. If you are really worried I would ask your doctor about it.

A few ways to know its coming is that you will start having really severe cramps about a month before you get it, and probably some spotting. When you actually get it you will be very emotional and freaked out. I started screaming in the bathroom!

I hope I helped! Good luck, and God bless.

September 12, 2008 at 9:31 pm
(112) M.C. says:

I feel the same as all of u. I am 13, and all my 11 and 12 year old friends already got their period. I am a size 30A, 32AA, or a 32A. I’m so worried I will never get it!

September 14, 2008 at 11:14 pm
(113) Heather says:

I just turned 15 and I still didnt get my period!!! All my friends have it and Im the only one who did Im really starting to nervous because I could get in school and that would really suck! But Im thinking Im not getting it because I have a yeast infection its white gummy stuff….Its gross but I think I might have to go to the docter!!!WHY ME

September 15, 2008 at 8:38 pm
(114) nikki says:

i had my period at 10

September 16, 2008 at 5:36 pm
(115) teresa says:

my sister got it and she’s 9. but i’m a freshman in highschool and it’s really embarrasing when my sister talks about it because i don’t even have it yet.

September 21, 2008 at 4:31 pm
(116) worried ! says:


im 15 and i cant even say my boobs are small, because i havnt got any!!!
i still havnt got my period and am desperate to get it! its not even the fact that i havnt got my period yet thats bothering me so much its the fact that i have absolutely NO BOOBS at all!
i have to just stuff my bras to pretend i have something!

my 12 year old sister has already gotten hers and shes in a C cup and i feel so embarressed around her and my mom cus like i have nothing!

for the past couple of months ive been getting this white guey stuff in my underwear but im not sure what it is!

all of my friends are really supportive but im still not happy!
i just wanna be normal!
and im really embarassed about talking to my mom about it and i would DEFINATELY not consider going to the docter as i would be way too embarrassed!

could someone please help me hurry it up?

and i know everyone is like “oh , you really dont want to get it , bladdy bladdy blah” but i really just want it and i dont care if it hurts or if its a pain in the butt or whatever i just wanna be normal!

i have no confidence when it comes to guys and am having nightmares about thinking of even showing a guy my body or even having sex!

i literally have NO boobs whatsoever! none, zilch! not even speedbumps!
the thought of going away in the summer holidays kills me cus i just really dont wanna go out in a bikini top!!!!!

i feel so left out!

can someone please give me any type of advise or any hints that would make my boobs bigger or speed up my period?

oh nd to all the girls who are like 10, 11, 12, 13! why are u even moaning about it? u have nothing to worry about till you get to my age and still dont have it!

September 24, 2008 at 7:34 pm
(117) zozobear says:

i know im to young but im 10 almost 11 and iv got breast and puberty just not my period!
my mom says that when i get it ill be a woman…….sorta young for a wouman huh?!
well any way my mom got hers at 13 my grandmother at 11 and me suddenly…… no where!but when i get it ii can go shopping!
(thats the bright side!)

September 25, 2008 at 5:44 pm
(118) QBaby says:

y are u so concerned about it??? y would u even want it? Trust me, when you get it, you gone HATE it! n dnt worry about having your period in school, cuz once it start flowing, you can feel the wetness and you can do something about it before it leaks out (n dats not 2 good) but just keep ya mind off of it cuz its not a big deal.

September 25, 2008 at 11:12 pm
(119) Katie and worried plz read says:

I really understand that not having your period is a good thing and it painful. But I am almost fifteen and feel very left out. I lied about having my period just so I wouldn’t go through the embarrassment of not having it. I know It was wrong but I feel really bad about it. I have started puberty..I just have very big boobs. I am kind of embarrassed asking my mom. So I don’t really know when she starteed or anything. I just feel alone, and there is only a handful of these girls on this website the same age as me. I just want it happen naturally…but I just want to happen soon. p.s.If your under 13 you shouldn’t even be worrying at all or even be on this website.

And sorry for the long message

September 25, 2008 at 11:13 pm
(120) Katie says:

I have very small boobs not big boobs lol.
I wish I had big boobs (:

September 26, 2008 at 8:45 am
(121) worried! to katie: says:

to katie:

i know exactly how u feel! im 15 too nd nearly everything u just wrote applies to me too! im so so sooooooooooo embaressed about the situation but im glad theres someone out there like me too!

September 26, 2008 at 9:15 pm
(122) Katie says:

Yeah I know I am actually not scared of having I have got used to the idea. But I am scared to talk to my mom about it I don’t know even where to start but I ccan talk to anyone else about it which is weird!

September 28, 2008 at 5:00 pm
(123) Jessica says:

Chill girls! I’m 15 and still haven’t gotten it. yeah, i don’t want to get it at school, but all my friends say i’m lucky. theyve had theirs since 5th, 6th, seventh, eighth, and ninth grade. CHILL GIRLS, you don’t want it too soon. ;)

September 30, 2008 at 6:13 pm
(124) ♥K♥ says:

i feel ur pain im in 8th grade and i dont have it yet… the girls in seventh already have it and most of my friends have it too. im so scared i want to be a women already…any advice

October 3, 2008 at 11:23 pm
(125) maddie says:

i’m so scared I will never get it! I’m the oldest in my class, and everyone but me has it. I want my period so bad. I’m even trying to eat really healthy to make it come!

October 4, 2008 at 1:55 am
(126) girliegirl135 says:

hey girls-
i feel the exact same way as all of you! I am 14 and I’ll be 15 this month. i am soo freaking annoyed with myself for not getting it. ALL of my friends have it now. 2 of my friends (1 in 9th and 1 in 8th grade) got theirs last month! i was so embarresed. all my friends think somethings wrong with me. I am in 10th grade and I still don’t have it. I have every sign and i have for about 3 years! My boobs are medium sized but i am far from flat chested! Everything is compeletly normal about me(which i am happy about) except for the fact that I dont have my period yet!

~confused and hopeless

October 4, 2008 at 2:26 pm
(127) Juliet says:

Girls i know how you feel. I’m turning 11 next month and i barely have signs. My sister recienved hers at 12 and she experenced signs at age 10. I’ma lmost 11,and im a size 30A in bra i have pubic hair and i only discharged once last year. I think my stress pushed it away. Girls if you stress you will get it later like age 17 or 18. To speed it up catch up on sleep and eat healthy. for those who want boobs just wait. Guys only like you for them anyways. If people say drink green tea to speed it up its not true ive tried and nothing happend. Your only choie is patience and to take care of your body nothing else. Sorry to burst your bubble.

October 5, 2008 at 12:14 pm
(128) Julietis WRONG says:

Actually Juliet, Green tea can speed up your period. Im on my second day trying the green tea thing and i have cramps and im bloating.
By tommorow or the next day my period is expected. Girls if you want it try drinking green tea for a couple of days. It works! it also speeds up your growth of boobs. So try it

October 6, 2008 at 9:23 pm
(129) Allison says:

I am fourteen and a freshman. all of my other friends have their periods. everybody says i don’t want it, but i do. I want to fit in, i know i’m going through puberty. i’m a B cup and all of the other signs of puberty. discharge, boy crazy, you name it, i’ve got it. except for that. my sister got hers around 14 as well, and she is petite. i’m not petite…but i still want it.

October 7, 2008 at 5:01 pm
(130) I want it ! NOW says:

im in grade 8 and truning 13 in 34 days, all my friends have theres so why doont i?? my mom got hers in grade 7 ! why didnt i ?
i want it soo bad, i dont wanna be flat in grade 9 ! i want it!


October 8, 2008 at 12:25 pm
(131) Kitty says:

I’m 14 too. I haven’t gotten it yet and most of my friends have. I’m kind of worried but my doctor says I should be getting it any day now. I’ve had discharge for 6 months, I have smallish boobs and pubic hair, I just want it to come already, cuz its October and I turn 15 in January. I’ll be patient cuz its not that great of a thing anyway. For all those girls who are 10-12, chill! u have plenty of time!

October 8, 2008 at 8:21 pm
(132) kelsey says:

Hey, umm this is too juliets wrong,
i was just wondering if the green tea worked??
please respond

October 8, 2008 at 8:49 pm
(133) kelsey says:

this is also to juliets wrong

umm does normal tea work too

October 10, 2008 at 9:15 pm
(134) Worried says:

I am in grade 9 and i still dont have my period and i duno what the signs are of having a period

October 10, 2008 at 9:54 pm
(135) noynoy1818 says:

i am also 14 and i did not get my period yet..ugh it is soo annoying!!!:((

October 11, 2008 at 10:34 pm
(136) Amanda says:

Girls can I just say i think its funny some of you are begging for your period. you may feel left out because your friends have it and you dont. well its ok my mom told me she didnt get hers untill she was sixteen. It just comes when its meant to some girls get it young like me i was 9 when i got mine. and some are older like my mom. its ok not to have it when everyone else does if anything you all should feel lucky. its not the best thing in the world lol. good lucky ladies and like i said just sit back it will come when it is meant to!!!

October 13, 2008 at 10:49 pm
(137) Rachelle says:

You girls are crazy.
I’ve read most of the comments, almost all of them. I really don’t think most of you understand what you’re wishing for. When you get your period you get cramps, you won’t fit into a majority of your clothing, & you spend tons of money on pads, tampons, etc. And to be honest it’s embarrassing when your walking in the store with tampons & you see a group of guys from one of your classes or better yet your boyfriends best friend. Yeah, i’ve had it happen. That’s not something to be excited about.

Quick note for all: You are not physically or emotionally prepared to have a child. Mostly because your still a child. And if you do get pregnant there is a chance that the boy you’re having sex with will leave you. You may want a baby but he definitely will not.

Trust me.

October 14, 2008 at 6:22 pm
(138) Antonia help says:

hi I’m 15 nearly 16 and I Still dont have my period my mom said she would take me to the doctors but I was too scared and embarresed I seem to have all the signs apart from breasts

October 14, 2008 at 10:34 pm
(139) Kitty says:

Don’t worry yourself!
I am a freshman in highschool I turn 15 next month, and I haven’t gotten my period yet and I’m still next to flat!

October 15, 2008 at 3:46 pm
(140) Hannah says:

yeah i’m 13 and i haven’t gotten mine yet. all my friends have it and i’m terrified to get it in school! =/

October 15, 2008 at 5:37 pm
(141) Kristen says:

Girls, listen..I am 23 years old and a mother. I was just like you when I was your age, it is perfectly normal to want to fit in and want your period when you want it. But, that just can’t happen. You will get your period when your body is ready. The normal age to get your period is from age 9 to age 15. And it is also normal once you get your period, to not get it very often. Try not to be in such a hurry to grow up, you have plenty of time!! Enjoy being kids! Also, there is nothing you can do to make your period come, when it is ready it will come. Until then, be patient and enjoy being kids. Don’t feel left out, there’s nothing wrong with you. I Promise.

October 15, 2008 at 7:17 pm
(142) Katie says:

I am just scared I will get it at school!!!

October 15, 2008 at 10:02 pm
(143) bella says:

im 14 and all my firneds have thiers,

October 16, 2008 at 12:54 pm
(144) phoebe says:

to kitty and hanna! snap! i’m 15 and have all the signs exept for boobs! like i actually have to stuff bra’s and i hate it wen guys try to touch me there and i always back away cus im so self conscious! i still havnt got my period and my mom says that wen im 16 she’ll bring me to the doctor but im way too embarrassed! i dont even want my period that much its just that i really want boobs!

and today my cousin thats 12 came up to me and was like asking me questions about periods cus she got hers nd she was asking me about mine and i was like “yeh , sure , ive had mine ages!” i was so embarressed and my sister whos 13 was there and she’s had hers ages and sfter my cousin left my sister was like “phoebe, you dont have ur period! ur such a liar!” i was so embarressed that the minute i came home i ran upstairs and burst out crying on my bed! i hate it so much and i just wanna be normal!!!

if anyone knows how i can speed it up or even make my boobs bigger – sorry, i mean GIVE me boobs – then please let me know! im desperate here!!!!!!

October 16, 2008 at 9:20 pm
(145) marcy says:

Hey girls, just wanted to let u no that ur not messed up if u havent gotten ur period yet. im 12 and i got mine 2day AT SKOOL and it wasnt that bad. all u hav to do is go to the nurse and shell help u out. my aunt got hers at 17 so theres absolutely nothing rong with u

October 17, 2008 at 9:07 pm
(146) BlC.jazzi24 says:

hey ladies, i had some discharge like 3 months ago then, NOTHING!!!!!!!! i just had some more discharge, now i think im getting my period, im not sure. is everyone’s period blood red?

October 19, 2008 at 2:28 pm
(147) Joanna says:

ey don’t worry some people dont see thier period until their 18. and if you do see your period in class make it as a funny joke that is what i did. having you period isn’t the best thing. you will feel pain and matbe even less confident. your a teen so you will get it soon. maybe your mom had her period late and it is running in the family. but do me a favor wen you do get your period i hope you beome a wonderful young women. and never use pads use tampons their the best.
p.s good luck!

October 20, 2008 at 5:01 pm
(148) alexa says:


Im 13 and in grade 8 i have had all the signes of getting it like every single sign.my bra size is 34 B and i dont know why im a B when i havent got mine yet, all my friends have theres and i feel so left out ! like i know i will hate it but i feel so bad and all my friends always talk about theres and everything and i just stand there. Does anyone have advice on what to do or how to speed it up???

please help thanks

October 20, 2008 at 5:07 pm
(149) alexa says:


i am 13 and my bra size is 34 B adn i dont have mine yet so i dont know why im a B. all my friends have theres but i dont! i dont get it because i have every sign there could ever be! if anyones has some advice or how to speed it up please write back.

hope you write back

October 20, 2008 at 10:43 pm
(150) me says:

hi… i have had discharge off and on for 2.5 years… im 14… my body is doing all the normal “your period is soon” stuff. but no period… its annoying… waiting i know

October 21, 2008 at 10:20 pm
(151) hi hi says:

hey im 13 goning onto 14
i haven;t gotten my period yet either. and all my friends have to, i feel so left out and want it so badly. i barley have boobs too there ot noticable and not even a AA. all my friends make fun of my for being this yea. i HATE IT!!!! i want boobs and my period too.


October 22, 2008 at 6:42 pm
(152) Lillie says:

Girlies, do you really know what your period is like? It’s annoying. So ya, I REALLY wanted mine. First you really need to relax. It wont come while your stressing over it. Mine was a surprise. The signs, for those of you who can to know are; vajj discharge, pub hair, armpit hair, a growth spurt. You sometimes grow up to 2 inches in the 1 1/2 month before your period. Oh and I think your boobs need to be biggish. Like a 34B or something. Dont be shy to ask your doctor. I know how bad you want it. Trust me. I know. It WILL come. Nothing speeds it up. Theres no way to jump start it. Relax, stop worrying and let your body do its stuff. Though, when you DO get it. SO AWESOME :]]]

October 23, 2008 at 10:12 am
(153) no worries says:

Hey, to all you girls who want your period, don’t worry, you WILL get it. I didn’t get mine until i was 14, now I’m 16 years old and I just barely fit into a 32A size bra. Don’t worry about it, sometimes growing up takes time.

October 23, 2008 at 8:47 pm
(154) Periodless. says:

Ok im 12 and my mom said id get my period soon. I want it to be over with! I have all the signs and im already a 34D bra. i dont know what to doooo!

October 23, 2008 at 8:48 pm
(155) Periodless. says:

Sorry i meant 34B bra**

October 25, 2008 at 10:27 pm
(156) lauren says:

you do not want to get your period i have it and my stomach is hurting constantly i hate it. You are so lucky right now i wish i didn’t get mt period!!!

October 25, 2008 at 10:32 pm
(157) lauren says:

oh yeah and im only 11 years old

October 26, 2008 at 1:52 am
(158) T/G says:

Girl’s I’m 17 going to be 18 in the next 8 months here and I’ve been having signs of it for hmmmm 2 years and nothing…
I’m pretty scared about it only because the age limit IS 18 so I hear. But I’m going in for it In November of next month So I’m hoping there not gonna say the 7 words I dont want to hear which is (Your Not Able to Have a Baby) That will break my heart!!!
So good luck to ALL of you young girls out there!!! You’ll be fine!!!
o and DONT rush to have kids GOODNESS!!!

October 26, 2008 at 6:28 pm
(159) Jenn says:

i feel your pain
im 15 turning 16 on april and i still dont have my period
and there are girls way younger than me that already have it!
im not in a rush to get it, but it sure would be nice to have it and not worry about when im goin to get it and where,
so dont panic.t here are girls out there who dont have it either
we’re all diffrent.

November 1, 2008 at 8:48 pm
(160) xcsarah says:

i am 15 and my period hasn’t started and my bra size is a 32AA i have to buy it from the kids section! but i excercise…alot….because i am a runner! So you guys who are 12 and 13 even 14 should definitely NOT worry!
FYI i am a sophomore in high school….my friend who is a B hasn’t started either and she is 4 months from 16 so you girls should not worry!

November 2, 2008 at 8:38 pm
(161) *erika*011 says:

well 2 help u guys u should talk 2 ur mom or ur doctor or any grown up u feel comfortable talkin 2 i am 11 years old and i’m in grade 6 and i just got my period i know how u guys feel i have alot of friends who r in igh school and grade 7-12 and some of them dont have theres either alot of girls dont so talk 2 some one bout’ it dont feel bad

November 2, 2008 at 10:49 pm
(162) dAdA says:

wow why are you girls stressing over getting your period some of you are just 12-13 and 14 calm down!! Its not the end if the world some girls just develop faster than others and if your friends have it already so what?? It don’t make you cooler. When I first got mine I had just turned 13 4 or 5 months before. Omg trust me I hated it… You bleed so much, be changing your pad several times, if you had a pool party or something involving water you couldn’t do it unless you wore a tampon which I personally don’t like.. And now after about 2 years i still hate it… So girls let it come when its time!! You’ll get it soon8)

November 3, 2008 at 1:40 pm
(163) Meee says:

I am 12, and i have my period. I started when i was 11. Trust me, if your 12 and wanting it, wy. All you get is a stomach ache and blood. It isnt pleasant and i dont see why you would want it. If your friends have it so what, if your friends had all jumped off cliffs, would you want to????

sorry it sounds mean, im just saying

November 4, 2008 at 1:04 am
(164) Maddie says:

I feel your guys’ pain. I really want my period, because I’m the oldest, flattest, and most period-desperate girl in my class. Everyone else has it, except for two other girls, and they’re all a lot less flat than me. & for all of you 10 & 11 year olds, why would you want it right now? I just want it now because if I don’t get it soon, I’m going to be the periodless freak in 8th grade next year.

Also, I know everyone says to just be patient, and to wait, because you don’t want it. But, right now, like all of you, I want it so bad! I know later I’m going to think the same thing.

I want to have the ability to have a child when I’m old enough and ready.

November 4, 2008 at 3:58 am
(165) catarina says:

hey girls, i am 13 and i got my period when i was 8. mum said i only got it that early because every time i went to the toilet i wiped from my fanny to my ass instead of the other way around. i really did hate heving it and when you ARE THAT YOUNG IT HURTS MORE THAN USUALL. i am the only one in my class that got it that early and most people still dont have it so dont be worried. i know people in grade 9-10 that still dnt have theirs. my aunty never got hers till she was like 17. i personally dont think u have any thing to worry about. when you do get your period make sure you tell someone that is realted to you so they can buy you all the accessories you need. i would reccomend pads not tampons. my teachers didnt beleive me that i got mine at such a young age and neither did ANY of my friends. make sure you always have accessories on your back pack or purse just in case gotta go now bye have fun!!!.

November 4, 2008 at 3:55 pm
(166) lauren says:

Like I said before i’m only 11 and I have my period and it sucks. So all of you that don’t have your lucky. When I get my period my stomach hurts constantly and I have cramps.

November 4, 2008 at 7:15 pm
(167) VERONICA says:


November 5, 2008 at 6:50 am
(168) jenny star** says:

everyone relax please!! You will al get your periods dw im 12 and got my period and trust me you dont wanna get it because you have to clean it and bla bla bla. Everyones body is tottaly different. give some time. and anyways if you get it before 12 that is tottaly bad!! I wish i got it when i was like 14!!

November 5, 2008 at 6:56 am
(169) jenny star** says:

whoa everyone calm down relax you will al get your period no matter what. all our bodies are different and who cares if someone got it before you. TRUST ME PPL you dont wanna get it its so bad and it sucks because you have to clean it and bla bla bla ( but i neva get cramps yay ) so ppl dont panic and anyways getting it before 12 years old is really bad THATS WHAT ALL DOCTORS SAY!! PLZ DONT PANIC

Im only 12

November 5, 2008 at 7:00 am
(170) u dont wanna says:

when u get it ur vagina hurts badly and you get cramps

November 5, 2008 at 7:05 am
(171) trixy says:


November 5, 2008 at 7:10 am
(172) BORED says:

when you get alot of discharger it means your periods gonna come soon dw pplz

November 5, 2008 at 7:16 am
(173) %% says:

if you have huge boobs and your 12 13 you will get your period soon or you can even be a flat chest and get your period just like me

November 5, 2008 at 6:46 pm
(174) megan says:

ok im 12 going on 13 i have had doscharge for almost 3 years!!!!! my boobs are a size 36A and i have a pubic and underamr hair n i eat healthy i want it so so so so BAD!!! i know people say u dont want it but b4 u had it u probably wanted it o n i also have stomache aches and side pains n i always feel wet i want to have it n all of my friends do please help

November 5, 2008 at 9:18 pm
(175) mad :( says:

yea hey peoples,im only 11, k, and i am getting every friggen symptom for having your period and my mom got it when she was o like 8, im very close to 12, i really really hope i dont have to see a doctor, or wait until im 19!!! like all of the girls in my grade (7) have like boobs, and like only 3 other girls r flat chested. i really hope i get myne soon or like sumtime in 8th grade.

gud luck

November 5, 2008 at 9:37 pm
(176) mad :( says:

hey me again, i have another thing to say, why r u people who have already have it on this site? the page title says ” is there a way to make my period start?” y u even on this site beotches?? lol jk.
…..but seriously……..
gud luck

November 5, 2008 at 9:40 pm
(177) mad:( again!! says:

sry i meant why are there people who have already had there period on this site… yea there i sad it, oh yea!! another thing,lol, i love how my friends dont care if i have acne or greasy hair sumtimes, they like me for who i am, lol and how funny i am, and I have been dating many people, and i just broke up with my super hot bf like last month and now sumone else already likes me, i can tell, DANIEL!!

November 6, 2008 at 5:13 am
(178) billy says:

hi i am 14 yrs of age n still have not had a wet dream but i have help for periods shove a coat hanger up it!!!

November 6, 2008 at 1:55 pm
(179) john says:

u cld shave your pubes thn put thm on your clit and after finger your bum hole for 10 mins thn they should start. i dont it, it helped

November 6, 2008 at 1:59 pm
(180) I gotta mammoth ;) says:

ur all losers man , i had my first period when i was like 5, go back to kindergarden you babies, plus today i just moved on to DD size bra.

cya losers, billy & John ill do a webcam for you xxxxx

November 6, 2008 at 10:51 pm
(181) Leeshia says:

I’m 10 and my friend is ounger than me by 8 days. She already has her period in the 5th grade. I really want my period and it sounds like fun to be mature and be a women. My friend Katie said, “You won’t have your period for a few more years. Just accept it and enjoy your life being a periodless girl. Be sure to use your time wisely,” But I get discharge a lot. Sometimes at school, I feel like I peed on myself and like I’m having my period, so I go to the bathroom and I look around for blood and nothing. Just icky discharge. I want to be a mature women as soon as possible. I really want my period. As miserable and painful as it sounds, it still sounds like fun. My pediatrician says that I will have mine when my mom had hers, in the 7th grade. But I still can’t wait!

November 7, 2008 at 12:42 am
(182) A concerned girl says:

Hey i’m 13 almost 14 and i’m worried too. My mom started at 12 and my sister at 12 too. I have pretty big boobs 34b, and i’m developed, i’ve been like this for a year now and my period still has not come. My friend and I ahve been the same forever, we both started shaving our legs at the same time and our armpits, I now have a bigger bra size then her, but she started in 6th grade and i’m now a quarter way through 8th. I’m just wondering if this is normal. All my friends talk about it but i feel so wierd when they do… like an outsider. i’m just concerned

November 7, 2008 at 11:26 pm
(183) Big Sis says:

I was once like you guys when I was between the ages of 10 and 12. I am now 24 and I’ve had my period for 12 years. It isn’t the greatest feeling but that’s life. Everybody is different. Like some people are late bloomers…some people are early bloomers. I know 7 year olds who gotten their periods. Just don’t stress about it. And if you are under 12, really don’t stress about it. Taking part in sports can make you more of a late bloomer. Also your mother’s age usually corresponds with the age that you will get it.

November 8, 2008 at 9:46 am
(184) lll says:

my bestfriends has it and really want it like i m so depressed cause i dont have mine!!!!!!

November 10, 2008 at 7:23 pm
(185) I want it says:

ok im adopted and i dont know my birthmom is but she had me when she was 19 but please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

November 10, 2008 at 11:28 pm
(186) aubreyy says:

im 13 turning 14 next month and i dotn have my period either! when i told my best friends i didnt have it they were so suprised i look so maturee & all, and i am not flat. i am a 34a but i fit well into my bra since i am slim. i have discharge since december 2007 and i am a freshman in highschool! its so embarassing, it seems like everyone has it besides people who are just starting puberty itself and all. i really want it i just want to know that i am a healthy, my doctor told me i should have it by january 2009, everyday i wish for my period and i always think about it in some way. i wish there was a just a way for your first period to come, i am going to be so excited when it comes. i’ve been waiting so long. i am like so anxious and i am always ready. *sigh* well, maybe when i do get it someday i will write back on this site.

November 11, 2008 at 6:50 pm
(187) I want it says:

please help i might be going threw it but idk

November 12, 2008 at 1:04 am
(188) Wow. says:

Ok girls. It is really stupid to want a baby at most of your guys ages, wtf are you supposed to do with it? You can’t support it, why not wait till you have an education and enough time/energy/money to care for it. And wouldn’t you want a guy in the picture to be more than just child support or whatever. Wanting your period doesn’t make you cooler, or happier so just wait unles you want cramps and everyone to yell at you because your bitching all the time.O and I read that someone was embarrassed to buy tampons/pads, it’s really not that bad, it’s a natural thing so even if you have to buy them in front of a cute guy from your class doesn’t mean anything. It’s a natural thing and I am far from embarassed about that because I would rather buy them and have them then not have them. Hope I helped, I doubt I did but whatever.

November 12, 2008 at 7:08 am
(189) marie says:


November 12, 2008 at 8:50 am
(190) Shelby says:

ok im 20 and i still dont have it yet help

November 12, 2008 at 5:54 pm
(191) lauren says:

shelby are serious you still havent gotten your period. i got it and im freaken 11 that sucks

November 13, 2008 at 12:17 pm
(192) womenshealth says:

Shelby #120,

If you are 20 and have never had your period, you are experiencing primary amenorrhea. You definitely need to see a doctor for diagnosis and treatment.

Best wishes,

November 14, 2008 at 9:08 pm
(193) emmi says:

ive had my perid for 5 1/2 years and im 14, you girls are so lucky, dont wish for it ok?

November 14, 2008 at 10:42 pm
(194) :( says:

omg :( i just turned 13. and alll my friends have their period and have big boobs! and i dont even have my period yett and im flat as a board!
HELP ME!@#@!$%!

November 15, 2008 at 11:27 pm
(195) 71308 says:

your lucky cuz i got it exacly 8 days after i turned 13 a month ago omg thats the worst pain of all dnt b ashamed you would b humiliated if your in school and all that blood comes out

November 16, 2008 at 3:52 am
(196) Kiari says:

okay so im 13 and want my period but i dont worry about it cause one of my friends got her’s on a monday and was gone from school for a whole week cause she was in so much pain. and my mom got her’s in 8th grade so im not worried about not getting my period YET. i hope that all you girls dont stess yourselves (it will make your period come later) im like kinda athiest so i kinda dont believe in a god but i pray sometimes anyway!! keep your chins up!

November 16, 2008 at 7:56 am
(197) periodless says:

omg same i want my period soooo bad…i’ve told all of my friends i had it im like a 32A bra size and i have pubic hair but no period…are there any ways i can make it start???

November 16, 2008 at 9:45 pm
(198) sbgbiaelr says:


ughh, okay well basically what i said was..

I’m really sorry for all you 17 year olds that havent started yet! That isn’t fair to yall! but yeah, i turned 15 two months ago and don’t have mine yet. But i’m not worrying about anything, there are so many girls at my school that have no boobs AT ALL and they’re not ugly! they find a way to make it work or them! my boobs aren’t big, they’re normal, and i’m happy with them…and i really hope i start before 16 because that is really embarrasing :/ but all these commments made me feel great! Yall don’t need to stress this! have fun..live your life, & all you 12 and 13 year olds having sex, OMG YALL! please stop. you want an std? seriously it’s disgusting! I have sex ed and it’s the grosest thing ever, and the highest percentage of people that catch std’s are like 12-17 which is sad. Save sex for marriage yall. you wouldn’t want a husband you knew has had sex with like a million girls before you, then he’d always be comparing you to them. sick! okay but anyways..

love yall, dont stress.
and good luck wth the periods : )

November 19, 2008 at 5:50 pm
(199) worried says:

ok im 13 and i had a period when i was 11 but only for a day and i went 2 tell my mum the next day and i didnt have one any more, i have 30AA size boobs and my best m8 Beff she has 36B and she is 13 she had her period wen she was 9 :( im worried incase im not normal! even children who are 12 at my school have bigger boobs than me!! help

November 19, 2008 at 6:47 pm
(200) CHRISTY says:


November 19, 2008 at 9:15 pm
(201) Dana says:

I turned 15 about 3 months ago at the end of August, and I still don’t have my period yet. I have small boobs 34A (which I could really care less how big they are ahah) and I experience discharge and the whole shabamm. But my mom got it when she was almost 16 so I’m not too worried about it. Although, I would like it to start. Feel more mature. Even though periods suck and are so inconvinent, I want to experience a more mature life and become more independent. This is really just a set back in life, and just more stressful.

November 19, 2008 at 9:18 pm
(202) Sockz says:

I’m 11 going to be 12 at the end of March. My friend got her period today when we were in the bathroom. She didn’t tell me right away though. She said , “Mother nature has brought me a gift.” I was like what? after she told me i was kinda mad. she said that it was a gift for crying outloud! im pretty sure i have all the signs, but how do i know when its coming?someone please give me some answers.

November 21, 2008 at 7:12 pm
(203) i want it now!!! says:

omg!!! i want my period sooo bad. im gonna be 13 in two weeks. I wear a 36 a, (i can fit in to a b… i know its wierd… but yeah) have “pit hair” have a few hairs sprouting out “down there” and have had discharge for like 1 and a half years now.. but it recently it got A LOT thicker. My mom got her period when she was 14. btw the soy milk thing doesnt work but i still drink it just cuz it tastes good… and the milk thing doesnt work either… those are all just stupid myths. i guess im just gonna have to wait and see just like every one else… are there any tips? sorry this is so long, but i just wanted to ger it all out there.. if you have an idea of when ill get it, please email me at mmickey456@yahoo.com again soorry this was so long

November 21, 2008 at 7:17 pm
(204) i want it now!!! says:

hey!!! me again… a lot of my friends thought i had it, but while we were at a sleep over, we were talking about it and 2 of my friends said that they had it, 1 of my friends said she didnt, and then one of my friends asked me if i had it yet, and the rest of them are like DUH!!! and then im just like… uh actually i dont. i guess they were like really surprised. again sorry, i dont know why but when ever i write something, it ends up being like really long.

November 22, 2008 at 9:44 pm
(205) NO PERIOD :( says:

I’m 12 and i want mine!
OMG it’s so not fair cuz my bff who is 6 months younger has had it for a few months now!!! not 2 mention my breasts are so much bigger shez a 30A and i’m a 34A!
i really need help, i know im kind of a freak but sometimes i literally cry over it! ANY ADVCE???!!

November 25, 2008 at 1:18 am
(206) Lidia says:

Woah I’m 10 going to 11 I have big boobs I hate it….I never thought about my period.All of my friends have it,doesn’t mean I have to get it.Every girl gets it when our body is ready.My mom got it in 3rd grade I’m serious.Right now you might want it but when you get it you will reject wanting it.The time will come! Just accept yourself how you are=]

November 25, 2008 at 5:56 pm
(207) EleNA says:

ok so im 13 and i just turned 13 in october, i am in eigth grade and all of my friends have gone through puberty. I have normal size boobs and have got pubic hair but, i am the only that hasn’t started, im not saying i want to start my period but what if ur friend asks you, what should i say back, because i dont want to tell them that i haven’t started!

November 25, 2008 at 9:51 pm
(208) kitty says:

wow u are lucky having ur period is not that great cramping bloating bleeding not that fun ive had mine since i was 12 and sure it means ur a “woman” now but other than that no fun at all

November 26, 2008 at 3:36 pm
(209) amy says:

ok my name is amy i am 15 i have the smallest boobs in the world they r 34 aa and i havent started my period yet i want to have it so bad people make fun of me cause i ent develped yet and i am worried is there anything i can take with out my parents and friends knowing please help many thanks xxxx =]

November 28, 2008 at 1:58 am
(210) 14 YEAR OLD LIL MZ.SUN SHINE says:


December 2, 2008 at 2:53 am
(211) stacie says:

hey everyone im 12 and have my period but have no boobs at all. I only have very little lumps. all my friends got a nice pair of boobs and then got their periods.
dont u need boobs first to get ur period.
i feel so unnormal. wuld my boobs eva grow. i am soo woried plz someone help!!

December 2, 2008 at 3:09 am
(212) hi hi says:

hey everyone! well u ppl r like oh i dont have my period and blah blah but its not good to get ur period when ur body isnt ready for it everyones bodies r different!!! some ppl get it when they r like 18 woopdy doo its good to develop first like get boobs and stuff and then get ur period!! i got mine when i was 13 and had no boobs now im 15 and have a 34a witch is really small so be patient. now i dont really care if i dont have big boobs. just go on with life dont think about or u will be depressed!!
the best time to get is like 12-16 but anything below 9 is really bad!! soo plz everyone dont worry and think about ur life first. If u dont get ur period eva ( unlikely to happen ) and want a kid just adopt one!!
but if u dont have ur period like when ur 16-18 go check with the doctor but i think there wouldnt be any problem any way girls relax and enjoy life while u can bye

December 3, 2008 at 10:37 pm
(213) lauren says:

hey i got my period on nov 9th and i only had it for 2 days is that normal

December 4, 2008 at 10:51 pm
(214) dont worry its normal says:

Hey lauren. Yes, it’s perfectly normal for girls to get irregular periods, especially at first. A lot of girls have irregular periods for several years before they get a regular cycle. It can even seem regular and then go back to being weird again. No need to worry since your body is still developing into your early 20′s.

To all of you other girls, same goes for you. It’s perfectly normal to get you period at 15 or even 16. I guess youre probably mostly worried because you feel embarrassed. Hows this for embarrassing: you go to the store to buy tampons and your crush sees you, you couldnt sit in class one day because the cramps hurt so bad (everyone knew why you were standing), your period was so heavy it leaked right through your tampon and underwear and a red circle appears on the butt of your pants!!!….ALL of those things have happened to me when i was in high school along with the fact that i didnt get it until i was almost 15.

For all you who think guys wont like you unless youre developed….Im in college and i still barely have boobs….NEWSFLASH! guys do like me and i know they like me for me and trust me thats a much better feeling than sitting next to your best friend who is crying because she found out some guy only liked her because he thought she was hot

December 8, 2008 at 4:20 pm
(215) cheerios says:

i hear that drinking milk can make you get it faster….

of course that could be a rumour XD

i dont have mine either. but im not that eager. im only 13. some people dont get it till they are 19!

December 8, 2008 at 4:20 pm
(216) cheerios says:

i hear that drinking milk can make you get it faster….

of course that could be a rumour XD

i dont have mine either. but im not that eager. im only 13. some people dont get it till they are 19!

December 8, 2008 at 8:27 pm
(217) Selene says:

What are the signs of a period coming? Please answer, thanks!

December 10, 2008 at 12:46 am
(218) yet another periodless girl says:

hey girls, i’m 16 and i don’t have m period! so all you 14 year olds don’t have anything to worry about. i’m 5’3″ and about 97 punds.i’m skinny but only naturally i eat healthly. my bra size is 32B so why don’t i have it?? if anyone has advice for me or tips on how i can get it please add them. and all you young girls don’t worry, it’ll come sooner or later. thanks xx

December 10, 2008 at 4:00 pm
(219) Stummy says:

I know how you guys feel. I am 13 in 4 months and I want my period SO MUCH. I want to feel more grown up and fit in. I have kind of normal boobs for my age (30B) and I have underarm and pubic hair, and have had discharge since I was 9. I now need my period to complete it! All my friends have had it except for one – so it’s not just a matter of poor little me, everyone has it except for me. It’s actually true! My friend was only a 30AA when she got hers. And by the way soymilk has absolutely nothing to do with getting your period. Your period will come when the time is right for YOU. And also, someone said in this thread that your boobs have to be 34B to get your period. That is not true. Like I said, my friend with 30AA boobs has got hers. And plus, what about women that are only A’s or B’s when they are adults? Are you saying they never had their periods? No! They are myths. Your period will come eventually (except I want mine now, obviously!)

December 10, 2008 at 10:11 pm
(220) esmeralda says:

so im 18, i’v had my period since i was 10, seriousely girls, u dont want it..its the worst thing ever!! u have bad cramps, u get pms(pre menstrural symptoms) that are the worst because u get all moody and u get very emotional…so yeah u girls are lucky not to have it at ur age:/ i wish i would of never gotten it.. at 10
as for getting it in class, take a light sweater everyday to school, and a pad, then if u get it in class u can put the sweater around ur waist and then go to the bathroom and clean ur self up:) if u have lockers have extra clothes there so u can change:)

December 12, 2008 at 1:37 pm
(221) Tiffany says:

Hey girls. Don’t Stress. Believe me when you get it you’ll want to give it back. The old wives tale about you’ll start when your mom starts is untrue. Every female body is different. My Mom started at 15 almost sixteen and I was 11. There are a few factors that delay periods, but each person is different. So don’t stress when it your time it will come and forcing your period with tricks that your friends might tell you can be dangerous. So let mother nature do her job and remember you have your whole life to deal with PMS. Enjoy the freedom of NO Cramps bloating, Bleeding Fatigue sore boobs nausea and irritability as long as you can.

December 12, 2008 at 9:13 pm


December 14, 2008 at 5:40 pm
(223) Kaleigh says:

Hey young ladies,

I know how badly you want your periods (and breasts) to come. I was the last out of my friends to get both, and I was 13 when I got my period. I wanted to fit in with them talking about having to buy pads and tampons and all that other stuff. I remember I got it in class in 7th grade and I was so embarrassed I had to go to the office to ask for a pad and then go home and ask my mom to buy my pads. Looking back though, it wasn’t as scary as I made it out to be and I wish that it would’ve waited longer to come. Cramps hurt, but nothing a little Midol can’t help. It was embarrassing to buy pads at first, so I had my mom buy mine until I turned 16, then I decided that I wanted to buy my own, especially because I liked a certain brand and my mom changed it every time. I’m 21 now and it’s just one of those things when you wish you could go back in time and not get one until you get married. lol. My advice is to keep a pad in your locker or purse and possibly a pair of running shorts or wind pants in case it leaks the first time(usually they hand out samples or samples come in the mail when you go to kotex.com or always.com or if your mom has pads just grab one of hers from the cabinet). Anyway, I know it’s a scary time, but enjoy having fun with your friends and they’re not worried about whether you have your period or not, they’re actually probably jealous of you because they wish they hadn’t started.

December 14, 2008 at 6:30 pm
(224) (Not Real Name) Chiku says:

I’m 11 going on 12, I’m scared!
I havent had my period yet and my mom had it at age 11

December 15, 2008 at 3:49 pm
(225) Jennifer says:

Hi girls, i just wana say im also 14, 15 in may and i hae had one period and that was a year ago but iv not had one since. I just wanted to say stop stressing over getting your periods especially at the age of 11 and 12 and even 13. your far to young to worry bout getting them. and those of you who say you really want them, honestly you dont. they are not a fun thing at all! so dont stress it’ll come in time :D dont try and grow up too quick cos once you have you childhood is lost forever! :( xx

December 16, 2008 at 9:15 am
(226) *~Name Is MINE~* says:

Eeeek… Why do people want to start thier periods, They arn’t cool…If you don’t mind me saying, I Started when I Was 11, And If I Could of started 14-15 I WOULD.. I’m 13 now and Find that Periods are a real annoying pain, they restrict quite a bit of activity, If I Was you I’d feel sorry for your mate with a period and thank to god you don’t have it… You can be on the floor in shear pain, And I’m sure if You asked your mates “Are you happy you’ve started” They willprobally say no! . . And once you have it..You’ll do anything to shorten it…T’is a nighmare >.

December 16, 2008 at 8:17 pm
(227) understandz says:

omg r u ppl serious!!!???i mean i understand cuz wen i waz young i wanted it soooo bad 2 jus cuz i wanted 2 grow up an become a women blah blah blah u all wanna know wat a period iz????well u cry for no reason thaaaatz rite u might b sittin n ur class an start cryin cuz u broke ur pencil it happens 2 mi durin my period!!!!ooo an there r the cramps it feels li u hav an awwwful stomache n ur abdomen an theres the tampons!!!do u rlly wanna shove somethin up ur vagina an the first time it feels li its gonna slide out!!!but yeh i do understand but dont wrry bout startin n class ull b able 2 tell u can basicly feel it an the skool nurse always has bak up an dont b nervous 2 ask him/her for it they know an deal wit it every day dont yearn 2 be a women it sukz!!! jus enjoy bein a teenager!!!!these r the best time of our lives!!!so letz enjoy them!!!!

December 17, 2008 at 8:09 pm
(228) Michele says:

GUYS… Trust me, dont rush it! You dont want to get your period any sooner than you have to. It will happen, but just enjoy being young!

December 18, 2008 at 7:19 pm
(229) no period yet :( says:

i havent either i told one of my friends i had its cause at my school if you dont have a period you are nothing:(but my mom had hers late so mines is obviously gonna be late and it feels weird talking to my mom bout that kinda stuff she assumes things to much well
N-E_WAYZ i want it but i dont want to tell my mom and most of my friends got theirs when they were 10 or 11 and im gonna be 13 in july it is december right now and you never know every girl is different good luck and and i have had every sign in the book for 2 years but no period,i want it but i dont :( but :D at the same time

December 20, 2008 at 4:34 am
(230) mindy says:

Girls the only thing I can say is……YOUR LUCKY!!! I am 29 now and I first started when I was in 8th grade, I was the last one out of all my friends to start…my first period lasted 18 days straight….it was horrible!! I thought it would never stop! Don’t be in such a hurry it will eventually happen and believe me it’s a hassel!!! So quit stressing.

December 20, 2008 at 1:01 pm
(231) jessica says:

hi im 12 i really really want my periode !!!!i mean im not flatt mine are small but still all my friends have theirs!!!!everyone in class does except for me and 2 girls !!!!th rest of the 7th graders all have it!!!!!!but for us 3 lonely girls !!!!!!!!!!im way to shy from my mom to ask her for a bra and stuff any help for me?????????????is it true arm excersize is good?????e-mail me on angle-1519@hotmail.com thx i drink mild 2 days a week and milk with the cerial stuff im so despert in the middle east we get our bras when we get our periode not before!!!!help help help!!:( plz !!!!!

December 21, 2008 at 8:05 pm
(232) megan says:

I think i having the symtoms
-hair on vagina
greasy hair
I think mood swings Ive hade them since I was nine. I went to a bunch of doctors and they all asked me if I had my period and i had to say no they keep asking me. what are they symtpms and how can I it sooner.I need to know because my stoumuch hurts all the time and my younger friend just got hers!!!

December 21, 2008 at 9:09 pm
(233) kay says:

Hey im 13 almost 14 like most of you and i HAVE gotten my period and trust me you will hate it with a passion. But anyways I was just like all of you, i wanted it so bad i practically cries every night for it, but trust me after i got it I wanted to take back my wish. I absolutely hate it. There is nothing at all fun about it. You either have to put some thing in your underwear or stick something up yourself and its no fun. Plus half the time if you have cramps it makes you in a bad mood and all you want to do is stay at home and sleep all day.

December 21, 2008 at 9:17 pm
(234) ME says:

I am 11 and I want mine too really bad! I have the beginning of it the white stuff for a year now!!!

December 21, 2008 at 11:28 pm
(235) heyhey says:

dont worry girls,
im 16 and STILL dont have my period…….im scared too =/

December 22, 2008 at 1:58 am
(236) danielle says:

well im 16 now but i didnt start till i was 14 and a half…. DONT WORRIE!!!!!!! it will be okjust carry pads with you at school and be prepared.. dont think you will be siting in class and there will be a hudge blood stain down your pants…that wont happen.. so yeah

December 22, 2008 at 5:17 am
(237) Merneverlands says:

Geez, what are you girls like? I’ve never heard of people constantly talking about it really unless it’s a school lesson but even then.

Don’t worry about getting it any time soon, just enjoy yourself while you can without it cause trust us when we say this, having a period is not fun at all so be glad you don’t have to feel the pain yet and I’m sure you’ll soon find out what it’s like!

Also there is no point in lying to your friends about it, if they ever find out you’ve been lying they may not be pleased although if you’re lucky they may forgive you for wanting to fit in excuse but if they are good friends then I think you’ll find they won’t mind at all but if they break up with you over it then you know now what kind of friends they are and you’re better off without them. :)

Also having periods has never made me feel like a woman really, if anything it’s made me even more annoyed than I was about it all and I wish I never got them, I don’t remember wishing to have them in the first place though!

Oh yea and don’t worry about when you’ll get it, at least it’ll be fine when they come and your at school wearing school trousers because they’re black and not see through! (Eek for those getting them on non-uniform days though!) I got mine at home when I get to the loo so yea, just because you start school it doesn’t mean they’ll come then but it’s best to be prepared if need be and not worry about it.

Have fun while you don’t have them and have even more fun when you do. :P

December 22, 2008 at 6:28 pm
(238) Charlotte says:

Trust me girls, you DO NOT want it. You’ll think, oh getting your period is nothing and then it comes and WHAM! It sucks. It REALLY sucks.

I got mine when I was 15 1/2 and in Grade 10. Don’t wish for it, and carry around pads with you – in your locker, school bag. You are lucky not to have it yet! Who wants to bleed everyday for a week? No-one!

Silly kids…..

December 23, 2008 at 10:19 pm
(239) gurliegurly80808 says:

im 13, and i have signs of pubety, but its only a little bit, and my cousin who is in 5th grade got her period 2 years ago! all of my friends have their period! im lonley

December 26, 2008 at 12:27 am
(240) jenta says:


December 26, 2008 at 10:30 am
(241) Hope says:

Hi well Im nervous too! Im 11 and I want my period so badly because my sister is younger thsn me and got her period already, shes 11 too! Shes my step sister though, and her puberty is going faster than mine. I was so jealous. Anywayz, my mom said she got hers when she was 11 too, like 2 months bfore she turned 12, So could your period be passed from genes? Im just asking plz!

December 26, 2008 at 4:22 pm
(242) Eugh!! says:

Eugh! Okay, so I’m fourteen on the 18th of January! Its soo close! I haven’t started my period, I have no signs of breast ANYWHERE and I’m so worried! I’ve tried to not get stressed, and my mum said that when I get a bit older she’ll take me to the doctors. I want it so much, that I’m not even embaressed about talking to my doctor about it!

Yes, I know it hurts (I’ve had horrible stomach cramps before, I was crying xD), and I know its disgusting (I have an older sister xD) and all that, but I still want it! Its so embaressing doing P.E, and my sister mocks me ALL the time. I feel so young. yes, I know I’m, only just turning fourteen, and I shouldn’t want to feel mature, and I should enjoy my time, but seriously, when I’m this distressed, I just can’t! BTW, does that green tea thing work?

December 27, 2008 at 1:44 pm
(243) monsterwilleatyou says:

hi i m 11 almost 12 and i have every single sign of it but dont have i yet. my sis got it at 11 and a half. shes gotten lucky. shes got huge boobs and is like super skinny. shes got the best body out of everybody in my family and its not fair. i eat right and i exercise but i still dont get her bd.anyway i really want my period cuz my friend got it when we were in 4th grade. now were in 6th.and ive got b cup boobs and everything else but still dont hot it.wah!

December 28, 2008 at 3:40 am
(244) Where are all gonna die says:

Wow, this is why are society is overpopulated and so many orphans and welfare cases. HALF OF YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

It DOES NOT MAKE YOU MATURE. IT ISNT COOL, ITS NOT A SOCIAL STATUS. Its nature, and all of you who are begging to get it are obviously IMMATURE. OH yeah and green tea will not make you have your period, what are you some kind of idiot????

Some of you are 11, 12 and 13 saying you want a baby. ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND????? You cant even speak like an adult, is: dat, cuz, omg, etc.

I pity all of these girls. I pity all of their parents, and their offspring. I read some 13 year old girl is already having sex. Thats disgusting, Im no prud, but 13 years old, come on!Thats terrible, she’ll look back on that one day and be ashamed. Im sure she thinks she hot stuff now. Just wait till she gets pregnant, gets the baby taken away because she cannot care for it, ( dont say you will work cause you wont and cant legal workign age is 15 or 16) And most likely the “baby daddy” as im sure she calls it will leave her.

Yeah shell end up FAT, ALONE, and CHILDLESS, and probaly on government assistance that we GOOD CITIZENS pay for.

FTW!! you guys suck.

December 29, 2008 at 1:46 am
(245) emzy says:

Dude i am 11 and have it IT SUCks you get all bitchy and whiney and the little pad diaper things are a itchy and a pain and because i am short i have more blood in a compact area(i am 4 feet 6 inchs)
my flow is very heavey!! enjoy not having it

December 30, 2008 at 3:15 am
(246) roxan says:

im 26 year old but i never having a period since please let me know what im doing.. thank you

December 30, 2008 at 10:05 am
(247) Angela says:

Don’t worry about it. Seriously.
I used to be soo anxious cause i had discharge for three whole years and no period my discharge started in year 5 and i was in year 8, i had already turned 14 on november last year. everyone had them but i didn’t i felt very left out and found that i had to lie about having mine but it was not until march this year i got them , it was very unexpected but at the same time i was relieved i started to begin to think there was something wrong with me. But seriously it happens very unexpectedly. Do not plan it, so dont worry about it. :)

December 30, 2008 at 10:11 pm
(248) ?? says:

OMG!! are you all crazy you reall dont want to wish you started ur period is horrible!!! im like the complete oppisite of you all coz ive started my period and you all wish tou had bigger boobs.. im 13 and im a 34 C i get really self concious!!

December 30, 2008 at 10:40 pm
(249) loves_to_read says:

Hey Girls

For those of you who think that soymilk is going to help you “jump start” your period, you are wrong. I have been drinking soymilk for about six years and I am thirteen. (my dad is a health freak so he has everyone in my family drink soymilk….it’s kinda gross). I have all the signs that it’s about to happen, even discharge for like 4 years, but nothing yet. I know that it will happen when I am ready, and I accept that. I just wanted to say something about the soy milk rumors
-good luck gals……

January 1, 2009 at 8:55 am
(250) Genesis says:

heck, im FIFTEEN and i STILL don’t have it
i just feel so unnormal.
all my friends have it but me
i know its not the best thing to have, but at least i wont be afraid of not getting it

January 1, 2009 at 2:01 pm
(251) jeni says:

hey girls. im 14 and just recovered from anorexia. my doctor said i most likely won’t get my period until im 18 since i dont have enough nutrients. im pissed, but i hope y story cheers u guys up

January 1, 2009 at 4:48 pm
(252) slow developer says:

hey im 13 pushing 14 and i dont have mine and seriously want to get my feminine dot cuz i dont want to be the only one in my class without it and my two sisters got theirs early. so yea i want to fit in and have little somethin for boobs!

January 2, 2009 at 7:09 pm
(253) Kim says:

hey im 11 about to be 12 in april i havent got my period yet all my friends have i always carry a regular pad in my purse and a tampon just in case i get it if u need advice email at peppergirl41497@gmail.com or yahoo.com same adress i kinda want my period and at night i wake up with discharge and i have bad stomach craps like i did last night ( i layed on my stomach and they went away that helps alot)

Hope i hear from one of yall soon

email me at

January 3, 2009 at 9:20 pm
(254) Mitayla says:

Relax. It’s okay to be in 8th grade and not have your period yet. I’m 13, soon to be 14, and I just got it two days okay. Everyone matures differently, and that’s okay. My friend’s little sister is 11 and got it when she was 10. It was pretty weird have someone 3 years younger than you beat you to it, but hey, everyone matures differently. When you have to really start worrying is when you’re 16 or 17 and haven’t gotten it yet.

January 4, 2009 at 12:21 pm
(255) tiffany says:

im 16 and i have mine and trust mii all of u who say u want it dont it sucks, makes u bitchy, and well if ur having sex (i dont think u should) but if u r it might be better u dont have one yet. den u dont end up with a child. yes i no how all of u fell by not fitting in i have had mine cents i was nine no lie i have and has u get older it sucks. so u dont wanna rush anything trust mii on tthat one ook?so just dont wish for it let mother nauter pervide it for ya

January 5, 2009 at 5:24 pm
(256) im here for ya says:

hi i just turned 13 in september and since i was 11 i was wishing and praying i would get my period(not that im religious-i just wanted it) all my friends started theirs when they were 11 or 12 and i felt really left out but then after awhile i figured: it wont help any to pray and wish i’d get it and when i stopped- my period started 3 months after my 13th birthday and talking to my friends that did just start theirs they think its sooo cool to have their periods they make a big deal about going to the bathroom all the time. really its kind of embarissing to go to the bathroom between every couple classes- and if u bring a bag with you- you think guys might find out about it. but if you have any questions please email me or im me at michaela92995@aol.com i will reply asap. i know how you feel.

January 5, 2009 at 10:01 pm
(257) raz says:

OMG!!! i havent got my period yet and all of my friends have… there always making a big deal out of it and it makes me want to get it!! dose anyone know how to make it come faster?!?!?

January 7, 2009 at 5:19 pm
(258) Louise says:

ive had discharge for four years in two months time. that cant be normal?! theres absolutely no stuff about it on the internet, and all friends started in the last two months-with only around a year of discharge- but i didnt.am i normal?

January 8, 2009 at 6:24 pm
(259) Katie says:

There’s nothing to worry about, trust me.

I had discharge for 2 years before I actually got my period. I used to always say that I wanted it and I envyed all my friends for having theirs, but now that I have mine, I wish I didn’t. You get cramps a LOT and it gets annoying. But I only got mine two days ago for the first time, so I’m sure it gets better. Anyways, I’m 14, so don’t worry that you dont have yours yet. Every girl is different. However, when you’re 16 and if you still havent gotten it, you should see a doctor.

January 9, 2009 at 5:46 pm
(260) wheyy :D says:

im 13,, i go my period 2 days ago WITHOUT WARNING! i didnt enven cramp or anything, it just happened. im also reallyyyy heavy and have small black bits in the blood sometimes (i think theyre blood clotss) anyway, ive used up like 9 pads in 2 days! is that too many? hang on there girls, itll come eventually!!!!!

January 10, 2009 at 1:11 am
(261) ... says:

Im 12 and i started my period a couple months ago.
All my friend got theres b4 me
and i really wanted mine
but now that i do..
i wish i didnt
its really annoying

January 10, 2009 at 5:11 am
(262) flat chest girl : ( says:

it dosent matter if ur skinny or fat your body gets it when its suposed to get it! i am skinny and i got mine im only 12 so stop stressing because u will get it soon girls if u r getting discharger alot and i mean alot u r really near its not how long u get it its how much u get discharger and u can be a total flat chest and get it! so plz dont be all i want it and bla bla well why do u girls want it anyway i mean its yucky blood coming out of ur vigina and somtimes u get blood clots which r extreamely scary and disgusting and when u girls do get it WELCOME TO HELL!!!!
just be happy because all u girls have boobs but me:( anyway yh so dont stress and live while u can because when u get it ur gonna DIE….. but if u havent got it at like 16 17 18 maybe see a doc just to get u tested or sumthing… i am certain that all u girls will get it sooner or later and all u 11 12 and 13 year olds what the hell u r still younge seriously!!!! anyway good luck and soon be welcome to HELL!!!! muahahahahahha

January 11, 2009 at 2:02 am
(263) Dont you wish. says:

Hey girls* i just would like to say that im 14 and yes i do have my period. I started when i was in 5th grade. yeaa young! And belive me if you dont have your period yet your lucky cuz you get cramps and sometimes back pain. It also sucks if your bleedin really heavey then you cant wear light pants. yeaa itss tuoughh, Theres some time i wish i was a boy.Oh and one more thing,tampons aree way betterr than pads. Cuz you can go swimming and stuff!

January 12, 2009 at 11:45 pm
(264) Danae says:

Hey Guys! I’m 12 going on 13 and I don’t have my period either. I want it sooo bad but I know I just have to wait. But actually, you don’t HAVE to get your period in order to have kids. Seriously, you can have kids even if you don’t get your period. Hope this helps and makes you feel better!

January 13, 2009 at 4:21 pm
(265) mariahhh says:

hey girls im 12 going on 13 and i want my perid! it sucks seeing my YOUNGER friends get theirs b4 i do! ive changed in and out more than them!! im way mature and dont know wat to do..??! im so confuesd and i feel anger///plz help me….u can reach me and talk with me at moolove34@yahoo.com or myspace.com/moolove3444

January 13, 2009 at 6:09 pm
(266) emily(: says:

im 11 and i have mines
ont worry you will get it soon

January 13, 2009 at 8:42 pm
(267) taytay says:

hey guys
yea i want my period really bad
like i told all my biffles that i had it
cause they would always make fun of me saying i was a little girl and stuff
it sucks
anyways its weird cause i dont have like bog boobs , but they arent that small .
i am also tall, like 5’5 :|
and i have like all the signs of period
and i am 14 turning 15 soon
so i am not sure if there is something wrong with me ? :|

January 14, 2009 at 6:07 pm
(268) unknown says:

you dont know when u get ur period – some girls get it when they are 8 some when they are 16-17 yrs old!! everyones different you body will do whats right for you when it right

dont worry about it im 13 going on 14 an di havent had mine but be patient cus everyones different

January 14, 2009 at 8:49 pm
(269) UGH says:

UGH ok. my friends have started and i have all of the “symptoms” and its kinda annoying me. i mean i just wanna start even if right after i have it that i dont like i can atleast say i have it so quit rubbing ti in my face!!! what should i do?!?!

January 15, 2009 at 1:41 pm
(270) Shelby says:

I really wanted 2 get mine 2. i’m 13. i got it like a couple months ago. the only thing i can say is to stop stressing and say “ok i’m gonna get it sooner or later so just chill” i did that and actually stopped stressing the best i could, then i got it like 3 weeks later. same whenits like 2 weeks late, just gotta calm down!

January 16, 2009 at 1:39 pm
(271) Ash says:

Ladies I am 22 and its nothing you wanna have it. I t doesnt make any older or make you feel older. If i coulf trade with you all I would. I have the most painful cramps you could imagine and i have to suffer with them at least 5 days out of each month!

January 16, 2009 at 1:39 pm
(272) Ash says:

Ladies I am 22 and its nothing you wanna have it. I t doesnt make any older or make you feel older. If i coulf trade with you all I would. I have the most painful cramps you could imagine and i have to suffer with them at least 5 days out of each month!

January 16, 2009 at 6:12 pm
(273) Tamara says:

Girls don’t worry!I’m fourteen years old. Two months ago I was reading this and I was just as worried as you. But three days ago my I got my first period! I didn’t expect it at all. I just went to the bathroom and I saw blood. I’m sure that this will happen to you too

January 17, 2009 at 4:00 pm
(274) jenny says:

im 15…and you guessd it

still haven’t started but im alright with that

so there is me and ONE other girl at my school who havnt started.

all the girls know. but none of the guys know im sure they expect it though.

we are hecka skinny (but healthy) my problem is i exercise like no other.

i feel your pain people… i dont really wanna start but i do wanna fit in i know when i start ill wish i had not. but its worth it to fit in, believe it er not

i still REALLY REALLY REALLY wanna start
what do i do to speed it up i dont want any guys to find out!

January 19, 2009 at 3:32 pm
(275) joyyy says:

omg im 11 years old and i got my period when i was 9 and now it seems like i have it every freakin day!!!! ughhh its so annoyingg. and like i wear a 34b and im 5″4!! i remember when i was 9 i wanted to get it SOOOO bad but idc. i got it at school and i had to tell my guy teacher and it was embarrasing

January 24, 2009 at 6:10 am
(276) Stummy says:

Hey guys, I got my period on Dec 30th; but now I’m kinda worried!
I only had it for 1 day and only had a weeny blood- like 2 dots. I dont know if that was my period or not. When I told my mom she said probs do have it but not properly seeing as i only had it for a day??
I’m really confused! I had tummy cramps (rly bad) that day but i have no idea whats happening! Like i’ve posted above, im now 3 months from being 13. now have 32B boobs lolz. but yeah. can anyone give me any advice? did i get it, and when will i be getting my next one? cos it’s already been nearly 28 days and no signs yet! Pls help!

January 24, 2009 at 6:14 am
(277) Stummy says:

Allso, can you get your period if your like 86 pounds? like 6st? cos that’s how much i weigh, i’m not anorexic or anything, i eat healthily and actually quite alot, and have a fast metabolism. & im 5ft? please help!

January 24, 2009 at 9:12 pm
(278) embarrest says:

i reallly dont think 11 year old’ss should be worrieed im nearly 15 32a boobs there becoming bigger i get pubic hair underarm big hips discharge been there for ages my period wont start i have not got confidence asking, im worried about tha prom because i want a dress hot pink and want boobs to look amazing but that proms in half a year its so hard, i lie and say i have started im so embarrest and i

January 27, 2009 at 4:06 pm
(279) i know how u feel says:

i know how you feel i know ur tierd of hering that u dont want it but i heard that u can stand upsidedown on ur head agenst the wall for a long time every day so hop this helped

January 28, 2009 at 8:59 pm
(280) worried says:

i know how you feel even though im only 12…almost all my friends have it and i have had all the symtoms for like a few months and my other friend who doesnt even have the symtoms has it already! like my mom got it when she was 15 so that may help me but my sister got it when she was 11! that makes no sense!

i really just wanna get it just cuz i wanna be older if you know what i mean…my friend that got it said that she got it cuz she had a lot of glasses of cold milk and milk contains harmonal things to speed it up so thats what im trying to do…it actually is helping, within one month of me doing that, i got the white yucky stuff so i should get my period 6 months after that

January 29, 2009 at 10:30 pm
(281) Manda says:

Hey. I’m 12 years old . Although I do want my period I am also afraid to get it. People say that it is painful and disgusting . I have had discharge for I’ve 2 years and just saying my friend had her period this year and it doesn’t depend on the size of ur boobs . My friend is totally flat. Just saying for all u girls who think that getting ur period depends on ur Breast size.

January 30, 2009 at 3:23 pm
(282) knx710 says:

All you girls who say you want your period are annoying…you don’t have to have your period to “fit in” It’s so annoying reading al yall’s comments about wanting it…when you get it you’ll regret it. You need to shut up and get a life when all you think about is your period. It’s the most stupis thing I’ve ever heard. You need to grow up before you get your period.

January 31, 2009 at 5:11 pm
(283) maegan says:

HEY im 13 too I HAVE had it belive me its a pain in the but so dont feel like you will never have it some girls dont start til their 15 or 16 so its ok be a kid while you can :)

February 6, 2009 at 3:24 pm
(284) T says:

i am 15 years old turning 16 and havent gotten mine yet. i am the last person out of all of my friends that doesnt have it. i say dont be ashamed about wanting it. people who already have it just dont know what its like to feel abnormal.its like everyones devoloping into a woman around me and i feel like a little kid. I deffinitly have a life but would still like to be an average teenager.

February 6, 2009 at 4:37 pm
(285) Confused says:

Ok I’m 12 and I’ve never had it. I am also a freak and want it reallllllllllly bad. My mom got hers when she was 13, but she also wasn’t a 34a (like me) when she was 12. The weirdest thing happened though. I came home and (i have all the symptoms) i had this weird white, watery stuff. I guess im ovulating. Any ideas? Is it coming?! :)

February 7, 2009 at 12:09 am
(286) secret_wonderer says:

ok im 13 turning 14… and my period hasnt started and im nervous about alot of things especially not having my period. all my friends have it even my younger cousin and i dont. i lied 2 them sayin i have it but i dont and i dont want it but i want to get it over with because having and getting your period is a women stage tht you need to go through. im nervous about getting it in class one day and then not having a backup and my school doesnt let us use the bathroom in class. soo? and i had another question… if you dont get your period and you get pregant and then while your pregnant with your baby you start does tht make the baby die not that its happening to me i just always wondered. i also hate knowing the fact everytime i got to the dr the ask me if ive started my menstrual cycle its so embarrassing saying no and they look at you funny and worse of all the nurse and the dr asking you that question theyre both guyz. and then my parents are getin seperated so every other week ima at my dads and i dont have backups or anything there and if i start how emabarrassing would it be having to get your dad to go to the store and by you your materials. and also i have another question? my parents want me to start getting on birth control pills now but im not sexually active and i dont need to take it but i was thinking i would take it just because of all the other stuff it helps for you and is the birth control patch as effictive as the pill? thnx

February 8, 2009 at 12:25 pm
(287) dont -worry-be-happy says:

Girls, Girls, Girls, I am 23 years old, and have had my period for a long time now, and I am telling you dont be in a rush to get it, I hope every month it would only stick around 5 minutes tops, or just never come again, its the worst week of the month, there are other ways you can feel mature than getting your period. Take on more responsiblity at home, volunteer, anything… it will give you alot more satisfaction than cramps, throwing away money every month, some times breaking out, being uncomfortable, always checking the seat of your pants and your sheets when you wake up, being really gumpy and miserable, my husband dreads it too becasue its just not a happy time for anyone then lol. It is one week a month I would like to skip all together, when I was pregnant with my daughter not having a period for 9 months was a blessing! Please dont be in such a rush to get it, you honestly are not missing anything, but the headache of having a period!

To the last girl who was wondering about birth control, it is great stuff, makes your periods shorter and lighter, some help with keeping your skin clear, the pill patch needle, iud, any of that stuff is all 99.9999% effective against pregnancy, and you dont get a period when you are pregnant so nothing happens to the baby, nothing to wrry about there, when you’re pregnant your egg is fertilized and you start the process of gorwing a beautiful child, you dont ovulate when youre pregnant, no periods, its a really nice break to not have to buy pads and tampons for a year!

Anyway I got my period in grade 5, I was young and hated it since the time I got it, boobs really arent that big of a deal either, the bigger they are the more they hurt (and your back too) or get in the way of so many other things, enjoy not having any of the problems while you can because once you get it you’ll look back on when you wrote all these things and wish you werent in such a rush :)

February 8, 2009 at 5:39 pm
(288) Emma says:

Hey Ya`ll

girls im 13 years old in grade 8 and i got mine when i was 12 and trust me you dont want it ! like a week befor i get mine i get zits!:( and when i have it im a bitch and everyone knows when i have it cause im normaly happy. and plus you get huge cramps like half the time i cant walk! so in the hall and going to the bus my boyfriend carries me:P also im a dancer so i dance 5 nights a week so i have to do splits and in acro im doing flips and walkovers and airels adn such…so thats a pain in the but plus i do gymnastics so its hard wearing pads!so for you girls who dont have your period im jelous of you! so dont stress!

good luck!

February 9, 2009 at 11:09 pm
(289) Erin says:

Hey guys I am 13 and i dont have it. All my friends tell me how horrible it is and how i am sooo lucky and we ARE! All of our bodies work differently and we will get them soon! We should be soaking up the time we have left that we dont have to worry about pads or tampons. Its always good to be prepared though and have a supply kit in you locker or something. Remember though its not really a sign of maturity getting you period its actually just your body. You can be mature and not have your period, trust me a lot of the 7th graders at my school have gotten them and are NOOOO WHERE NEAR MATURE!

February 10, 2009 at 11:22 pm
(290) Jessline says:

Yeah, I am almost 17 and never had my period. I have polysistic ovaries. I’ve never really cared if I got my period or not. I started taking pills when I was 15 but they didn’t work, I found out that if I lose a little more weight that it might come. But my mom had the same problem. She got her period at 16 and then it stopped. But then in her late 20′s she got prego with me!

February 11, 2009 at 4:18 pm
(291) more experienced says:

okay, listen here girls. im 16 and a sophomore in high school. youll get your period soon enough. i never even got mine til i was 15 so you should calm down. i know everyone says you dont want it, but you get kinda nervous thinkin something is wrong with you. well my mom never got it til she was seventeen. and her and i are both perfectly normal. now im not tellin you to go off and do this or anything, but i promise you sex will speed up the process if you really want it that bad. but just know that if i could have one wish, it would be that i never had a period. IT SUCKS. you either have to shove a tube of cardboard up your vag for a week or feel like your wearing a diaper. you get really mean to your friends and family. you dont feel comfortable in dresses or skirts. you constantly feel like your about to throw up or like someone is literally sticking a knife through your stomache. and when you get to be my age, you cant do anything with guys, while your on it either. NOTHING good comes from having your period, unless your possibly pregnant and than you get glad when you get your period and find out your not. trust me, if anything you should be hoping it shows up as late as it possibly can, rather than wishing you had it to fit in. OH && also, stress can prolong it from coming, so stressin over when your getting it will only make it a longer time til you get it.

February 12, 2009 at 11:18 am
(292) sazzy says:

hey gurls
im 14 and all my YOUNGER friends have it i told them all i got it ages ago because i knew i would b the last to start it really anoyes me that i havent got it yet ino ino that it really peevs uu off wen u DO get it but i wanna get it so i fit in n also i ont have to lie anymore i realllly want it coz i feel like a lil kid even though im like 3 months older than my oldest friend i have also had discharg for like 8months or so my hips are wider and im a size 34B i also have pubic hair but no underarm hair yet so i have all the signs n it just pizzin me off a little

February 13, 2009 at 7:20 am
(293) Periods? Not Me says:

I Know What It Feels Like. And To All Those Telling 10,11,12,13 To Shut Up. You Shut Up. We Can Complain All We Want. Im 12 And Have Had Discharge For 2 Years, Hair Everywhere (Although I Shave My Legs) But Barely Any Boobs :( I Got Some Spots A Couple Of Weeks Ago, Regular Cramps And Often Get Dizzy. My Mum Had To Get Her Period Induced And Only Got Discharge When She Was 16. So I Dont Know When I Will Get Mine. I Am Drinking Green Tea Now, So Hopefully It Will Help.

Thanks For Reading.

February 15, 2009 at 5:27 pm
(294) Jolyne says:

well im 13 nd i dont have it but u have 2 go through it so wait u shouldnt be stressed cause dat will push it away juss walk with a pad everyday juss in case or juss go 2 da main office they usually have it nd if ur friends make fun of u they are not friends so email me if u wanna talk about cause i want 2 get through this honeybun1996@aol.com

February 17, 2009 at 2:16 pm
(295) rosie 948 says:


February 17, 2009 at 2:18 pm
(296) ROSIE948 says:


February 17, 2009 at 2:21 pm
(297) ELIZA_12 says:


February 18, 2009 at 5:56 pm
(298) ramanpreetkaur says:

hi, i am 15 years and i am get scared too. i one month missing period . i lose my weight and my weight like 185 pound. i had three ear surgery . and i lose lot of blood on my head .some time i take a medicine for headache

February 18, 2009 at 8:33 pm
(299) Cici says:

Wow…im 12 turninq 13 in May and i qot my period when i was 11;;Lyk seriously yall do not want yall period cuz it gets annoyinq so dont be in a rush…I quess dha only time i kno when its cominq is when my stomach starts hurtinq…

February 19, 2009 at 1:41 am
(300) Kelly says:

Guys calm down it’ll come and besides once you get it you will have to put somthing up you whoohah to go swimming. To thegils that say exersize slows it yeah sure it does but would you rather be fat and hugge boobs or skinny pretty and slightly smaller boobs. Hang in there I just turned14 andim still waiting I have had discharge for one and a half years and I feel your pain. Good to know I’m not alone . :]

February 19, 2009 at 8:36 am
(301) Sinny-x says:

Dont worry, people start at different times. It doesnt mean anything. Everyone at school, in my class had started their periods early. And i was pretty much the only one tht hadnt started it yet. Dont get too worried about fitting in. Being on ur period isnt exciting after all. It gets pretty annoying. I started mine last month on January the 6th. And im only 12. (13 in MAY). I havent been on my period since the 1st time i got it. Im geting kind of worried. But im sure ill be ok lol. I chatted with my mom and she told me everything about periods and she was really supportive. She said that because its my first time. I might even get some missed periods because its not steady yet. GOOD LUCK

February 19, 2009 at 3:08 pm
(302) jessica says:

i started mine when i was 6

February 20, 2009 at 9:13 pm
(303) Briana says:

im 13 and havent had my period yet and
i want it to come NOW
all my friends have it and i havent they
keep treating me just like a baby
and I HATE IT!!!

February 21, 2009 at 9:59 am
(304) Shan says:

hey girls listen i am 12 years old and still don’t have my period i turnt 12 yesterday my mom and sisters got it at 11 and they all said imma get it at 12 and i want my breast to be bigger so next time i go to walgreen imma find pills which imma steal b/c its embarrassing to sk my mom for those shes gonna be like no they’ll grow and all that.Like my sister friend i had more breast then her and shes was like 13 or 12 and i was 10 and she had no signs at all i had pubic hair little breast she didnt hvae breast at all idk about the pubic wasnt worried about that thats nasty looking at someones vajaja.So she started taking breast pills and her breast got bigger and after like a month after they started growing quicker she got her peirod.So hopefully that’ll work for me too.

Girls dont worry your not the only one and jsut to let you know stress can also delay your period!

February 21, 2009 at 2:35 pm
(305) Ally says:

im 13 and ive had signs for the last 2 years! im a little underweight and im stressed so i guess that could be it. but ims till getting worried, and no matter how much i try i cant gain weight!

February 22, 2009 at 5:35 pm
(306) guess who? says:

i just got my period today. im 12. dont worry. you dont want it anyways. its a bigggg hassle.

February 23, 2009 at 12:57 am
(307) Alisha says:

I was 11 (sixth grade!) when I started my period. I’m pretty sure that’s really young to have one, and I was the first out of a lot of my friends except someone I know who started when she was 9.

I think I started so early because my mother started her period when she was 9. If you are concerned about not having started your period yet, ask your mom when she started hers. She probably started hers late.

February 24, 2009 at 9:28 pm
(308) fawdhp says:

Hey guys im 12 and a few days ago everyone was talking about there period and i was just like i want mine too soo bad and the other day i used tampons to get the fell and awhile ago i would use pads i want it soooooooooooo bad like you dont understand idk wen my ma got it but i want it!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME

February 25, 2009 at 5:34 pm
(309) FlatTires says:

okay, so, i am 14,flat chested,34A,my best friend doesnt even know I own wear bras. I have had some signs of getting it, i feel left out, i want to get it, but i also dont want to get it because so many ppl tell me how horrible it is, i dont know when my mom got it because i dont talk to her at all, im really worried that im gonna get it and not be able to tell my mom and ask her to buy me pads and all that nonsense, i dont want to use tampons, but i think i will have to if i want to swim in tghe summer when i finally get it. My friend got hers in grade 4, and all my other friends got theirs like 2 years ago, so im reeeally left out. I get made fun of because i have no boobs, but im used to it now, ever since grade 5 when we had sex.ed. and the nurse said that some girls only get it when theyre 16 i knew i was gonna be one of them. i guess i should be happy for not getting it, but it’s like an oral presentation, i wanna get it over with(the first time i get it, bc it will be hard to tell my mom, and apperently the first hurts the most) Somebody plz help me out, tell me how i will tell my mom easily, wothout being super embarrassed and all. once i know that, i wont be worried much more about when i will get it, if it just randomly comes one day when my moms not home, do i just steal one of her pads?or when she’s home and i go to the bathroom and it comes, what do i do? or if i have cramps one day, do i tell my mom and will she maybe see it coming and it wont be as hard to tell her???I dont know how it will happen!!!! but im hoping soon,being 14 is tough when ur left out of the group of friends.

February 25, 2009 at 6:24 pm
(310) helper of the moment says:

I’m also fourteen and haven’t gotten my period. I’ve had all the signs for like 2 years or 1 and a half or something soooo just waiting and wanting for it to come. I have no clue when my mom got hers either… I know that she tries to make it less awkward for me to tell her when it does happen though because whenever I’m like I have a stomachache.. she’ll say maybe you’re getting your period. So that’s kinda awkward but I know she’s just trying to let me know that I can talk to her about it. If it’s not like that for you then… well it will be awkward maybe but don’t forget that your mom is also a girl and she knows that you’ll get it at some point. Good luck!

February 26, 2009 at 3:51 am
(311) JESSICA says:


February 26, 2009 at 1:20 pm
(312) Anonymous says:

Hii guys xxx
im 12 and a few months aint started ma period yet but have all the signs that i will soon lol i aint got very big boobs tho but theres summin there lol !
4 all the ppl worryin u will probz start soon as long as youve had discharge for about 6 months to a year or more,pubic hair and had your growth spurt and if your getting cramps in your lower stomach i have that sumtimes! and 4 the girls sayin us younger girls shouldnt worry you shut up ! we can worry if weve got all the signs !!!
But for the 10 year olds mayb a bit early to be worryin but if u got all the signs then u may start soon xxx
Hope i helped lovee youuu alll xxx
ps.i know how annoying it is when all your mates have started but you but im just not worryin as much it will start wen ur ready :) no point worryin u cant change it i guess lol
but its good 2 express ur feelings lol :D

February 27, 2009 at 10:07 am
(313) lilja says:

Drink lots of hot driknks like tea coffee and cocoa it should speed it up a little bit. I started last year (at 12 years old)

February 28, 2009 at 1:24 am
(314) francesca says:

Don’t worry you will get your period. I didn’t get mine till I was 15. However I just now started to mature, and I’m 16. It takes time to grow. BUT! You can ask your doctor to check your thyroid. Because if it’s not working then that may impair your growth.

February 28, 2009 at 1:24 am
(315) francesca says:

Don’t worry you will get your period. I didn’t get mine till I was 15. However I just now started to mature, and I’m 16. It takes time to grow. BUT! You can ask your doctor to check your thyroid. Because if it’s not working then that may impair your growth.

March 1, 2009 at 1:40 pm
(316) Nattaly says:

Hello im 12 yes 12 and ive started having lot n lots of discharge and ive had it since the end on 11 and i dont know when its gonna come Helppp!

March 1, 2009 at 8:09 pm
(317) anonymous says:

okay well if ur only twelve you really shouldnt be freakin out becuase i have a friend whos sister didnt get it till she was like 17. yaya i know thats kinda weird and i totally get what ur saying like u want to be grown up and you want to fit in and all, but u can either pretend u are having it which i dont recomend because then when u do, u wont have like anyone to tell and ull be all like sad that no one is surprised, or you can just wait it out, i mean ur a girl/woman riiight? u have a vagina right? ok well unless ur the rare circumstance that doesnt get it and has to see a doctor i can pretty much garantee you that youll eventualy get it, so calm down just a tad!! you shouldnt have to mold yourself to what everyone else has, just be proud of what you are and who you are and seriosly, like im all happy that i have my period and can say im a woman and all, but like, other than that, its no big whoop, like your allways on allert for the first couple of years for when u have to wear a pad or tampon, and then after that, for like 4-7 days on average you have blood coming out of u! how is that so cool, you can just tell ur friends that “IM GUNNA LIVE LONGER THAN YOU BECAUSE PEOPLE WHO MATURE LATER LIVE LONGER” (if they die from natural causes like old age or whatever) so yea just be happy with who you are!!

March 3, 2009 at 11:22 pm
(318) it sucks says:

i’m 14, 15 in a few monthes and i haven’t started my period, and i’m still a 32AA. i know periods suck but i just want to look my age and have my period so people don’t think its wierd i don’t have it.

March 4, 2009 at 7:31 pm
(319) jayy says:

im 12 and i have all the signs since last jan i want it but its not cominn yet they say when u get a discharge that means ur period will come in 6 months but i had the discharge for a yearr

March 6, 2009 at 9:38 am
(320) kim says:

hi girls dont fret about ur period it will come when its ready ok, i never got mine until i was 17 its nuffin to be ashamed off if it dont come early, it will come to u all soon

March 8, 2009 at 9:53 am
(321) geee says:

girls, trust me your perid isn’t exciting and evryone is different. i was the only persn out of all my friends (about 20 girls) not to have their period and i was more developped then some of them i felt like i was youger then them and less experienced so i no how you all feel. but i got it at the beginning of this year, bit of a suprise and nothing exciting. i had it for 8days, and haven’t had it since so i’v skipped a month and am still nervous to get it at school. i had no signs either. just woke up with a suprise, and got some cramps but dome tablets gt rid of that and then it was just annoying me.
don’t be worried about leaking at school. you will get a light brown discharge that will kinda stain your undewear so you’ll notice that and that wil tell you its coming, so then just wear a pad or liner.
don’t stress, some people get tere periods between 8 and 16 so theres a lot of time.
enjoy having no worries and being carefree and youngg! you’ll get it one day and then think you were stupid for wanting it coz i no i did.

be young and free good luck
ket me no if you need any answers for when youu get your first period or some signs.

March 10, 2009 at 1:38 am
(322) I understand says:

ME= 14 turning 15 in four months going to be a sophmore in high school and still know period… I get it trust me i know it sucks.

March 11, 2009 at 3:32 pm
(323) Kerry...... says:

Hey girls,

kay im 13 going on 14 and i got mine when i was 12 and my boobs dont grow they just stay the same size, is there something i can do to make them grow…..Help me please!

March 11, 2009 at 5:11 pm
(324) >=/ says:

okay well, these girls that haevnt started your period, BELIEVE ME. it sucks. my boy friend counts the days off when i get it cuz he can tell..=/ haha its kinda funny and cute but i hate getting a period. and that little girl melissa, you are a LITTLE GIRL, dont try and have a baby if you cant even take care of your self. sex isnt something that you should have with everyone. especially when your 13. i lost my virginity when i was 16 and ive been with him for 3 years now. but rush ggrowing up.

March 12, 2009 at 7:25 pm
(325) *leftout* says:

Heyy all. im 14, and i have boobs and hips and im really developed. ive had discharge since i was 11 and i started shaving and crap at 10. and i DONT have my period. literally my whole school has it and im going into highschool in august. im so nervous for the summer because what if i get it on the beach or sutin! im always freaking out about it. my sister is 10 and SHE already has it.. shes 4 years younger! and shes not developed. at. all. lately my discharge is really dark almost brown ish yellow. could something be wrong?

March 13, 2009 at 1:10 pm
(326) mermaid says:

your girls are mostly paranoids, just wait for your body to take its toll, periods, boobs??? i’m a 32A, didnt get my period when i was 17 … and i’m 40

March 13, 2009 at 9:49 pm
(327) Ananymous says:

I fell like I have been reading my life story. I am 1 month away from turning 15 and I finally got my period. It was totally different then I had expected and it didn’t make me feel “like a woman” or mature like my friends. I missed it the next month and I had to deal with that. But in the end, you have to live with not having it and having to wait. There is nothing you can do. Mine was really late too and my boobs are wayyy bigger than any of my friend’s boobs, so I understand why some of you are confused. It could be that your underweight or don’t have a lot of fat on you, because fat is what carries the hormones…do the math.

good luck!

March 15, 2009 at 5:23 am
(328) boobless says:

help mee.. all my friends have massive boobs and are wearing bras. I am totally flat, I have nothing nor any signs of breast development. It’s soo awkward in the change rooms when i have to face the wall to avoid embarrasement. I feel lonely, i am the only one in the entire grade who doesnt wear a bra. I’m only 12 and I no that its not unormal to have nothing yet, but I just wanna fit in. My mum has massive boobs and she got them wen she was 11. I way 32 kilos, will that have anything to do with it? Please help!

March 15, 2009 at 10:49 am
(329) kayla says:

i know how all of you feel im 12 i have c cup boobs and i havnt started but i cramp in my lower stomach and back my step mom got so worried that she had (made) me have a sonogram
my friends have all started but me
if you ever wanna talk email me @ kaylamckown@hotmail.com

March 15, 2009 at 4:22 pm
(330) Morgan says:

Im 12 years old and i started my period when i was 11. I no you guys just wanna fit in , but trust me, u dont want it i have had to live with it for about 10 months now and it abousalty SUCKS! u guys arent missing out on anything. and everbody starts at different times, dont be ashamed of ur bodies.

March 16, 2009 at 2:46 pm
(331) anynomous says:

GUYS I REALLY WANT MINE TOO. i kinda have boobs but not that big. i always gett alotta discharge. its kinda gross. all my friends have it. and its really embarassing. IM 13. HELLLPPP

March 17, 2009 at 6:35 pm
(332) kaitlin says:

I am 10 some people say don’t worrie about it but I agree I don’t wanna haf a surprize or anything in the schools b-room or worse IN MY PANTS My friend who is 12 had her pireod in febuwary vaction i just don’t want a suprize P.S.I haf never had the dischage yet and I don’t want to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 17, 2009 at 6:50 pm
(333) KAITLIN says:


March 18, 2009 at 10:31 pm
(334) susan says:

You cannot make your period come sooner. Just relax and focus on something else and it should come. Although I dont see why you want your period tome come..its not that great.

March 19, 2009 at 12:56 am
(335) maddy says:

im 12…ive been getting discharge for like a year now….get cramps all the time…every single one of my friends has it…its like my body is teasing me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i don’t really WANT it….i just want to get it over with…ya know what? we should,like, start a club or something….see ya!

March 19, 2009 at 5:39 pm
(336) kaitlin says:

I am a pireodless girl and if you want to email me some stuff on how you feel send it to candi.katie@myfairpoint.com ok so I don’t have to worry right….. WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have been so gittery and I have been looking up so much stuff SOMEONEONE HELP I DON’T WANT TO GO TO HELL!!!!!!!!!!!1 JUST F’N HELP ME!!!!!!!! P.S. I AM 10 YEARS OLD BYE- KAITLIN

March 22, 2009 at 10:00 pm
(337) caisey says:

heyy, im 14 and just turned it. all my friends have their period and i really want it i feel left out.i am the oldest out of all my friends and im the only one without it i have all the signs but not IT
anyway i wish u all luk in getting it

March 22, 2009 at 10:00 pm
(338) caisey says:

heyy, im 14 and just turned it. all my friends have their period and i really want it i feel left out.i am the oldest out of all my friends and im the only one without it i have all the signs but not IT
anyway i wish u all luk in getting it

March 23, 2009 at 5:55 pm
(339) confused says:

ok girlz im confused i am only 13 but some of you guys are saying you are worried some are saying to be worried some are saying not to be and some are saying its beautifull others are saying it sucks will someone tell me the truth? oh and mellisa im no expert but if your having sex at 13 your probably one of those girlz who gets preggo at 16

March 23, 2009 at 7:10 pm
(340) kaitlin says:

ok i’m 10 going to 11 plz girls help me i do not want to be my mom’s age when she got her pireod. SHE WAS 15!!!!!! can some one help me like plz e-mail me on how to relax GIRLS WHO ALREADY HAD IT!!!! PLZ I NEED HELP . HELP HELP HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 23, 2009 at 10:29 pm
(341) mckinna says:

i just got mine today!!! im so happy!!! ok. the cramp hurt like a mother, but dang. its good 2 be mature. i did research. heres what i got: green tea DOES SPEED THE PROCCESS UP!!!!, wear dark pants, pads are pretty good and comfortable, change it daily. like it? well. i felt ur pain gals. i wanted it but u gotta deal with blood, cramps, a constant goin 2 the bathroom, but hey! smile! it`ll happen eventually!

March 30, 2009 at 12:13 pm
(342) Helper says:


seriously you say you want to be mature and you REALLY want it i mean WTF!
especially if you are 12 and 11
I started at 12(only like a couple months ago):(
i was quite excited but they SUCK
the cramps hurt and whats so great about leaking blood uncomftabley!
enjoy your youth.
I didnt have many signs but it happened!

April 1, 2009 at 10:54 pm
(343) MiZzY aSm says:

i didnt get mine yet…
im not desperate.
i just dont want it to be at skewl!!:)

April 4, 2009 at 4:41 am
(344) Willow St. Claire says:

Hello! What the heck are you guys worried about. Feel you’re missing out? Missing out on cramps, bloating, stained underwear, embarassing accidents (everyone has at least one). Enjoy the days you have, to not have to worry about having tampons on hand, or worry about wearing cute white jeans. And by the way size has nothing to do with it unless you are anorexic, as that can cause problems. However if you want to start, just quit thinking about it and it will come when you least expect it. God Bless

April 5, 2009 at 10:00 pm
(345) Tandi says:

hey yall

im 13 going on 14 i got my period when i was 12 and well my boobs dont grow like at all :( is there something i can do to make them grow?
help please !


April 5, 2009 at 11:42 pm
(346) Dontrush says:

Ok so i just got my period yesterday and im 14 and the majority of my friends have had it since last year even my friend who weighs about 95 pounds but dont rush it its not all its cracked up to be although i must say i am pretty happy to finally have it. well it will come and i know even when people say you dont want it it doesnt help but hang in there it will come and its not like any of your friends care just lie and say you have and carry around a pad or tampon (which you should probably have anyway just in case)

April 6, 2009 at 6:08 pm
(347) tandi says:

i already left a msg but yeah can some one please help me. my boobs dont grow :(

P.S. My other comment is number 345

April 6, 2009 at 6:09 pm
(348) tandi says:

i already left a msg but yeah can some one please help me. my boobs dont grow :(

P.S. My other comment is number 345

April 15, 2009 at 3:09 am
(349) maddy says:


I heard that doing arm excercizez helpz cuz’ it buildz up tisuez under ur breastz causing them to get bigger. My big sis’ went up from 38A 2 39B in like a month…….good luck!!!!!!

April 15, 2009 at 3:14 am
(350) maddy says:

sry….I meant 38B

April 16, 2009 at 4:38 pm
(351) :-D xx rexy09 C-: says:

hey guys i`v been told i shud get mine in 2-5 months or even earlier,but i dont no wat 2 do and i really dont want 2 get it in class or somewhere public.i dont no y but want my period like now. iv had a few signs like mood swings, pains ect.at da moment im 32A-34A but most of my friends r bigger n im kinda jealous.howeva much i eat i dont get any bigger an im really angry an worried bout it now .one more thing…if u insert a tampon when ur period is heavy its easier an helpful but i prefer pads :) .i read through all da comments an they helped alot so thnx for dat:D.k bye x (periods r not dat great so dont be really wannin dem).

April 18, 2009 at 12:35 pm
(352) helppppp! says:

ugh okay well i am almost fourteen… in like a month. i have had discharge, hair under my arms and, u know, hair down there, for 2 years. and i have some boobs they started growing awhile back. i have even had cramps a couple times and even a false alarm(with my period- at school) and omg mood swings =P but….. i haven’t had my period yet! every single other person in my class does. even ones in 7th grade. i told my friends that i have it because everybody talks about it and i wanted to fit in. i just feel like a little girl! help is there any way to get it… =(

April 21, 2009 at 6:34 pm
(353) Anna says:

I know exactly how you feel. I’m 15 and a softmore. I didn’t get mine till the spring of freshman year when I was 14. I wanted it soooo bad. All of my friends would always share funny stories about their’s. And when they were in the bathroom they would say “hey does anyone have a tampon” or “can I borrow a pad”. I wanted to be able to say that sooo bad. And I would lie and say that I had already got it and make up stories. The first time I got it I was so excited. I finally felt grown up and like a normal teenage girl. And when it ended a week later I was really sad. But now it’s just annoying. All of your underwear gets ruined. It’s really gross, and it even smells! My boyfriend gets mad cause I never want to hang out cause I’m moody and bloated lol! And I recently got it at school and didn’t have any stuff. alot of ppl saw. I had to hide in the bathroom and my mom had to get off of work and come get me. It was humiliating! But if you aren’t at school and you have it it isn’t so bad. Except for the cramps and aches. Enjoy being a kid. The day you get it u will be super excited and then you’ll hate it with a burning passion. Best of luck love!!!

April 21, 2009 at 9:49 pm
(354) WOW!Suey says:

LISTEN….your period will soon come and please listen to me when I say this,do not rush things,i am 16 and I have my period and it takes the fun out of everything you do.you cant get up fast or you will bleed you cannot wear light colored pants or you will show if you bleed through and it is soooooooo agrivating when you excersise beacuse you bleed every time you do. but if you want your period to come faster there is no way you can rush it,but trust me you dont want it here.also you cant swim!so please live your life and you can expect your period when you start to have lower back pain,your breast will fill tender,you will be VERY emotional and MEAN you will fill like you have to use the bathroom every 30 minutes and you will have lower near your overys will start to cramp.and for a little tip take pads with you to school so that you wont have to worry if you do start at school.and wear pantie linersa every day to school it dont matter if your young still wear them especially if you start to fill those semptoms.and when you do start at school call your parents and tell them to come pick you up……..good luck girls and please dont rush things guys!

-PeAcE LoVe & :)

April 22, 2009 at 4:52 pm
(355) annie says:

OMG im 12 turnimg 13 and i want it SO badly!!! my friends are al like “no u dont want it” but i do and i hav LOTS of pubic hair and discharge every day for a year wen do u think ill get t? i NEED to know!

April 22, 2009 at 5:09 pm
(356) annie says:

hey! im 12 turning thirteen. im a year behind (in scool)compared 2 my mom. she got her period at the end of 7th or bginng of 8th grade so im expected at the end of 6th or begining of 7th. im in the end of 6th so im expecting it sometime soon. i really dont want to get it in class! I have all the signs! PLENTY of pubic hair! Discharge for a year and im in a size A32-A34. Most of my friends have thier periods and bigger boobs. Im REALLY jealous!Do u hav any idea how 2 make my boobs bigger or hav my period sooner?I feel so left out but all this advice helps! thanks SO much

April 23, 2009 at 7:46 pm
(357) 24...the new 14 says:

Oh my gosh. You Girls wanting your period…

Being Mature is OVERRATED!!! TRUST ME!

When your 14 you would kill to be 18, when your 18 you cant wait till your 21… and when your 22, you just want to rewind and play it over again.

I got my period on the school bus on the way to school with white pants on. It was horrible. But I survived and after about a week, no one remembered…now its a story I look back on and laugh at. So dont worry about getting at school, or even if the cutest guy in the world witnesses your ass with a big red blot on it. Yes it SUCKS….but he will forget and you and your friends will laugh about it.

Remember, you have youth on your side- which means the rest of the world is ENVIOUS of you. You have so much to look forward to- dont worry over your period. Once you get it, it will run your life one week out of the month, dont let it run your life now.

April 24, 2009 at 12:06 am
(358) Bre.Kaye says:

ok. first of all im a sophomore,and i got mine in the 8th grade. and trust me i felt the same way.but the thing is you really dont want it. it stops you from doin alot of things.if you actually want a boy friends and hang out and maybe you are ready to do things, well it stops you trust me.

April 24, 2009 at 12:46 pm
(359) This_Sux says:

I know you all say periods run your life, but it already runs mine! I don’t like swimming as I shows I have no boobs! I hate getting changed infront if people, even my own mother!! and I can;t wear certain clothes that I really ant to wear due to it. It sucks ass!! The closest I have got to anythign liekt hat, is under arm hair. The problem? Its only one unerarm, and only two hairs!! Does anyone know why??

April 24, 2009 at 7:43 pm
(360) Lianne :\ says:

I’m 13 and I started my period like 2days ago and I hate it, I don’t feel comfortable around people right now, and its embarrising at school when you have to change your pads. I hate having my period I was kuje you guys and really wanted it. but its not all its cracked up to be. Oh yea and you can’t wear funky pants because the crotch bit is to small to support a pad. I’m quite flat still like a 30AA tiny! and I got my period just wait please! it sucks! here I am worride about getting blood on the sheets. PERIODS STINK BIG TIME!

April 25, 2009 at 7:44 pm
(361) kaitlin says:

Can somebody please tell me if periods are fun ,sucks,cool,mature,good, bad ………JUST TELL ME!!!!!!Ok I just went shopping today for new bra’s ’cause the straps were tight on my shoulders and tight on my chest (I wore practise bras) so now I have sports bras (my boobs are not that big yet).I am turning 11 in august so I am not totaly sure when my period will arive (I just hope it does not come in 7-9 grade! Well hope all u girls have a happy period time -bye

April 27, 2009 at 6:30 am
(362) Kiara says:

Hey I’m ten years old and I started my period nine days after my tenth b-day I had the worst cramps ever and I started at school you don’t even notice it and some people know the day before that there going to start there’s I wore black leggings and trust me you won’t want it because in summer when you want to go swimming you can’t and if you have brothers don’t say I have to change my pad or something even if they do know it’s still wrong because my cousin does that and it grosses me out it’s so sick sometimes after my period I think like I fell like throwing up like periods are sick.

April 27, 2009 at 5:48 pm
(363) I UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! says:

Hey Girls!!!!!!!!! I like TOTALY understand you problems! I’m 13 years old. I don’t have my period either yet. Apparently you have to have enough body fat to get it. But you skinny girls don’t start stuffing your selves with food! Please! It will just make it worse! Anyway… I’m like the oldest one in all of my friends. And of coarse just like you guys i’m like the only one without my period. I don’t feel comfortable telling my friends that I don’t have it. I used to but then both of my best friends got theirs at like the same time and are always talking about it. I wear a bra size 34 A. So that’s pretty normal compared to my friends. And i’ve started getting the white or clear discharge stuff. For girls who haven’t started it’s just like clear liquid or like glue. I already have hair under my arms and pubic hair so I think i’m pretty normal in the puberty process other than my period. I know all my friends and Mom say that I shouldn’t want my period because you get cramps and stuff but I still want it!!!!!!!! I don’t know why I just want to fit in and I know once I get it I will have like so much stress of my shoulders.

Anyway, for you girls out there like me, I know it’s hard but please dont’t be stressed. I try really hard not to but I just really want it! Well just know that plenty of girls like me feel the exact same way. There are soooo many people there for you.

Well have a happy period!

Good luck you guys!

April 30, 2009 at 4:30 pm
(364) Franceee says:

Okay, I’m nervous, so please try to imagine.

I’m going on a school trip to France at the beginning of July, and I’m sharing a room with my best friend, and maybe one or two other girls. The thing is, all of my friends have thir periods, and boobs. I am periodless, and boobless (I wear a padded bra. I’m still smaller than the other girls, but I look like I have something). Anyway, put yourself in my best friends positon. Your best mate seems to have boob,s but when you see her in her pj’s she practically flat as a three year old boy. How would you feel/act?

Please answer 100% honestly, I won;t get offended xD

April 30, 2009 at 5:17 pm
(365) dee says:

well hello im dee and im 18 i didnt get my period until i was 14

1) drinking milk does not make your boobs bigger they wont fill your boobs with milk as they only produce thier own milk when u become pregnant.

2) you and your mum wont get your period at the same age my mum had it at 11.

3) your friends could be lying to “fit in”

4) make sure any sex you have is with a condom dont belive all the boys saying the cant wear onr because its too tight and it looses sensation you can get many different types that will fit all and not loose sensation.

5) if your worried about starting your period at school take some tampons/pads and an extra pair of underwear,leave them in your locker in a bag if possible.

6) thoses of you who have recently got thier period if you get bad tummy pains then a hot water bottle will work wounders so will chocolate as it realeases endorphins which is a happy hormone.

7) for those of you who havnt got your period yet,just think of the ugly duckling story where a pool little ducking was laughed at for being ugly but later on he want a duck he was actualy a beautiful swan. so dont worry girls your period will come one day.


April 30, 2009 at 7:10 pm
(366) I UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!! says:

Hey!Me again. I don’t really think there are any tricks to make your period come faster. I’m 13 and still don’t have it. And i’m not sure but I don’t think it matters when your mom got it either. My mm had hers in the summer when she was 12 and here I am a 13 year old and periodless. And to answer the girl Francee’s (364) problem, I have the same issue! I still kinda have boob development and there big enough but not that big.When I wear my Bra, they look like a normal 13 year old size and that’s what my friends think I am. But when I take off my bra there pretty small. So if you don’t want them to know, keep your bra on the longest you can. Maybe when your friends are asleep take off your bra under the covers. or something. You never really have to show them. And for the periodless thing, it’s no big deal!!! They will NEVER find out cuz you only get it a week in the entire month so they’ll think you got it last week or something. My friends all have there periods and I have never told them I don’t have it. But I didn’t lie either. I just say that I don’t feel comfortable talking about stuff like that and they totally understand.

Well good luck to all you girls periodless or not. Hope your period doesn’t give you too much trouble!!!!!!!!!! You’ll have to live with it so grin and bear it!

May 3, 2009 at 3:14 pm
(367) Steph5081 says:

Hey! I’m 12 and I still don’t have my period! But I’m not totally worried since I know that all of you had your late periods… And so people here’s some advice if you’re somebody with really small boobs eat alot stay healthy and wear padded bras! I’ve been eating alot like 5 big meals a day and I’m kind of getting fat but some of the fat has been going to my boobs If you didn’t get your period yet just don’t worry about it if all your friend have it maybe even some of them are lying to fit in…


May 4, 2009 at 12:01 pm
(368) Hate_It says:

Its getting to a point where I almost hate my body. I’m fourteen, and it doesn’t feel normal. My mum and sisters got boobs and periods when they were around 11. I have actually cried due to it all. I’ve cried myself to sleep.
I just ask myself, why me? Why am I so different? What have I done? It sucks! I hate it all!

May 4, 2009 at 4:50 pm
(369) Uhm says:

I know none of you are magic, but maybe you’d know.
I have hair, well, down there, and I’ve started noticing a few hairs on my underarms getting darker and longer. However, I haven;t ahd discharge or anything yet, so, do you guys know when to expect it? I have started noticing the under arm hairs for a week or two now. Thanks :)

May 4, 2009 at 5:58 pm
(370) sarah says:

i fell so alone my friends in 7and 8grad have there peroid yet and im scard to tell eney one that i dont have my perioid cus i afrade that thay will all make fun of me!!!!!! )= HELP ME!

May 5, 2009 at 3:10 pm
(371) worried says:

hey peoplz im 15 teen and istill havent started my period and i have had discharge since i was 13 teen or 14 teen my boobs are 34a and getting bigger cuz they hurt sometimes my sister was a b now she got her boobs done and my mom was a big b and a small c so am i gonna be like my mom or sister cuz people say im built like my mom. help

May 6, 2009 at 2:59 pm
(372) Moriah says:

Wow, popular topic…
Look girls, getting your period may mean you’re physically a woman, but it doesn’t mean you’re grown up and mature yet.
Believe me, I’m 18 and I’ve realised this doesn’t happen until at least your early 20′s. Getting your period doesn’t change anything else about you other than the fact that every month (or few months in my case) you need to take special precautions to make sure you don’t get your sheets and panties dirty.

Enjoy not having it while you can- it’s messy, it feels nasty and to some it hurts, makes them sick and/ or really irritable.

I wish I could go back to not having it but I can’t…
(And just between you and me, it always seems to come at the worst of times… I’m staying at my BF’s house this weekend, and I’m hoping to GOD that it’s over with by then… But it probably won’t be.)

May 7, 2009 at 2:36 am
(373) Kayla Peterson says:

im scared i havent started my period yet and i will be 16 on november 10 i was premiture when i was born so i dont know if that ‘s the problem i have had a problem once in 6th grade i was bleeding and a majorly cramps but it went by after that month and i was surly i started but it never came back can someone help get my preriod is there anyway i can go to the docctors they can help or get a poll or sumthing PLEASE HELP ME!!!! IM SCARED.

May 7, 2009 at 5:58 pm
(374) kahli says:

OMG ! its terrbile isnt it its like i want it so bad all my friends have it and im too embarrased to tell them that i havent had it yet i mean i have all the signs that im going to get it real soon but it just wont happen, by the way im 13 :)

May 8, 2009 at 5:45 pm
(375) Rachel says:

omg i have had my period for 7 months and my boobs dont grow! why arent they growing! Help me !

May 9, 2009 at 8:07 am
(376) wondred says:

Hey don’t worry, you will get it and when u do u’d wish u hadn’t dont be in such a hurry there is nothing exciting about a period and anyway if you are sexually active atleast u know u wont get pregnant

May 9, 2009 at 4:33 pm
(377) Mimi says:

Kay. You guys should’nt be soo concerned.
First : Im 15 and 1/2 and i didnt get my period yet, but ive had signs its been almost a year.
Second, consider yourself lucky, its pretti nasty according to my friends and family, ++ you get all moody and stuff.

Third, if you get it at school, the first time, it wont be a load, so it wont get threw your pants that easily unless your wearing a skirt or something.

Fourth. LOLLL, you can be mature without having your period. Alot of ppl tell me im way to mature, and half thos ppl are girls that had there period when they were like 9.

Oh yea, some girls get it earlier cuz of there hormones. It depends what u eat. I heard that these days there are too many conservative* products in what we eat, so it effects our body and could either make our period late or early.

So yall should seriously chiill. youll get it, then youll regret it ;)

May 10, 2009 at 2:20 pm
(378) worried and stressed! says:

hey ive read most of the comments and i think that all the girls aged 10, 11, 12 have NOTHING to worry about whatsoever!!! I’m 15 years old, hav no boobs at all and no periods. I got breast buds over 2 and a half years ago and nothing has changed since then. I hate it sooo much especially as my 13 year old sister has boobs and her periods.

I really need your help guys! Please email me lizziesnips@hotmail.co.uk with any help :) If anyone knows how i can make my boobs grow and my periods start i would be really happy. All those people who are like “you dont want them” really dont understand how i feel because i just want them so i can stop worrying and feel normal!

And does the green tea thing definitely work? I might try it anyway sorry for the long comment but im so worried :( thanks

May 11, 2009 at 12:25 am
(379) dont worry says:

hey girls, just because you haven’t started your period doesnt mean u are not a woman. It just means your body isnt quite ready to make children. It will come when the time is right, and stressing about it isnt going to make it come. Just relax. No worries.

May 15, 2009 at 7:18 am
(380) kaitlin says:

ok can some one help i know that i should not worry at age 10 but i am going to be 11 but i do not want to be my mothers age when i get it ok she was 15.I have very little boobs no discharge all my teeth are falling out I am going nutz. CAN SOMEONE HEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPP AAAAAAAHHHHHH! thx for reding -bye

May 15, 2009 at 3:33 pm
(381) worried and stressed! says:

ok dont worry at all youre still young but youre teeth are falling out?!thats not good honey, you need to go and see your dentist as soon as possible! there may be something wrong or maybe you should just look after your teeth more

May 16, 2009 at 2:11 am
(382) College lady says:

Hey ladies,
So, I would just like to put some of you at ease. Firstly, it is perfectly normal for a 13 year old to not have her first period yet. Chill out, it will come. Ladies, having your period is just a natural part of maturation and it happens when your body can handle the change. Honestly, if your friends are not letting you “fit in” because you don’t have your period, get some new friends. When did bleeding from the vagina become the “in thing” anyways? Also, if you guys are scared about starting in class or some other awkward place, you should know that your first period will likely be extremely light and brown in color. So, wear a liner if it really worries you, but honestly it will be no more heavy than the discharge you are experiencing now. After your system “cleans out the pipes” they will become heavier. No worries :)
-College lady

May 17, 2009 at 7:12 am
(383) Gloebear says:

Hey! I’m 13 I have had all the signs of getting my period for ages now and it’s still not coming.nearly everyone in my class has it and it’s so annoying when there talking about it because I’m left out,but I relised I should still enjoy my childhood! :) -Lydia Doyle

May 17, 2009 at 7:22 pm
(384) Lil-Lish says:

im always looking up these kind of things to see if there is anything to help but i never finda result. im 13, 14 in just 4 months, i have pubic hair, armpir hair, breast i even get discharge (quite heavy sometimes) but i havnt got my period i hate it i just want to fit in. i really want them to come soon but i dont think they will i HATE iT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why do i have to be the one all left out i feel like i little girl GRRRR

May 18, 2009 at 1:05 pm
(385) amo0l says:

Im 17 years old and i still didnt get it! and its very frustrating… i have all the other signs but not the period! my mom got it at a normal age but my aunt didnt..she got it when she was about 18. people tell me thats its normal since your aunt got it at 18 but i just really want it!!! all the girls in my class have and some times they tease me about it so i really want to get it to shut them up! by the way if any one got any advice to help me out ..plz do!

May 19, 2009 at 9:36 pm
(386) stephaniexcore says:

im 14 and trust me, all the girls who want your period, once you get it, you will be sorry you asked for it. its not fun at all, i’ve leaked in my classes before, its embarrassing but not as bad as you may think, be ready for cramps and fatigue.

May 21, 2009 at 4:21 pm
(387) Omg! says:

Why the heck hasn;t it come? I feel so young, and it’s soo embarassing! I’m in year 9 but in top set science so we’ve started going onto year 10 biology. Obviously, we’ve ben learning about mestruation. Its horrible sitting there when girls moan and talk about it, and I justs it there quiet ‘cos I don’t know what its like, at ALL. I have literally no boobs, and have about 3/4 wisps of hair under my arms and hair down there.
It really affects my conidence, and I hate it! Especially as one of my friends whos younger than me and is thirteen (I’m 14 and a half)has now got underarm hair! she was talking about how this girl only ahd like one, and saying it as if the girl was sorta weird. all I could do was giggle slightly. I hate it soo much!
Sorry fo the long post.

May 23, 2009 at 10:44 am
(388) liz says:

I am 13 and i have not started my period yet. I am the only girl in my tutor that has not started my period and i have no boobs whatsoever:( My mum started when she was 8 and by the time she was 12 her boobs were 46d! I feel soo left out and want to start badly. i do feel better to know that there are people out there in the same situation as me so thanks for not letting me be the only one lol :) :):):):)

May 23, 2009 at 10:45 am
(389) liz says:

Hi me again sorry for the long post but if like me you have had all the signs of starting for a long time now please leave a comment :)

May 23, 2009 at 2:58 pm
(390) kaitlin says:

ok i had sex with my boy friend but will it make a baby if his penis goes up my butt crack?thx -bue

May 27, 2009 at 2:36 am
(391) hannah says:

ok I’m 11 and about to turn 12, all of my friends have started their period and I haven’t! Like I’m looking online and I saw that masturbation would speed that up? Is that true? I’m close I know it but it just won’t come!!!! I need help!!!!

May 30, 2009 at 6:57 am
(392) fahemaa-im happy with my period says:

hey everyone im 13 and started my periods in jan 09 and i was sooooo glad wen i finally started i cud finally talk about periods with my friends n not feel left out or weird and i cn try out lots of pads n not feel like a kid one of my friends got it at 8 the other at 11 n another at 12 the onehu got it at 12 is 14 now n still barely has boobs i beat all my friends when its cums to boobs i am like a 34b-32c just last yr i was flat n wow im quite big boobed n i went through th e phase of askin my mum for a bra this mopnth n got it most ppl say oh u dnt want ur period well im sayin u really do want ur period its the best thing u feel like a women and it shows ur growi up healthy i luv havin my period n sumtimes me n all my friends have our periods at the same time n we exchange pads to try out different pads so i luv havin my period i was liek u guys i wud do anything to get it then after a while i forgot about it n bam here it came before i researched the signs n it said u will gte ur period 2 years aftre breast budding well after three yrs of breast budding i got it also they sed u shud hav discharge for a year b4 ur period well i got it for 4-5 years but i did have a groqth spurt of 10iches lol i was supposed to get my period b4 but i was very underweight i was supposed to get it at like 11 ohwell im kinda happy coz sumtimes it can get really ANNOYIN but most of the times im jsut happy to no im growin up healthy n im proud to be a women n i hav nice boobs which i fink r big enough 34b-32c great boobs n great period
i hop eu all get it soon but sum of u may regret it bt i definantly dont..yet

June 1, 2009 at 2:09 am
(393) Caitlin says:

Well im a 11 and i have injections to slow down my periods because like mine were about to start i didnt want them yet so i got these injections but one of my freinds whos 14 had a 7mm neddle stuck up her bum to make hers start.

I hope i helped!

June 3, 2009 at 11:18 am
(394) Steph says:

I got my period when I was in the 5th grade, and I was the first one from all of my friends. I was so embarrassed and I didn’t want my friends to know that I had it. I wish I would have never gotten it. Girls, it really sucks, not only the pain, but you get moody and bloated, body aches like lower back pain and your boobs get sore. Trust me, just wait. Don’t hope for it to come sooner. And for those of you that want your period to have babies.. uhh.. don’t even think about it. the only thing worse than having cramps from period pain, is child birth, waking up early morning to feed your child, and changing diapers, and not getting to hang out with your friends, party, or do whatever you want. Enjoy your teenage years, they don’t last forever…

June 3, 2009 at 12:11 pm
(395) Lauren says:

I kno How you feel. I started like on my 14th birthday and at first i was so happy becoz all my friends had started and i was the last one. I felt so left out when they talked about it, i’d be so embarrassed, but i know how you feel girls. But seriously, after like the first day i wanted it to p*ss off cus its so annoyin an it gets in your way when you want to do it. You’re so lucky not to get it. D:

June 3, 2009 at 7:27 pm
(396) Praying for you all says:

Girls I’m 33 years old. I had gotten my period at 10 years old. I’m sure all of you that want your period are thinking you wish that was you but I’ll tell you when the excitement wears off you will be hoping that you wont’ get your period the next month because of how much pain it is. Some girls that get it doesn’t mean they are mature yet it just means there body is changing. Trust me I was not mature at all at 10 yrs. old. Not only that if you get your period too young you could end up having fertilty problems because your body is more APT to problems later on. Not that it happens all the time. It is a wonderful thing to start your period with all of your friends but remember God knows the perfect time for your period to come. I pray that God gives you all patience and peace during this emotional time. Trust me I’ve been there. You will all look back one day and laugh realizing you have no idea why you wanted your period so bad, I DID!

June 3, 2009 at 7:51 pm
(397) steff says:

im 10 but i want my period sooo badly.Dear mother nature, can i have my period plzzzzzz THX

June 4, 2009 at 3:00 pm
(398) xx Dani xx DB says:

Hi girls!
I left a couple of comments on here around october or november last year, well since then loads of things have happened! I got my periods in december 2008 only a little but then i got scared because it didnt come back for four months but in april it came back!! it was SOOOO heavy and lasted for 3 days but i finally felt like a woman it was really good! i can talk about it with my friends now its great, also i got really big boobs from it– 32C! :D and i grew alot and i got much curvier, YAYYY!! the only downside is that it does hurt alot, thats why i dont reccomend you guys who are lyk 10 asking for it, czz you get such bad stomach cramps i was lyk crying on the floor of stomach cramps, but its so rewarding when it happens!! but its not always like that cozz i’m on my periods right now, its heavy but it doesnt hurt but i did have a bit of chest pain xxxx Hope you guys have good luck with yours xx

June 5, 2009 at 12:45 am
(399) nicole says:

I’m sressing out! i am a 13 1/2 year old with very little boobs, and i mean very little i turn 14 june 20th and i have sign every day like lots of discharge every day! very little hair in areas______ and all my friends had started already i want big boobs like my mom she started at this age and i can’t wait i have the worst cramps in the world and pimples,mood swings. what the heak? is there any way to just make it happen? and will my boobs be freakishly small when im older?? im an A want to be a C please help:(

June 5, 2009 at 12:51 am
(400) nicole says:

how can i make my boobs two cup sizes bigger??

June 5, 2009 at 6:20 pm
(401) neha says:

on27may09 my period has to come but it doesn’t come but i didn’t do anything in my period and not after 8days wit my husband but my period doesn’t come and i don’t want to be a pregnant now so wht should i do i’m worried!

June 6, 2009 at 5:06 pm
(402) worried and stressed! says:

hey guys, after being worried for so long, i suddenly got my period today. I was really not expecting it! Yesterday walking home from school, i suddenly felt pain and discomfort, but no period. This morning, i went to the loo at about 10:30, then went out. The next time i went to the loo, was about 6:30pm. My dad and sister were in the car as we were about to go out, but me and my mum were still in the house. I was about to go to the toilet but as i pulled my knickers down, they were completely covered in blood and dark brown stuff. I was so shocked i didnt end up going to the toilet! It didnt hurt one little bit. I changed into clean underwear and my mum gave me a pad, then we went out. We were out for 2 hours and when we got back, i had more, but not as much as earlier. I thought i would feel really happy cause ive wanted it so much for so long, but im just in shock really. All you girls who do not yet have it, dont worry, but make sure you are prepared! You could see it from the outside of my underwear, so im very thankful it didnt leak through my trousers! Make sure you have a pad with you, and maybe some spare underwear. I hope my experience helps you, and remember, I’m 15 and a quarter, so if you’re 13 and dont have it yet, dont worry. :) xx

June 6, 2009 at 9:41 pm
(403) help help help says:

yes i already have my period, iv had it for a while now but im going to quebec with my graduating class and im supposed to get mine the day we leave! what do i do its a 13 hour drive! HELP
oh and my boobs dont grow!

June 6, 2009 at 11:36 pm
(404) sierra says:

well,i dont kno what to tell you!
im 13 and i just started my period 4 days ago!! i feel ya!! i didnt ever think i was gunna start my period!! there is no way to start your period it comes naturally!!
i hope you start it soon!

June 7, 2009 at 2:25 am
(405) dede says:

omq i feel soo much better i know im not the only one qoinq throuqh it im 15 but have all the siqns of it but i seem to not be cominq on and im qettinq worried thinkinq somethinqs wronq wit mee do anyone knoww wat it miqht be ?

June 10, 2009 at 9:44 pm
(406) kazzza says:

i havent got my period yet and im worried and i dont know what to do . so if you have any thing to say just put it on the computer and i will see.

June 12, 2009 at 12:31 pm
(407) Josie says:

I wouldn’t be very worried about it..
i was almost 14 when i got it, and its terrible you don’t want it! Believe me I was like you too… i wan’t it so bad!

June 14, 2009 at 12:54 pm
(408) kaitlin says:

ok i am sort of u know worried but not that much of my period cause im 10 going to 11.but not to long ago i watched this video and a girl started leaking blood she said HOW EMBARRASSING!:(.and u know how i said in the beggingnig im only 10-11 NEWS FLASH my boobs arn’t growing wtf?!:((.can someone help e-mail me at candi.katie@myfairpoint.net i just realy need help bye -kaitlin

June 15, 2009 at 7:24 pm
(409) sarah says:

im 14, going to be 15 in less then a month, and going to be a sophmore, and i still havent had my peroid. but most of my frineds havve. my friend who is rly small, and she just had her growth spert just startedd it and she is rly flat. she had it b4 me. i want it sooo bad!

June 16, 2009 at 6:53 am
(410) Jess says:

I’m really short,like REALLY I’m only on the 3rd percentile :( The reason I want it is so I can grow taller my Dr. said when I have my period I’ll grow but I’m 13!!!!!! I’m sick of getting teased :( At this point I’m willing to do anything!!!!

June 21, 2009 at 3:11 pm
(411) nicole says:

okay girls my friend has had her period 4 a while and im 13 ive really wanted it but trust me you dont! hers leeked through her pants the other day and all of the guys saw it in class!so just wait till your body is ready cause it will come eventually. just stay fit eat well and get good sleep and it might come sooner

June 21, 2009 at 11:39 pm
(412) mary says:

im 13 and i got mine over a year ago.
i was anxious to get it too but trust me, it is NOT fun. -.- as far as i know, you cant make it come sooner. just wait i guess. you should wear a pad just in case, you never know, mother nature could be veeerry cruel. =)

June 22, 2009 at 2:26 pm
(413) sam says:

sometimes there are signs … sometimes not. my friend whos like flat chsted and younger then mee got hers 6 months ago. now im 13 have had bobs for 2 1/2 years discharge for 3 years but no period. i guess i will hae to be patient though. i just dont want to be 16 with no period cause right now im the only one with no period

June 22, 2009 at 8:24 pm
(414) lauren says:

hey guys. look at this. my comment makes the 414th comment. thats roughly about how many girls have the same prob you guys do. im 14, have(little) boobs, and have had discharge for about a year or so. i dont have my period. my older cousin has hers, shes 16 though. my cousin who is also older than me by 3 months, she just quit gymnastics and her boobs just popped out(lol). and she says that she thinks she gonna get it and that im not. she didnt say that exactly. i just mean that shes most probably gonna get her first and i started puberty before her. and all my friends have theirs already. it sucks. but hey. now i know how many other people have the same prob. thanks for helping me get through this little wall of mine. hope this helped some. :]

June 22, 2009 at 11:42 pm
(415) Cheyenne says:

Its not fair to not have it!!!! I hate how my mom says oh ull get it soon!! i dont care i want it now!! I dont care what people say if it sucks kuz im all alone and i wanna have something to make me look older! i mean i 12 and i look like a 9 year old. I have discharge like niagra falls but no period! I HATE how my mom say ull get it soon kuz i dont care what the heck youll say to me to feel better kuz im NOT TAKING IT!

June 23, 2009 at 2:36 pm
(416) emma says:

hey guys i totally aggree with you and how much you want your period. Im 13 and 1/2 and got mine 3 months ago. i was so pumped to have i at first but once ya got it its not going to go way for a while. im just saying that after having it for a bit theres nothing all that great about it

June 23, 2009 at 5:46 pm
(417) alicia says:

you qirls are ridicoulus. i am 16 and when i was 11 i wished and wished for my period. then i qot it on Christmas. I was soooo happy i qot it and now i hate it. Havinq a period means i have to be careful of havinq sex because i can get preqnant. I hate my period wit furry. i hate tha crampz i hate how i bloat and feeling fatter than the world i hate tampons i hate pads and i hate tha blood clots. Girls slow down with life. Trust me you dont want to have a period it suck!

June 25, 2009 at 11:35 pm
(418) grrrgirrl says:

im turning 14 and i still dont have it, and i was freaking out. but reading this and seeing how A LOT of people dont have it either makes me feel a bit better, and plus, if you eat a lot of crap and all of that stuff you get it slower. but i dont eat a lot of crap. so whatever. late bloomer. but seriously with the 11 and 12 yr olds, let your life go slowly. dont rush it. you guys are prob still in 5th grade, trust me you dont wanna get it in 6th. wait till atleast 8th grade ! jeeze. anyway. thanks hope you guys get your periods aswell as mine :P ahhaa

June 28, 2009 at 8:59 am
(419) ashely says:

i am 15 years old and have not got my periods till know ,what should i do help me out .pl

June 29, 2009 at 10:31 am
(420) casy says:

i am 13 and i understand how you all feel i am still young but this girl i know in 4th grade had it before me and i am still not showing any signs of my period coming soon. and since I am the oldest in my class and i want to have it! all my friends have gotten it or made signs it is coming soon, some times i feel left out.

June 29, 2009 at 12:25 pm
(421) meebo girl says:

OMG yall i no how u feel my friend just had her period and she is to years younger than me AHHHHHHHHHH! but i have almost all the signs i have smallish boobs discharge except no pubic hair it is really anyoying cuse i feel so left out all my friends have it and i am the oldest in my grade i am 13 amd my 15 year old sis still has not had it and my mom had hers in 8 th y not me y not now???????????????

June 30, 2009 at 10:26 am
(422) Melisser says:

Hey I am just the same way almost 13 period less,smallish boobs and signs all my friends have theirs they are always saying oh ur so lucky u haven’t gotten it yet but really to me they are the lucky ones the more mature ones but I don’t totally feel left out cause my friend that is 2 months younger than me don’t have it and as far as I know hasent shown any signs but if she gets it be 4 me I just might die

June 30, 2009 at 3:25 pm
(423) Tina M says:

To all you girls ages 12-14 who say they don’t have theirs. Honey be glad you don’t be proud yes it will say your growing up but that’s not the only thing you need to grow up and besides it is a major pain, stomach cramps, feeling bloated, headaches, all of that every month and also the moodswings. girls be happy you dont have it and live your life up while you dont your day will come when it’s ready but for now just go out and have fun.

July 1, 2009 at 3:28 pm
(424) ashley says:

im 12 1/2 going on to 13 and i still havent gotten my period. i really want to get it. i have really small boobs and i have hair in some places but i still havent gottn my period. i feel pains around my chest in stomach but nothing happens. in bras im a 32a. its not big on me but they look big with a shirt on because they are padded. i have a 13 year old friend and she has these boobs that are so huge they look like she had gotten fake boobs. i really want my period to come because i want to be a mature teenager and i want to fit in. how can i make my period come soon because i really cant wait till it comes. its going to be a really painful/happy day for me i think..

July 2, 2009 at 10:48 pm
(425) jacqueline says:

hi girls its nice to know im not the only one going threw this im 12 going on 13 soon and yes i havnt got it either my boobs are average for my age so theres something but im not worried about them at the moment i want my period i have had discharge for a year and a half and i have all the hair where it should be but no period it sucks. all tho i hate saying this i guess waiting really is the only thing we girls can do right now :|

July 3, 2009 at 11:53 am
(426) plleeaassseee hheelllppp says:

iv had my period 8 months why dont my boobs grow my mom and my grandma have HUGE boobs what can i do to make them grow

July 3, 2009 at 8:41 pm
(427) KASSIDY says:

OMG!!! i am 18!!!!!!!!!! and i STILL dont hav it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you girls are lucky because you guys are probably gettin close but i need it! I am engaged to the guy of mmy dreams and iam desprate for a baby!!!!!!!! but i cant hav 1 till i hav it sooooo? will u guys pray 4 me?

July 4, 2009 at 3:38 pm
(428) Haleen says:

hey girlys i am 12 and just got my period it was scarry cues i did no no what was going on until i thought. but i have only told my mom and best friend. it is not that great you have a lot more things to think of. once i forgot i had it and it happened! but the thing is i never had discharge and nether did my friend why did i not have any?

July 4, 2009 at 3:56 pm
(429) cayenne says:

i am 13 and have not had my period yet. and i understand how yall feel. i have discharge and smallish boobs but no pubic hair and i herd a few people had it with out pubic hair , but mine is starting to grow and when we were in third grade the girl younger than me had her period and now her boobs are a size 34 c !!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 6, 2009 at 6:20 pm
(430) maddie says:

i have not started mine and i am 13 in the 8th grade and im scared i told people i have started and stuff im so ashamed i havent started plz help me!!!!!

July 7, 2009 at 3:34 pm
(431) courtney says:

hi girlies, i’m fifteen and i have had my period since i was in 5th grade. it sucks, i dunno why you would want it but i know my cousin didn’t get it still she was 17 cause it was gentic. it all depends on your parents everyone says.

July 7, 2009 at 8:10 pm
(432) Lola says:

Okey girls theres no need to worry about nuh getting it!! I was 13 n all my friend got their period someone told me to eat chocolate n i was like tht will never work buh 2 months after i got..try tht.. n ttrust me ur lucky if u dun have ur period yet!! ;)

July 8, 2009 at 3:10 pm
(433) nicole says:

okay so I am 11 going on 12 and I am 32-34A and I have been discharging for about a year and I am wondering if there us a way to speed up the process so u can have my period b4 school starts please reply here’s my email lavenderr77@hotmail.com thanks guys I feel your pain I REALLY want to start!!!!!

July 8, 2009 at 8:15 pm
(434) nicole says:

me again for all you girls that have started it’s not as painful as you said for “everyone” some peoples can be completely painless! it depends on who you are and and how much comes out

July 9, 2009 at 12:31 am
(435) London says:

Holyy crap.. okay look. If the only reason you want your period is because you think your boobs will just start growing, well thats not even close to right. I got my period at 12, (thank god over winter break.) and your period sucks!! i have horrible cramps and a SUPER HEAVY flow. i have to go on birth control just for cramps and to regulate my period.:[ and my boobs havent gotten any bigger since ive gotten my period im still a 34A! yes i know..sucks.:/ but honestly, once you start.. youll wish you NEVER did!:((

July 9, 2009 at 1:04 am
(436) nicole says:

London some of us actually want to get it over with!! you think we don’t no it hurts!! you act like we want cramps and pain so just stop! stop we’ve heard it a million times just leave us alone and stop PMSing!!

July 10, 2009 at 2:43 pm
(437) Ferrara says:

hey i feel your pain i am 13 and just got my period i dont have a mom at the moment so i had to call my aunt who is 27 to bring me a box of pads and tampons! it was so werid cuse she had to put it like in me!!!!!!!!!! and it has been two months and i found out i have a hevy flow and ti think my dad saw one of my used tampons! ahhhh, and i no how every one says you will hate it but i feel like a women and it is sortof fun cuse you understand what every one is talking about you really do feel like a woman “but i dont have alot of pubic hair ” scream werid

July 10, 2009 at 2:57 pm
(438) over the top says:

hey i am 13 and short periodless and it is no fun! when we go to resturants they hand me a kiddy menu it makes me so mad i mean i am 13!!!! so i were pads and a cuppy bra that i just about fit in to and it is so anyoing cuse every one els is getting there’s and i’m not but i pretend i have and i go over the top i take a red pen colar it on a pad put it on my undies and when i and at my friend’s house i role it up and leavit a little open so it looks real and then i say i have cramps and i keep tampons in my bag so if someone goes through it it looks real and i ask my friends if they have tampons and say i forgot one then i undo it and through out the other stuff and put the actual tampon in a wad of trash and through it away saying that is my old one
dont lie cuse once you do you wont be able to get your self out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 10, 2009 at 10:00 pm
(439) Emma! ox says:

Hey, I’m 12.. Got mine today.. None of my friends have it yet.. And I feel so left out.. I think 1 of my friends have it cos they said there was blood down there once.. She has massive boobs lol. I think she’s just afraid to mention that she has her period. I know how you all feel.. you’ll all get it.. Dont worry :) Well if you don’t get it by 17, go see a doctor pleaseeee. I was really scared to tell my mum about it but I finally did.. I plucked up the courage.. If you do get it and are thinking of a way to tell your mum about it.. you’ll probably wait a day or two but instead of using pads put toilet roll down there.. so I doesn’t get on your pants… then when you tell your mum.. She’ll give you a pad or something and she’ll tell you how to use it.. I was so embarrssed.. Every womans went through it… Don’t be scared to tell your mum about it.. its natural :) You will all get it soon, don’t worry :D . Btw, Periods suck.. lol

July 11, 2009 at 4:27 am
(440) Beaine says:

Hi. I’m 11 and i’m turning 12 on July 14. (EEKKK!4 days) I want my period really bad. I’m scared that it will happen when i’m swimming, and you can’t feel it when you swim. I’ve had nightmares about it happening in a pool when im diving. I also ride my bike a lot. I really just want it to come so i wont be so worried. Ohh, and i e-mailed lavenderr77@hotmail.com

July 11, 2009 at 4:37 am
(441) Beanie says:

I did want to put that i have been getting discharge, soreness on my boobs, and cramps for a year now. Is it comming soon? someone let me know.

July 11, 2009 at 5:04 am
(442) girlyy says:

i know how you feel same thing happened with me. im also going into freshman year. and i was talking to my gym teacher (shes a girl) and one of my friends brought up how much she hates periods this was like a month or two after i turned 14 so i was like ya i havent got my period yet and im worried cuz i still havent gotten it… so my teacher said ask your mom when she got hers so i did and my mom got it freshman year so i was like ohh ok. and about a month or two later i got my period and trust me girl you do nott want it. its okay at the beginning cuz mine only lasted for like 3 days but its different for everyone. and when you get itt if you active your period mite not come like one month and then it will come the next. but like i said everyones different. good luck

July 11, 2009 at 10:37 am
(443) worried says:

hey guys i am really worried that when it happens i will not want to put a tampon in because every one says it hurts so is it okay if i just put one in with out my period just to see how it is?
-worried-( :

July 12, 2009 at 4:40 pm
(444) Marnie says:

Hey girls, im 17, ive had a period since 5th or 6th grade, cant really remember. Trust me just because u have a period doesnt mean your a women or mature, its all in the way u act..I wish i didnt have one, it hurts terribly the first couple of days, and u always worry when you get up there will be a blood stain on your butt. I have to leave school sometimes cuz it hurts so bad. it even hurts to sit down. And also havin period has nothin to do with big boobs, mine are normal, and i like it that way, cuz if i ever have a baby they wont be down to my knees by then. And to WORRIED u can try that and see how it feels, it wont hurt you, and it wont pop ur cherry to put it in there either, just make sure its in far enough if not then it will hurt. But if its right u wont feel like its there at all. Pads are the worst, try to avoid those.

July 13, 2009 at 10:12 am
(445) worried says:

please answer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 13, 2009 at 1:06 pm
(446) kae kae says:

trust me periods suck. i just turned forteen in march…got it in jan. and since i just started it is not on schedule

July 15, 2009 at 12:27 am
(447) julie says:

im 13 almost and in 8th grade i havent gotten my period and i hate it im only a 34a plus im a tinsy bit chunky>.<
i need help all my friends have it and they all make fun of me

July 15, 2009 at 5:06 pm
(448) JENNY says:

I don’t know if I had my period or not, which is strange, cause I have had little red spots on my underwear, and once there was a quartersized reddish-brown mark on my underwear. strange reight?

July 16, 2009 at 4:06 am
(449) Sarah says:

hi ppl i am only 11 and i already have my period it is well it SUCKS all you older girls just wishing you had it i wish i hadENT
cramps excusiating bloting gone up 2 pounds its gross &+ u really dont want it

July 17, 2009 at 12:50 am
(450) morgan says:

hi im morgan and on monday is my birthday im turning 11 i had discharge for the first time in april and started having cramps i got really woried my period was coming but i didnt ive had discharge for almost a month in a half now strait for every day and i dont know if mine is coming soon or its just something thats hapening.im so glad people are having the same problems then me!!!!!:]

July 17, 2009 at 2:16 am
(451) nicole says:

hey guys it’s nicole again remember lavenderr77@hotmail.com well any way I’ve gotten 3 major cramps in the past 2 weeks and I had discharge for 6 months then it stopped I have pubic hair and everything I wanted to know if I was going to start soon so I can be prepared please email me or reply in a comment soon ily guys thanks!!!<3

July 17, 2009 at 2:24 am
(452) nicole says:

this is advice for morgan: your only ten and you’ve had discharge for only 1 month I am 98% sure you aren’t going to be starting soon give it a couple of months for any more questions feel free to email at lavenderr77@hotmail.com ily guys againLoL thanks you guys

July 18, 2009 at 12:38 am
(453) morgan says:

thanx for the advice ill live in the moment i hate cramps and bloating wish they would stop!!!i wish we didnt have to go thru this dear lord please make guys have to do this.u know give birth have there periods and stuff like that.when they start having cramps and complaining because there bloated and angel has answered my prayers!

July 19, 2009 at 6:16 pm
(454) Jess says:

Hey guys. Well look at it this way, i’m nearly 15, i’m a 32b, i have hair and everything and still haven’t started my periods! My mum started when she was 13 and so did my gran. Everyone at school, literally, has started there’s. Whats wrong with me?

July 20, 2009 at 7:00 am
(455) how come? says:

hey people. i am 14 turning 15 in this september and im going into 10th grade. i havent started my period yet either. Im not actually looking forward to my period … but i do want it to happen. every one i know has it.. even this fourth grader… weird, i know. but i just want to know how come i didnt have it yet, im not sure if i had the signs i didnt look it up.. not sure what kind of things would pop up.. haha. but my mom got it when she was 12 and she said if i dont get it soon she was gonna take me to a doctor and that is the LAST thing i want!!! i dont want anyone touching me.. but if anyone could tell me what are the best ways for it to come naturally? like exercising and stuff, i just wanna see a list of everything i could do NATURALLY :D please answer back, thanks!!!

July 20, 2009 at 2:40 pm
(456) Mollie says:

I had my period when i was 12! & im 12! LOL

July 21, 2009 at 6:22 am
(457) lucy says:

well i’m 15 in a couple of months, i havent started my period either, my mum was 11 and my sis was 13 its really embarssing when people talk about it and i feel left out. mum says if it doesnt come soon she will take me to doctors. i have discharge small boobs :( which is embarssing in p.e because all girls have big ones,pubic hair and armpit hair and just want to know when will i get it i get so sad and even cry at night because i feel so left out. and would it be weird if i carried tampons and pads around just in case i do start at school! write back please.

July 21, 2009 at 7:53 am
(458) Katie says:

HOW STUPID OF MELLISSA TO HAVE SEX AT THE AGE OF 13!!!WHAT A BITCH!!!By the way i have had discharge 4 about a year and a half and i have got all the other signs just after i got the discharge!!!CAN SOMEONE HELP ME I REALLY WANT 2 KNOW WHEN IT GONNA HAPPEN!!!
PS.i have had cramps 4 like 3 days and about 4 days before the cramps i had back pains and i also have sore knees,PLZ HELP!!!

July 22, 2009 at 3:58 pm
(459) WTF!!?!!!? says:

Im soo confused! I read on a site, that you should normally get your period about 4 months after the sign of any form of armpit hair.
Okay, so I’ve started getting random, tiny little hairs. But, I haven’t got any discharge. And different site’s say you normally have discharge for about a year. does that mean I will be almost sixteen?

July 22, 2009 at 4:24 pm
(460) Nikki says:

I’m 13 years old and really wanted my period. Then i read all the coments and am starting to think i don’t want it any more. I am one of the only girls left in my group of friends that has not started. For know i am going to be happy just because once i have it then for along time.

July 24, 2009 at 12:01 am
(461) MORGAN says:

YO PPL!My chest has been hurtinh and my cramps anve gotten worse plus have been happening more i just wondering WTF?it just started a cuple days ago and my friend had hers and said she had almost no signs but her chest started hurting then she had hers.so whats going on?

July 24, 2009 at 4:09 pm
(462) tigs says:


i am 13 and my mum started at 13, ino it sounds stupid but i have all the signs, pubes, discharge for 2 1/2 yrs!!!, and i have gone through 2 sizes of bras in 3 months!! my friends have got ‘it’! just wondering are periods painful??????????

July 25, 2009 at 10:06 pm
(463) melissa says:

hey guys i am 13 and my bff just had hers and i just tryed putting in a tampon even though i dont have it yet i thought it might help it felt werid at first and the ferther i put it in it hurt even more so now when i took it out it had a pink spot on it AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH i am soooo mad i want it !!!!! my sis is 15 and has not had it!!!!hep tell me if there is a way to make it start my mom had hers in 8 th but not me y no my aunt on my dads side had it in 8th but not me so please help

July 26, 2009 at 2:12 am
(464) taylor says:

Hey guys, i just got my period for the first time, three days ago. My 14th birthday is in 8 days. Now, all of you are complaining about wanting your period. Stop, once you get it, your stuck with it, every month for about 10-40 years. and it is uncomfortable as hell. Enjoy it while your period free. And who cares if your freinds and sisters have it already, laugh at them for being stuck with it. You’ll get it no worries. unless of course your a hermaphidite :D

July 26, 2009 at 9:52 am
(465) Loveleen says:

im 14 too and i still haven’t started my period. i am really worried becase in science they tell u that u mst start before 16 otherwise yo have problems. but by reading what yu lot have written i feel less worried and abit better. i also have a discharge alot and it is a horrible scene to go through. so i wold jst like to say patients is a virtue.

July 27, 2009 at 2:29 pm
(466) ME says:


July 27, 2009 at 4:08 pm
(467) Im scared says:

I’m so mad! I’m really flat chested, have no period, no discharge. I ahve hair “down there” and just started with armpit hair, like, little tiny hairs and stuff. I always had one friend who I reklated with ‘cos she didn’t have anything either, but now shes got lots of armpit hair, and the other day she was wearing a revealing top, and she has actually started developing breasts. So now, I feel even more alone. If I talk to my mum she just says that I’ll get it, not to worry and all that. She doesn;t listen to each individual worry and try get me through it. One of my sisters just laughs, and I’m not that close to the other one.
So yeah, I feel really alone. I have literally no-one to talk to about it. Oh, and my friend isn’t even fourteen (I’m fifteen in half a year!) and shes a hell of a lot shorter than me. It feels as if I ahve some sort of curse, that I’ve been singled out by not having it. I just want some-one to at least talk to.
So, do any of you guys know anyway (even urban legends) that will help it start?

If anyone knows anything, then please get me at


(No creepy people please ^o^)

July 28, 2009 at 12:05 pm
(468) you dont want it says:

Trust me i hate my . im only 12 and i alredy wear a 38 b bra you dont want your period.

July 28, 2009 at 2:24 pm
(469) waiting desperately says:

Im in middle school and almost all of my frends have their periods! I feel so left out!
Even both of my bff hae their periods. I already have heavy discharge and other things but wen am i going to hav my period. And how can i hav it pronto.

July 28, 2009 at 9:50 pm
(470) Dont feel bad says:

Whoa after all of these comments people are still worried? Im 15 and sure i would like 2 start my period so i could get some hips -_- but, im glad i haven’t started yet and you guys should be glad 2! :) A lot of you guys i kinda young 2, 11 and 12? Dont feel left out, as you can see there are a lot of girls who still haven’t started!

July 29, 2009 at 8:37 am
(471) ... says:

i’m fifeteen and haven’t started my periods, i tell people i have and it’s never been a problem its not like they will ever know, im ready for my period but im in no rush for unwanted pain. Having no period doesnt stop you doing a thing apart from having kid and who wants that at such a young age?

July 30, 2009 at 10:16 pm
(472) noname says:

so i’m 13 and i haven’t had my period yet but i’m kinda happy that i don’t because it sounds like once you get it you have a once-a-month hellish week. also to the people who really want it they should stop stressing over it because stress delays it even further.

July 30, 2009 at 11:16 pm
(473) liz says:

me 2! i want it sooo bad! im 14 and had hav discharge 4 about a year now and im flat chested!!!!! i just wish it would start! :(

July 31, 2009 at 2:59 am
(474) sn says:

ok im 15 going in to grade 10 im the only one in of all my friend who havent got it and im scared that i mite get it at a bad time. or that there is something wrong with me can some one help?!?!

July 31, 2009 at 7:44 pm
(475) marie says:

hi I strted my period bout 9months ago and it doesn’t hurt it feels like discharge “White stuff” I like having my period it makes me feel like a woman(: I’m happy I have my period. so guys stop lie ing okay

August 1, 2009 at 6:09 am
(476) ... says:

I know this sounds weird but I don’t care about the pain. I mean, I can see how it feels, what it does to your moods and everything. And I still don’t care.
I’d still rather have it because with it, hips and breasts usually come too. And I really need both!!

August 1, 2009 at 9:47 am
(477) Yes or No says:

Okay. So, I’ve started getting a few more (visible) hairs under my arms, and starting last night (it’s now 14:46) the top of my left breast has been weirdly painful. Like a long, dull ache which actually hurts.
If you press on it there is a lump aswell (not cancerous!)
Does this mean that they’re growing? I’m incredibly flat chested right now! Not even little bumps or anything! Oh yeah, and I’m fourteen.
So, are they growing do you think? And will this mean I’m getting closer to my period? ^o^

August 1, 2009 at 1:19 pm
(478) milly says:

hey guys i feel ur pain i am so jelous of one of my friends cuse she has the perfect body and she just had her period ahhhhhhhhhhh i hate it and that trim and transform camertial makes me crazy that i wont need one of those in forever i make people think i have had it cuse we were washing my freinds car and i accidentaly sliped and they said u have no hair so i said oh i shave it they said oh do u cut ur self i say no! then my friend said u just hit her boob and then she said what boobs ? to me so i said i would not be talking cuse she is the one who wares regular bras and dose not evan fit in them when i got home i got so mad at her i started to cry. i wish i would just happen so i would not have to lie any more!!!!!!!!!!

August 3, 2009 at 3:06 am
(479) Melany 023 says:


August 4, 2009 at 10:41 am
(480) Never telling says:

Hey, I’m 13 and I have my period I got it back at the start of June u dont want it! Seriously, the first one I had bleed for 7 days! the second was like 5 days and one other one was like 8 days long I was getting worried. It depends on ur body 2. I read in a book some girls don’t get it till 15 or 16 so chill. When u have a period you can’t go swimming in the summer when it’s hot out. u honestly don’t want it trust me.

August 4, 2009 at 11:27 am
(481) voiceofreason says:

Girls Girls Girls! not to worry you’ll get it! I was 16 when i started. I’m 21 now and trust me, everyone is jealous of my being able to start waaaay later than them. It was like being the ugly duckling, but once i matured…everyone wanted my attention. :D hang in there girls.

August 5, 2009 at 11:57 am
(482) melisa says:

hang in there guys i have not started and a lot of my friends have i feel really embaresded because of that all my friends make fun of me for not maturing i hate it so if u need to talk i am here!
shoot me an email

August 6, 2009 at 4:47 am
(483) Anonymous says:

I Know how you all feel im 15 16 in april and i still havent had any signs of a period and im in year 10 at high school thats grade 10 for you americans i think :) ! the thing that makes me worry is that i have everything else (breasts,grown taller, hips widen, pubic hair ) can anyone please help me!

August 7, 2009 at 6:42 pm
(484) Shadeice says:

Guess wat I got my first period when I was just twelve and in grade 8…but now I am 15 and going in grade 11…please don’t be in a rush for a period even if it makes you feel immature they come with serious cramps, pains, aches, especially headaches…just be thankful sweets….and I’m from The Bahamas thats y the age and grade seem weird..different over here…

August 7, 2009 at 6:57 pm
(485) sydnee alyse says:

omg guyz. i’ve had mine since the 3rd gradee. its the worst thing that EVERRRR happened to me. it always comes at the worst time. && its annoyingg. be lucky that you haven’t started yours yet. im 13 almost 14.
worst thing ever, really!

August 7, 2009 at 7:50 pm
(486) KATIE says:

HEY!!!i just wanna know if im gonna get it soon cause im 12 1/4 years old and im not sayin i want it or i dont but could somebody plz reply 2 me thnx. OK let me start,i’ve had pubic hair since i was 11,i got discarge 1 1/2 years ago i have been shaving my arm pits 4 about 4-6 months now.!!!SO PLZ SOMEONE REPLY I JUST WANNA KNOW IF I WILL GET IT SOON!!!THNX!!!ur regards Katie.T

August 13, 2009 at 6:49 pm
(487) nicole says:

if you all really want to see if you will start soon then go to google and type in puberty self examination female make sure it says natacare!! (: hope this will or did help! lavenderr77@hotmail.com

August 21, 2009 at 7:14 pm
(488) SOS says:

wow! I literally read this entire page! i feel so much better knowing that hundreds of girls are going through the same thing!
i’m 14 going to be a freshman and haven’t gotten my period either. my friends never talk about periods so im fine there. but im sure they can tell i haven’t gotten mine because im so FLAT CHESTED!!! i don’t have anything! im still wearing a training bra and im too embarrassed to ask my mom to buy me a bra. and i hate when my older sis and mom tell me “you have no boobs!” and “you look like a 5 year old.” i have some hair down there but not alot. i only want my period so i can develop boobs and hips-I WANT TO BE CURVY!! so far, for speeding up the process/making boobs bigger this is what i’ve read:

1. eat and drink more soy
2. drink a lot of milk
3. don’t eat so much junk
4. don’t stress (it just makes it take longer)
5. arm exersizes help with boobs (this seems to work best for bigger boobs)
6. drink green tea/hot drinks (cocoa, tea, etc.)

after reading this im not stressed out anymore which is good. im going to do arm exersizes and drink lots of milk!!

and for all of you who said how your friends laugh at you for this, they aren’t your true friends!

(sorry this is so long! after reading everyone’s comments i had a lot to say)

xoxo-hope i helped

August 21, 2009 at 7:35 pm
(489) SOS says:

me again! i was just doing some research and i read almost everywhere that caffeine can actually counter act with the developement. so…..don’t drink green tea!! lol!


August 23, 2009 at 4:18 am
(490) me says:

so, i was reading this page for health class and i have to say, everyone here seems pretty pathetic. i know most of the entries were one/two years ago, but for all the 11, 12, 13 and 14 year old girls – you seriously need to stop.
if you’re not old enough to know that there is nothing you can do to make your period come faster, then you’re definitely not old enough to have it.
most women hate having their periods. i know i do.
i hate the cramps and feeling sick for that week.
so (if anyone else reads this and is young) just stop complaining. i’ll gladly swap places with you, and i’m sure the majority of women who have their periods would agree.

August 23, 2009 at 1:22 pm
(491) Embarrased says:

I am 12 and I haven’t started my period!
I will be 13 in October.
I have all the signs now but I feel leftout!
I’ve now started getting brown liquid/mucus in my underwear and I don’t know what it is!
Can someone help me?

August 23, 2009 at 7:41 pm
(492) Olivia says:

I am 11 turning 12 in october.. i havent gotten it yet..
You dont have to stress about it and the wight stuff that you see in your underwear means you will get it 2 years later… so if you just got it then you gotta wait 2 years!!

Good luck!!


August 24, 2009 at 9:55 pm
(493) Samantha says:

Im 12 turning 13 in october, i wear a 32a.
still havent gotten my period.
just dont worry about it.

but…all my friends have theres…and i hate hearing them say brb gotta go change my tampon/pad.
it upsets me.

I started getting boobs in 7th grade.
I am in 8th grade.
It takes about 2 years after you start developing to get your period.
so ill be getting mine in 9th gradee.

Just…eat as much..jk.

but just dont worry about it.
your time will come:D

August 25, 2009 at 4:56 pm
(494) SOS says:

Actually, for Embarrassed (491), the brown stuff in your underwear is vaginal discharge. they say you should get your period about 6 months after you start seeing vaginal discharge – not 2 years.

xoxo-hope i helped

August 25, 2009 at 6:02 pm
(495) jacquelyn says:

i’m gonna be thirteen in a month i’v been getting disscharge for over a year i’m a 36a but my bra’s r padded i basicly just started getting boobs my friend is only is ONLY ELEVEN!! AND SHE Has it!! my mom got hers at eleven since all of my friends have it one anticapated that i had got it because of a look on my face. because i was sooo ashamed i went with it. please how can i get it!!!

August 25, 2009 at 11:41 pm
(496) kim says:

im 11 i was reading the coments and one said if you dont get enough sleep dont eat right and are heavy dont get there periods thats my but my mom got hers when she was 12 iv had discharge for like a year 34a bra ahhhh

August 26, 2009 at 1:42 am
(497) sss freshman :/ says:

ok, i read through this whole thing, and i’m turning 14 next month, already starting high school, and these are the two main things i have to say:

1. i do not really WANT all the negativities of having a period, but i really don’t want to be probably the only one in all of my high school classes that hasn’t gotten it yet.

2. I also really hate it when ppl. think i’m seven, when really i’m turning 14. i went to go pick up my glasses the other day, this lady sees that i have the book 1984 in my hand, and she asks how old i am (because of obviously the book level) and i said i was 13, going into high school, and she said Oh! wow! i thought you were like seven!!
(i am very very very flat chested, and it also kinda hurts just a little when another girl at school remarks about how flat chested i am, even when they don’t even mean it like teasing..
So I also understand being embarrassed, because if i tried to list ALL the times people didn’t believe my age when i told them, this comment would be double what the whole length of this page.

so i perfectly understand those of you going into high school that haven’t started your periods because it would not be the most happy situation to get it WHILE swimming, or right in the middle of class.
but those of you 12 and below really should not be concerned AT ALL.
it could just be too early for you, so STOP!

i am such a long talker :)
anyone else having period problems (in high school) i feel ur pain….

but i believe it will happen, and i’m soo NOT looking forward to it, but i just want to get it over with already.

~GAWSH i feel like i’m writing a speech x)

August 26, 2009 at 8:57 pm
(498) high school senior says:

uhm u little girls need to grow up. seriously. its a period. its not fun, its not something to “envy” come on now kiddies.

August 28, 2009 at 4:37 pm
(499) Anna says:



August 31, 2009 at 2:12 pm
(500) Sophie.HELP ME! says:

im 13 and goin into year 9 on wednesday. i think most of my friends have started but me! i have had some of the signs but i cant exactly remember when they started :S i told my best friend that i had started coz i didnt want to feel embarrased and i know thats wierd n everythin coz shes my best friend.i just wanna be a typical english girl and i want to fit in! does anyone know a way to make it happen faster?!?! please help me!

August 31, 2009 at 2:16 pm
(501) Sophie says:

when will my period start!!!!!

August 31, 2009 at 2:23 pm
(502) Sophie says:

hi,me again lol. but i also think its because i am a late developer coz i am actually 13 but i look 5 or 6 or 7 u know wot i mean, my dad was the same. so i was wondering if it has something to do with that. :S i look about 7 years younger than i actually am. its quite wierd now but when im older i will look younger! yay! anyways back to the subject. so most of the comments i have been reading says that if u dont eat right and sleep enoough then u will start later?? is that right? i just wanna fit in! i wanna start so bad so i can feel like i have a place u know wot i mean! lol. im just worried i will start late. help me!

August 31, 2009 at 5:02 pm
(503) Sophie says:

wait im confused, ive av been reading all the comments and i dont get it, when u get the discharge is it 6 months or 2 years??? oh well i’ll just have to wait and see. if its 2 years i will be 15 or over before i get my period! omg! but i cant really tell if i have discharge or not?!?! help me! please answer if u r reading this and let me know! i want to be normal! :( :( what should i do to test if i have discharge or not? im confused!

September 1, 2009 at 1:51 am
(504) Shennel says:

Well, im 12 turning 13 September 19th….
I Have my period…i had it since i was 11 in grade 6.

Dont rush it, trust me when you have it you will want to go back to the times u didnt have it! So be happy with what u got now!

September 1, 2009 at 5:13 am
(505) Sophie says:

p.s if u wanna talk about it add me on alisonreeks1@btinternet.com and we can talk about it on msn. lol just to make u feel a bit better. i have calmed down about it and learnt that stressing over it isnt gonna make it come faster. lol

September 3, 2009 at 10:43 am
(506) SOS says:

Hey Sophie:
I’m pretty sure it’s 6 months to a year after vaginal discharge before getting your period. i have not heard about 2 years but it might be possible.
and i don’t know about the discharge either. is it really obvious to tell or will it just look sort of like pee?? i feel embarrassed talking about it with my mom or sister or anyone for that matter!

September 4, 2009 at 11:45 am
(507) emilyy says:

Okayy i defintly agree qith everyone! i am 14 going to be a freshman next week and still no period…. I have no idea what to do! All of my friends have it except fof one but she is s skinny and flat! so it is normal. I have the biggest boobs in my friend group and no period. All my friends think there is something wrong i am about to tell them i got it even though i didnt. But i swear if my other friend gets it before me i will die!

September 4, 2009 at 6:31 pm
(508) faked it says:

i faked it i was teired of hearing my friends say oh i have craps so they siad did u have urs yet so i said yes like 4 months ago
so now i carry pads that i stoll from my sister in my bag and a bottle of red paint mixed with water so when i take it off or sometimes put it on it looks like u got it !!!!!!!!!! it works but dont do it if u really want it it made me feel better but once u say it to one person you can never take it back

September 6, 2009 at 12:42 am
(509) I don't get it says:

I dont get y almost all of u want ur period because a lot of the times u have really bad cramps not all people do but some people do. One of my friends had such bad cramps one day at school that she went home because the pain! I just dont get it….i want my period but y cant u just get ur period without all of the cramps and nausea and all that good stuff. im 12 almost 13 and i have all the signs and i have been having discharge for it seems like forver!but i get that all of u want your period to feel more mature but im just saying its a pain :) …..and not to make u scared but if u get ur period and u have sex its possible u cld have a baby so its one more thing to worry about…. i hope this helped u a little :) :)

September 6, 2009 at 1:46 am
(510) Gina says:

heyy everyonnee!
I’m 15 years old and im turning 16 soon! i still dont have my period. and of coarse im really worried but the thing is, is that im realllly tinnyy. so that y i prob dont have it. all my friends have it and they always talk about there periods & im always left out. but hopefully it will come. if there are any tips on getting ur period faster or somthing pllzzzz leet me knoooww! :) ill be reaaaallly happpppyyyy!:) thanks so much everyone and girls im sure we are all okay it is just our bodies! our bodies are smart! :) and so are wee stay strong girllss!! :)

September 6, 2009 at 10:39 am
(511) Sophie says:

Hey! its sophie again! my best friend slept at mine last night and she was on hers this month, she started ages ago and she is younger than me by 3 and abit months. turns out i do have discharge but i cant remember how long i have had it for lol. im just worried that when it does happen, i wont know wot to do coz i dont have any towels or anythin. i dont know were to get them from! plus i dont know who to talk to coz i dont have a mum and im embarrased to tell my nan and, i know it sounds weird n everytihin but i told my best friend that i had started coz i didnt want to feel embarrased. mwe share everythin but when it comes to this type of thing i get embarrased. i want it to come quick so i dont have to lie to her anymore. i dont like liying to her. plz help me!!

September 6, 2009 at 2:16 pm
(512) Sophie says:

omg i just found out then that my friend who is in the year below me started 10 days ago! oh this is an embarresment!

September 6, 2009 at 3:51 pm
(513) Sophie says:

ok if i write any more comments about it its gonna look like im over reacting. lol. anyway i wanted to ask you a question. will exercise help me get it faster?? or is there anything else that will help me get it faster??? im gonna be 14 next year on the 24th march and as i said before i just found out my friend started 10 days ago and she is in the year below me. she is gonna be 13 in 6 days! i feel so imature and not grown up! im gonna tell u how she started but we wanted to lose wieght lol, dont know why. anyway, we ran for 10 minutes and that night when she got home she had started! so i was wondering does exercise make it start faster, coz some people are saying that. plz tell me! if you are reading this plz leave me a comment or add me on msn alisonreeks1@btinternet.com. help me!!!

September 9, 2009 at 4:14 pm
(514) rebekah says:

hello ladyies

you know what i absouloutely feel exactley the same way as all of you. i feel left out and really quite alone. i have every sign there is. my boobs are a 34d for gods sake! its like its purposely not starting for some reason. i freqeuntly cry uncontollably about it at night. do you ever feel like screaming at people who have started before you? because i do. a few months ago i found blood in my pants i was over the moon i was literally jumping for joy. it stopped the same day. this was in june, its now september and no sign of another one. it would make me happier than anything im not sure why. all my friends say you dont want it but the point is i really do. its so nice to finally have met some more people who feel exactly the same way. please talk to me about it on
because i would really like to support and be supported by others

September 9, 2009 at 6:14 pm
(515) casey says:

at eleven LOL!!!!

September 12, 2009 at 2:21 pm
(516) Anna says:

The thing is, you don’t want your period. Hell. I’m suffering from cramps at this very second. It’s horrible. You lose appetite, you feel moody… I mean, who really cares if you don’t have it? In highschool, no one notices if you have it or not. Cause no one really cares in general. Don’t try and tear yourself down, it’s nothing special.

September 13, 2009 at 1:30 am
(517) kinda-scared. says:

omg. im kinda scared cuz im almost 11 (and in 5th grade)and my mom got her period when she was 11 and i have maybe a little more than 1/2 the signs there are. and im almost an 32A (btw im just starting to get boobs .. kinda)and i have some hair down there but not that much (if you know what i mean) . and my best friend got her period in late may and shes almost 11 and she has size like 34A. and ive had a BIG growth-spirt((i used to be really small and short(like the smallest in the grade)) im a size womans 5 1/2 in shoes and im 4 foot 8 inches. im pretty tall for my grade and i wear a bra. my mom doesent really talk about puberdy or anything. but today i tried to show her i need a padded bra but she didnt say anything. and i think im gonna get my period soon cuz ive had a lot of cramps lately, ive been really really really moody and i have a little bit of discharge. but im afaid ill get my period during school. and i dont have like any paintie liners or anything just in case. :( and i need to shave my legs but my mom won’t let me and hasent really talked to me about it yet. but ive resurched a lot and im just gonna be paicent and get it when i get it. and i dont need to worrie cuz im only 10 but anyway….

bye :(

September 13, 2009 at 10:47 am
(518) Sophie says:

is there any signs that tell you when it is coming soon???

September 16, 2009 at 12:57 pm
(519) periodless says:

i feel the same way, im 13 and a half and have all the signs but armpitt hair my boobs are developing im a 30-32A but not as much as others. i have a close circle of bestfriends (5) and all of them exept me and one other have started, the last few months my other friend who hasnt started (lets call her A) has had a growth spurt and getting moody and god knows how i will react if A starts it before me, i bring pads into school and everytime i get a bit of discharge i hope its my period, just the feeling of slipping the pad into my pants will make me feel well like a women. I have the signs one a month i get pms and cramps help do you have to have armpit hair to strt your period, thanks

September 16, 2009 at 1:14 pm
(520) periodless says:

omg after writing that post i went to the toilet, and to my suprise i felt this gushing feeling and i started, just about to go to the shops to buy pads so many to choose from hope you all start soon, i already feel like a woman, :) xx

September 18, 2009 at 12:51 pm
(521) stephanie says:

ok so im 13, all myfriends at school have there period, but i dont. i have discrages like every day? is that normal? and iv been getting cramps, so am i getting my period soon ????

September 18, 2009 at 5:03 pm
(522) Hannah says:

Well lately all of my friends have got their period. But i am older than most of them i am 11 turning 12 in a month. i have had discaharge for a year and a half. i want my period really bad!!

September 18, 2009 at 5:06 pm
(523) Hannah says:

Ya this is hannah again. i wear a 32a bra, have pubic hair, and have discharge. why havent i started yet?? can anyone tell me???

September 19, 2009 at 12:30 pm
(524) Lizzy says:

I have read you will start your period 6 months after you start having discharge. Then explain to me why i have had discharge for 11 months?

September 19, 2009 at 12:51 pm
(525) Hannah says:

Why won’t anyone leave comment? i need an answer!! PLEASE!!!

September 19, 2009 at 1:57 pm
(526) Rebekah says:

I am 11 years old. I will turn 12 in about a month and i really want my period to start. My mom started when she was 11 1/2. And my 2 older sisters started when they were 12. But my mom said i developed earlier than them. So i should have my period by now. I have had discharge for 11 months like Lizzy. I am pubic hair and armpit hair, wear a 32a bra. I got both of those 2 years ago!! I excercise regualarly and eat pretty healthy. I had my groth spurt already (my doctor told me).And I weigh 95 pounds. Thats EVERY sign!! why haven’t i gotten it yet??

September 19, 2009 at 6:45 pm
(527) Andrea says:

Ladies Ladies!! Trust me you DON’T want your period. Because the only time you will want your period is when you want to be a mother and your all to young for that. So just be patient. And i know from expierence that you will regret saying the things you are now. Because trust me having your period sucks. unless you like felling bloating, constant headaches, and cramping.

Not having your period is best time of your life so cherish it!!!!

September 20, 2009 at 12:10 am
(528) kinda-scared. says:

its me again………..
i still want my period!!!!!! :(

ive been really really really moody lately :( …. im 10 1/2 going on 11 in march :)

September 20, 2009 at 4:58 pm
(529) Unknown says:

Hey guys, I know how u feel, I’m twelve, I know thts an early age to want a period, but I really want it… All my friends have it, and I don’t! But guys to make u feel a bit better, when u think about it, it’s just one more thing to worry about! Still tho, can anyone help me!? I wear a 34B bra, and have had discharge for about a year… HELP

September 20, 2009 at 8:16 pm
(530) Gxncjgdot says:

I was finnally 14 when i starter mine 2 months before my 15th birthday i was at ny friends and i had no extra underwear or pads i went to school and went to the nurse but trust me you girls i was like you i wanted mine i couldent wait but now i wish i wouldent gave had it its gross and disgusting soo your soo lucky you’ll start soon just exersize alot and eat healthy foods

September 21, 2009 at 2:52 pm
(531) Prudence says:

hey girlies!
I am almost fourteen and I know it’s natural to get your peiod later, but I’m completely flat and feel like a baby when my friends talk about all of this kind of stuff. I hate being made fun of for this! Is there any way some one can email me or leave a comment below about things you can do to get bigger boobs or even get your period? Thats sounds really lame but I don’t know who to talk to. dearprudence27@gmail.com

September 21, 2009 at 2:59 pm
(532) Willsomeonehelp? says:

hey girlies!
I completely feel your pain. I’m almost fourteen and i know it’s natural to get your period later sometimes, but i kind of want it to fit in and feel better about myself. I feel left out when my friends talk about all that stuff and i feel like a little kid. I’m also completely flat to go along with that and I’m tired of being made fun of. will some body email me or leave a comment below about ways to get bigger boobs or your period… if thats even possible. dearprudence27@gmail.com

September 21, 2009 at 6:37 pm
(533) Amy :D says:

Hey! I’m Amy and I haven’t had my period either.
I’m 12 yrs old and I feel sooooo left out at my school.I’ve had all the signs about it starting,
and I still haven’t got it. ALL of my classmates
except for me and another girl have gotten it.
My mom says she got hers late but I still cry
at night. Even my best friend has proboboly a
34b. I always compare myself to her. plz help!!!

September 21, 2009 at 6:41 pm
(534) Amy :D says:

people are like plants, some shoot up like weeds,and some are slow like fruit trees.
In the end,the fruit trees are worth more.

September 21, 2009 at 10:21 pm
(535) tali says:

i am sooo mad my friend is bigger boobs than me and she thinks they r really big so she went to the pink store and got a bra 2 weeks later she said it did not fit her! it was a 34 a , i looked like it barley fit her so i said hey that looks like it fits fine and she said r u kidding me it dose not fit at all it is too big u would not no cuse u have the smallest boobs i got so madd at her cuse i had it b4 her and her boobs were bigger
an mine wont sprout!!!!!! i gtg ttyl !!!! bu bi and good luck with period stuff it helps to eat so and milk!!!!

September 22, 2009 at 5:15 pm
(536) Sarah says:

I am in high school now and almost 15. My sister had it when she was 11, and my mom 13. I have had discharge for 3 years, and am tired of the ” every girl has her own time” speech. I’m trying hard to find a girl in my grade who looks like she hasn’t had it yet, but I am having a LOT of trouble… I bled when I was 9, but nothing happened after that. Very frustrating.

September 22, 2009 at 5:16 pm
(537) Sarah says:

Also, being flat at almost 15 isn’t very fun either XD

September 24, 2009 at 1:27 pm
(538) grr says:

I’m so angry! Why hasn’t it come? I mean, okay, I’m a heck of a lot less stressed than a while ago, but I’m in year 10 (14-14 years old), and Im 15 in 4 months!
I guess I could say I have speed bumps, but thats it! I mean, I have the cruddy parts of puberty. More spots, more grease and large mood swings. But, well, none of the good parts like boobs, or being able to actually say “oh yeah. I got my period” yadda yadda.
Yes yes, I know. We need to take our time. We shouldn’t rush these things. We’re lucky. and all the rest of that rubbish, but c’mon. Don’t you know how frustrating it is?

September 24, 2009 at 7:36 pm
(539) Julia says:

I’m 15 going on 16 in febuaray and still haven’t gotten my period :(
i know i hear people say you don’t want it but i do want it, not to fit in, just to know that i can be normal and stuff
i have all the signs
i’m 5’3 103 lbs
i’ve had discharge for 2-3 years ;(
my mom got it when she was 14 and i’m a bit worried
although at the same time its nice not to have it because i don’t have to worry about pads and stuff
but what i’m really scared about is getting it in school and not being propared >o<

September 26, 2009 at 5:55 pm
(540) dont worry about it says:

listen ive read that all of yall havent got yall period and thats good cause yall dont want it and most yall want it b/c yall think if yall have it yall would be okay but trust you dont want it know you really dont just have fun with the time you have thats period free think about what ive said and just be happy and when yall get it yall all are going to i wish i didnt have it just as bad as you said i wish i ve had it your gonna wanna un wish your wish just take it from me i should know

September 28, 2009 at 4:22 pm
(541) Summer Rausz says:

why do you girls want your period soo bad, its not really fun. you can’t really do the things you do now with your period, you cant swim in pools, (you can with a tampon) but’s it uncomfortable you have to change every 4 hours, and at night.. wash the tough stains if it go’s through the pads. It’s fun i mean it may let you know your maturing but it’s not really fun! I never got mines yet and IM GLAD :) im 13 btw

September 29, 2009 at 1:51 pm
(542) Sophie again! says:

its me again. i get discharge about 2 or 3 times a day and i can always feel it in my underwear. its very sticky and clear and i was wondering if the discharge changes before your period??? im confused though coz some people say that sleeping properly and eating properly helps but some say that it doesnt help at all and your body does it when its ready. im confused!!! help me!!! i really want to start my period coz i want to be normal! my best friend got it last year and she is like 3 months younger than me! :( also, is it 6 months or 2 years after you get discahrge that you start your period??? plz answer if you know! :( :(

September 29, 2009 at 3:01 pm
(543) Tess says:

I just got my period and i get dishcnage or wht ever its calle everyday and its really bad it feels like im peeing in my pants when i get it and it lookes awfull so i never wear black underwear plz help me i dont know when i will get my next period and really want to know have been waiting now for 2 months!!!!!

October 4, 2009 at 2:29 pm
(544) Lizzie says:

I’ve had my period since about October/November of last year… Trust me, you don’t want to have your period. Though I’m one of the lucky ones that doesn’t have stomach cramps, it’s still annoying.

October 4, 2009 at 8:43 pm
(545) slaaaaaaaaag says:

you dont wont your period! its so baddd btw, ive had my for ageees now and trust me they are horrible painful things

October 5, 2009 at 2:40 pm
(546) Sophie says:

i have very sticky white discharge and alot of it. its normally twice a day and sometimes 3 times day what does that mean??? plz tell me. it would be a big help. by the way, i dont really know how long i have had discharge but i know i have had it for at least 1 month. i think i av had it for longer though im not sure. plz answer me!

October 5, 2009 at 2:52 pm
(547) Sophie says:

plus i do have some of the signs : discharge and pubic hair.I wouldnt say i have boobs but i wouldnt say im flat chested, im a 30a. I’m not sure wether i have armpit hair or not lol haha. coz all my hair is blonde and i have tiny little armpit hairs but i cant really see them coz they are bolnde. i can feel them though haha

October 6, 2009 at 9:59 am
(548) heretohelp says:

Girls i feel your pain but i think i have it bad. I am 15 and i still havent started my period. i am so desprate to start. I cry myself to sleep at night because i dont feel like a real girl. i am 32A and my boobs only just fit in the bra. I am embarrased to be seen in a bikini! I have pubic hair: legs, genital and over the past 2 months i have started getting it under my armpits. 7 months ago i was in PE (last lesson) and when i got home and went to the toilet i had a dark red blood stain(the size of a 1 pence piece)in my knickers. But since then i have only had really heavy thick discharge every now and then. Somedays its been so bad it has come out of my knickers. Also i have had discharge for over 4 years :S But im still wondering why i havent had a regular period. I get pains around my fallopian tube area every now and then. I think i might make an appointment with the doctor beacause i really think i have a problem can someone help me please!

October 6, 2009 at 7:33 pm
(549) person5 says:

so im 13 and 1/2 and today my bff told me that she had gotten her period. and i havn’t i dont really know what to do. im in the eight grade i am 32a i have had discharge for 2 and 1/2 years. i have armpit hair and pubic hair but no period. i just dont want to be the only girl in my grade that dosn’t have it yet. comment please

October 6, 2009 at 8:28 pm
(550) alan's girl says:

im 12 and i have already started wat i did was i just played alot of sports and was active and it made it start faster

October 7, 2009 at 6:46 pm
(551) I UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!! says:

hey me again (my other comments were 363 and 369 please read my other comments it will help).I’m 13 and 1/2 years old and in grade 8. In my other comments I said I didn’t have my period..but I got it this summer. I just stopped stressing over it and then one day BAM! it just came. My first period lasted 9 days straight and was pretty heavy. I didn’t get alot of cramps. I got my period in August and it is now the begining of October. My second period (if you can even call it that) was about a week late. It only lasted a couple days and it was just a few blood spots in my underwear. I like didn’t even need a pad. I still didn’t get my third period and it should have come by now. I’m starting to get a few cramps so i’ll probably get in a few days. My mom says what i’m going threw is completly normal and that the first few months are always irregular. Getting my period wasn’t that bad at all. Sure you get a few cramps and stuff from time to time but it’s a releif since all my friends have it and I don’t feel all alone and wishing it will come.

For you girls that were like me and really want it, just stop stressing over it. It will come when you don’t expect it to and when the time is right. It doesn’t change your life or anything. And if your nervous and don’t want to get it at school just always have a pad with you. The first time it comes theres not enough blood to go threw your pants or anything so stay calm!

Well I hope I helped the most I can! Keep replying girls it really helped me and i’m sure it helps everyone else! Stayin touch!

Have a happy period and remeber there are a bunch of girls out there going threw the same problems as you so your never alone!

:) Good luck!

October 7, 2009 at 7:15 pm
(552) I UNDERSTADN!!!!!!!!!! says:

hey me again! (my other comments were 363 and 366) Every girl gets there period at different ages and at different times. So don’t freak out and think you have a problem if someone yonger than you gets it first. I’m not sure exactly what stage in puberty you have to be in to get it or what size boobs you got to have or whatever. But I’m thirteen and I got my period almost 2 months ago. I had discharge for a couple years, I already shaved my legs and armpits, i had size 32-34A bra (a little big for me thow)and I had plenty of pubic hair. my mom got it at 12 almost 13 years old. So that’s just to give you an idea ofwhen you night get it but remeber every giris different! A girl in my class has pretty big boobs (like B-C or something)and last time we talked she didn’t have it yet.

October 8, 2009 at 4:04 pm
(553) Erica says:


October 9, 2009 at 7:12 am
(554) ino says:

heya girls i am 11 12 on the 15th i got mine when i was nine !!!!!!!!!!!!!!really girls u dont want it i got mine in school so embarracing :0 but i used to always frink soy milk when i was 9 so i think thats what made it come so i hope it helps girls that are 11 12 13 its not just going to happen u have to wait paitently i hope it works for you all

October 9, 2009 at 7:43 pm
(555) girlyface342 says:

i am six and i really want my period too i have got all the signs but nothing is happening. you know what feels good mesrubating i took my tooth brush and did it . sooo gooood!

October 10, 2009 at 2:20 am
(556) Bean says:

woah, your 6. im kinda wondering, what the heck are you doing on this site? (no offence, sorry) ummm, yeah, the tooth brush thing does feel good. but i still think your a little youg to be wanting your period. i mean, your like, in the first grade. do you really want to have blood run dow… never mind. Anyways, yeah, it’ s me again. i was like somewhere in the 300′s. Still no peirod, still want it. but good news, im super happy because i went from 34A to 34B! yeah!!!

October 15, 2009 at 11:05 pm
(557) Rachel says:

hey girls i know your all anxious to get our periods i was the same way! i used to pray that itwould come sooner until the night i got it when iwas 11 i prayed it would go away! but everyones different and your bodies will develop, along with your period coming. just be PATIENT & dont wish sand wait for it to come because that will only make things worse, and makeit seem longer. If you dcont pay attention and just not worry about it it will come i promise you. you all should be happy oyu dont hav to deal with pms and zits on your face beofre your period, trust me its no fun at all but yeah just be patient an dit will come. & btw the 13 year old girl wishing for a baby please STOP a babyis that lastthing you should want at your age in gona be 16 & cant even think about bewing a mom yet so plz just enjoyy your teen yearss and be patient

October 16, 2009 at 3:42 pm
(558) NICOLE! :D says:

Hey Girls,
Im 13 years old and i got my period a few months ago. At first i was really jealous about all of the girls who had it and stuff. I would always read all of your guys’s comments and wish i had it. Out of all my friends there was only 3 people without it. I had discharge for 3 years and boobs for 3 years before i got it.Reading all of these comments made me feel better.
Before i got my period i got brown discharge for 3 days. I was at my dads house when i first got it. I was shaking when i had to tell him becouse i was so scared. It only lasted for 4 days the first time. I only had blood in my pad too not in my pee. I really sucked cause i was going on a trip and we were going to go swimming. i didnt want to use a tampon though.
I got my period again 20 days later!!! :( i went away with my family for the weekend too and they could hear me changing my pad cause to was so loud.
Now i started my period for the third time and i am starting to wish i didnt have it because i have no pms or anything. Yesterday i was watching a soccer game and i could feel it leeking through my pants i had a pad on too. There was no bathrooms nearby and i had to wear a blanket all day. then there was a dance at my school the next night and i leeked through my jeans when i was grinding a really cute guy. then today i was going to the bathroom at lunch to change my pad and i dropped it. i lied saying it wasnt mine but everyone had seen me drop it. I am on a swim team so i need to learn to use a tampon but i dont want to.
i was thinking of how lucky i felt to have my period because that means you can have a baby some day. But i really dont like it anymore and i just wish it woulld stop. It smells bad and i feel like everyone knows when im on it. If i could do something to make it stop i would. so whoever wants it thats okay!!! cause its not a bad thing. afterall you an most likely have a baby. i felt the same as you less than 3 months ago but now when i read your comments im jealous of the people who havent had it yet because its not fun theres nothing fun about it at all!!! so just remember this and i will bet you anything that after you have your period you will believe mee <3

October 17, 2009 at 3:50 pm
(559) Emma says:

Im emma, im 13 and got my period 4 months ago i was suprised when i got it cause i didnt feel more mature or more like a woman. it actually made me feel more uncomfortable when i was on it. It ruins everytihing i hate it so much. Trust me, you dont want your period until you are 15 or 16!!!!! now i wish i would get it when im 16

October 17, 2009 at 6:40 pm
(560) Hahaha:) says:

Hey girls i understand what all of you are saying. im 11 going on 12. almost all of my friends have started their period and i know everyone says “oh you dont want it it hurts…blah blah blah…” But they probably dont remember them wanting it when they didnt have it. Well i hope that help tell you it perfectly normal to want it:)

October 18, 2009 at 6:25 pm
(561) Anxious says:

okay i really really want it. BAD

October 18, 2009 at 6:30 pm
(562) Mrs.Time says:

I want my period to happen some time soon. I know that it will hurt and be painful, but feeling left out hurts too. I am 13 and literally all my friends have theirs. When the all are like I am gunna start in a week or something, it makes me feel excluded. I am thankful that i am only 13, and I should not complain, because I have read all the older girls stories. And to all the kids under twelve. STOP COMPLAINING! You girlies are really really young. You shouldn’t be worrying. It will happen when it happens. I am only a 34 A and hope to start growing. I have all the symptoms but haven’t starting. I will try to update when i do get it. Thanks for all these comments.

October 19, 2009 at 12:41 pm
(563) ...L0L... says:

i got my period at 11 now im 14
To help people ill give some tips-
if you have breasts devoleped public hairs got head aches mood swings tummyaches VERY much discharge then you will get it any day.
if not then just forget about it an if you feel left out from youre friends then ask them what its like when it first starded and then you will not feel left out.EVERYBODY IS DIFFRENT i mean its bad to be last but alwso bad when youre first.if youre 16 and dont ahve it then go to a docter, if youre 14-15 then just be passiont

IF youre period happens at school and you dont have a pad ask a friend or fold up toilet paper does the same thing,if it happens in middle of class then ask if you can go to the bathroom.

let mother nature have a rest and stop stressing youre body will get it when its ready to get it and eat healthy and do sport will make it come faster Oh and drink tons of garlic tea i heard it makes youre period come very soon.

all kids of under 13 who want it GET OVER IT i had it at 11 and so many people made fun of me I HATED HAVING IT not the cramps but the imbarassment.

October 23, 2009 at 11:33 am
(564) Blah says:

okay so guys, i am seventeen, and i hadnt started mineby last year, so the doc gave me a medicine to make i start. and it did. and now i wish i wouldnt have had it rushed because now i seems like i’m always on my period at the worst times. like prom! and when i went on vacation to hawaii i was on it the whole time so i couldnt swim in the ocean because sharks are attracted to the smell of blood. so girls, just be patient. let nature take its course. you will start it when your body is ready.

October 23, 2009 at 3:50 pm
(565) JustChill says:

Girls, girls! I know I sound old by saying this but so be it. I don’t see why everyone WANTS a period. They’re not fun at all. Everyone of my friends that I have talked to hate it. Growing up is fun but what is with the 11-year-olds wanting periods??! Just wait and enjoy the time you have without it.

October 26, 2009 at 3:41 pm
(566) silvia parodi says:

hi my name is Silvia and i really scared because i going turn 20 next year and i never have my period yet so if pleaseeeeeeeeee somebody can explain me what can i happen to me if i still don’t having my period

October 26, 2009 at 9:41 pm
(567) unnamed says:

Hey this is to the last comment. Very rarely some woman do not ever get their period and that might be your case, if you haven’t already you should check with a doctor to see.

October 28, 2009 at 6:12 pm
(568) lexi says:

actually,my problem is the total opposite,im 12 and i started when i was 11,i wuz in science class and it bled thru my pants!!!!! so i then had 2 borrrow a friends jacket,tell my science teacher(thnk god shes a girl),go 2 the nurses office,and call my mom,but of course she couldnt pick me up,so i had 2 get a ride frm another friend,im soooooooooo embarassed!!!!!! i fell like an idiot,and this totally sux!!!! trust me u dont wanna start ur period,ull get cramps,act like a bitch all the time,u cant eat ice cream,u cant swim,itll hurt even more if u eat any thing cold or if u stay in the cold,u cant run or else itll hurt,and u mite have 2 put a blanket or towel under u when u sleep if u bleed ALOT like me.

October 29, 2009 at 8:32 pm
(569) It's a secret help.:) says:

Okay girls, don’t worry. I’m 13 & started at a late 12. I was so humiliated becasue I was the olny one that hadent started, well, dont worry. You will, you will start getting hurt about thing’s eaiser & seeing things that you havent really seen in you’r pannies befor! Ha, dont freak! If you feel like it’s time, start wearing pannie liner’s. Becasue you’r first time, is never heavyy. So, you probly won’t bleed through.

October 31, 2009 at 4:35 pm
(570) booby advice says:

alright, im 14 and in high school with no period. yea i wish i had it, thats why i googled it and found this website. anyways i also looked at some thing to naturally enhance your boob size. There are herbs that you can eat and they will be sure to help, they are red clover and saw palmetto…also pushups will do wonders. the site also suggested lots of fruits and veggies so good luck!!!

November 1, 2009 at 11:46 am
(571) Sophie says:

hi its me again :) my last comment was 547. i still dont have my period yet :( :( i feel like crying :( its annoying coz everyone else has it and i dont :( im gonna be 14 in march. by the way this message is probably gonna be long but please read anyway :) thank you :)

i was wondering, does your discharge change before you start your period coz mine is like white and strechy. i do excersice alot and eat lots of fruit but i dont really like vedgtables lol :) i like peas n potatoes though :) but if i had to eat vedgtables i would. i dont HATE them.

I have had discharge for at least 2 months… well thats how long i can remeber anyway but how long does it take to start once you have discharge??

im worried though coz i dont have many signs :s. i have :
discharge , my boobs have ONLY JUST started growing(im only a size 30aa :( ( ), i have tiny little armpit hairs and not many hairs down there. i just wanna start my period!

if anybody has any answers please help me!

November 1, 2009 at 7:20 pm
(572) charlotte says:

Yeaah im 12 , 13 in december.. and i wnt my period bad too. Ive been getting discharge its white sometimes and then clear. ive got pubic hair and hardly any armpit hair. my boobs are small ( 28a alsmot 30a ) sometimes i get stomach ache and stitches in my side and sometimes my boobs ache when i wake up in the morning.
Hellpp :(

November 2, 2009 at 9:46 am
(573) charlotte says:

Hey sophie . im not an expert because i dont even have my period yet. Ive researched for you and ere are some signs you should defo look for
:Armpit hair
:P ubic hair
:Boob development
:Growth spurts
:D ischarge
:Sore breasts

If when you get discharge it turns a green or has a foul odor Contact a doctor as there could be an infection.
Ik it might not be useful but i hope it helps anyway

November 2, 2009 at 2:24 pm
(574) SOS says:

Hey everyone!
I still havent gotten my period yet (my first comment was 488). I check this site every now and then to try to help everyone else since this site helped me.
For Sarah (536), I know EXACTLY how you feel! Im going to be 15 too and im flat! I always feel like all the older girls are staring at me in the halls.
The other day we were at Costco and i went with my sis who is 16 (only a year and a half older!!) to try a cake sample. The lady gave her a piece but when i went up she said “You need a parent with you” and my sis was like “oh im with her” and she just said “oh ok!” I was sooo embarrassed!!! Im in 9th grade for crying out loud!

But for all of you who want some help, my health teacher told us that a girl’s body knows she is ready when she is over 100 pounds so she has enough to support a child.

Hope i helped!

November 2, 2009 at 10:23 pm
(575) jaxxs says:

im 13 i gots all the signs but nothin else.im kinda scared. so im wth yall on that all my mates have got theres. kinda freaky huh?

November 4, 2009 at 3:57 pm
(576) SOS says:

me again! I recently heard that you get your period around the same time as people you are close to and hang out with. like my sis and her friends usually get theirs around the same time.
idk if that means that the 1st time you get it is around the same time or that when you start getting it monthly it falls around the same time but i think its the monthly one because all my friends seem to have theirs.

just trying to help! ;)

November 5, 2009 at 2:11 pm
(577) i feel your pain! says:

omg i’m 13 about to turn 14 on november 17 but i got my period about 7 or 8 months ago and trust me it’s not as simple as it seems!!! but i do understand where your coming from!!!

November 5, 2009 at 5:37 pm
(578) I says:

just relax!!!! you get your period between the ages of 11-16! im 13 and i got mine last year! once you have it you will wish you never did.

November 7, 2009 at 9:34 pm
(579) charlotte says:

I feel like punchin something ! i am so fustrated. my bessie tells me my periods should be on their way and they dont seem to happen
Im 12 but i might see a doc and ask if there is any suprises i can look out for

November 9, 2009 at 4:22 pm
(580) Like, What? says:

Okay, so I want to know whats happening. I haven’t got my period yet or owt, but my breasts (especially the top muscles close to my shoulders and around there). Why? They also hurt when there is light pressure on them. Just thought someone would know :p

November 9, 2009 at 11:52 pm
(581) Kenna says:

Okay girlllss, listenn. I’m 12. I got it when I was 11! Forr all you guys that are likee, 11, 12, or 13, and worried about “fitting in”, you don’t need to be. Nobody checks ur underwear everyday? Nobody knows when you have it? So how does having your period help you fit in? Reallyy? And if most of ur friends have it and u don’t, don’t worry! It’ll come sooner or later! Just chillll outt. I don’t really understandd why you guys would want it, it sucks. Trust meee. !!!!!!! And if your worried about where ur gonna get it, just carry some pads or tampons around with you wherever you go if your having signs. It’s better to be safe than sorry. Hope I helped! (:

November 10, 2009 at 6:00 pm
(582) nina says:

Ok all you young girls i totally understand where your coming from i remember when i was 12 and 13 how much i desperately wanted mine. now im 17 and i STILL havent gotten it yet and honestly im glad. I dont want it at all now that the excitement of all my friends and classmates has worn off everyone really hates it. The only thing that makes me annoyed is my younger sister recently got hers and im not jealous im just frustrated bc its soo embarassing and awkward. I mean, i hate being so much older and still not having it but i mean you have it for like 50 years of your life so seriously if I can wait as long as possible thats better for me….
comment if you agree or disagree or have helpful advicee! thanks

November 11, 2009 at 5:55 pm
(583) megan Gordon says:

r u guys crazy i used to want my period until i got it wen i was 12 and now tht im going on 16 i wish it never came u now have to deal with cramps and worries about being pregant its no fun trust me i mean who wants to bleed all day

November 14, 2009 at 6:58 pm
(584) agreed says:

omg i so want my period, me and my bff are like both flat and want our periods but they never come, i don’t want her to get it before me and i don’t want her to wear a bra before me, that sounds mean but it is true, and i know how people think it is a disaster and it probably will be the worst thing ever but i still want it! god life is so stressful!

November 16, 2009 at 4:55 pm
(585) flatchestedfreak says:

oh my god. i’m fourteen, and i have no period. i’m seriously flatchested yeah, i have discharge too
my mum and sister got theirs at 13
and they both had smallish boobs but bigger than mine!
and its the most annoying thing in the world, people saying ‘you don’t want it it’s a pain’ cos you don’t get what its like!! and it just seems like you’re showing off tbh.

November 16, 2009 at 5:03 pm
(586) flatchestedfreak says:

plus, me and my best friend used to be in it together, cos we were both flat with no period. shes still flat but she’s had 2 periods now :’( and i think i’m the only one in my form who hasn’t started!!

November 16, 2009 at 9:30 pm
(587) A.S.F.M. says:

Ok, you pre teens and teenagers, your becoming adults, don’t worry about your period or boobs, it ll happen, it might take forever, but itll happen, be happy that you can go swimming without sticking something up ur vagina, I hated haveing to do that , it hurt me the first time I did it, because I did not know how to put it in, the tampon was cardboard, now they have the plastic applicators and those are alot more easy to put in (if your vagina opening is tight) anyway, I heard soy products can delay your period and might even make you infertile, not to scare those who love soy, but if you have been takin them soy products alot, stop, try to diversify your diet, eat greens, different fruits-kiwi, passionfruit (whole) broccoli, milk with a and d vitamins, eat ramen noodles (this helped me with my boobs) and exercise only three or four days a week, dont overdo it though, try meditation this is great if you are stressed from school okay. Another thing I read is KFC causes you to have too many hormones being secreted causing some girls to ge t their period early. My family ate KFC, but I am 32 and I did not find out about this research study until I was 30, and I started my menses when I was 11, so go figure…if you have a bf this is even better because the attraction and emotions you have help you regulate your cycle if it is puppy dog love and you guys like eachother in a friend type way
let me see, I think that is it
look in the mirror and tell urself something good, this might sound lame, but it works
alot of people do this to help them to feel better about themselves
have fun being a teen, you only get to be there once even if it is an emotional rollercoaster, have fun with your buddies in school or after school, and dont get stressed out too much this is bad for you, cramps are horrible so those of you who dont get your period until later, be thankful, cramps-they almost feel like some one is stabbing you in your ovaries, at least this is what it feels like to me.
:) any more questions, email me: mondrag7@live.com

November 19, 2009 at 2:16 pm
(588) Lucy says:

Its amazing to find people who understand me completly -reading all your issues are exactly like mine. I am gagging for mine – Im fourteen nearly fifteen and still havent had mine – its totally embarrassing and All my friends are like oh you dont want it when really they HAVE NO IDEA.

November 19, 2009 at 8:48 pm
(589) Emily says:

hello, sister :)
i got my period when i was 11 or 12 and now i’m 15
luckilly it happened when i was home, but i had it through my whole vacation trip to NASA space center :(

*if you have your period at school, go to the nurse’s office. tell her you think you just started your period and you need a pad. you’ll feel like you wanna crawl into a hole and die, but it’s better than sitting in wet underwear all day
*if you think it stained- eek! how embarassing! tie a jacket around your waist to cover it up
*if you feel cramps- drink pleanty of water, take a hot bath, take advil/pain reliever, exercise
*i think you’re going to be okay ^^

November 20, 2009 at 5:58 pm
(590) Soreness!! says:

Hey there! I’m almost fifteen, no period and flat chested. Dx
But, my breats are beginning to get sore (especially when a light pressure is on them). They’ve been like this for a week. Are they growing? and if so how long untill
A) I can tell they’ve grown
b) I’ll like get discharge and stuff


November 24, 2009 at 1:06 am
(591) Emmaleigh says:

Hey, I’m 13 too and I haven’t had mine yet either. Are you really athletic? I have been in gymnastics for 7 years, and am now in figure skating. Many people had said that being very sporty can delay your period. If you’re not very athletic, you will probably get it sooner or later.

November 24, 2009 at 5:25 am
(592) pricess09 says:

i am 18 and i haven’t started my period in about a year, can i still have babies?

November 24, 2009 at 2:31 pm
(593) ******OMG******* says:

Seriously why an earth do 11 and 12 year olds want to start D:
you do not want to grow up so young seriously
I started when I was 15, and its nothing to worry about.
And if your worried about starting in class, dont! The first time you start it comes out REALLYYYY slow until the day after so it wont matter
just carry ‘stuff’ with you if your around 14 cause you never know
normally the days before you start you get signs…

so honestly dont worry
dont want to grow up so fast x

November 25, 2009 at 10:46 pm
(594) concernidae says:

I’m 15 and still haven’t gotten it.
I’ve learned that it’s most beneficial to your body to worry as little as possible, that way the time passes faster without anticipating your period. Also, you are putting less stress on your body!

Anybody who is under 16…take a deep breath. Once you reach 16, just get a test done…and breath deep too!

November 26, 2009 at 2:31 pm
(595) SOS says:

Hey Soreness (590).
I’m almost 15 too. I’ve written before (just hit ctrl F and search SOS to read my other comments).
I had soreness too before a while ago for about a few weeks. then it went away and i don’t think they have grown. but im not sure – maybe a tiny bit. but still no period.

hope i helped ;)

November 29, 2009 at 12:13 am
(596) madison says:

ok im 12 and i have not started my period and im getting sick of people saying i have started my period and i have big boobs and all that crap i mean PLEASE ?:{::”}{_}{:”
GOSH one time some body poard water with red dye in it on my friends pants she turned around and froged that hoe and now that slut is so afraid cuz her brother beat the hell out of her after makayla got throug with her it wuz HALORUS

November 29, 2009 at 12:17 pm
(597) Sophie says:

Hey. :) its Sophie again.
This message is for “Soreness!!” (message number 590).
I feel the same way as you. I am 13, 14 in march, and i havent got my period yet. My bra size is 30a or 30aa. About 1 and a half year ago, when i was completely flat chested, i noticed by breasts hurt when i put pressure on them. Ever since then they have grown a little.
Also you can tell when they are growing when they tingle or itch.
I also have discharge. I have had it for nearly 3 months. Its very very sticky and white, sometimes clear.
I hoped that helped:) and remember that all girls are different. i hears one girl who only started at 18! so theres nothing to be worried about.
im waiting desperatley to start mine aswell so i guess we are both in the same boat :) lol x

November 30, 2009 at 4:35 pm
(598) Lilly says:

I’m 12, I’m flat chested (I really want bigger boobs too!)and i’ve been having dishcarge for AGES. WHY hasnt my period started yet my mum had hers at 12!!!! HELP!!!!! :(

December 1, 2009 at 3:20 pm
(599) Hailie says:

dont worry

December 2, 2009 at 11:30 am
(600) Shelby says:

Dont worry girls, you should enjoy not having it yet. When you finally do get it you’ll get tired of it quick, haha. Just try to eat healthy foods and excercise regularly.

December 3, 2009 at 10:21 pm
(601) lil mama says:

im 11 and all my friends have thier period but i dnt i cant wait to be so mature

December 5, 2009 at 8:38 am
(602) lellie says:

honestly i really wanted it and now i have it i hate it, just enjoy being free it will come one day and when it does just be sure you have some stuff in your bag :)

December 5, 2009 at 11:05 pm
(603) grr says:

ok. im 14 and 6 months. im pretty flat chested (34a- barely), ive had discharge for wat seems like forever. im 115 pounds and 5 ft 3 in, so its not like im tiny or anything. im a freshman in high school and i STILL HAVENT GOTTEN MY PERIOD!!! my mom got it when she was in 8th grade and she has a later birthday. my sister got it in late 8th grade. help!!!!!

December 7, 2009 at 12:35 am
(604) ??? says:



December 7, 2009 at 9:52 am
(605) Idunno.......:P says:

Heyy ppl!!

iam 11

size 30AA
75 pounds
4 ft 10
underarm hair – 2 month
pubic hair – 4 months
discharge 4 1year


but i probably wont get it till i 12 or 13

i mum got hers a 11 and she was skinnier than me!

December 7, 2009 at 1:17 pm
(606) Sophie again from comment 571 says:

hey :) ok now its starting to look like i am obsessesed with this website because of the amount of comments I have written! lol :) . anyway. i am really started to get annoyed because I keep on waiting and waiting for it to come but it just wont! i feel like crying sometimes. I keep on feeling discharge everyday, but it is just white and very sticky :( . is there anything else i can do to make it come? i am gonna be 14 in march. my friends think i have started but i dont wanna tell them i havent coz i will feel embarrased :( plz. if you are reading this leave me a comment back. but for all you girls who havent started your not alone :) i desperatly wanna start before christmas!! any ideas?

December 7, 2009 at 1:48 pm
(607) lolly (: says:

hey sophie! guess wat i just found out,
if you are a late developer, you live longer!!

there are upsides


December 7, 2009 at 1:48 pm
(608) lolly (: says:

hey sophie! guess wat i just found out,
if you are a late developer, you live longer!!

there are upsides


December 7, 2009 at 1:55 pm
(609) OMG!! says:

Guess what! I just had my period like yesterday!!


You seriously don’t want your period!!!!!


THe discharge stops for a couple of days and there comes the blood waterfall!!

you also get pains right underneath your bellybotton area

PADS SUCK use tampons i did on my first day!!

- with a pantliner just in case

December 7, 2009 at 2:10 pm
(610) Sophie says:

thank you lolly!

December 7, 2009 at 8:41 pm
(611) kate says:

this is my info…wen do u think ill get my period?

11 yrs.(12 in a week!!)pubic hair a year and ahalf underarm hair not sure..quite awhile discharge over a year

plzz tell me wat u think

December 8, 2009 at 7:41 am
(612) lolly (: says:

hey kate,

I think you will get your period in a 2 – 8 months maybe…….

i am not an expert but i think you will have it by then

lolly xx

December 10, 2009 at 1:02 am
(613) Amanda says:

Hey girls,
I am 13 and i still dont have my period either!!!!
I want it rele bad too because all my friends do!!!!
I have read the period info at the bottom of the page and i am definetly past one year of my growth spurt! When will i get mine!!! I have pubic hair and breasts but NO PERIOD!
I feel ur pain other girls!

December 10, 2009 at 8:38 pm
(614) GOLLYGEE??? says:


December 11, 2009 at 3:29 pm
(615) not sure girl says:

hey i turned 12 in sept and i started getting boobs at 11 i hav pubic and al that i hav had discharge for about a year and i hav all the signs like period pain ta can someone please answer when abouts i might get my period.:l


December 11, 2009 at 3:32 pm
(616) im not sure says:

hey i turned 12 in sept and i started getting boobs at 11 i hav pubic and al that i hav had discharge for about a year and i hav all the signs like period pain ta can someone please answer when abouts i might get my period.:l

December 12, 2009 at 4:04 am
(617) Dennis says:

Gals do not worry about all this. read this ()

Puberty normally occurs in a series of five stages (Tanner stages) that typically begin within the ages of 8 and 13 for girls and 9 and 14 for boys. Puberty is consider early (precocious) if it occurs before the age of 8 years in girls and 9 years in boys. And puberty is considered late or delayed if it has not begun prior to the age of 13 years for girls and 14 years for boys. Recent studies have shown that puberty is occurring at an increasingly earlier age in children though.

The first sign of puberty in girls, which occurs at an average age of 10 1/2 years, is breast development (thelarche). This begins with breast budding, or the formation of small lumps or nodules under one or both nipples. These lumps may be tender and they may be different sizes at first. This is usually also the beginning of their growth spurt. Next, in about six months, pubic hair develops (adrenarche), although in some children, pubic hair is the first sign of puberty, and then axillary hair begins to grow. Over the next few years, breast size will continue to increase and there will be a progressive increase in development of pubic hair and the external genitalia, leading to the first period or menarche (occurring at an average age of 12 1/2 to 13 years), which usually occurs about two years after puberty begins and coincides with their peak in height velocity. Development continues and the whole process is completed in 3-4 years, eventually reaching adult breast and areolar size and an adult pattern of pubic hair. A child will have also reached her final adult height about two years after menarche.

Puberty generally begins later in boys, at an average age of 11 1/2 to 12 years. The first sign of puberty in boys is an increase in size of the testicles. This is followed a few months later by the growth of pubic hair. Puberty continues with an increase in size of the testicles and penis and continued growth of pubic and axillary hair. Boys undergo their peak growth spurt about 2-3 years later than girls. Also, this usually begins with an enlargement of the hands and feet and is later followed by growth in the arms, legs, trunk and chest. Other changes include a deepening of the voice, an increase in muscle mass, the ability to get erections and ejaculate (especially spontaneous nocturnal emissions or ‘wet dreams’), and in some boys, breast development (gynecomastia). Development continues and the whole process is completed in 3-4 years, eventually reaching adult testicle and penis size and an adult pattern of pubic hair. This is followed by the development of chest and facial hair. Puberty is also associated with adolescents beginning to have axillary perspiration and body odor, and acne.

December 12, 2009 at 10:59 am
(618) nicole says:

HOLY CRAP this story was wrietten in 2003!!
and for people who started wen they were 9 what size pad did u wear and did u wear tampons.? email me ppl lavenderr77@hotmail.com

December 12, 2009 at 2:20 pm
(619) Marissa says:

Ok you guys should not worry this is natural. though I started mine when i was 12 my best friend didn’t start getting hers until she was fiffteen. this is because of the diet she had. If you eat food with no artifical growth hormone then you won’t get it till you are between the ages of 13-16. It’s normal!

December 15, 2009 at 2:12 am
(620) Younger and Less mature?..... says:

I havent gotten my period either. DRINK GREEN TEA FOR 3 DAYS STRAIGHT!! IT WILL HURT ON DAY 2 BUT YOU WILL GET YOUR PERIOD!!! i am on day 1 so….. i am also pretty much boobless…i wear a bra that is bigger than what i should wear so it looks like i have boobs…i feel really self concious because i have Eczema too so….IT ISNT RED AND ICKY! it is little goosebumps things that are always there.BTW i am 12. send me an email if u kno any ways to get it!! Hopehartmann@hotmail.com. Thanks guys so so much :) it is nice to know there are other people that are like me :)

December 15, 2009 at 9:53 am
(621) lilly says:

ok can you tell me when i might have my period:
im 12, (my mum had hers at 12)
im 4 ft 10 i weigh 6 stone (or 5 and a half :S )i have a
bit of pubic hair no visible underarm hair
can u tell me round about when i will have it

December 15, 2009 at 9:59 am
(622) lilly says:

Can you tell me about when i will have my period plz
im 12 , 28 AA
im 4 ft 10 and weigh about 6 stone
bit of pubic hair no visible underarm hair.
having discharge for a few years!!!

December 17, 2009 at 7:40 pm
(623) laura says:

I understand completely what you mean sophie (606) those are pretty much my same circumstances. From all that I have read you will get it when you least expect to. So forget about it for awhile and maybe you will get it.

December 19, 2009 at 9:19 am
(624) Rund says:

:( im 13 turning 14 in dec 2, im in 8th grade, half of the 6th grgaders i know have had their period and practicaly all the 7th graders and alllll my friends had it. my mom had it when she was 13 and a half, ive been getting dicharge lately and i have made progress with the boobs a little in the passed few months. i feel bloated and have a headache right now (i dunno if my cold has something to do with that). im around 150 cm and ive gained around 14 pounds in the past 6 months, i dunno if thats just me but yeah…….please help me :S is it coming? my first dicharge was about 3 years ago but it only came like once then stopped until 2 months ago.ive had pain in the back before (but it doestn come anymore), my mom says that thats sign of period because she feels the pain in her back when she gets her period. im so embaressed and sad and just wanna mature already :( if you have any advice please comment back…

December 20, 2009 at 7:30 am
(625) boobless+periodlessgirl says:

hey guys, u guys are lucky cuz im already 18 and i still dont get it!!!! i hv very tiny boobs but no period yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wat shud i do? i really want to get it…. :(

December 21, 2009 at 3:04 am
(626) waiting says:

okay, so im 11, and im convinced im a man. haha i know i sound really dumb, but i think that just because i havent started that im a man. i have ALL the signs and i started getting thesigns last summer, and ive read everywhere on here and it says ill start it a year after you have all the signs, and it’s been over a year!!!


December 21, 2009 at 2:00 pm
(627) emily says:

ok yh maybe people wna ‘fit in’ but im 15 and im THE kast girl out of my group of friends in which still havnt sstarted my period. and all u girls are like what, 11 12 13 14 :| seriously. try being 15 and worried. my mum started when she ws 14 and my nan started when she was 12 :| is there ACTUALLY something wrong with me lol? HELP?

December 21, 2009 at 2:03 pm
(628) em says:

ok, im 15.
weigh just over 8 stone.
size 32B and STILL havent strted my period yet my mum strted at 14 and my nan started at 12 :\ HELP?

December 21, 2009 at 3:27 pm
(629) Anonymous says:

I’m 21 years old and have been having periods since i was 11 and let me tell you these periods are not to be taken lightly. If anything i can’t wait till menopause (can wait for the hot flashes though). Just because you have a period it doesn’t make you anymore mature than a 8 year old girl. Act mature and you shall be mature. Having a period just means you’re fertile enough to have children. I prettty sure you 14 year olds do not want any children just yet. Periods put a damper on your life in alot of ways. You have be extremely aware of how you take care of your hygene and what you wear. The pains in your abdomin are no joke either. They can either hospitalize you like mine do or you’ll be lucky if you dont have any pains at all. I’m trying to find a way to make my period come soon because I have a special date and I don’t want to be on my period when i go so take it from someone with experience, periods aren’t all they’re cracked up to be.


December 21, 2009 at 10:19 pm
(630) sara says:

it will be okay girl i promise u will get it and i havent heard of making it come sooner im 20 now and i got mine when i was 12 soo just be patient it will come on its own but i promise it is nothing to want it is disgusting to have i promise i dont like having mine yeah sure i like having boobs but it isnt nothing u want anytime soon just take ur time dont be soo eager to grow up…. just do urself and enjoy it just because ur friends have it doesnt mean they like having it it isnt fun to swim with u get bloated and everything it isnt a cool thing it isnt cool to have at sleep overs either… soo just be little girl for now it will come on it own have a good day

December 22, 2009 at 12:37 pm
(631) lilly says:

sooo does anyone have any ideas of when i will hav mine (i posted some comments earlier) thx

December 26, 2009 at 2:12 am
(632) brittney says:

LISTEN TO THIS GOOD INFO FOR U GIRLS!!!!Okay girls i am 12 years old almopst 13 i was at school and was feeling really sick so i went to the bathroom and had blood in my pants it was scary!! i wasnt prepared and had to go to the nurses office it was really embarrassing!! right now as i am writing this i am on my period!! u always have to pee and earlier i sneezed and had to change my pad seriously girls u arent missing out!! so if u r 16 go to the doctor but girls that r 11 12 13 14 15 dont worry bout it it will come!!and WATCH OUT!!! when i first started i gained more than 4 pounds in a month i felt really uncomfortable. girls watch wat u eat and also controll urself or it will get out of hand!! GOOD LUCK!! o and when u start make sure u use a condom and stuff u dont want to get pregnant when my parent s go out of town every month i tell my grandma that i am going to a friends but i go to my bf’s house and we do it!! OMG!!! girls dont do it its a bad choice!!

December 26, 2009 at 3:29 am
(633) MiddleSchooler says:

I can’t exactly say that im the same as you guys..Im 12 and i already wear a size 36B and i am wondering if im going to get my period this year but maybe not…??? But Periods arent something you crave for it is a natural cycle. If your older like in high school in 16, 17, 18 then you mite want to go to a doctor about that! Hopefully it will just come naturally. But the truth is that you cant make your period come faster it usually comes a year or two after you started developing a chest and have hair on your vagigi…You just have to be patient. When the time comes it will…Remember the more you worry the longer it will feel like its taking!

December 26, 2009 at 3:47 pm
(634) Kiara says:

hey guys. im 11- just thought id let u kno…..
i love my period it makes me feel like a woman
every1 who has had makes such a big deal of how much thay hate it but really it not that bad….

look 4ward 2 it

December 27, 2009 at 3:37 pm
(635) LittleGirl says:

Woo, I’m fifteen in less than a month and I haven’t got my period. -_-
Okay, I have hair on my legs and “down there” and starting to get some under my arms. I’m 5″ and weigh about 8 1/2 stone. My boobs are a bit bigger than before- but barely even 32A. Does anyone even want to TRY and predict if I’m going to get even discharge soon? And if not, when do you think my boobs will start growing properly?

December 27, 2009 at 10:41 pm
(636) jeckal says:

why the heck do you WANT your . if you basically bleed out of yor VAG!!

December 28, 2009 at 12:12 am
(637) OctoberReneeBlackwaters says:

im so scared. I am 12 and my period has not started. i affraid that not every girl has there period. i need help. well on October 28, Wensday i lied 2 my parents sayin that my period had started and im like scared that it wont start. all my friends had theirs but mii. and im in 7th grade. theres nothing i can do.HELP!!!

December 28, 2009 at 2:28 pm
(638) Rebbeca says:

Hi, I’m 13 too, i havent gotten my period. I weigh like 124 and im not even fat but im like REALLLY tall, Im about 5 ’8. I dont like being tall. I have a sizze 34B bra i am discharrging and i havent gotten cramps but i get lots of mood swings. Also every girl in my class ( theres only ten kids in the class) has gotten their period and i lied and said i got mine just to fit in. I want mine so i can be a woman i feel like a little kid and my friend got hers wen she was ten and she developed and all the boys like her and i have no hips my body is just a square and im wayy too tall and i feel like some kind of freak. I just want mine soooo badly and its not even that bad. My bff says that wen u get it it only hurts a lil. So i know how u all feel and i am soo glad that i am not the only person in this world who wants their period. I just wanna b developed!

December 28, 2009 at 2:44 pm
(639) Rebbbbbecaaaaaa (again) says:

Actully i have gotten cramps i wasnt sure if those had to do w/ my period i just asked my freind about it and i turned 13 in oct and so i wont be 14 until next oct my mum got hers wen she was 14 and my grandma got hers wen she was 15 and my grandma on my dads side got hers wen she was 12 and my aunt got hers the day before she turned 13. Any ideas of wen i’ll get it? I absolutly Do NOT wanna wait until im 14 i keep obssesing over it. I want it more than anything. ANd btw guys dont worry if u are the type of person who eats a lot of junk food and havent gotten their period yet dont worry it wont affect the way your body looks after u get ur period but wen u get ur period watch wat u eat.

December 28, 2009 at 4:30 pm
(640) almost 15 says:

I am 15 and no periods! and basically no boobs….. i hate it so much and i cry alot because of it… makes me feel so left out, and im scared that they will never grow !!!!!!:( my mom and sister got periods around 12-13so its really weird

December 28, 2009 at 11:42 pm
(641) Dalena says:

Ok girls i really do not understand why you guys want a period so bad. I have been having periods since i was 12 and im 18. You get it once a month for a week which means you will have to cancel sooo many plans that might interfere with your period. example, you might be cramping alot, it might involve swimming and u dont know how to use a tampon, might be scared to get dirtyy..ohh so much to deal with, not to mention you break out.but my point is YOU WILL GET YOUR PERIOD and you will hate it just like every girl in the world.so feel blessed that nature gave you your period at the age where you know what to wear when ur on it, you could learn how to use a tampon sooner than others that got it at a young age, you will be more educated on how to treat your cramps! dont just sit there and complain that you want to get ur period for the boobs or butt.

December 29, 2009 at 1:15 am
(642) Jordan says:

okay, i dont know why yall want to start your period so bad. i did want to start my period, then 3 months ago i started and it is hell. th first they are irregular, and they are a pain in the ass. you get body aches and cramps. HELL

December 29, 2009 at 8:42 am
(643) Katie says:

i think all youu little girls are pathetic for wanting your period “just because all your friends have it” . it’s really not that fun, believe me. yourr 13 and 14 years old . go play outsidee and do somethin with yourselves.

December 29, 2009 at 8:16 pm
(644) qqqqq says:

hey im 11 goin on 12 and wear a 34a bra. can fit into 24b. i dont have mine yet but i dont wanna. you guyz shouldnt either. every1 is different and you’ll get it when your body is ready. calm down. it’ll happen

December 30, 2009 at 12:10 am
(645) kim says:

me too i have no bress but there gettin here a littel no ass and no periode i get the white stuuf but i need more sighns help

December 30, 2009 at 9:06 pm
(646) No period girl says:

I kno exactly wat yu guyz r goin thru..im 12 going on 13 nd I want it so so bad i dnt kno why I juhz do is ther a way to speed up the process?!! I have pubic hair I’m a 32 b in bra size and I get that stupid discharge thing like every day !! I have all the signs in the book wen will it come??!! :/

December 31, 2009 at 12:26 am
(647) qqqqq says:

hey im back. why do you want your period? it doesnt make you anymore of a woman or more mature. maturity is in your head. it doesn’t come out of your vag. and having your period isnt fun. i dont have mine yet nut i get stomache cramps alot and i imagine that my period is like 20 times worse than that. it really doesn’t make you a woman. and like i said, maturity is in your head, it doesnt come out of your vag!!!

December 31, 2009 at 12:42 am
(648) qqqqq says:

417(alicia) your way too young to have sex

January 1, 2010 at 6:14 pm
(649) Hannah Jade says:

Okay, Listen – I’m 15 nearly 16 and I’ve Only Had Mine A Year. You ‘Do Not’ Want Your Period Chic, It Ruins Everything. Having A Period Doesn’t Make You Mature Or Grown Up By The Way. It Just Means Your Bodies Changing Even More So. Your Time Will Come, And When Nature Does Take Its Course. You Will Be Fine.

January 2, 2010 at 2:17 pm
(650) unknown says:

i am lied to my own mom about my period !
what should i do ????!!!
i could not help my self

January 3, 2010 at 2:29 pm
(651) Helena says:

To Unknown,
tell your mom the truth. Then when you really do get your period, she can sort out pads/tampons and you wont have to struggle beind her back.
Tell her why you lied, i’m sure she will understand. Ask her (if you haven’t already) when she got her period. then you will know roughly when you will get yours.
Good Luck! (:

Helena X

January 3, 2010 at 2:30 pm
(652) Helena says:

Hey i ment behind*
sorry XD

January 4, 2010 at 12:43 am
(653) nisha says:

umm , hunn . your so lucky .! im 13 & qot my period 2weeks after my birthday . iHATEE getting my period . please DONT rush to get one ..

January 4, 2010 at 8:52 pm
(654) april says:

yeah im 13 and i got my period in october for the first time but i dont get it anymore and i know im not pregant so was that like a fake one or what?

January 5, 2010 at 5:59 pm
(655) Rachel says:

im 11….. i have boobs and hair i also have symptoms of pms but ive had them for almost 1 month i want it soooo bad my friends already have it and really want it

January 8, 2010 at 2:42 pm
(656) Bella girl says:

ok im 12 my mum had her period at 12,
i hav got a little bit of pubic hair and a little bit of underarm hair.
I am 4 ft 11 and weigh about 6 half stone
having discharge for ages but it is starting to smell (is there anything wrong with me?)
does anyone know when i will have mine??

January 9, 2010 at 6:29 am
(657) Starshine3395 says:

Hey everyone. Just wanted to say I feel your pain. I’m 14 and 15 in 7 months. I don’t have my period either and my younger sister by 2 years does. She’s taller than me and even beats me at any sport we both play. I am in choir at my school and it pisses me off that my mom would rather go to her softball practice than my concerts. I read online that you get your period when all of your reproductive organs are fully developed. I’m feeling left out cause all my friends have it including all of my sisters friends too. I can get my permit in July and am just hoping I get it before then so I don’t stain the seat of someones, especially my brothers, car and totally and completely embarrass myself. It’s also totally akward talking to my doc cause he’s a really hot guy. :( help please?

January 9, 2010 at 2:40 pm
(658) bella says:

can some1 plz tell me wen im gonna have mine??

January 10, 2010 at 12:48 am
(659) hunnui says:

im also 14 an in the 8th grade got my period when i was in the 5th grade i wanted my so badly to but when it came it wasn’t so much fun because when the cramps comes it feels like someone is stabbing you in the stomach and you get these crazy food cravings and then you have to worry about it coming threw your pants/skirt/shorts/. You also can go swimming until you are fully off your period

January 10, 2010 at 6:10 pm
(660) steph says:

Okay last year a few days after christmas i got my period. i havent had it since. its now been exactly a year since ive gotten it. my friends say im not ever gonna be able to have kids and i really want kids when i get older. should i go to the doctor?! I dont know what to tell my mom. scared. HELP!

January 12, 2010 at 2:46 am
(661) just cant wait says:

plz tell me anyting so i ca get it my ma already talk to me about sx and oter i just really want to know i got a little bit of boobs i also got a not in one i dont got no oter

plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz just tell me i want to know now if i didnt i would of never got on my own laptop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

January 14, 2010 at 11:39 am
(662) Charlotte says:

im so nervous im 15 and dont have mine, but i know it will come sooner or later :/ all the people who are saying im 12 and 13 and havent started you have absoloutley nothing to worry about

January 15, 2010 at 8:00 am
(663) qqqqq says:

im 11 like i said b4. i had mine once and now 2 of my bffs are on it. i want it but dont at the same time. i want to make it come so it wont come trough my pants but i dont want the actual thing. anyways, helllllp

January 16, 2010 at 4:20 am
(664) anon says:

i am 12 in 2 days but my mum goy her period at 11
i have
boobs 30A or 32AA
pubic hair 5 months
underarm hair 3 months
leg hair
discharge 1 year
mood swings
weird food cravings
sweat alot

i havent had a growth spurt tho…..

maybe thats why

Can someone please tell mee!!!!!!!! I want it so bad.
should I ask my mum for pant liners for the discharge? Cos sometimes it gets really icky!!!

Anon xxx

January 16, 2010 at 10:43 am
(665) SOS says:

I’m now getting vag discharge!!!! i started on christmas. YAY!! i commented (many times) before saying i have barely any symptoms. but i think i had a little discharge before. and now i just wear liners. i dont like talking to anyone about it but i told my mom my underwear kept feeling wet and she told me its discharge and to put on a liner. and i have been having it. and my boobs are sore again! i really want a womanly shape really really soon! and in a few weeks in gym we switch semesters so it is a team bonding thing and i dont want to have to climb on top of people and do the bonding activities with guys if i look like a ten year old!! aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!

and for anon (664) ^^^^^^ you should ask your mom. just tell her what i told my mom – you can pretend you dont know what it is so she doesnt think you have looked it up and stuff. or you can just take some from her bathroom or something. my older sister has like 3 boxes of liners and pads in our bathroom so i just take liners from them. but i dont really want her to know so when there were only 2 liners left in one box, i opened another one and put it upside down and in the back so she thinks it is still closed. then she will just open the second one instead of the one i opened so she doesn’t suspect anything. otherwise she will say in a baby voice “aww. your finally becoming a woman.” grr!

but if any of you dont want to ask anyone you know for advice you can ask me. i check here every now and then =D

January 16, 2010 at 5:34 pm
(666) MajesticTOASTER says:

Haha. I remember being like that. Except I started mine when I was 10.

By the way, just because you start your period doesn’t mean your body will change all of the sudden.
It will probably take a year or so for all of the changes to happen.

And one last thing: I PROMISE you that you’ll regret wanting your period start after you’ve had it a few times.
It’s gross, it stains, it smells bad, it makes you feel crappy, and it’s not fun at all.

January 17, 2010 at 12:56 am
(667) K12 says:

i commented on this thing in july in 2009,
i got my period about 2 months ago,
so for you girls i will just let you know
always have a pad packed somewhere (i put mine in my bra just wear i stuff everything els )
i had discharge but it was white
then i had yellow
2 days after i
i got it

January 17, 2010 at 11:46 pm
(668) unknown says:

Earlier today i was randomly going to the bathroom, when i saw blood in my pants. I got my period for the first time without any warning. It was very odd

January 19, 2010 at 12:36 am
(669) kaysea says:

im 13 and well i have all my pubic hair and i have been discharging for about a year but i havent started yet. its not like im worried about fitting in or anything but i want to be prepared when it comes. i really dont want to talk to my mom about this because we dont talk about this sort of stuff. so please respond and give me some helpful answers!!

January 19, 2010 at 8:18 am
(670) anon says:

thank you SOS, I told my mom that my underwear kept feeling wet and she said that I might get my period soon so she will buy me some pads and liners. She said that if my boobs start to hurt I will get it, they are not hurting though. But you will get it soon SOS if your boobs are hurting.
Thanks again

Anon xxx

January 19, 2010 at 9:02 am
(671) twighlight says:

heya xx
im 12 my mum had hers wen she was 12,
im 4ft 11 i weigh about 5 half stone,
having discharge for ages now, but now its starting to get goey’sticky and starting 2 smell,
a bit of underarm hair and some pubic hair, wen will i have mine?? ty xx

January 19, 2010 at 9:53 am
(672) anon says:

my mom just told me that when the discharge gets quite gooey and sticky it means you are ovulating which means…..

Anon xxx

January 19, 2010 at 6:16 pm
(673) A Dude says:

Im a guy i found this by accident i loled

January 20, 2010 at 1:11 am
(674) jamie says:

I’m 13 1/2 and i use to really really want my
period, until i actually got it.
Trust me it sucks! You have to always make sure that you have a pad with you, and it seems like you are always bleeding. For those of you who don’t have it you are very lucky, I would love to trade places with any of you.

Be careful what you wish for.

January 21, 2010 at 2:13 am
(675) Jess says:

Well, I’m 22 now, and I stumbled across this by accident, but when I was 12 I was just as worried as you are! I can’t give advice about getting boobs ( I still don’t have any lol) but one thing I can tell you ladies is to STAY ACTIVE!!! If you excercise, your body will be more regular in every way. I got my period, finally, when I was 14, while I was running one day, practicing on my own after track practice. Stay active, stay healthy, and don’t stress. Stressing about it will make it slower to arrive. That is clinically proven. Even after you get it, stress can actually keep your periods from being regular. So relax, and focus on your extracurriculars and grades and having some fun, and it will make its appearance. My suggestion is if you want it to happen during the summer, be active during the summer. Bike, run, excercise, do sports. Worked for me!

January 24, 2010 at 2:55 pm
(676) tash says:

haha im 15 and i started when i was 12 thank goodness it was during summer lol but you guys think u want it now and u dont it sucks lol

January 24, 2010 at 9:08 pm
(677) Annoyed says:

I’m 12 and have had discharge for a little bit over two years. But I have no boobs or a period!! It really sucks! I went to my friends house ( who is almost a year younger than me) and even she has her period! I think that when u r in a similar situation it makes u sorta depressed. It really does make u feel like a little girl in a grown up world. I have every sign of getting my period for over two years. My mom and grandma and aunts got it young and have gigantic knockers!! Ughhh it just really is a downer. And if u have ur period and r making fun if us late bloomers, then y r u on here anyways????

January 25, 2010 at 6:50 am
(678) sophie sterling says:

im 11 and havent got mii period yet omg i realli dont want ti but i want to fit in so i kinda do want it if u no wat i mean pplz lol !
well i have a friend thats 9 and shes got it and she has like really bib boobs ~!! nt fair i want to be fit skinny big boobs and have mi period ! omg ! soo nt fair wat shud ii doo pplz give me ideas ! xx
lots of loves and kisses ! :P

January 26, 2010 at 7:58 pm
(679) i've had it ! says:

All you girls who haven’t had their periods need to relax. Believe me; I wanted it so badly. I got it when I was 13. Its really not that great. You get cramps, bloating, dirty, fatigue, pimples. Sure, you’ll get boobs. But everything else pretty much sucks. Don’t rush it. and enjoy the time you haaave WITHOUT your period.

January 29, 2010 at 12:25 am
(680) Cassy says:

Hey I am 11 I’m in the 5th grade and all of my friends got their periods and I still havents gotten mine! I really want to and I have a discharge since last year and I’m am a 48AA my boobs aren’t very big but I heard if u eat alot of salad they grow and they did I went from a 42AA to a 48AA!

January 30, 2010 at 6:20 pm
(681) Butt bitten by the curse. says:

Hey yall, i got mine jan.7 2010 .by my 13 bday, i was a 36a.by december i was a 34b. i had been discharging for 2 years, and in nov. ’09 it turned yellow. i knew what that meant.the curse! mi coustn had informed me about everything by age 10.where babies came from, wat made my boobs big, and what guys went through.the whole sex ed in 6th grade helped me understand it into more depth and mentally(gross, nasty!!!!!!!!!!!)i had to take the class b/c my mom didnt know what i already knew.but it started in school lightly,and got a tad heavier.i was already wearing liners for discharge ,so my panties wernt ruined.i was at one point,jealous, of 3/4 of my friends,i was really ticked at mother nature.but my friend made me feel better by saying she knew 13-18 year olds that havnt started and that not to feel bad.i finally just gave up.AND THEN,I WAS BUTT BITTEN BY THE CURSE!SO,dont worry u will get it eventually!
consider yourself lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cause once u get it, theres NO RETURN RECIPT!

January 30, 2010 at 6:20 pm
(682) Butt bitten by the curse. says:

Hey yall, i got mine jan.7 2010 .by my 13 bday, i was a 36a.by december i was a 34b. i had been discharging for 2 years, and in nov. ’09 it turned yellow. i knew what that meant.the curse! mi coustn had informed me about everything by age 10.where babies came from, wat made my boobs big, and what guys went through.the whole sex ed in 6th grade helped me understand it into more depth and mentally(gross, nasty!!!!!!!!!!!)i had to take the class b/c my mom didnt know what i already knew.but it started in school lightly,and got a tad heavier.i was already wearing liners for discharge ,so my panties wernt ruined.i was at one point,jealous, of 3/4 of my friends,i was really ticked at mother nature.but my friend made me feel better by saying she knew 13-18 year olds that havnt started and that not to feel bad.i finally just gave up.AND THEN,I WAS BUTT BITTEN BY THE CURSE!SO,dont worry u will get it eventually!
consider yourself lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cause once u get it, theres NO RETURN RECIPT!

January 31, 2010 at 2:30 pm
(683) don't want anyone to know says:

Okay, I have somewhat big boobs but I am 13 and I really really want my period! I am so nervous that I’m never gunna get it. i want children when I’m grown up and married and if I can’t have kids when i’m married I don’t know what ill do! I WANT IT SO BADLY!!!!!!!!

February 1, 2010 at 12:07 pm
(684) anon says:

i have had discharge for ages now but it was white, then today i noticed that it was yellow………………

i have heard a lot of people say that their discharge turned yellow and then a few days later they got it,, so does this mean I am going to get mine soon?????

February 1, 2010 at 5:09 pm
(685) Sabrina says:

Girls don’t worry about getting your period so early. I didnt get mine till I was 17 and it was because of my body type. Usually your body will not start develop a period until you are a certain wait usually over 100 pounds so just relax and your first period is not very heavy so if you do get it in school it won’t be that bad.

February 3, 2010 at 6:58 am
(686) twilightfan says:

hey girls, I’m 12 going 13 in may. bit like I am getting pubic hair, boobs, and I’ve had discharge for 1 nd most of the girls in my class are always saying how they have their periods and it sux cos I fell soooo left out so I understand what ur all going through :) plz help me. I feel awful :(

February 5, 2010 at 12:03 pm
(687) Katie says:

Ok everybody, I am 14 and I got my period about a year ago, trust me you dont want it. Just enjoy being without it while you can. Its a pain, and its not fun at all. I wish I didnt have it now. And if you feel like your going to get it or you dont want to get it while in school, then wear a pad. When I know my period is comming or I think it might come soon, I wear a pad, so when it comes I am prepared. Because it does come at any time. Also if your feeling moody or like you have a little stomach ach your period is probally comming. And dont think once you get your period you it wont come unexpected because once it happened to me when I was wearing a white skirt and I had no clue I had blood all over my backside untill my sister told me! And that was not the first period It was like my 7th! I hoped I helped you all out.

February 5, 2010 at 6:27 pm
(688) bella*swan*twighight says:

ok im nearly 13, my mum had hers at 12, my nona 13, ive been having discharge for ages, bit of underarm and pubic hair. ive been having really bad stomache aches and cramps for ages and i keep getting mood swings?

February 6, 2010 at 8:51 am
(689) I just want it says:

I am sooo worried that I wont get my period. I know that some people can’t get it. Im 13 an have had pubic hair for like 3 years now. I have underarm hair and some cramps, I have little boobs, but have no nipples. does that mean that I wont get it, or that I am just going to be a little later in getting it???

I talked to my mom and she said that I should get my period because nobody in my family had that disease or cancer that you can’t get your period. So does that mean that I won’t get it?

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me. I need answers.
Thank you

February 6, 2010 at 3:19 pm
(690) bella*swan*twighlight says:

plzz ca some 1 help me??

February 6, 2010 at 10:49 pm
(691) Ballet4life says:

Hi guys, Im 12 and live in New Zealand, i am turning 13 in 3 months and still haven’t had my period, i have been having discharge since I was 8 and my boobs started growing 3 years ago, i have hair down there but am really skinny, i do dancing every day and walk my dogs too but i just cant seem to get it!
Yesterday the discharge i had was a darkish brown but today it is white again… i really want to be the first of my friends to get my period because I am the oldest in my class… heaps of my older friends have had theirs and I just want to be like them… what can I do???

February 6, 2010 at 11:27 pm
(692) I want to be like *them*.. :( says:

Uhg im 12 and ive had discharge but thats all i have like ahir down there and im like totaly flat like i have little lumps for boobs but thats all… I really wanna get my period and i dont have a mom to talk to about it… All the girls i kno w have had theirs and have actual boobs but i dont! :( Please help me!!

February 7, 2010 at 4:40 am
(693) sAnE cALI gIRLS says:

Dude! you guys are sooooo stupid! i hope when you all get your period, you are in 4th period on your way to lunch walking down the corridors where everyone can see it running down your leg! loser faces! and i hope your cramps are so so sooooooo painful that not even Midol would help! Than you will be wishing you never wished that you could get your bloody little visitor so damn soon! Dumb @ss!!!!

February 7, 2010 at 6:59 am
(694) Casey says:

#693: That was an extremely rude way of putting it.

To everyone here who’s not getting their period yet – it varies for everyone. Just because your mother got it at 12, it doesn’t mean you will too. You are not her. The possibility of getting it ranges from ages 9-16, some get it much earlier and some get it much later. There’s nothing to worry about! If you’re too worried, go see a female doctor about it, and she will be able to give you a proper and medical input on it.

Be patient though girls, enjoy yourselves while you don’t have it yet; it’s a messy annoyance and it loves to come to you at the most inconvenient times. ;)

February 7, 2010 at 7:01 am
(695) Casey says:

Also, I know this was from 2007, but to #16 (Mellissa)… you need help hun.

February 7, 2010 at 9:38 pm
(696) sAnE cALi GiRLs! says:

My comment may have been rude but it’s the truth. You are all so lame for wanting to grow up so fast. Be a kid! Have fun with your friends and stop being so lame! I’m serious! You all sound so stupid! Tell your Mom to spend more time with you!

February 8, 2010 at 5:19 pm
(697) SOS says:

I have a question. I am really flat and have no boobs…..little lumps to me though. But I still wear a training bra because my mom thinks i have no boobs. in the locker room i just keep on my cami so that no one sees it but they can see the straps. i don’t talk to my mom about this stuff and when she says “you have no boobs” i just smile and nod and pretend it doesn’t bother me. for those of you who have flat to really small boobs (no offense) how did you get a real bra?? i would REALLY appreciate the help.

and for #689 “I just want it”, don’t stress. You’re period will DEFINITELY come. you just have to be patient. i have never heard of people not getting their period except for RARE RARE women whose ovaries did not fully develop because of birth complications. and ive only heard of one person like that on tv. so relax! it really helps if you talk to others on this site.

but someone please answer my question!!!!

hope i helped

February 8, 2010 at 6:52 pm
(698) Wants Period! :( says:

I have a comment for SOS: “How do I wear a real bra?” I actually still have lumps,too, but I just texted my mom when she wasn’t there and said these exact words in my text: “I think I’m starting to outgrow training bras,” When she got home she said “We will go bra shopping Saturday,” and that Saturday, I started wearing real bras. Although they were 32AA, and they were bigger and rounder than my boobs really are, it still made me feel good that I was finally out of training bras for good. Make sure you say it when your dad isn’t home;that would be embarrassing if he found your mom’s phone and saw the text. Just try what I did, sorry if it doesn’t work!

February 10, 2010 at 8:59 am
(699) anonymous says:

okay,heres my stats

I am 12 years old
My mom had her period at 11
I am 30AA (flat)
77 pounds
4 ft 9 ( but my mom is only 5ft)
discharge – 1 year, i wear pantyliners
pubic hair – 6 months
underarm hair – 2 months ( just a few little hairs so not much!)
hair on my legs ( i wax them
I eat alot, 4 sum reason i am ALWAYS hungry!
I have mood swings
Weird cravings
Horrible Cramps


iam actually quite short 4 my age, I always have been tho…

anyway can anyone predict 4 me !!!!!!

February 11, 2010 at 2:54 am
(700) Balle t4 life says:

Hi again, I have had really yellow discharge today, and alot, some1 said you would have it 2 days later? is that true or should i just not bother getting excited

Hope some1 can help

February 13, 2010 at 12:25 pm
(701) Emily says:

HELP! im 11, nearly 12 and i havent started my periods yet. i am really worried about starting them because i get really panicky at things like this. I really dont want to start it when i am at school and the most thing i am scared about is pains. I feel embarrased to talk to my mum about it because i dont really talk to her about things like that because i think i am too young when im not because my periods could start anytime. Please help me! thanks.

February 13, 2010 at 6:07 pm
(702) isabel says:

hey gurls dont worry about your periods it will come my mom;s came when she was 14 mine came when i was 11 dont panic its ok

February 14, 2010 at 10:49 am
(703) Emily says:

Everyone i havent started yet either, i am 13 , i am slightley worried but if it happens in a terrible place just think EVERY SINGLE girl in the world gets it so your not alone and also everyone says you can get it at the same age as a relative my cousin started hers when she was 8 and she 14 now ! so it isnt always tru ive had discharge for nearly a year now dont worry! and no i dont think there is anyway you can make it come!

February 14, 2010 at 4:28 pm
(704) flaty flat flat says:

kay so i am 12 going on 13 and fell REALLY left out. My bestest friend got hers and she has like no boobs. my mom got hers when she was 12 but i have like some singhs. discharge,boobs getting bigger (a little), and hair growing down there! but still idk what to do i am so left out and carry pads so i dont look like a imature little kid. so please help me!!!!!

February 14, 2010 at 4:31 pm
(705) flat chest says:

i am 12 going on 13 and feel really left out. all my friends make fun of me cuz i have no boobs and dont have my period. even my guy friends. should i pretend i have it and wear big bras?HELP!!!

February 15, 2010 at 1:52 pm
(706) twighlight*fan says:

is there anyone here who can (given the right info) roughly preddict wen i will get my period??? :(

February 15, 2010 at 10:08 pm
(707) Cherry says:

Wow, first I want to say that it’s nothing to be ashamed or excited about.
I got mine over the summer and I’m 12.
It’s horrible. You can’t swim or run or anything.
Try going to P.E. with it and changing with those awful pads on. I’m dead seirous, there’s nothing wrong with it. I had mine on my birthday one and it sucked. One of my friends hasn’t started yet and she’s ashamed and she doesn’t tell anyone but it’s really nothing at all.
Once you start you feel so much the same.
Everyone is different.

February 15, 2010 at 10:12 pm
(708) Cherry says:

And another thing, my friend is completely flat (and I’m mean COMPLETELY) and she has had her period already. Having boobs has nothing to do with your period. I’m not completely flat but not exaclty HUGE but I had boobs before my period so your all fine and toally overreacting.

February 17, 2010 at 1:57 am
(709) Ballet 4 life says:

Hey again again… girls, im 12, 13 in 3 months an I have been having discharge since i was 9, getting discharge does not mean you are going to get your peiod any sooner, sorry if this is putting any of you down but you need to know, i started discharge really little, now i get so much of it i have to wear pads cos it seeps through my undies ok so dont get so excited sorry but its true… :-s

February 17, 2010 at 2:00 am
(710) ballet 4 life says:

Ok and girlyface342… you have problems honey, 6 and masturbating, i didnt even no wat masturbating was untill i started puberty at school in year 5… and by the way i hope it was an old toothbrush, thats disgusting hun…

February 17, 2010 at 2:24 am
(711) Ballet 4 life says:

Hey… i must be addicted to this cos check every day! I have left 5 comments now and have been doing my reasearch, girls as im almost 13 i may be older or the same ages as most of you and if you need to talk to anyone I am happy to help, email me at zoeg@live.com, i will not tell anyone or fwd anything and am totally trustworthy, iw ould love to help out and can give you any advice about anything you want to know as i have been in the pubertal cycle since i was 8, my parents are seperated and I have alot of out of school commitments so anything you want to talk about I’m happy to help, please email me!!! (zoeg@live.com) :D

February 18, 2010 at 5:53 pm
(712) Carly says:

I have lied to my friends to fit in i am 15 and still no period i don’t want it to come unexpectidly :s All my friends have started but i havnt so i lied to them so that i could fit in now i feel stupid

February 19, 2010 at 5:02 pm
(713) HELP ME!!! says:

Im 13 years old
vaginal discharge: 2 years
arm pit hair: 2 1/2 years ( so much that I have to shave it every day)
pubic hair: 3 or 4 years
boobs: 1 or 2 years
I STILL haven’t gotten it!! I am sooo nervous that I won’t get it. Will I ever get it?! I only get nipples when im cold though so what does that mean? Does that mean that im just going to get it in the 8th grade next year?

I really am just confused!!
Im not really worrying that much about it I’m just concerned and nervous about getting it.

Just this day i got A LOT of vaginal discharge and it is like pure WHITE. so what does that mean?

I got very little blood in my discharge one time and that’s it. Then i didn’t. I’m so confused.

February 19, 2010 at 9:03 pm
(714) scaredtodeath says:

Age: 13 going on 14
Boobs: yes about 3-4 years
Pimples: don’t get me started! 3-4 years
Armpit hair: yes, gotta shave it almost everyday!
Pubic hair: YESSSS
Dishcharge: of course, about 2 years already!
And yes, i masturbate. I started it about a few months after i turned 13. please help, i am terrified. i am the only girl in the 8th gradewho has not gotten my period, my bff is 6 months younger than me and she got it in the summer!!

February 21, 2010 at 4:55 pm
(715) Liley says:

I’m 17 and i got my period a month away from turing 14, and i think all you girls who are about that age and still havnt got it , be happy. I know you anixious about becoming mature and worry about getting by surpirse at school or youre scared you won’t get it all. for some women not getting thier period until there 16 is normal, every girls body is different. the advantages of getting your period later are you’ll beable to have children later then someother women and while your freinds suffer cramps you go life blissfuly unaware ahha. The only way I can think of that could possible help you get your period sooner is to gain some weight, if you have a very low body fat percentage you won’t get your period. Teenaged gymnased and Athelates don’t get there periods becuase of it. And if you get your period during school don’t worry, ask a friend for a pad or better yet carry one with in your bag just in case.All i can say is don’t worry about it too much I remeber wishing I would get mine cause my best friend had hers but now I relize that was silly every month.

February 21, 2010 at 5:26 pm
(716) your lucky says:


February 21, 2010 at 6:37 pm
(717) scaredtillidie says:


February 22, 2010 at 6:07 pm
(718) PAige says:

i am 13 and i havent started it either. But i want to because idk all my friends have and i want to fit in. IS there anything that i did that slowed it down? is there anything i can do to speed it up? Please help.

February 22, 2010 at 9:04 pm
(719) Zar Zar says:

Hey im 12 and turning 13 this easter. All my friends have it and i dont except 1 but shes very very short andshes 12 too. I told my fiends i had my period to fit in :(


Boobs: yes i started budding at 9-10

Hair (armpit+pubic): yes since i was 10-11

My bra size is 36a and some people who are younger than me and flatter then me got it b4 me.. Im going to tr drinking and eating more soy and see if it helps. About theweight thing im 125-130lbs and idk but i want my period tho

February 22, 2010 at 9:09 pm
(720) Zar Zar says:

Boobs: yes 36a budding since 10yrs
Discharge: yes over 2 years
Hair (armpit+pubic): yes since i was 10-11
I have all the symptoms. I even told myriends i had it and i dont. I want it though, everyone says it urts and you dont want it but HELLO!!!! doesnt that make you want it more. idk what to do :?

February 23, 2010 at 9:46 pm
(721) a person says:

you guys shouldn’t worry i’m thirteen and have all the signs but still haven’t gotten it. i feel left out but all my friends sau it hurts and w.e so just be patient ik its hard but it will come eventually

February 24, 2010 at 8:48 am
(722) lol... says:

to ‘scaredtillidie’
If your friend is only 10 and already having sex
tell her she needs help

February 24, 2010 at 12:54 pm
(723) taiva says:

ok when i was 12 me and all my friends got our periods this is how we new it was going to happen …..we started getting discharge since 9 and when we were 11 we got cramps sometimes and then the summer of gr.6 going to gr.7 we all got it……i got it when i was in my swimming pool with my girl* cousins. After that i’d get it the last week of every month…..sometimes you wish you never got it but it makes you feel grown up i think it puberty comes faster my having more dairy products because since i was nine i started to get more fit and drink alot of milk then when i was ten i was in my first cup bra and by 11 i was a b cup

February 25, 2010 at 2:34 am
(724) emily says:

hi i am kinda scared that it will happen during class there is about 16 girls in my class and the rest are boys and i am in 6 grade my sisters have there period and they all got it around there twelve birthdays same with my mum she said after my 12 birthday WITCH IS IN 8 DAYS i am so scared i exercise my heart out everyday um i have all the signs i have the discharged since i was nine 9 i have all the signs idk what to do should i start caring pads around if i start during class my teacher is at the bored my school has pad that r lik 2 in thick and like 8 in long

help me

February 25, 2010 at 4:49 pm
(725) emily says:

its me again ok during class today i was in class and i thought i started my period but i didnt it feel like i am just starting my period right now will i am typeing but i know its discharge i need help i dont want it to start during school i dotn want to be yearing something white and it bleeds through and what if my period starts this week end i have a volleyball game and we r wearing our white uniforms please help

February 25, 2010 at 7:41 pm
(726) bethanie says:

im bethanie
im 15 years old and i dont have my period yet and it really bothers me im sick of hearing that ur “a late bloomer ” or “just be patient” or “trust me you dont want it”
i got like NO boobs…. and it blows! it really does ive had sex and im with someone that doesnt care how big mine are but i dont even feel like a women cuz i dont have any boobs :( .
it really hurts. im pretty i have awesome eyes i just want frikin boobs:(

February 27, 2010 at 6:22 pm
(727) Gosh... says:

Here is me;
15 years old
8 1/2 stone
V hair= Over a year
Armpit hair= Just starting to get it
No discharge
Just under 32A

I mean, I’m fifteen and I DONT have it. What’s up with that?! Does anybody think I’ll get it before August? Cause I’m going on holiday with my friend then and it’ll be real embarassing.
Does everyone get discharge? Please reply.

February 27, 2010 at 10:30 pm
(728) Melissa says:

I no how everyone feels. Its the worst feeling in the world when all ur friends have it and you don’t im 13 almost 14 and today my 11 year old neighboor told me she got. When she told me that i wanted to go and cry!! I’m in 8th grade and the only one in my grade who doesnt have it. I hate when all friends say “you dont want it”. I will never no if i dont have it ive had discharge for a year nd a half no nd every other sign imaginable!!! Im only a 30A and I hate when I go to stores like aeire and victorina secret. i know i will eventually get it but i dont want to get it when im like 16!

any help

February 28, 2010 at 7:55 pm
(729) Tamara says:

Hey, I just turned 13 (well on Jan 20) and i have pubic hair, armpit hair (in one arm) and i shave my legs i have lots of discharge and i dont sweat very much and i dont get many zits and today i got a cramp and i felt like crying for no reason.. my best friend just got her period and now i feel like she is more mature than me and i need some answers.. do you think i will get my period soon (P.S. my mom got her period at 13) NEED HELP AND ANSWERS!!

February 28, 2010 at 8:04 pm
(730) Tamara says:

I forgot to tell you.. i don’t have magorly developed breasts but i have breast buds and they are very tender

March 2, 2010 at 8:19 pm
(731) brittney says:

trust me once you get it it’s a pain in the ass
but i also was the same way

March 2, 2010 at 9:51 pm
(732) abby says:

i was 13 wen i started.. i thought i wanted 2 star to but once i did and i had it gfor awhile it sucked.. i hate it.. its a pain.. and the worst thing for me is i can never tell when im going to start so its always a suprise… just be paitent you wont miss a thing.. ♥

March 4, 2010 at 3:17 am
(733) Ballet 4 life says:

About 3 weeks ago i noticed brownish yellowish liquid in mi knickers and i thought i mite ahve had it but i dont know, nearly a month ago but it was only like 10 spots and only lasted 4 1 day so im nt shure.

March 5, 2010 at 1:38 pm
(734) just want it says:

Gosh… i just wanted to tell you that everyone gets discharge. I have had it. Over the past 2 weeks my vaginal discharge has been a lot and i’ve been really crampy. I think that i will get it sooner or later. I’m not worried at all when i will get it.

Tip: Don’t put a laptop on your lap! It sends out radiation waves in your body and will fry your ovaries. So if you want kids don’t do it!

March 5, 2010 at 7:03 pm
(735) Ashy345 says:

I am 11 and i have all the signs so i dont know why i am not getting it. one of my friends has hers and i for some reason badly wanna get mine!!!! Is that wrong or not??????????

March 5, 2010 at 7:11 pm
(736) shannongo says:


March 6, 2010 at 12:44 am
(737) laa la says:

k i am dying for it i am almost 12 and i only know of one of my friends for sure that has got it I wear a 34AA and have so much pit hair i have to shave it already!!! I have tons of hair in the all over shave legs, have had discharge for since i was like 7 1/2 (5 yrs) and it is getting darker every day ( like from milk to cream) my mom got it when she was almost 13 my grandma got it when she was almost fourteen and my great grand ma was 15. I am Diiiiiiiiiieng to have it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help

March 6, 2010 at 7:57 am
(738) Susette says:

omg u guys r ridiculous. theres nothing good about starting ur period but i started mine wen i was 10 and so did my mom and her mom and we have a lil secret to how we do it but i DO NOT RECOMEND IT if u r 10-12. if u start ur period sometime in those ages, u will have the worst crippling cramps u cud ever imagine, everytime u r on ur period. it is not worth it but if u masturbate u will start it sooner but as i said do not try this if ur under 12. u will regret it

March 7, 2010 at 3:13 am
(739) Tamara says:

I don’t think that is true (#738)

March 9, 2010 at 7:38 am
(740) helu says:

hey girls am 15 and ma period started when i was 9 the doctor said that i was sick and after ma period stopped and it started again when i was 11 and i went the doctor and he said that is your period started .i was like what ever man

March 9, 2010 at 3:45 pm
(741) :L says:

im 12 and a half- i had some discharge and really bad stomache cramps a couple of days ago, but nothing since. some of my friends have started, but only like 5 of them. i just wanted to know, when people say they have had discharge for however long- is it constant or on and off?

March 10, 2010 at 5:38 pm
(742) keara says:

i no how you feel i turn 13 in november and still dont have mine i kind of have boobs and alot of discharge but i still dont have mine my mom got hers when she was 12 my sister when she was 11. and it really kind of hurts when people say they wish they didnt have theres it is like a smack in the face

March 11, 2010 at 12:35 am
(743) Tamara says:

hey keara, i know, having your period makes u feel more mature, and when people say “its horrible, you never want to get it” it annoying because some people do want it and it is a part of life when u become a woman.. i want mine.. really badly

March 13, 2010 at 11:48 pm
(744) Sonya says:

I’d just like to recommend that you relax and be patient. Masturbating or drinking chocolate soy milk won’t make your period come faster, nor will putting a computer on you lap slow it down. Trust me I had mine at age 12 1/2 which is average, and I never drank soy milk or masturbated, and I always have my computer on my lap. There is nothing special about having your period. In fact, often the longer you wait, the more time your body will have to sprout boobs, butt, and even height. So RELAX!

March 15, 2010 at 11:31 am
(745) thec001ch1ck says:

NO U DONT WANT IT!!! trust me i have already started it and its like 7 days of hell no lie and u get the worst cramps ever!!!the first 2 days are the worst of it all but trust me u dont want it and when its time it ill come but until then u dont want it !!!!!

March 16, 2010 at 6:34 pm
(746) Tamara says:

Please stop telling me what I want, and what i don’t want! Because I do want my period>>!

I have a very high pain-threshold, and i get migraines all the time, so I’m pretty much used to them, all i need is some advice.. and not ” you don’t want your period thing ” I’m sick of hearing that and i want to feel gorwn up with whatever comes with it…

Thank you very much ( P.S. no one answered my question comment #729 )

March 16, 2010 at 6:34 pm
(747) Tamara says:

Please stop telling me what I want, and what i don’t want! Because I do want my period>>!

I have a very high pain-threshold, and i get migraines all the time, so I’m pretty much used to them, all i need is some advice.. and not ” you don’t want your period thing ” I’m sick of hearing that and i want to feel grown up with whatever comes with it…

Thank you very much ( P.S. no one answered my question comment #729 )

March 16, 2010 at 6:37 pm
(748) tamara says:

Please stop telling me what I want, and what i don’t want! Because I do want my period>>!

I have a very high pain-threshold, and i get migraines all the time, so I’m pretty much used to them, all i need is some advice.. and not ” you don’t want your period thing ” I’m sick of hearing that and i want to feel grown up with whatever comes with it…

Thank you very much ( P.S. no one answered my question comment 729 )

March 18, 2010 at 10:44 am
(749) julie says:

ok an anwer to all girls if your tiny short small you wont have till your like 15 or even 16…you have to weigh at least 100 o 115 in order to get it..if you want it that badly start eating..mainly if girl is average or over weight she will get it like at 10..i was just like you as well and i got it at 16 i was tiny short just small for my age..dont worry youll get it soon..good luck!

March 18, 2010 at 11:03 am
(750) clarisssa says:

i know how you feeel i am the only one in the 7th grade who hasnt started my period and its not fare i mean i am at the right weight height and every thing plus i wish my boobs would get bigger. i know its weird but i want to fit in.

March 18, 2010 at 11:08 am
(751) addikane says:

clarissa i know how you feel im in the seventh grade and i havent started either. ya and i know what you mean by i wish my boobs were bigger i have to wear a push up bra to make me look like i have boobs but im only in a A cup it stinx. please help me this means alot to me!!!!

March 18, 2010 at 8:21 pm
(752) melissa says:

im glad i did no get my period because it is a lot of pain and im 12 years old and never in my life got my periods my sis have it and she is 17 and she make it seem like soo much pain like relly

March 19, 2010 at 9:47 am
(753) jasmine says:

i never started

March 19, 2010 at 9:38 pm
(754) Tara Langley says:

well girls i wear a bra thats 2 sizes to big and i go to a special place to get them because my mom does the same thing but she buys me these things that look like boobs but arnt really its so cool i love them all the boys love me for it if you want more info you should write your blog i come check this everyday. O and i will probably give you my number if it is a crisis… and i have this special sterroids to make my boobs bigger, but you have to watch out because on some girls (like me) gives me terrible long vagil hair… but you can always shave…… well gotta go, any questions just blog me, or visit me at my website at……www.Tara’s*Reply’s.com

March 21, 2010 at 10:25 am
(755) SOS says:

Thank you sooo much #698 “Wants Period!” I have not yet talked to my mom but i think you have a good idea there. I am going to ask her maybe when we are in the car or something when my sister and dad aren’t around (because she doesn’t have a phone). They don’t see it but I see my boobs. I will update you when I ask my mom. My boobs have been really sore so I hope they grow quicker! Does anyone know how long it will take before they begin to grow from the soreness?

Oh and I’m not sure but I think drinking milk (soy or not) will help make them grow because they are milk ducts and they hold milk for babies.

hope I helped

March 21, 2010 at 6:38 pm
(756) sadwithoutit says:

dont worry girls i dont have mune either and i will be 13 a few weeks and it really makes me made when all my friends have it and they say trust me you do not want it… but not being weird i do…really badley:( o and #755 when my boobs started to grow they never stop being tender but it kindas not that tender anymore… p.s #16 is thirteen and already had sex and really wants a baby…ewww you got to read it

March 21, 2010 at 11:37 pm
(757) Meaghan says:

Wow. I can’t believe you guys even want your period!! I’m 15, almost 15 and 1/2 and I haven’t gotten it. All of my friends think I’m the luckiest girl in the world. Seriously. Its not a fun thing to have, with PMS, mood swings and cramps and not to mention you get angry and depressed easily (well at least my friends do). Live life while you can!

My mom got hers at 13…
But I’m 5’9 and 116 lbs…. athletic build, and I do sports a lot.
But you’re lucky if you don’t get it. I consider myself lucky. (:

March 23, 2010 at 2:42 am
(758) Not an idiot says:

Okay, babes,
I’m turning 18 in November and I haven’t started my period. Suck it up. If you’re 18 and you haven’t gotten your period, THAT IS WHEN YOU SHOULD SEE A DOCTOR. So calm the hell down. I make fun of my friends who get cramps, and they’re all jealous. I dread the day I start my period. Seriously, be happy you haven’t started yet. And don’t have sex, you’ll die of cancer :D yayyy, right? NO. Don’t do it until you’re not underage.

March 23, 2010 at 10:33 pm
(759) Danielle says:

I’m about to turn 13 and I just got it.. yAY me!!
And I <3 my period

March 24, 2010 at 4:12 pm
(760) Lucy xoxo says:

Hi guys,
I’m 15 and I still haven’t started my periods, My mum started when she was 12 so it’s kind of annoying that it hasn’t happened to me yet.
And I know all those people who are saying you don’t want periods and all this but what if my periods never come and what if I can never have children so quite frankly I want my periods! Also I have been getting discharge for around 2 years now and really would be so embarassed if I went to the doctors!
Sorry it was soo long, anyone got any tips??

March 25, 2010 at 1:56 pm
(761) Rachel d says:

Why do you want your period I’m 11 and I don’t want it do you want blood embarressment stomach pains cramps the only good thing about periods is b-ing able to have a baby to care for but if you get your period early your periods will be realy sore more than a person who gets theirs at 15 I understand if ur like 16 cuz u might need to take medicion

March 25, 2010 at 3:37 pm
(762) Faige says:

Whew! I just read this whole page. I really do understand where both sides are coming from. I actually got my period when I was 11. Unfortunately, my mom wasn’t home and I didn’t feel comfortable using a tampon for the first time, so I had to get some things from a friend.

While it can be scary, it is a very exciting moment. Finally you feel grown up! At the same time, it IS a lot of responsibility. I remember how it felt back in later elementary school when it seemed like all the other girls in my class were growing breasts and starting to look more mature when I still looked like plain ol’ me.

Just keep in mind that while this is exciting, you don’t want to grow up too fast. To those who show all the signs but haven’t gotten it yet, I would definitely suggest asking your mom to keep some teen pads or pantyliners available for you to use when your time comes.

Just keep eating healthy, exercising, getting lots of rest, and being patient.

Your time will come soon, and when it does, celebrate!

March 25, 2010 at 3:39 pm
(763) Faige says:

Oh and Rachel, that is not necessarily true. When I was younger, I NEVER got cramps.

PMS is just your own body’s way of dealing with the sudden rush of hormones shooting through your body. It changes for everyone, no matter how old, big, small, etc. they are.

March 28, 2010 at 6:02 pm
(764) Question says:

Hey, i know how u feel. I have the discharge, a real bra, all the signs, i even act like i have PMS sometimes(not on purpose). I have the cramps that come with ur period just no period. I want mine because it means im getting grown up, but its not coming. Im only 11. I stayed home from school once cuz the cramps were so bad(really, they hurt like no walking hurt). Should I have my period yet? Someone please answer.

March 29, 2010 at 8:52 pm
(765) Em says:

I know how all of you feel. I am 13 turning 14 in less than a month. I have all the signs of my period, cramps, migranes, PMS, and i’ve had discharge for 3 years now! My mum and sisters all got their periods when they were twelve. I am 114 pounds and 5’3, and i wear a size 34-C bra! I’ve always been maturing faster than my friends, but they all have their periods already! I just want it to come so it doesn’t pop up at a bad moment. I eat fine and i’m perfectly healthy, so why won’t I get my period?

March 30, 2010 at 8:33 pm
(766) anothergrllikeu says:

hi…im another girl just like yall…exept iv had discharge for 3 years and nothing yet..no sex yet no boobs yet…tuns of hair and tuns of everything else. i just want my period to start so i can get the worring over with. i h8 having to w8 and w8 and w8. i want to fit in and b like the rest of mi friends. so plzzz if theres a way gimmi!

March 31, 2010 at 6:26 pm
(767) hurry up says:

this sucks is there any like remedeys to make it happen i dont want it to happen in class i can imagen spencer laughin at me

April 1, 2010 at 10:41 am
(768) worried+scared! says:

i really dont know what to do. im so scared. iwent into the bathroom today and in my underwear was blood and some brown stuff. idontt know if it was my period or not. im so scared!

can anyone help me?

April 1, 2010 at 11:13 am

both my friends have there period ( they are 11 and so am it) one told me today, the other in yr 5… the say to me when it comes it comes and when ot does happen u wont want it. but i do. i just feel realt aquward around the and different. the keep jetin annoyed wiv me askin questions.
What should i do

April 2, 2010 at 1:33 am
(770) Jacey says:

OMG!! I started puberty when I was 8 I didnt really know what it was at the time, but then all my friends were like way behind and I’m like why hasnt anything happened to them, then at about 5th grade some girls in my class started getting their periods but they started puberty when they were 9 so I was like oh ya mine should be coming soon but unfortunalty I’m 13 turning 14 in June and of course no sign of anything, their is one girl in my class she is the youngest she is 1 year younger than me but like she started puberty when she was 11 and I thought that was so weird! Anyway I have been prepared for my period for 4 years I have all the supplies and yet still abousulty nothing this is horrible why cant mother nature just bring it on cuz im ready!
Best Of Luck Girls,

April 2, 2010 at 5:10 am
(771) Dannii says:

i am 13 and i havent started my period , i have had discharge fr longer than 5 months, and i dont know how long i should have it for.

I have pubichair
i have discharge
i am a 32B bra
i dont have armpit hair
i cry for no reason?!
i go in moods quite alot.
and i am definetly more mature than my friends.

I know a girl , who has no boobs quite so ever, really skinny, the only thing that looks as if she has her periods is her hips. she has no fattt on her bodyy , This is the thing!… she says she has started her period… and how sad it this when she was 11 (she is coming 13 now)she put red nailvarish down the toliet to show that she had her period :L she is a sad wee bitch/! :L

April 3, 2010 at 11:05 am
(772) Victoria says:

Okay all you girls just really have to stop. I’m 12 and don’t have my period either I’m growing like crazy and my boobs have been growing like crazy too I have had discharge for almost a year now and I’m really skinny like I’m 12 and only 75lbs but at the moment I’m increasing in weight a lot almost all my friend have there’s and I don’t I feel left out too when they talk about it and don’t even get me started I’m only a 30A but there still growing and my younger cousin who is 11 got hers two months ago and I was so angry but it’s not really that big of a deal my mom got hers around the time she turned 13 which was in April so even if I don’t get mine by my 13th birthday this year it’s not a big deal. We should really all be really lucky we don’t have ours because it’s so painful and you feel terrible and it’s just more to worry about. SO EVERY ONE JUST NEEDS TO COME DOWN AND GO ON WITH THEIR LIVES. If you need any help or have any questions I am really educated and can help you so email me at truestoriestold@yahoo.com

April 3, 2010 at 11:28 am
(773) Victoria says:

Me again sorry left out something I do feel left out I meant and I want mine too but what all the girls are trying to say is that you may want it now but once you get it your not going to want it. Also like I said my email is truestoriestold@yahoo.com

April 4, 2010 at 7:47 am
(774) LaToya404 says:

I understand were all of you are coming from when i was about 11 or 12 i too really wanted my period there were days i would wear pads in hope that it would come not at all knowning the pain and anguish a period can bring lol i say enjoy your period free days… for those girls 15 years old and up consider this a blessing you still got your whole month ahead of you while bigger people like me only get 3 weeks lol but its nothing to stress i assure you all our bodies are diffrent and they will respond when they are ready JUST PLEASE DONT RUSH IT ENJOY YOUR MIDOL FREE DAYS….and i say that with love :)

April 4, 2010 at 10:05 am
(775) Bailey says:

well listen to this then, im 14, 15 in 8 days and have been having my discharge for over a year? there is nothing wrong with me physically, and there are no signs of infection. however i havent started my period. im incredibly scared because i darent talk to family about it. all the girls a my school apart from 1 have started theres and im in year 10. how do i make it start? i havent ever had sex or any sexual contact apart from kissing, im a 34a in bra’s and my boobs arent large considering my age. i eat healthily, and live well. i cant go on like this not knowing when it will start because what if i turn 16 and it still hasnt? i get my discharge everyday is that normal? x

April 6, 2010 at 8:56 am
(776) Secret says:

Dear readers. I am 15 going on 16 and i started my period no longer than last month, i see how you all wanted to grow up, and i did too. But It sucks, having your period. for me atleast, sure you feel liek a woman, but its like its a mess for me. I pretty much grew up without so i wonder why i need it. I would have loved to get it when i was younger then i’d be used to it, but i dont attend any classes while on my period or anything im just not used to it. I dunno why you all want this so bad :l but hey its your choice :) keep pads & tampons in your locker a baggie, & an extra pair of undies! Those will help when you start your period, and insist to your mom, you have a phone so you can call her if you need to :D thanks -secret

April 6, 2010 at 9:03 am
(777) Dear Bailey & Tamera says:

listen to me, both of you need to chill,
i was 15 when i started my period (: It is horrible I hated it. The second one was easier but that cramps kill, lemme tell you that ;) dont be worried wether or not it starts in school. people have diffrent growing process’s It takes time, if you turn 16 and you STILL havent started your period bailey. I’d defiantly talk to a doctor, & the can induce the period. Tamera, its alright to want your period. I wanted it, and you might like seeming mature. but trust me, it usually makes people frightened. Really frightned, if you have an older sister, then talk to them about this :) or mom if you trust her more. all I had was my dad, so IMAGINE that. :D hahah , XDD

April 6, 2010 at 11:05 am
(778) Ciona says:

omg i really wannah start mine but i dont i do because it is the start of a mature grown-up thing and i dont because all my friends at school say its horrible and very faffy :~) periods are weiard x

April 6, 2010 at 1:32 pm
(779) natalie says:

hey guys i read all the comments and im really worried heres my stats
discharge for a few months
82 lbs
4 6 im getting my growth spurt rite now iv always bin the shortest
hair down there
no armpit hair but i think its cuming soon
my mom got it when she was 12 the doctor says 12 but i just turned 11 jan 23rd and i am moody ge headaches feel tired and dizzy and iv been rly emotional lately i hav th 2nd biggest boobs an i am more curvy than others in my grade im in 5th. can someone plz help? im so worried

April 6, 2010 at 8:47 pm
(780) periods rock says:

hey you guys my stats:

period:yes o re and i love it


hair oh yeah
even in my butt

i way 120 pounds guys i love my period !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it only last 3 days whats that gone to hurt but i put a pad behind my butt only when i go to bed because it wont leak on my undys , sheets ,covers,bed yatty yatty … and it dosent leak heavy girls. so yeahhh im living it up dont let periods knock you down just get up!!! and live life the fullest think about all these teens and grown up actress and singers think about how they would deal with it examples….. miley cyrus . selena gomez . demi lovato . madonna. all the teens and also grow up singers/actess including carrry underwood…………. so yeah -Peace dobnt forgwet live it up!!!

April 6, 2010 at 11:59 pm
(781) brandi says:

hi im 12 and i just got my period in january and at first i hated it bt now i actually lik it a little becuz all my friends kno wat im goin through but if u havent had ur period yet dnt rush it ur jus not mature enough i got start acting more adult lik maybe … oh yea on my next period im gonna try tampons cuz i hate pads they get stuck in ur butt

April 7, 2010 at 9:54 pm
(782) sevannah says:

your period is close! TRUST ME!!! dont worry you will get it when you get it! if your 18 or 19 and still have not gotten your period go see a doctor ASAP

April 8, 2010 at 4:02 pm
(783) Beth xxxxx says:

well , im 12 and i want my period , i heard that by drinking 3 cups of Green Tea a day for a couple of days maybe a week , im on my first day and i can feel a difference , in a couple of days i heard you will feel down and your boobs start to hurt, so il wait and see and come and comment xxx p.s my mates sister started when she was 19

April 8, 2010 at 5:28 pm
(784) Ciara. just like you says:

Okay im 10 going 11 in 3 weeks and im scared of getting my period i don’t want it straight away i just wish i could know when im getting it !!!!!!!

IM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!

April 9, 2010 at 1:29 am
(785) Beth xxxxx says:

me toooooo , my mate got hers last Saturday and she didnt have many cramps or warnings xxx

April 9, 2010 at 8:06 am
(786) BeTh XxXx says:

I 12
i have discharge
I have Pubic hair
i don’t know when my period is going to coe please halp :(

April 9, 2010 at 8:08 am
(787) Beth xxxxx says:

i know how you feel xx

April 9, 2010 at 10:40 am
(788) left out xx says:

im feeling more and more left out ! im 12 and ALL of my BFFs have theirs ! its not fair :( :( :/

April 9, 2010 at 11:12 pm
(789) HicktownKidAndInLove says:

ok girls…ive had mine since i was like 9, so its been 8years for me. and to top the age off, i started on my birthday. so yea, i get what you mean. sometimes…most of the time, girls actually dont start from 10 until 18. you really never know. but girls always get scared and think that when you start for the first time, you bleed all over yourself…not always true. when i started, i only bled a little my first time. it really just depends on how heavy of a flow you have….which sadly, you wont know until you’ve started. =[ but like i said, ive had mine for 8 years now, and girls trust me...its not as bad as you think. i was in like 5th grade when i started my first time and i was in the popular group of like 8 girls i think...? idk, its been quite a while since then, but either way, 8 girls and i was the first to start my period, like a year before any of them actually...and so as you can understand, no one was able to explain things to me, i had to figure things out all by myself, NOT THAT SCARY! so, have faith, its not bad at all, its just like a cut, only more blood. but truely, not that bad. =]

April 11, 2010 at 5:58 pm
(790) annonomiss says:

hi i am 12 and i know its discusting but i got this white yucky stuff and i have no idea what it is pleaseee help meee!!!

April 11, 2010 at 6:11 pm
(791) babygirl says:

bitch is your period

April 12, 2010 at 3:42 pm
(792) Clovely says:

Wow, I remember when I was 11 and 12, I wanted my period, so bad because I thought it would define if I was entering into womanhood or not. Lol, now at 25, having a period has been a real pain. About a year after I started my period I was always at the doctor because of irregular bleeding and painful cramps, so to all the girls out there worrying, just be patient because it will definitely come and then you will try to find ways to get it stop. It can be a real inconvenience and does not make you any more mature than you already are.

April 13, 2010 at 4:08 pm
(793) Hannah says:

listen, i just turned thirteen and i have had breast buds for like, two years and have had pubic
hair for about 1 and a half years, but no sign of discharge, and my mum had it wen she was 11 and so did all my relatives who wer girls…im beginning to freak out and wanna no when my buds will turn to breasts…help meh!!

April 13, 2010 at 7:03 pm
(794) 11 year old says:

omg u guys i hav my period and im 11 i also hav bigger boobs then my 14 year old sister also ive like never had any probs with acne so yah(but my sis got period when she was 10)

April 13, 2010 at 9:00 pm
(795) celena says:

I really feel your pain! I am so impatient! I’m small busted, no period and not that tall! It sucks! Some of my friend have all that or some of them but not me. Not many of them have their periods and we are all really impatient! I have some friends like me. I have most signs of my period and my busts are growing and im not short so i feel better for you guys. Dont worry though! Enjoy not having it! We are the lucky ones!

April 14, 2010 at 5:25 am
(796) Carla says:

I’m 12 now and ALL my friends have breasts and I don’t, I’ve only got a breast bud on one breast. I used to be really good at P.E and now I hate it because everyone notises that I’m flatchessed and that I don’t have any boobs, my mum started her period at 13 but I’m scared I’d get my period later which I don’t want to happen. It’s got even to the point that I cry and cry and feel really depressed and I’ve wanted to kill myself, (which I would never do I’m to scared.) I neeeed help anything to give me breasts PLEASEEEE help!

Thanks for reading,

April 15, 2010 at 2:37 pm
(797) answers! says:

Girlls. you really don’t have anything to worry about. The average age for girls to start their period is very wide and its different for every one.. the average age is 9-16 years old. if you are truly worried go talk to your doctor. Everyone gets their period at different times and its not strange to get your period when your even 17 or 18.. alot of it has to do with how you eat and your weight. usually if your smaller you will not get your period as early as any of your friends who are bigger then you.. I am 20 years old. I got my period for the first time when i was 14. and believe me girls. once you get it you will not want it anymore. enjoy the time you have without your period and cramps and leaks.. however when you get it embrace it and grow with it. And always no matter what Love Yourself! :)

April 15, 2010 at 10:42 pm
(798) emmy90 says:

Hey, girls don’t worry. I am 20 now but didn’t get my period till I was almost 16. I am just a really petite person and your body wont let you start your period till you have 10% body fat. No fears, relax.

April 16, 2010 at 1:24 pm
(799) karrie says:

Hi,I am 11 and a few of my friends have already started their period.There is only four girls in my grade that have started,and i am one of the ones with big boobs and butt i just havent started my period.I want a little info for when my period will come.

April 16, 2010 at 2:53 pm
(800) what?! says:

OMG you girls are so weird i would do anything to go back and not have my period one less thing to worry about!

April 16, 2010 at 10:02 pm
(801) Jessica says:

I am 11
I have mega boobs
Heaps of pubic hair
I get all the symtons every month but no period
I am almost bigger than my mum (She is huge)
My mum won’t buy me anything to perpare for it.
What do i do?
Help pls
G2G I am getting the feeling i do every month

April 17, 2010 at 9:36 am
(802) Earley bird says:

I’m only 8 and I hav my period and I wear a size 32b bra. I’m an early bird

April 18, 2010 at 3:17 pm
(803) Jessica says:

i havent got my period either and im turning 15 in a couple of months. ndd im a freshman in highschool. my friend got hers in 7th grade. i feel like a little girl

April 18, 2010 at 6:33 pm
(804) its ok says:

Jessica, Its ok, your period only gives you bad mood swings and ruins your underwear. so if you dont have it thats great and who cares about your friends. Its like a bonus not having it!

April 20, 2010 at 12:51 am
(805) Shellie says:

I’m 12, and I ~JUST~ got my first period yesterday. It sucks!! All you get is just blood…down there…all day long. and get cramps and all that crap. I ~HATE~ IT!!!!!! If there was a way to “give it to you” I would! I don’t want mine at all!!! It’s soooo annoying. I thought it’d be cool to get it over with like a year ago, then I realized I didn’t want it…then I got it :/

April 20, 2010 at 6:55 pm
(806) Unhappy.. says:

Today my friend told me she got her period.. but like 2 months ago. And my other friend got hers in January too! There is only 3 girls in gr.7 who haven’t gotten there periods and thats including me.. im 13 and i really really want it, im the kind of girl who is small and flat but i have “stuff down there” like hair and white stuff
and my breasts are growing very fast but i still don’t have it. and whenever the week we pick to go swimming my 2 friends can’t go so i have to wait till next month.. i feel extremely left out i just wish that i had it… :(

April 21, 2010 at 1:04 am
(807) someone.... says:

i have had my period since i was 12. I was overwhelmed because it does make u feel older but it is a hassle. i am 14 now and have only had it 3 times!!! that is scary! i may have cancer but idk. starting ur period is a huge deal. people can also get pregnant within the first 1-3 yrs before starting their period, it is a known fact even tho nobody believes it because it was stated in this artical about a 9yr old getting pregnant before she had her period. it isnt something that u want…trust me. the cramps usually arnt nothing at the beginning but they get worse, and worse. even tho ive been on mine for almost 2 yrs and only had it 3-4 times… im still not thrilled about it…

April 23, 2010 at 2:56 am
(808) josephine says:

why would you want to start your period? that is the stupidest thing i have ever heard! i sstarted mine when i was 15. i was definately not thrilled. we went to a theme park the second time i was ever on it and had to wear a tampon. it totally sucked and ruined my trip. the only good thing is that once i started it i grew and i got really skinny. now i am still one of the skinniest girls in my grade and everyone is jealous. but my nose also got bigger. so in my opinion puberty sucks and i am saving up for a nose job!

April 23, 2010 at 9:43 am
(809) Angel says:

Just lemmme telllll youu girls, YOU DO NOT WANT YOUR PERIOD. I’ve had mine since I was 12 & it’s not fun @ allllll. Enjoy the time you have w. no cramps, no bleeding, no bloating or anything! Just live, it’lll come.

April 23, 2010 at 2:54 pm
(810) nobody says:

hey you people i ahve my period and i am only 9 thats cool

April 23, 2010 at 9:24 pm
(811) Audrey says:

I so so feel your pain!!!! I am 11 twelve in July (It’s April now) I really want it. I don’t know what the signs are of getting your period. So please tell me what they are. And I really want it my mom got it when she was 12. I hope that means I will soon too! Thanks so much!!!!!!!
the reason I want to get my period Is because it is a sign of becoming a woman. And also I want to experience it. Don’t tell me it’s painful because I been through very servers emtional and phsyical pain.again thanks <3 Audrey

April 24, 2010 at 10:29 am
(812) angelbaby says:

i finally got it im 12 ive been stressing over it and pop at school in the bathroom it doesnt hurt at all. im 12. by the way to make mine speed up i drank water, green tea for 2 months and the main thing WAITED good luck anymore questions ask me aw yea and i have hips and im a a38 i no ridiculously small omg talk about boys checking you luv yall gud luck

April 25, 2010 at 1:24 am
(813) sad says:

who to tell i dont’know what to do if u know any tips tomake period please tellme

April 25, 2010 at 2:20 pm
(814) Krista says:

Okay, really? You’re 14, 15, & 16 year old. Stop Complaining. Be happy you don’t have one. It’s painful and you get bloated! MY whole family didn’t get theirs until they were 18! So just shut up. Be glad you don’t have one. I’m sure ALL of you would just love to shove something up your vagina to stop the blood from getting on your clothes. STFU.

April 29, 2010 at 10:29 pm
(815) BRITTNEY says:


April 30, 2010 at 6:18 pm
(816) lilly says:

heyy im 12 nearly 13 my mum got hers at 12 so im kinda scared. I hav pubic hair and a little underarm hair. i hav been having discharge fro wat seems like forever and i reli want my period. I no ur just guna say o u dnt want it it hurts blah blah blah i dnt care. pls just help me im reli scared and if there is any one with any tips or might know when i will start my period pls email me at lfallon.97@hotmail.co.uk thanks ly all xx

April 30, 2010 at 6:20 pm
(817) lilly says:

hey agen btw anglebaby did u mean u drank green tea 2months b4 you had ur 1st period??? x

May 1, 2010 at 9:55 pm
(818) Kthiogfd says:

k so im 13 going on 14 and i have like all the sympotms, and i eat right im in shape and i get enough sleep. i reeeaally want and all my friends say im soo lucky. and im just embarrased, they all know and some of the boys know too. i just feel like a kid and i finaally want to mature.

May 2, 2010 at 10:09 am
(819) lilly says:

hey x can some one pls tell me when they think i will be starting x btw i have read that i u drink green tea it will help too but my mum says that green tea tastes disgusting!!! :S

May 2, 2010 at 5:59 pm
(820) SOS says:

Hey everyone!
I have had a lot of discharge since I last wrote. I started getting it on Christmas ’09 and now I just wear liners. and does anyone have any other ideas on how to ask my mom to buy me a real bra without actually asking her? Thanks #698 but it didn’t work. I kept pulling at my bra like all of spring break and then the day before it was over I told my mom that they have been feeling tight and she gave me bras that looked like real bras but no padding so they were still technically training bras just with clips in the back. And then she bought me a bigger size training bra and told me to try them on so I did and told her they were also tight. She said “you’re getting boobs but if i buy you a bra now you will outgrow it quickly.” Ughh!! Any advice? Please!!!


May 3, 2010 at 1:20 am
(821) CUTSIE says:


May 3, 2010 at 2:12 pm
(822) BANTER says:

i have quite small boobs and i really want big boobs and my period , like NOW.im so upset cuz i just want it so badly , im 13 10 months 5″3 i do swim training alot im quite thin and i have 32 a. any suggestions?? i just feel left out u know :’( is there ANYTHING i can eat / drink to make improvement??xx tarrah

May 3, 2010 at 11:35 pm
(823) not so yay? says:

Help me! I am forteen years old and before I read this I had no idea what discharge was. I realized that I have been getting it for quite some time at least 6 months. This has helped me so much! I thought I was the only one who was flat! EVERY single girl in my class has had their period and they all have really big boobs, I feel so left out! I am a bra size 30A but i used to wear 32B cause i was so self contious. Im pretty sure im slow at maturing so im afraid i wont get me period for a long time-if at all! its funny,half the people on this site are desperate for it and the other half are trying to convince them its terrible. i dont care though,i want it so bad! i have most of the signs i think:
discharge (i think)
public hair for about 2 years
armpit hair
and lots of cramps
so yeah. is there anything else? oh and to #820, when i wanted a bra i asked my mom, ‘can i get some more bras’, so we went to the bra section and i started looking at the real bras. then i tried them on and my mom just let me get them. you should try them on to show her, or buy one yourself when you go shopping with your friends.
can the doctor accually tell if you are about to get your period? should i go? i just turned 14 but im really getting worried! i dont know what to do! does it sound like im gonna get it soon? please right back! thanks.

May 4, 2010 at 10:02 pm
(824) bella says:

im 14 and havent got my period yet just the discharge stuff which is annoying cuz i keep thinking i got it but didnt actually. Sooooo im actually kinda scared to get mine cuz im a runner and when you grow you get worse, but i also dont wanna go to a gynecologist cuz idk what happens there!!!!!!!!! so yeah did anyone here have their period and not grow?!??! im pretty small (5’1 ish) but soes my mom

May 5, 2010 at 7:21 pm
(825) ME TOOO says:

please please help im in grade 7. im LOST LOST LOST.
we just had sex ed and we talked about periods and stuff. we got tampons and pads at the end. some of my friends have them. my mom had her period in grade9 and boobs started 2 grow. i think 14. i recently asked for a bra and i got one. an aa34.
btw what is discharge like? pls help. my mom is hard to talk to. HELP HELP PLS ANWSER.

May 6, 2010 at 6:09 pm
(826) chick says:

ikr.i’m 12 and i haven’t had mine i wan’t it o so bad.and i’m a b32 and not even really that its just that my breast is pointy.but,still small any ways PLEASE any more comments on when am i’m going to have my period???….

May 6, 2010 at 7:04 pm
(827) Amanda says:

Hi you guys its ok if you dont have you period right now. there is nothing wrong with you. Just your body is not ready yet but what a couple of months after about 2 years of discharge. i was the same way i had my first peirod when i was 15 and i really wanted it because i was the odd one in the school when everyone else got theres. so girls just be patient. and remeber nothing is wrong with you its nature

May 7, 2010 at 11:10 pm
(828) maci nan says:

LIFE SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!1
age : 12 -13
discharge : yes,yellow thick
hair : legs,public,arms about 7-8 months
bra :32 a
cramps : yes BAD

i want to start so bad .. but a lil scared to tell mom.
im ready for it .i want to mature.just tell me wat i have to do and i ll do it kk please write back

May 8, 2010 at 9:12 am
(829) jane:)! says:

hey everyone! i’m 13, and small bra size (30A) and i havnt started my period. At first i was so stressed out and i tried everything i could, drinking green tea, drinking milk, excersising. but nothing works, and btw green tea is disgusting! it tastes like grass! i got really anxious untill i read this… it made me laugh because i have nothing to stress over, just relax and laugh to yourself, because your gonna have the period for the rest of your lives! stay possitive and it will come when you least expect it!

May 8, 2010 at 11:33 am
(830) Rocksy says:

ok, i understand wat u mean. my friends are only about ages 10-11 in fifth grade, 5 of them already have it. maybe if u eat meat with hormones u can grow faster. sorry if it doesnt work. im 11 i dont have it but there are signs

May 9, 2010 at 5:02 pm
(831) riley says:

ok you are all wrong! i am 13 and i got my period a year ago! it sucks trust me you longer you can wait the better

May 11, 2010 at 7:54 pm
(832) Stacey says:

hey, I`m 13 and still haven`t had my peroid and I have all the sign for years now yet my friend who last year got her period when she was 11. And all my friends have it. My sisters and mom all got it at 10-11. I was really worried till i read this and i know i dont really care. I leaned to relax and enjoy as much time without my period as i have. I still kinda want it so i dont have to feel awkward when people talk about but i`ll have to deal with it and learn to be patient. And trust most of the time i want something to happen it never does for a while. It moslty comes as a surprise. so I would just forget about your period for a while. thanks for posting these comment or else i would never realize that so many other people dont have their period either.

May 12, 2010 at 8:37 pm
(833) ♥secret ♥ says:

Im 13 and im in 6 grade. All my friends are talking about when they stated their period and they all have bigger boobs then me!! Im older then them too…they tease me about not starting my period too!!

May 13, 2010 at 10:02 pm
(834) Unknown says:

Why do you girls want to have your periods so badly? Sure it’s a sign of you growing up and becoming more mature, but it isn’t all that great, nor is it fun. Every girl can start their periods at different ages. The cramps can be painful and a pain in the ass. Trust me, I’m almost 16 and periods are NOT fun. So don’t worry about it. Your period will come sooner or later. :) .

May 15, 2010 at 12:33 pm
(835) SOS says:

Ok thanks #823. I brought it up to my mom again that she needs to get me new bras but she was like “Well I gave you the large and extra large (in training bras) but you said they didn’t fit (which I kinda made up.) I don’t know. You will have to come with me”. So im hoping that she doesn’tt take me to the girls section and actually takes me to buy a real bra. We haven’t had the time yet and I dont want to go if my sis is around. But thanks.

and for #825, discharge is ucky stuff that comes out of your vagina. i guess you could think of it as snot sort of. it can be clear or white or yellowish-brown. mine is white. its not good to be yellowish-brown because you could have an infection. but it starts out clear like you have a little pee on your underwear. its gross!

hope i helped

May 16, 2010 at 2:54 am
(836) Scared says:

OMG! My discharge is yellow and heavy is that bad>?!

May 18, 2010 at 1:39 am
(837) Not tellin says:

I’m 12 and 1/2 and I still don’t have my period but I want it. My bra size is 36A but the cup size is too small but my mom won’t take me to the store to get a new one. I have hair and discharge…. When should I expect it!!!

May 19, 2010 at 12:44 am
(838) Juss a helpful smile says:

Well im 13 and i gt mii period when i was 12. I realli wantd 2 get it so badd. all mii friends had it. and they were growin boobies and i was flat chestd so i was self conscious. Well then i go itt. It was so painfull i thought i was deing. And 2 mak it worst i got it while i was in de hospital 4 some treatmeant 4 a sickness i hadd. so i didnt hav mii mom there with mii nad all i had was the nusre.So i understand how u feel lyk u need and want it itt but trust mii u actually r realli lucky u havn’t gotten yett. hope u can realize that.=]

May 19, 2010 at 1:03 pm
(839) Louisacg says:

GEEZ! Relax guys You might have to wait till you’re 16. It’s natural. I’m 12 and I’ve just started showing the signs. Big Deal try doing more exercise

May 19, 2010 at 5:50 pm
(840) Monicaaaa says:

You all are still young. Calm down! You’ll eventually get it. Trust me once you do have it. You won’t want it. I didn’t get mine til I was 14 all my friends had it before me. And i wanted it so badly. I finally got it. And now i wish i hadn’t got it. It’s not fun trust me. Be thankful you all haven’t started yet! Just be patient.

May 20, 2010 at 3:11 pm
(841) T :) says:

im 12, 13 in less than a month, and i havent started! almost all of my friends have, i feel left out. i have the signs but still no period, when will i start?? :(

May 21, 2010 at 5:31 pm
(842) Chloee :) says:

Im 14 and i still haven’t got my period or any boobs.
But reading all these comments has made me feel much better and that im not the only one whos like this :)
im really worried because ive been getting white/yellow discharge for over 2 years and now its turned to a orange/brown colour……?

May 22, 2010 at 5:00 am
(843) Charloteee says:

For you guys who are wanting a real bra when you have no boobs, I went shopping with my friends and bought one then. When i got home i showed my mum and she was fine with then. They were basic black and pink but if its your first one make sure that they are suitable because i know that my mum comments on alot of bras because she thinks they look sluttish. Im 14 and i haven’t started my periods yet, i hardly have any boobs exept for small lumps but wearing a bra gives me more confidence. You girls that are 11-12 need to stop worrying, just because your mum or sister started at that age doesnt mean that you will. Every girl goes through puberty at different times.

Hope that helped :)


May 22, 2010 at 6:39 am
(844) T :) says:

yeah i feel better now :) thanks guys :D

May 22, 2010 at 4:45 pm
(845) Chloee :) says:

Im drinking Green tea now and its minging :/ x

May 24, 2010 at 10:41 pm
(846) Brooke2015 says:

Omg! I am 13 and I wear a size 36B bra, have all the hair, pimples, and have been having discharge for like 2 F-ing years. Most all the girls in my class have had theirs and the ones that don’t are small and like have nothing in their chest. I’m one of the bigger boobed girls and I have NOTHING!!!!!! I starting to get worried. I heard one gal say that you have to have more fat. Well I’m not one of the small, petite, short girls. I’m not like huge but I’m not small. I want the waiting to stop. Help. I don’t want to go crazy this summer worrying about this.

May 25, 2010 at 7:35 pm
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June 2, 2010 at 12:02 am
(848) bunny18 says:

Ok so Ive seen that alot of you are afraid you’ll never get a period.. for those of u who have never had a period it may be due to being very active such as sports and lots of activities. Also stressing will cause your period to not come. My friend was 17 before she had her first period…… and another thing for all those dum ass little grls who are 12 or 13 or 14 or 15 that want their periods just to have a baby at that age your ridiculously STUPID.. do you know how hard it is for raising a child think about how your parents would feel, do you have a job? how are u gonna pay life insurance and health care and everything else THINK DON’T BE STUPID!

June 2, 2010 at 8:15 am
(849) Duhh, says:

Im not trying to sound rude, but if you havnt gotten your period&&your embarrased about being in class with it. Your not mature enough to have one. its not something to be worried about. Trust me i hate my period. i wish i didnt start it so soon. Your lucky dont worry too much.

June 4, 2010 at 11:09 am
(850) Jode says:

haii girlies. i started my period at like, 14. on holiday, in greece, and it was pure horrible. ive heard if you drink soy stuff, or orange juice, and plenty of vitamin c, that induces periods. but trust me, periods arent all they’re cracked up to be. ask any girl who has them. they hurt your stomach, sometimes you cant walk, it feels like you constantly need the toilet, you can leak blood down your trouser legs, your towels can bulge inside your trousers, tampons can get stuck(easily got out) you can get toxic shock, as well as the whole, IF MY PERIOD DOESNT COME ON TIME, THERES SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME. well im 16 now, and hadnt had a period since like, the end of february! i thought something seriously weird was going on there tbf! but i have now, and honestly its painful. you may say you want it bad, but once you get them, you’ve got em for at least 30 years of your life. be blessed with the time without them. your no less of a lady if you dont have them tbf! :)

June 12, 2010 at 8:10 pm
(851) katia whose very upset right now says:

okay so friday aka yesterday i could have sworn i got my period so i told my best firend who has it and asked her for a pad and then she gave me one and then she went and told EVERYONE i was so mad and then they all sang katia feels like a woman! so embarrising so anyways i got home and told my mom wich took alot of guts fyi and she took me to the doctors and i had a blader infection not my period!! and now everyone thinks i have my period anyways i have all signs including discharge for like 3 mounths not funn!! anyways im almost 13 so ppl no worries at least u dont have ppl teasing u!! peace out katia who is still periodless!!

June 12, 2010 at 10:16 pm
(852) Leah says:

Hiya I’m 14 and havnt got my period. I’m not stressed bout not havin yet… It’s my boobs Its embarrising when I go swimming or wear dresses like when I’m out. By the way my dad and step mom don’t agree with me wearing a real bra just a sports bra. Every girl in my grade has boobs pretty much (except a couple) and my mom doesn’t care if I do it just make me feel better. Pretty much what I’m sayin is I hope I don’t live life boobless. And hopefully tht I don’t get my period in class cuz I pretty much have all the sign (except the cleavage) someone tell me wat I do if I get it in class!!

June 12, 2010 at 10:35 pm
(853) Help L.M says:

I’m 14. Pretty much no boobs at all. No period. Signs of it like discharge, mood swings, etc. So I’m not stressed bout havin my period. It’s just embarrising when I go swimming because my dad doesn’t like me havin padding in the top. But my mom doesn’t care when I’m with her. I don’t know how to tell my dad that I really want to be able to wear reall bras. See my mom doesn’t care… But my step mom and dad.. Last time I asked they didn’t want me wearing padded bras but I do anywase so i feel more confident or comfortable.?. Should I talk to them? Help please!!

June 13, 2010 at 10:31 pm
(854) .!. Advice.!. says:

Okay I’m 14
size 34/36 a
discharge forever
hair wear u know where
cramps sometimes
&boobs hurt
mood swings
I’m going to be a freshmen and I really don’t want to get it during school. Even though it’s bound to happen. Any advice?
Oh & girls who are drinking milk only cuz you think your boobs will get bigger… It’s not true. Wow why would people think that. And those of you who r wanting it only cuz u’ll b mature… Havin your period doesn’t make u more mature! I have friends who have theirs… Trust me they aren’t very mature. Oh and my mom got her period and everything in 9th grade to. So wat does tht mean?

June 15, 2010 at 11:57 am
(855) Olive says:

You can get your period as late as 15 or 16. If after that you still don’t get it, you should see a doctor. But believe me, consider yourself lucky! You absolutely DON’T want your period. It doesn’t make you “fit in” and right now I have it and am in agony cause the cramps that come with a period hurt so much. It feels gross AND hurts and you should feel lucky you don’t have it!

June 19, 2010 at 1:42 am
(856) Boobless says:

I’m 15 I’m a 32 a it’s so embarrassing! Everyone knows I don’t have my period and they make fun of me. It’s the beginning of summer I hope I get it soon my sister got hers when she was13 my mom got hers when she was 16 it’s embarrassing around my friends there all b and c cup I get called flat chested boobless. :’(

June 19, 2010 at 4:49 pm
(857) Macy says:

I am thirteen still i have not yet put in a tampon in and i started when i was 11 and my coach told me i need to because of cheerleading but im like super scared!…: [

June 21, 2010 at 7:41 pm
(858) Rose says:

I am 10 going on 11 and i have public hair does that mean i will get my period soon

June 22, 2010 at 11:33 am
(859) Ashley says:

I’m 9, and I’m probaly getting my period soon, lol, pubic hair EVERYWHERE! (well…you kno where really…) and discharge, blood is coming out in discahrge….is that a perioid?

June 23, 2010 at 5:06 pm
(860) Kylie says:

Well~ you will get your period around 3-6 months after you get armpit hair and a real bra (which means its by cup sizes).
also… from the first sign (breast bud) it can take 1.5 to 6 years for a gurl to have her period. this means, if u get ur breast bud at 12 yrs, you can get ur pd around…. 13~18!!! but the average is 4.5 years sooo… a closer guess would be 16 years old.

June 24, 2010 at 10:20 am
(861) Jamie says:

Kylie i disagree b/c i started my period when i was 9 and im 16 now so thats not always true and at 9 my boobs wernt even in a A cup so thats not all the way true hoeny check your research a little more before you post it on a blog!!! thanks love always Jamie

June 25, 2010 at 12:55 pm
(862) Nicola says:

Although I am younger that you I know how you feel, i’m 13. I don’t know whether it was a coincidence but thinking about it A LOT brought on my period. But to be honest its not that great. Also you should bring some pads into school just in case.

June 26, 2010 at 4:38 am
(863) Amy Lynn R. says:

As in (225)jennifer’s comment i had my period and then i didnt have it anymore. i started it in 6th grade and i had it most of the year then i just didnt have it anymore my mom wanted me to go to the doctor but i think that its creepy for some one to want to do that as a career so i didnt go but im not here to judge im here to help or at least try to help and if im not then im very sorry. But now im 15 going to be in 10th grade when school starts back and im scared that my period will start back as a suprise during class. also im scarred that i wont ever get it back but im not stressing about it because it will start back when it does and if it doesnt then i will just adopt kids but only after i finish school and have a house and good job. also you shouldnt be worring about not getting it before you are at least 14 and 1/2 and if you dont get it by at least 16 and 1/2 i think that you might need to see a doctor and if you dont have it by at least 19 then you propably wont get it and im very sorry to say that but it is true some people dont ever get it and im so sorry if you dont because i think that everyone should have that experience because it is wounderful thing and im glad that i experienced it and when you do get your first period you will experience so many different emotions all at the same time. those of you who are wanting babies you should wait because you would probably have relationship problems with your kid(s) and also you might have dating problems. i cant say ive experienced it but i can say that i sort of know what im talking about considering that i have a weird and confussing family background. i know im jabbering idk what im doing at this time of night well i guess its really early morning now but i need some sleep and hopfully my sleep pattern will get back to normal insteed of being up all night and sleeping all day.

June 26, 2010 at 2:02 pm
(864) SOS says:

YAY!!!! I finally got a bra! I kept telling my mom that she needs to buy me a bra cuz my (training) old bras were getting small. So she finally had me try on bras and although they were from the girls section, they still look like real bras and are padded. Im a 30a and so happy my mom bought me some because we are going on vacation in a few days. I’m soo not looking forward to going because my younger cousin who is 13 already has her period and my mom is all like “well she is bigger than you because she has boobs” GRRRRRRR!!!!! I don’t want to see her or my family so they can say “wow! you look the same”!! I’m planning to wear a jacket the whole time even though it is BURNING over there!!!!!!!!!!!! What should i do?!?!


June 26, 2010 at 2:40 pm
(865) Rizd says:

Same hear mannnn!
iim So scared.
all my friends have started but not me!
Just stay healthyy…

June 28, 2010 at 9:12 am
(866) Sad girl says:

im 9 birthday 5 16 no bras wear pantiliner just in case (:P)
havenot had first period and really want to.when i was playing tennis yesterday my stomach started hurting.when i woke up today my leg hurt. also ive been really grumpy and cry alot and yell whenever my lil bro makes the tiniest bit of sound i have been having this discharge stuff so i no i will get it soon. im going to china in july and im scared my period will start what shoud i do to get it sooner?(yes sooner not later)

June 28, 2010 at 7:44 pm
(867) So sad yet so happy says:

I’m 14 years old going to high school I haven’t started my period and I have no boobs. Might it be because I’m too skinny not anerexic but skinny. I can’t even wear this really cute top becaus it’s meant for a body with boobs. My step sister is 12 she started hers when she was 11 and she’s already a 32b and she’s not fat she’s normal. It’s embarrassing to be around her because her boobs are huger than mine. Everyone at school makes fun of me and I don’t think they know it hurts me. I need some serious help can’t I take like some kind of medication. And you know what else is eberassing going to the pool I see all this girls even younger than me with bigger boobs and my step sister makes fun of me all the time and she wonders why I fuck her up so much. Inside it hurts but outside I act like whatever . I’ve tried having sex with my boyfriend 3 times and not even that worked should I try getting pregnant I don’t really have anymore condoms left anyways so ya. CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!‘‘‘‘‘

June 30, 2010 at 6:10 am
(868) brissa says:

i had ma period when i wus in 5thgrade dammm everything will be ok

July 3, 2010 at 3:11 am
(869) Beth says:

(853) help

Omg if i were you i would tell ur dad ur growing up and u want to feel comfortable like all the other girls there is nothing wrong with wanting one. until u develop mmore.

I am 15 going into 10th grade.
I have all the symptoms and my boobs are just starting to grow.
And i kno because my nipples are getting huge. I hope to get my period soon bc im starting to get worried , my bf knows i dont have it yet and im surprised he doesnt care but hes worried for me.

July 3, 2010 at 8:13 am
(870) yr says:

i started ma period 2day but trust me u guys wouldnt want 2 have a period i honestly wish i never had a period because mines cum on wen i startin crampin in ma stomache n everytime wen i order pizza it alwayz cum on even afta i tell my sis i hope mines dont cum on it happens ugh

July 3, 2010 at 10:42 pm
(871) Helen says:

I am 13 turning 14 in December. My mom got hers at 15. I wear a 32A bra. Have armpit hair andpubic hair. I get discharge for 1 1/2 years at least. This past year I have grown 3 inches. I hope I get it soon!! I have friends who have had their periods for years!! I have several friends who are just barely going to turn 12 who have had their periods for a year!! I am so jealous! I feel so akward and left out when they all talk about their periods! I want to just fit in! What can I do to start my period? I am really active and pretty average in weight. Around 100 pounds. Please help me predict my period!

July 5, 2010 at 10:47 pm
(872) CIERA says:

I feel for all of you, but i must admit all of what 900 hundred of use want to fit in it is conforting to know im not the only one i just turned 13 and im not even a 32A!! its peathetic! also my 12 year old best friend got her period and has boobs (so does everyone else) when ever i look at my body and look at my friends bodys i want to CRY!!!!!! i even lied to my best friend and told her i got mine so she would’nt think im a freak (which i am) i mean i have the body of a seven year old and whats crazy is i have pubic and armpit hair and all the symtims of a period cramps, headachs,back pains, the white stuff in my panties,mood swings but no period HELP!!

July 9, 2010 at 1:39 pm
(873) ... says:

im nearly 13, 5’7″, 34A, and seem to haved just about everything* exept my period. i know having it wont change how people see me, but it will change how i see myself. and forget all the people who tell you that you dont want it. all of the people with their periods, complaining about cramps. they have no idea what lengths some of us would go to to be in their whiney shoes. its something i want and nothing will change that, i’ll continue crying about it and making wishes at 11:11 until i get my period. ohh, and when i do get it, i’ll remember days like this, to prevent me from making those stupid complaints.

July 9, 2010 at 8:41 pm
(874) Shey says:

Im 13 in 7th grade all my friends have gotten my period even a girl that is in 6th grade and i havent gotten it yet nor have i started growing breasts. I have had the discharge since i was about 11 so wats going on!?!?!?

July 11, 2010 at 10:19 pm
(875) Karla says:

Well i am eleven and i have all the signs. Please pray for me that it will start soon!

July 14, 2010 at 10:25 pm
(876) okkayyneedsomehelp says:

okkay im 13 and in 8th grade and im in B34 and well, i want my period becuzz i dont want it when i actually start school, i have discharge, cramp, moddiness. believe me ask my mom about the moodines. llss. but yeah and ALLof my friends have it so its just a matter of time and i meann i eat fine i have a pretty healthy weight i way 130 ,, maybee a little over butt yaa, and im 5’3 but that probabley dosent really matter. but yaa helpp mee plss.

July 16, 2010 at 3:03 am
(877) periodless girl says:

Im 14 and i dont have my peiod. all of my friends have it’ and theyre flat and dont have any hairs or pimples….. I wear a 32a but am developed and hAVE pubic & armpit hair. I pretend to have my period, because it isnt that unbeleivable.

I wear liners once a month, and sometimes skip a month to make it look beleivable, cause i told my friends i got it half a year ago… I studied alot about periods so i can talk with my friends about it, and living that lie doesnt really bother me- Im just afraid my my periodless friends will talk with my mom (yikes!!) about periods and shell like say- “dont worry my daugter doesnt have hers either”……

July 17, 2010 at 10:08 am
(878) Kris says:

Oh my, I can’t believe so many girls actually WANT to get their period! I was almost 15 when I got mine, and I’ve wished many, many times that I hadn’t ever gotten it! It’s icky, messy, smelly, my cramps are horrible, and it always comes at the worst possible time!
I know you feel like you’re not a real mature woman until you get it, and you worry that your friends will think you’re just a kid, but trust me, they’re secretly wishing they didn’t have to deal with it either!!!
My advice? Don’t stress out about it, you have enough other stuff to worry about. Carry a pad or tampon with you so you always have one just in case, and if anybody teases you about not starting, just say “Yeah, but guess what?! I don’t have to worry about bleeding like a stuck pig for a week every month, and I don’t have to be sick with cramps every month! You can have your sticky, smelly period!” Enjoy not having it Ladies, they don’t call it The Curse for nothing!!! :)

July 18, 2010 at 2:45 am
(879) jenna says:

ok after reading all 5000 comment i really od no want my period anymore i really want it but now i dont becuase it seems awful i really wish i do not get my period and im 14 and for all you little girls having sex get real , its not gonnna make you get it , it shows your slut so stop its gross , and trust me i would not do it tell i found someone that i love !

July 20, 2010 at 5:36 am
(880) Talia says:

listen girls im 12 an got my period the other day at school it wasent that bad coz i had pads in my bag incase! im in year 7 . girls its not that bad stop trying to grow up just be happy the way you are your growing up still just enjoy b4 u get it ;) . so stop being so paranoid. keep pads in your bag incase if you do get it at school. so dw be happy the way you are dont feel scared either

July 20, 2010 at 3:17 pm
(881) Morgan says:

i am 13 and i know i am about to start i just wish it would come already bc i have like all the signs of starting it i just don’t but i was campiing the other day and i got cramps and a headache plus back pain but i am glad i didn’t start it then but i was wondering if you were fat, like i always think i am just because i weigh close to 130, can that somehow make it take longer to start Please Help

July 22, 2010 at 3:26 pm
(882) i need help! says:

help plzzz!!!!

i am 11 going on 12 in three weeks and i have been having discharge for about 2 years now. i sorta have some boobs (32A) i am so not looking forward to getting my period is there anyway to put it off and is it normal to get the discharge for a couple of years????? i am extremely fit so will that help putting it off?? i heard that if ur fat u get it earlier.

i need help!!! PLZ RESPOND!

July 24, 2010 at 10:57 am
(883) Tara says:

Hey I’m 11 and I’m bigger in the boob department then mostly any other girl in the whole grade. I’m already wearing a C-cup at age 11!!! I haven’t started having the white discharge and being in a family with 6 kids I never really have any alone time 2 ask my mom when she started. I’m also bigger in the stomach area then most girls my age which I’ve heard can make it start sooner I but still haven’t had it!!! Any ideas of when it could start?

July 24, 2010 at 11:03 am
(884) tara says:

Srry. me again and I’ve had my big boobs since 3rd grade and my pubic hair is like a jungle!!! lol. Im not really stresed so idk how that would be affecting it but I just really want it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP

July 26, 2010 at 1:57 pm
(885) whitney says:

i am 12 goin on 13 years oldd i am really worried how do i kno wen i am goin to start!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 29, 2010 at 9:26 am
(886) alexa says:

samme, im 11 turning 12 and most of my friends got it @ like 9 or 10, i just want to fit inn…. :( ive heard if u like sports and ur all skinny and all it might delay ur period. yeah, but HELL!!! ive, got the boobs development @ like 10 and i havent even got my period yet!!! i want it!!!

July 30, 2010 at 1:32 am
(887) Lisa L. says:

I know exactly how most of you feel.
I’m 14 entering high school next month and literally the only girl wihout a period!
I feel miserable and immature!
Whenever my friends talk about being on their periods I can never be a part of their conversations I can never say “I know how you feel” because I don’t, of course.
I feel like a complete baby around all of my friends and I’m embarrassed because they all know I don’t have it. I cry almost every night and pray to god for my period. May sound stupid, but I just don’t understand why dumb mother nature won’t let me grow up already. I’m in a b bra, bigger than most of my friends that have their periods, tons of hair (I have to trim my bikini line) and discharge every day for a good two years, And armpit hair that grows back literally the day after I shave it. I have been waiting years and years for something that should have already happened!! I’m so tired of waiting I feel like I child, and worse, I feel like all the other girls think I’m a child. I’m so miserable!!!!!!!!!!! I want it now!! :[

August 1, 2010 at 3:06 am
(888) eleni says:

guys don’t worry u’ll get it sooner or later! u can get it any time between 9-17…. i got mine when i was 11 and trust me, IT HURTS….enjoy not having it while u can… it can get in the way of a lot of thingss… and changing pads are REALLY annoying

August 1, 2010 at 3:12 am
(889) viccc says:

i REALLY need to get mine soon….. im 15 and i havnt got mine yet and my 11 year old sister has hers! thats really embarrooo

August 3, 2010 at 1:40 am
(890) Baby ramirez says:

Omg! I’m 14 and my sister started hers when she was 11 she’s already a 34 B I feel so embarrassed around her since I only wear a 30A and looks no different from when I where a training bra and she always makes fun of me. And don’t comet back ” your still young” or ” your lucky hold it while you can cuz you kno wat all of us girls that have this problem actually care. And you people that say those things probably don’t even kno or care wat were going through. Maybe we just want to fit in and wen you say those things it makes us feel bad have you ever thought of that. So if you just wanna talk crap or talk about bullcrap then just stay out. And if your not our age then you have no idea so SUCK ON THAT BEOTCH!!!!!!!!

August 6, 2010 at 3:04 am
(891) jessica lopez says:

sweety i got mine when i was only 12. i was in 4th grade. its a living hell! YOU DONT WANT IT!
ITS NOTTT COOOL!. and your gonna have a hard time at your age.

Personal experiance.(:

August 11, 2010 at 4:42 pm
(892) SOS says:

I know how you feel baby ramirez! I’m 15 and I stil don’t have mine! My older sister always makes fun of me and randomly asks “When are you ever going to hit puberty? It better be before I go to college” and “She doesn’t even have boobs so I don’t think her period is going to come soon.” She is sooo annoying!!!! She doesn’t know what it’s like. Even my younger brother told me once that I havent hit puberty and I said yes I have and he was like “do you have your period?” and I said no so he was like “exactly” so i told him that its not like you wake up and bam your a woman!!! THat makes me mad! But I grew almost 2 inches so I am hoping that I get it and grow some breasts before I’m 16. I’m hoping before Christmas!!!

August 12, 2010 at 2:58 pm
(893) tay says:

today. i went to the bathroom, and i pooped. when i wiped my ass there was a little bit of red opn the toilet paper. im 12 yo almost 13. and im not sure if its my period. it wasnt thick it was just a little. if anyone can help me, thanks. im kinda confused

August 14, 2010 at 1:58 pm
(894) amber says:

i am 13 almost 14.Ihave never had my period my mom and sister started late. But my other sister started early.My friend just started yesterday.So now i am like the only 8th grader that hasnt started. I have no clue about going to tell my mom I hate this. I feel like a little girl still. I mean I have cramps, the mood swings, the cravings, pubic hair, underarm hair, leh hair, no discharge, and 38B boobs what do i do i feel like i am left out of my clan of friends. What do I do????

August 14, 2010 at 11:32 pm
(895) Allie says:

Ugh I know how you all feel!! I am 12 and I am going to a new school next year so ive been praying to get my period i only weigh 92lbs Dx I heard you get your period when your like 100lbs but seriously im involved with sports all the time! I have all the signs. I have that yucky ANNOYING discharge i had it for like a year almost, people say i get that 1 month before my period.. Uhh i dont think so atleast not for me. Everyday i go in the bathroom look in my underwear and get sad.. Nope still dont got it Dx I wear a 32a! My boobs developed around when i was 9… I have alot of pubic hair. I have been moody and have had some cramps but not bad cramps. I just wish mother nature would give me my period! I already know i can fit in a tampon i tried and pads are annoying. At my new school we have to wear kilts and they are dark colors so hopefully if i get my period in school my period wont show through. my mom doesnt have her period anymore because after she had babies she got her uterus taken out…. Idk how dont ask but i want to talk to her but im scared to!!!!!!!!! All of us girls need too meet up and vent about out periods!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

August 15, 2010 at 12:59 am
(896) amber says:

Allie you go sister sure wish you were my friend. (hope you read this again) i hate it my mom is so wierd about it but my friend is makin fun of me cuz i havent had my period yet.

August 15, 2010 at 1:01 am
(897) Amber says:

and we really do need to vent about it>

August 16, 2010 at 4:08 am
(898) MacalynnYo says:

I was like most of you, wishing your period could come sooner. All my friends had theirs and I was the only one to not have mine. I didn’t lie, to my friends about not having it. Instead i used my closest friends to help me out when i first got mine. They showed me how to use tampons, even tho i knew how to. I know you think that just because your friends all have there periods makes you feel left out, but your body just hasn’t matured enough yet. Trust me period are not as fun as you are thinking they are. You have to keep track of them especially in the beginning because they will come very random. You have to make sure you change your pads or tampons every so often so you don’t get infections, cramps, bloating, loss of appetite. Your body grows and works at its own pace. Unfortunately there is no way to speed it up. If you want your period so bad but it hasn’t came yet, wear pads. It sorta gives you that feeling of being on your period.
I just barely got mine for the first time, one week before i went into high school(I’m 14)


If you have any questions email me

August 17, 2010 at 4:50 pm
(899) Tilly! says:

Helloo! Not many peple will see this as it’s right at the bottom, but still (: firstly-all those 11year olds saying ‘i’m dying for it!’ purrr-leez! Your 11 for gods sake! Go play with a doll, don’t worry about your period! And second- around 2months ago I came home from school with loadsa blood in my panties. I assumed this was my period. The next day-only very very little blood on my panties. Since then-Nothing! I have no idea if I actually have started or if that was just a random thing or…. Please reply! Mucho grasias (: x

August 17, 2010 at 11:49 pm
(900) andy says:

i am like at least a month older than all my friends and on of my friends got it almost 3 years ago and im going to be 14 in 4 months and i have all the sign of getting it, but i havent bled yet. i got some brown stuff on my undies a few times, but never consintently, people always say the later the better because you dont want it, but i do and im gettingnervous if i’ll ever get it

August 18, 2010 at 11:10 pm
(901) shmoomonster says:

okay so Im 16, gonna be 17 within a few months. I’ve never gotten my period. I am 4’11, weigh 88 pounds, have 32A boobs, and exersize around 4 times a week. wtf am i supposed to do? I’ve tried provera, taken it for 10 days, and nothing happened. mom got it when she was 13, sister when she was 14, and other sister when she was 16.
any tips?

August 22, 2010 at 3:43 am
(902) Non ya says:

Im going to 8th grade my 6th grade cousin already has her period, and my friend who also hasnt gotten it told me about a thing where you can be missing a chromsome and it can make you infertile. There are some symptoms, and if discovered early, it can be treated. For more info google turner syndrome. I have found out a lot.

August 22, 2010 at 8:56 am
(903) farhana says:

well, this is just the possibility of getting ur period postponed. its all about ur blood dear. try to drink lots of hot waters, avoid drinking cold water. bcoz, ur blood might freeze up which cause ur period comes late. im an asian so this is how it works for us who wanted 2 get our period back.get a fresh ginger juice and add some honey n mixed it 2gether.i kno it tastes bad, but its for ur healthy..

August 30, 2010 at 7:03 am
(904) Brittss says:

I would just like say, I know how you all feel, I only turned 15 in May and all my friends had it, I was so left out and lied to my Best friend i had even though she doesn’t. My mum had hers at 15 and told me I was late, but I honestly thought I wouldn’t start. Luckily two weeks ago I started! I’ed given up waiting for it to happen and then suddenly it did, although unfortuantly it was on holiday but I didn’t have any pains and I was in a really good mood!! Make sure you have something with you and wait. Trust me, paitience is all you need. Hope this has helped, x

August 31, 2010 at 10:56 am
(905) Sophieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee says:

Hi, I have read all these comments and (apart from the odd cyco’s who want to have sex under 17) i understand exactly how you all feel! I have had discharge for just over a year now, i have had pubic hair on my parts for a year now and i went to get measure at a shop but i was too small for them, I fit into an M&S bra sized 30a an also a 34aa, I am 5’3, I m the most sporty out of the family, ride 3 of my ponies a day, everyday, I run about 4 or 5 times a week, swim about 1 a week although i mess about and play in the pool most days.
my oldest sister i think had her period at like the end of Year 9 (14) and my other sister is at the end of year 10 (15) and she though she had started in may. I am the same hieght as her and i am skinnier and have bigger feet (7) I have had quite a bit of discharge and still haven’t started my periods, :( I reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally want too! I thought i had once in year 7 (but i ate beet trute)
I told some people and now i can’t talk to nyone about it because i feel awkward telling them it. I didn’t tell my family, I only told my 2 best friends but now i’m onoly best frinds with one so she told about 7 people and now i can’t tell the truth I really want big boobs and i found a way…


Get some kind of oil (baby oil is the best because olive oil and sunflower oil smells a bit) smother your breasts in it and leave them over night and it works! it likes soaks in :D :D :D :D

I can’t wait to be a REAL women!!!!! Please tell me about your worries at scjcurzon@googlemail.com xx and if you could predict when i will start my periods please so xxxxxx

PS. I am 13 and a half.


August 31, 2010 at 5:38 pm
(906) Sophieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee says:

Heeey me again, I have had cramps today just below my belly button and i have just been drinking green tea my breasts feel quite tender to touch, am i going to start my periods???? :D Fingers Crossed xx

September 3, 2010 at 1:14 am
(907) lol says:

I want big boobs, I want someone to suck it and squeeze my nipples and make sex and caress my nipples and bite it, lick it, smash it… I want a very very big boobs!!!!!!!!!!!!

September 3, 2010 at 9:38 am
(908) kh says:

first off you 14 and 15 year old girls want your period for what reasons some i believe i know why others i just can’t figure it out you talk about big boobs are you serious your boob size is determened on its own there is really nothing you can do to change it besides surgery but anyways the reasons i figured i would write is because i just turned 23 on the 28th of aug. and i have only had a period twice with out the help of surgerys or meds so i know how it feels to not feel like a women or feel like you are not human sometimes i am married and i would love to have kids but i cant i have nothing wrong with me is what the 5 docters i have seen told me i dont have an std or cancer or anything else my tubes are clear i have had a dnc and laperoscopy to check things out i have had a histopingram done to flush my tubes to be sure everything was clean and i still had nothing the last procedure was done in 2007 and i have yet to have it i asked all 5 docters when should i get worried about not having my period and i have been told never some people just dont have them that if i wanted kids to go to a clinic and try to have a embryo placed in me but the starting amount for that is $10,000 dollers so before you get all upset from not getting it right now at 14 and 15 wait tell you are 16 17 or 18 and dont get it then i ask questions and get checked but then if you still dont have it by 23 and you have the money to see speacialest do it so you can help someone eles out who might be dealing with this good bye and good luck to thoese who are seriously worried about not having their period it makes it hard when you have others who make it out to be a joke if you want to talk about your problem with some one who understands please dont hesatate to email me at houtz09@comcast.net

September 4, 2010 at 2:47 pm
(909) just got my period says:

Hey girls. I got my period yesterday during second period. Lucky me, I caught it early. It’s crazy to me why you girls are jealous of your friends and family because there bodys are maturing faster than yours. Just because you get your period does not make you mature in any way. Your period is just a symbol of your BODYS maturity. I was told that I was acting very emotional and my mom kept saying, “Bre, I hope you get your period soon, so you can stop being so emotional.” I would bawl and bawl and bawl over stupid things! Plus, I have already gone through 6 pads and apparently my periods are HEAVY. A period is NOT something to look forward too in my eyes. By the way, I am twelve going on thirteen in december

September 5, 2010 at 10:39 pm
(910) Sara says:

I am 12 going on 13 in November and my breasts have started developing im about 34A,very little pubic hair and almost no armpit hair but i have all the signs of my period like a lot of discharge, mood swings,tiredness, and bloated feeling a lot of the time and i just keep checking my panties and NOTHING! No period! I also have lied that i have my period to some people and now i have to be another person that im not! I feel terrible!! Trust meonce you get it you will miss being a kid. Thats how i felt about knowing my breasts were growing. Its okay everyone, i understand you just feel like trash but you will get it just make the most of your kid years and if your about 17 or older and dont have your period than you may need to see your current doctor. You may have a lower leve of hormones a other girls.

September 5, 2010 at 11:00 pm
(911) LoveLife says:


Look i know that feeling of being left behind when your friends have their periods and you dont. But why the hell should you feel like you want terrible cramps and fricken blood and uterus wall flowing out of you fricken vagina im 18 i feel for you. K. Just exercise and eat healthy and you will get it. Dont rush

September 6, 2010 at 7:49 am
(912) paige says:

your guys are lucky you dnt have it !! its a pain.

September 6, 2010 at 1:11 pm
(913) Kate says:

Hey I’m 12 and starting 7 grade and haven’t had my period but I have cramps all the time idk y my boobs are growing but it’s like been a year since that stuff started happenin and I have pads in my back pack just in cas. I’m pretty small but I weigh like 80 lb. And my friend is smaller than me and had hers! :/

September 7, 2010 at 10:39 pm
(914) sultana says:

me 2..im 16 n i go through a tough tym in high skewl

September 11, 2010 at 11:48 pm
(915) puppiesrock says:

im 10 and i had my period

September 17, 2010 at 9:44 pm
(916) anoymous says:

im 14 turning 15 nd i havnt had my periods nd i want them soo badly iv got everything pubic hair, wide hips,pimples, except the boobs i have no boobs im literally flat chested :(

September 18, 2010 at 12:36 am
(917) CB says:

Wow u little girls r sluts that just gross! I can’t wwait to get my period I’m going to have it in January December or feburay guys it dosent matter if u don’t fit in I’m only eleven so yeah well the lil girls who have sex r sluts and the girl who wants a baby and whose 13 ur way to young I would want a baby when I’m married well bye bye :)

September 18, 2010 at 5:41 pm
(918) sophieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee says:

cb… why are you calling them little they are the same age as you. how do you know when r period is coming???? x

September 21, 2010 at 12:12 pm
(919) Good luck, I want it aswell :( says:

I may be 10 but I have most of the signs.
Breast development, a bit of hair ‘ down there’ and under my arms, have small stomach aches and sometimes feel a bit ill,
sometimes get clear discharge, and my friends and parents think i’l get it on my 11th birthday, ( which is in 6 months).
Good luck evry1 XD
Oh and I am also slightly heavy for my height( 5 stone)
Small, but growing a lot, so soon I’l get a bit taller :)
My mum got hers when she was 14 but my aunties got they’res when they were 11 and 12!

September 21, 2010 at 7:13 pm
(920) I want it aswell:( says:

i agreee i want is aswell;( the signs ARE Breast Development, Hair “Down There” And underarm hair. i’ve heard for all of yous that want big boobs to remove your bra, Get BABY OIL, and rub ALOT on there and WALA! sleep with it on(: and FOR GIRLS THAT WANT YOUR PERIOD STICK PARSLEY AT THE TOP OF YOUR VAGINA! bbut i dont want to do that/: Any Other suggestins??? pleasse Lett me Knoww!

September 22, 2010 at 12:22 pm
(921) Getting stomach aches says:

I am starting to get stomach aches now!
I’m 10 and I think it may start in a few months for me!
I have most signs!

September 23, 2010 at 1:40 pm
(922) Really bad now!! :( says:

Now I feel sick, have stomache aches and brown discharge, I’m only 10!
Talk about painful!!!
It says exercise helps, but I can’t be bothered to excercise :(

September 23, 2010 at 8:26 pm
(923) peroid wanter says:

omg i have had discharge for a while and i want my peroid im thinking of masturbating to get it faster

September 25, 2010 at 10:32 am
(924) omg i need it says:

ok so im 13 ill be 14 in january and i want my period reallly badly because i dont want to get it during class. All my friends have i but i dont care ive had hair under my arms for like 2 yearsdischage since like 5th grade and pubic hair since like 6th grade pleasee givee me adviccce :)

September 25, 2010 at 2:45 pm
(925) SOS says:

Yay! The other day my discharge was really brown! It hasn’t been anymore but I think that means I will get my period soon. The baby oil thing sounds interesting……but maybe I might try it. I’m really embarrassed now though because I grew almost 2 inches over the summer. Good thing my friends didnt notice though. Because you grow before you get your period and stop growing once you have it. So if I grow really tall my friends will all know that i don’t have my period =( I never had a problem with it before but sometimes when my friends talk about their periods I can’t help but join. So they think I have mine and don’t seem to know I’m lying which is good. I HATE when my sister always says “oooh when are you gonna get your period?” and even my younger brother now says “it’s ok. you haven’t hit puberty yet.” AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! I HATE IT!!! Especially because i’m soo flat chested.
If I do try the baby oil thing, I will let you know how it goes.

September 27, 2010 at 10:02 pm
(926) kenzi says:

hey girls. im 12 i started when i was 11 it wu=ill be okay! it wil come ..when i started i was misserible trust me you can wait u cant really do evrything whenyou on ur pd like split and gymnastics and funner stuff! IT FEELS LIKE A RAINY DAY..just wait it will come and some advise to you..dont panic and have a parent teach you ahead of time.and pamprin helps alot..because you have cramps like a bad stomach ach on your pelvis! ouch and if you drink lots of water thats always good..you wont have blood clots. and eat regular because when you eat it goes 2 the hip so be health and if you have bad cramps use a heating pad it helps!..ps girls my mom touch me this im only 12.. good luck and it will come you body just needs some time to ajust.

September 28, 2010 at 2:30 am
(927) Allison says:

hey SOS some advise, bring up bra convo with your mum and if she says you will grow too quickly, say i am going to be growing for years now, i am just asking for like 4 bras. i am growing up now it embarrassing to still wear a training bra when i am already (your age here). trust me i am 12 and i have been wearing a bra for just over a year, padded and wired i am a 34a.

i have not started my period yet i am 13 in 4 months and i have had discharge for 1 and a half years and i have some pubes, a bit of armpit hair,boobs moodswings, cramps which are so horrible and i think i had my growth spurt during the summer cos everyone says that i have grown so much. i think i am going to get it very soon

September 28, 2010 at 9:42 pm
(928) Mary says:

well…im 17 yrs old i live in north carolina[selma] I have a boyfriend and we have sex…but i never got my period before..nd im scared that having sex is stopping it from coming

September 29, 2010 at 6:56 pm
(929) emma says:

im 13 almost 14 and i havnt had mine yet!! i need to grow up too!!!!

October 3, 2010 at 10:26 pm
(930) kaitlyn says:

I got my period when i was twelve im 14 now for the first two years it was fine but then it got alot worse you think you want it now you should be thanking God you dont have it yet me and all my friends now hate mother nature’s *gift* the saying “Have a happy period” is Sooooo NOT true ugh wait till you have it then you will understand why no girl likes Periods!!!!!!!!!!!!

October 4, 2010 at 11:47 am
(931) Alexa says:

Ok im 11 and I wanted my breast to grow bigger. I researched and founded out u have to start your period anf its will grow bigger. My mom started when she was 18. My aunt started when she was 8. I want me period and its say eat better and excercise on a daily bases.

October 4, 2010 at 1:25 pm
(932) Kaitlyn says:

I got my periode when i was 12 now im 14 it was ok for the first 2 years now its gotten alot worse you should be happy you do not have it yet it SUCKS!!! the saying “Have a happy period” is Sooooooo! NOT true its i hate periods more than anything you guys are sooo lucky :/

October 5, 2010 at 12:10 pm
(933) Somepeoplerdesperate says:

Trust me, even though I don’t have it I hope I never will!
It is horrible, painful and I really dread the day it will come!
Come on everyone, you really don’t want it to start, it ruins your everyday activities :P

October 6, 2010 at 11:56 pm
(934) liana says:

hey im liana i realy want my period and bigger boobs i started growing boobs already my sise is 12 to 14 in crop tops and i get cramps and discharge but no blood i realy want to get it i have all my stuff mu under arms stink and i have got bloned hair down there anny help plz help me

October 10, 2010 at 3:15 am
(935) sophie! :D says:

if you look back at comments 500, 501, 502, 503 and 505. that was me in august last year :) i was 14 in march and got my period in april. I HATE IT! you dont want it trust me! and to top it off, its costing you money buying the pads n stuff. i will have this for the nearly the rest of my life and its just wrong!! please all you girls out there who havent started yet, dont wish you had it. count yourelf lucky. you will start when you start so stop worrying.
Sophie <3

October 12, 2010 at 10:33 am
(936) sophia nt got it.. says:

hey guyz. m 15 ”teen” nd i’ve also nt got my perios.all my frnds hav got it wen dey were in 8th..i m in tenth..ny 1 know how to get my periods sooner..plzz help me..even my ht. is vry small and i am very lean and thin..i have even nt developed my brests prop. i dont wear bra..bt i want to wear it as all of my frndz

October 12, 2010 at 5:37 pm
(937) Jess says:

for all the girls who are like 11 and 12 please shut up.
Your not even a teenager yet , so its absolutely normal that you dont have it !! and you dont want it either.
I am 13 , 14 in 2 months and I had my first period a few weeks ago. its nothing to be excited about really.
You’re period will start when your body is ready . so dont rush it.
I have hardly any boobs , so they dont really matter But you must have some boob growth before it starts.
I have wide hips and pubic hair and i had discharge before , if you have none of these signs then you probably wont start for years yet.
stop complaining and enjoy life without it.

October 12, 2010 at 6:38 pm
(938) Michelle says:

i was almost 16 before i got my period. there isnt any way to make your period start sooner you just have to wait for your body to be ready. i am now 19 and everything is fine. if you reach 16 and still havent started your period, then its time to visit a doctor. but as for saying “i am 14 and want my period now!” RELAX!! its not the most fun thing in the world to have a period. you get moody, cramping, and anywhere from 4-10 days of bleeding (mine is only 4 or 5 days). its not the best to have a period, so relax and enjoy the time you have without. you are going to have it for 30 or 40 years.

October 13, 2010 at 10:12 am
(939) sophia nt got it.. says:

hey..i know dat coing of periods is a gr8 problem bt. i want to grow up as other gals of my age..

October 17, 2010 at 6:55 pm
(940) SOS says:

Hey guys! I finally got my period!!!!! IM SOO HAPPY! I love it. I only had it for 4 days but that’s normal when you first get it. I got it Sunday night at around 11pm when i went to bed. I wasn’t really happy that it came so late but I put a pad on the next day and i love it now! I was so happy those 4 days! So its not bad at all. I don’t know what people are talking about. But keep a pad in your backpack and always wear a liner. Especially if you are getting discharge. K, i will still come on here to help anyone answer some questions.

hope i helped

October 25, 2010 at 1:40 pm
(941) i cant take it anymore says:

please help me i dont want rude comments or anything but my mom got her period in 6th grade and so did my 17 year old sister im 13 and my sister makes fun of me.I CANT STAND IT! Im a 32a and i have some discharge…i think…i feel deformed and like a 5 year old and im serious ALL my friends have it and im ashamed but ive lied and said i have it too.to make matters worse, im skinny and insecure, im breaking out , and every time i think im getting it theres nothing there. i want my period reeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaally bad and im really worried ill never get it. to be honest im not even sure if i have a vag…its so confusing down there please help…

October 30, 2010 at 12:48 pm
(942) PandaGirl says:

Okay… So, I am going to be turning sixteen in 3 months, and I haven’t gotten my period. All my friends think I have, and it’s horrible to have to lie, but I really don’t wnat them to think I’m weird. Anyway, for thise who already ahve their period, can anyone tell me if these are signs of me starting in the next few months.
-I appear thinner and my boobs slightly fuller
-I have been breaking out in more spots and pimples than normal
-My hormones have been everywhere
-I’ve started getting very slight pains in my stomach every now and then
-I have been feeling quite maternal lately.

Are these signs of my period, or just random signs? Please be honest :3

October 31, 2010 at 12:34 pm
(943) Periodless and finally calm says:

I am 13 and periodless. I read the comments, and one in particular stood out. It said someone relaxed about not having there period and it came. Just like that. Idk why, but I’m calm now. I am healthy, I have the signs, and I’m gonna get it soon. Every second, I’m closer. I am a double a cup, but ive been developing for a few years now. I have thick pubic hair, underarm hair, whitish discharge, these wierd cramplike things near my Fallopian tube, and I’m more moody. Im more tired and occasionally I get migraines. These are all signs, but I’m not sure about the cramp things. It’s coming soon. I took several online quizzes that said it’s coming soon. I researched about making it come faster n there’s some stuff in gonna try. I’ll list a few.
-drinking green tea
-there’s a pressure point 4 finger widths from your inside ankle Bone used to induce labor and for some, start periods. Put moderate preassure on it for several seconds, rest and do it again.
-tummy massages
-a high meat diet has been linked to early periods. This isn’t N excuse to eat unhealthily though.
-putting dried parsley up “there” IS supposed to help, but im not gonna use that one.
And to finish it off, not sleeping and stress is proven to DELAY your period.
Hope I helped

November 1, 2010 at 4:04 pm
(944) mary says:

hahah im 17 and TRUST ME you dont want it mine started when i was in the 7th grade and it is the MOST ANNOYING THING EVER youll get it when your body is ready everyone is different if anything your lucky you have your WHOLE life to deal with it :( well until your old haha dont try to grow up too fast your period doesnt make you any more mature xD it doesnt change you except make you hate the world at the time of the month xD lol and theres nothing great about having it i mean whats fun about having cramps, bloating, acne, feeling REALLY TIRED, and feeling pissed off and moody xD i think NOTHING hahah but i didnt get the symptoms of that until like last year i think xP

November 1, 2010 at 7:29 pm
(945) Annoyed says:

I’m sorry. I don’t want to offend anyone, but I need to get this off my chest. I am sick and tired of everyone being all, you don’t want it and it’s really bad. I DON’T CARE!!!! I still want it!!! Like really badly. My one friend had it for 3 years now and whenever I talk about wanting it, she very rudely buts in and says you dont want it! Do I care if she has cramps? No. No one in my family has them. Do I care if she feels bloated and fat? No, I’m skinny anyway, so I don’t care. Don’t rain on our parades and let us want our periods in peace! Maybe ill feel that way too, but right now I don’t.

November 1, 2010 at 7:49 pm
(946) gracy girl says:

um well im knda scared i dont kno how 2 tel my mkom i strrted but i havnt i hav boobs i hav pubic hair and discharge nd sumtimes i get brownish stuff bu thts it so nd im really scared 2 go 2 the gynecologist any tips??

November 3, 2010 at 7:27 pm
(947) Julia says:

ok im sorry but ARE YOU GIRLS STUPID!? you will regret wishing for it to come faster once you have it. periods kinda suck i wont lie

November 3, 2010 at 9:03 pm
(948) i cant take it anymore says:

dear julia the only stupid one here is you if you dont want to hear us wanting our periods(now here is a crazy thought) DONT COME TO THIS SITE. i mean come on do u seriously just search “is there a way to make my period start” just to come on here and be rude (i seriously agree with u annoyed)i dont care what you say i want mine and that is that so do lots of other girls do us the favor and stop being rude…

November 4, 2010 at 11:11 am
(949) vanessa says:

your period will not start till you weigh about 110lb.

November 6, 2010 at 3:08 am
(950) mazy says:

Hi well Im 14 soon to be 15 and im a freshman in high school…. im short and pretty flat i have really small boobs i have pubic hair and discharge i want my period but i allso dont i want it because ever one has it and i would allso really apresiate some bigger boobs…. but then again i dont what it… its a hassle for the rest of your life… i dont really care if i start my period but i really want bigger boobs!! and im pretty sure there is nothing to make them bigger :( if there is please tell me!!

November 6, 2010 at 3:43 am
(951) Tooocooool says:

Girls, trust me, I understand how you feel left out an your friends probably tell you that you are so lucky, but don’t wish for it, it’s really horrible, it will come eventually, no girl misses out unfortunately, I had mine at a pool party and I couldn’t go swimming and I didn’t say why, so just wait your turn, it will come!

November 6, 2010 at 4:37 pm
(952) Ciaraa B says:

Heч i just turned 12чears in june.I am completleч FLAT. I have litterallч to little bumps on mч chest. And all of mч friends have BIG BOOBS and have started their period.! Im reallч scared im not going to start…im quiet skinnч i weigh 4.11′ and i dont know if i need to put on weight to help the matter.! :(

November 9, 2010 at 10:00 pm
(953) :) says:

I utterly feel your pain. Im 15, i havent started my period, i have large breasts and am a healthy weight. My mother started at 11. I went into puberty about 4/5 years ago :/

Help anyone? Should i see a doctor?

November 10, 2010 at 2:55 am
(954) laura says:

Hi, i’m 13 and still, no period at all. One night I went over to my friend’s sleepover and we started talking about who has their periods and they ALL did, except me. I felt like I wanted to just run away. They are all developed and have boobs and everything and I have no boobs at all. I am quite thin and pretty tall so does this affect the time I develop? I feel so alone because every other girl is developed but me:(.

November 12, 2010 at 3:02 am
(955) WITH YOU GUYS ): says:

hey girls im 14 turning 15 in 2 months. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! ): its so bad! to all you people saying “shutup enjoy it while you can blablablah” WELL YOU DONT KNOW HOW WE FEEL!. we jst wanna be like everyone else k! its werid for me cause i am older than most my friends my i look 2 years younger! my boobs are TINY :’( and i dont have my period yet. im short and my friends always tease me for being a little girl with little boobs. i dont say anything but it makes me so sad! i just wanna fit in and i dont care what it takes!
does green tea and rubbing oil on your boobs really make them grow???
i dont mind about my period i just want normal sized boobs! then i’ll be HAPPY. so people ill actually look at me how i want them too. <3

November 13, 2010 at 12:26 am
(956) Faith says:

Okay hi, im faith and my mom had her periood whn she was 9… im probably the youngest here but i havent had my period and im 11…. should i worry ? all my friends in my class have it …..i dont know what to do! My aunt says i dont want it but… I DO BAD!!!!!! is there a way i can just speed up time or something ?!?!?!?!:p seriusly oil tea something ????????

November 13, 2010 at 1:44 pm
(957) SOS says:

Hey girls! Just relax. Here is some info you should know:

~my health teacher once said you need to be at least 100lbs so you have enough weight to support a baby (please don’t stuff yourselves)
~coming on this site really helped me relax because i knew everyone was going through the same thing (you can read my previous comments)
~its ok to lie to your friends but keep it simple – when they talk about it you don’t have to say anything unless they ask you something about it (then give a brief answer so you don’t feel too guilty=) )
~sisters are mean. just pretend you are happy about not having it and laugh at them when they get it and have cramps. that’s what i did. and i never told my sis i got mine and everytime she says something about it i laugh and i plan on hiding it from her for as long as i can.
~it isn’t as bad as people describe. this is only my second one and ive had very faint cramps that i can barely feel (maybe it gets worse?)
~eat healthy and stay healthy
~everyone is different
~if your friends make fun of you than they aren’t your friends (but then again you don’t have to tell them you don’t have it)
~if someone ever asks you for a tampon just say “no ive never used one. i only use pads.” dont assume they think you don’t have your period.
~just relax – stress can delay your period

Enjoy life without it and love life with it =) I was the same way up until about a month ago. But I just relaxed after reading all these comments and now i have it.

Stay strong ladies!

November 16, 2010 at 12:34 pm
(958) MEE says:

Same i want mine sooo bad, i feel so frustrated…there is this girl at my skool who im friends with…she didnt get hers until recently, then when she got her she was being a real bi*** about it…like making all these snide remarks about me not having them *cries*

once we went bowling and i had this little shoulder bag thing and she sed why do you have that? and i went because i need it to put stuff in, then she sed “yh as if you need to put stuff in it” like putting pads in n stuff. it really stung, but i just ignored her

then she was at my house and i dont remember how it came up but she sed this really mean remark saying i didnt no what a tampon was and i didnt no how to use it. I’m almost crying now she made me that upset.

and she always talks to her friend about it and acts as if i dont know what they are talking about, when i do. and just to make things worse she always asks me if ive started just to make sure and rubs it in saying REALLY? I THOUGHT YOU WOULD OF STARTED IT BY NOW!” IT REALLY HURTS ME INSIDE AND I DUNNO WHAT TO DO ANDI HATE HER T.T

November 16, 2010 at 1:03 pm
(959) MEE...jENNA says:

oh and im 13..i really want it..i feel sooo left out it unbeliveable…i feel ssooooo sad….l…

help any ways a all to help them come pllzz comment!!

November 16, 2010 at 5:17 pm
(960) anxious says:

oh my gosh, i know how you feel. i’m 14, and i haven’t had mine yet!!!! i have really tiny a-cup boobs, but i do have discharge. mom says she got it around 14 so i’m really starting to worry. i really just want to develop more. i’m so upset and i don’t want to be one of those people who doesn’t have a uterus or something!

November 17, 2010 at 1:16 pm
(961) Jenna says:

yah…im 32a im like 8 1/2 out of ten thru development….and ive had discharge for a year….it just doesnt add up T.T i feel really imature, its a horrible feeling

*sighs* yah still any ways to start plz plz plz plz plz tell

November 23, 2010 at 2:03 am
(962) Ditto says:

Allie, (895) u nd i r lyk exxxactly thee same, my mum dusnt hav hurr period n e mre cos she gt a hystorectomy, so i feel weird askin her, im a 32a nd we gt the same stuff goinon, guuud 2 no therz sum1 else owt ther lyk me 2!!

November 26, 2010 at 1:24 am
(963) sad periodless gurl :0 says:

laadies i feel your pain my mom started her period when she was 9 im 12 and i have all of the symptoms and i wear a b cup and i have discharge really bad and have had it for a year in a half im in 6th goin to 7th grade and im worried cuz i have had every symptom listed in the books and worried about so is there any way i can start early !!!!!!? plzzzzz if u doo give me some advise

November 26, 2010 at 9:36 pm
(964) Chelseyyyy says:

Okay, I’m 14 and I have my period. There is nothing to be afraid of. I was scared about mine too. But it usually don’t happen in school. They usually happen in the morning or when you wake up you notice that you started. But for me, it happened in school. It won’t bad because the first time it happens it isn’t heavy, like it’s barely even bleeding. With all my friends it happened in the morning though. I was even wearing WHITE skinny jeans. So, don’t worry. You’ll be fine(:

November 28, 2010 at 12:59 pm
(965) i want it says:

im 12 nearly 13 non of my friends have got it and i want to stand out and show them how mature i am and if it did happen in school i wouldent mind because i have the most wonderful form tutor and she would give me suport x lol :0

December 4, 2010 at 9:19 pm
(966) miranda says:

hey im 15 and i think i am geting mine right now but i am not shure. everyone says it swhould be thick and there should be somthing black but im barley bleeding and its thin and nothing black i just noticed like 1 hour ago can anyone help

December 5, 2010 at 2:55 am
(967) abigail says:

ok i really want my periods 2 start cuz i wanna b big n all…
i want a bra too cuz all my frnds wear it buh i dont n its really weird…i wanna kno wat happens 2 u b4 u get it…
so dat ill b ready….pls gimme sum advice..PLZZZ

December 8, 2010 at 3:23 pm
(968) tinychica996 says:

Ok I am 14 almost 15 in the summer and I haven’t even gotten it and I am a freshman… it will come when it comes… I wanna get mine really badly too because all my friends are like B’s and im barly an A, but my mom got it when she was sixteen.. I just want a way to get bigger and fast.. any ideas like food with stuff in it ???!?!?!?!

December 10, 2010 at 8:13 pm
(969) No name says:

Hey u guys im 11 and i want my period so bad that i just cant take it my oldest sister got it when she was nine and my little sister got it at 8 idk how 2 speed it up but this famous doctor/writer said when u get vaginal discharge that u shld have your period about a year after and also she said it sometimes depends on ur race and your familys menstrual history but i started puberty at 8 and i have every thing except my period if u have any recommendations or questins email me at destinyboo010@yahoo.com

December 11, 2010 at 12:58 am
(970) Jeanie says:

I am 11 and i have discharge …dose that mean a going to have it soon … and my best friend is a year younger then me and her bbobs are massive am i different???

December 13, 2010 at 6:15 am
(971) worried as well says:

im 13 and all my class mates had it. im worried if i will never get it….

December 14, 2010 at 3:27 am
(972) priya says:

i am 13 years old.all my frnds have big breasts but i have a flat one and i stilll did not get periods.please anyone say me what to dod to get big breasts and to get periods.say it by starting dear priya so tha t i can find my result easily.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeeeeeee

December 14, 2010 at 8:25 am
(973) I am I ever going to get my period? says:

I thought I was the only won who really really wanted there period!!! I don’t know why I do! I think It is because all my friends have. I am 12 now and have everything inculding discharge. I don’t know when it is going to start that is the annoying thing!! Is there anything that can speed it up??? Please help!!!:C:C:C:C

December 15, 2010 at 5:22 pm
(974) brittany says:

Im 14 and i still havent Started my period , You have to have patience, I told all my friends i have it and I dont want to tell them i dont because they all have it so i dont want to seem like a loner . In order to Start quicker is Eat healthy foods , get lots of sleep. Im Healthy but i hardly ever get sleep.

December 16, 2010 at 7:00 pm
(975) dont worry says:

girls, girls, girls, u will get your period when u least expect it.
im 14 and got mine when i was 12 almost 13.
it doesnt bother me except for when i wanna go swimming with my friends in summer.
when i got mine i just woke up one morning, went to the toilet and there it was. i never wanted it, i dont eat healthy, i hardly get any sleep and i dont eat any soy products. getting your period relys on mother nature.
but i warn u period pain kills!! i got period pain in the DVD section at Kmart and it was soooooo embarrassing!! i almost fainted from the pain!!
oh and also im skinny as. so its not just bulky people who get their period early.

December 17, 2010 at 5:56 pm
(976) sammiea5 says:

im am so ready for my period! i no im only 9 but it really agrivates me that first i learn all about having them but then it never comes. i wear 36A bras too. what really agrivates me is that a girl in my is younger than i am and she said she already started having hers. i prayed the other day for mine to come january 17. you may ask why i chose that certain day. i just have things im doing. my prayers ARE going to be answered!

December 19, 2010 at 9:55 am
(977) Georgiia xx says:

Don’t worry all of you who havnt had their period yet i’m only 11and I just got mine a few days ago and my mum got hers at 14 so everyone gets it a diffrent ages and trust me u don’t want a period it sucks!!!!!

December 22, 2010 at 4:47 pm
(978) chelseaaaa says:

u guys dont want ur period. trust me

December 29, 2010 at 7:03 am
(979) abria says:

hi i am 12 goin on 13 in february and i still hadnt gotten my period and im startin to think its because of my weight i mean my cuzin got it when she was 11 well i think she did and shes only in the 4th grade i need ait and want help badly

December 31, 2010 at 4:47 am
(980) Sarah says:

Hey guys. I know how you all feel. :( I’m 11 and turning 12 on Reb 14th yes I’m a valentine baby xD and I havent started yet. I have a chest bigger that all of my friends except for my friend Tabitha. My bra size is a Large 10/12. My mom bought me some tiny pads just in case and it’s so weird I hid then in the way back of my sock drawer…..o_o I’m not sure when my mom started hers..(because I never ask) but I hope mine comEs when I’m 12…. I just had a though that right when I turn 12 (it’s on a school day) if I should wear my pads just in case I start because I would be sooo embarrasedif it happend at school…

January 2, 2011 at 12:24 pm
(981) j.r.m says:

the last time i had my peroid was two years ago and it never came back ever since. what shold i do

January 3, 2011 at 12:00 pm
(982) Emily says:

None of you need to worry, I did get my period when I was 12/13 but if you see how many people have left comments on here saying that they haven’t started, you will see that you are not alone. And if you have started your period and not got it again in a while then don’t worry because some people don’t get their 2nd period for some years. I am one who suffers badly from period pains and I used to wish my period would come but if you realized how painful it is you would be so grateful that you haven’t started yet. On christmas day I had my period and it was awful, I was up all night beforehand and the pain was unbelievable, i didn’t get to sleep till 3 in the morning and it ruined christmas day. it doesn’t make me feel any more grown up – its just annoying. Everybody has their problems – I wish my boobs were bigger. But just think – at least yours is a problem nobody can see. And if your worried about not fitting in then just tell your friends that you started, they are not going to check. So just be patient :) Btw i wouldn’t try that parsley thing – its just weird and sounds dangerous :/ x
Hope this helps :)

January 4, 2011 at 2:06 pm
(983) Listen2ME says:

Right People I Would Enjoy You Not Starting I was Like You But Now I Just Want To Get Over It You get Cramps In The Morning At Night Sometimes You Cant Sleep :(
And Your taking PainKillers All The Time
So Just Be Patient And If You Dont Start Till Later The Better And Now I Cant Go Swimming So Much So If You Like Swimming Do As Much now as Ever I Would Cause Then U Get All Your time Used Up And You wont Miss It as Much

January 5, 2011 at 10:33 pm
(984) Sally says:

Something about 14 year old girls! I’m 14 too, I came to this site because my doctor said I should start my period 1 year after my breast start to develop. I’m already in a 36 A I think and mine hasn’t started. My mom is getting worried to which stressed me out and made me break out :( . It’s nice to know there are so many of you though :D

January 12, 2011 at 12:28 am
(985) jacie says:

im 12 turning 13 and i have aloottt of discharge pubic hair groth spurt and some armpit hair can ANYONE tell me wen ill start

January 12, 2011 at 6:03 am
(986) almost there says:

hi im 12 i have 2 signs but i feel left out because i’m the only one in my group of friends who dosn’t have it yet

January 13, 2011 at 3:17 pm
(987) me too :( says:

i am 14 about to be 15 :( i havent started yet and i am the last one in my year!! this is so depressing. i am completley flat chested and get teased for it at school :S no one sees past the looks. i feel left out at sleepovers cos my friends always talk about periods but obviously i cant, because i havent started. i have all the signs and have had discharge for about 2 and a half years. it sucks!!! hope i start sometime soon, or i may have to die! my younger cousin (who is ten) is already starting to grow boobs and has all the signs for her period. HELPPP!!!

January 17, 2011 at 1:48 pm
(988) Jennnaa says:

OMG!!I’VE STARTED1!!!! I no how to get them!! ok all you need to do is feel relaxed about it, and know that u will get them wen ur ready typ o thing…i did that and they came in 12 days!!!!!!!!!!! yyaayy gud luck to everyone!!

January 17, 2011 at 1:52 pm
(989) jenna says:

oh n by the way EVERYONE has their period..i bet sum ppl are lying…they always do!

remember that!

January 17, 2011 at 9:20 pm
(990) Lyla says:

Ok, to settle this once and for all…if you have signs of your period or whatever, you just have to wait. Like days, months or a year or 2. I had signs of a period(like a lot of signs), and I thought I was going to have it soon. I asked my older sister about the signs and she said that your period comes later on, like in a month or 2. So, now I hope you understand.

No Signs at all: Like a year
1 or 2 signs: Like about 10 months
Few Signs(More than 2): 8 months
More Signs(More than 5): 7 months
So be prepared!

January 18, 2011 at 1:02 pm
(991) Sarah says:

ON the 16th of december i got this brown smudge in my knickers when I woke up and then on the 16th of january i had really bad discharge and it was slightly pinky and it turns out its my period . its got more red in it now and sometimes its a bit brown, it was also my 13th birthday so that kind of sucked. It wasn’t like horrible when I got it but it wasn’t really fun either, it is just a bit of blood and i have to wear a pad which is really uncomfortable by the way so I might try tampons in like 6 months. I used to like pray for it to come then I dreaded it then I just stopped thinking about it and it came…..i think that theory is right.

January 21, 2011 at 2:47 pm
(992) holding on says:

You know, i think im gonna try relaxing because as badly as ive wanted my period (two years im 13 almost 14) nothing ive done has worked. it just frustrates me though how people WITH their periods act like they know more than us and say we DONT want it and use the fact that we dont have our periods as something to make fun of us with(my sister) ive had discharge for a year officially and it STILL hasnt come. At least when i came to this site there are girls that know what im going through and its helped. -to all my period awaiting website sisters: you are not alone and as painful as it may be it will come (sigh hopefully) and if one of us can wait we all can

January 22, 2011 at 11:08 pm
(993) Kirsty says:

I am 13 Turing 14 in December I have little boobs and I have had discarge on my underwear and I really want to know when I am going to get my period please help

January 22, 2011 at 11:13 pm
(994) Kirsty says:

I am 13 turning 14 in December I am really worried
Because I haven’t got my period lately I have had discarge
on my underwear I have boobs and a bit of a hairy
Vagina please help me !!

January 22, 2011 at 11:28 pm
(995) Kirsty says:

I am 13 turning 14 in December and I haven’t got my
period I have boobs and same pubic hair I haven’t got
hair under my armpits yet I have had some discharge
on my kickers and o really want to know when I am
getting my period !

January 23, 2011 at 4:34 pm
(996) Carla says:

Hiya girls
I am 12 and i am in s1 and i have not had my
period yet and really want it all
My friends have got it and I don and i feel so left out and I our out
I Had White stuff in my pants and I want to no if that means I
Will be getting my period soon And when should i get itI get it
I herd my boyfriend talking to his friend and having sex :/ Wht if he Leeds me on and we do have sex and what will happen
Coz I’m not on my period :/ Plz help :)

January 23, 2011 at 4:43 pm
(997) Carla says:

Hiya girls
I am 12 nearly 13 and I have
still not got my
Period yet I really want it all
My friend have got it
I have pubic hair I have boobs
But no period I have and
White stuff in my pants
And I want to know when my
Period is coming
Is there anyway u can force
It to happen??

January 23, 2011 at 6:09 pm
(998) holding on says:

hey girls its me again. carla, that white stuff is discharge it means your period could come a few months to 1 or 2 years from now. if your boyfriend does what he says kick him to the curb, youre too young and even if you think u r, youre not ready. theres nothing you can do to force it to come so just keep waiting with the rest of us :)

January 26, 2011 at 2:41 am
(999) emily says:

I am 13 Turing 14 in December and I have been
having tummy cramps and I just want to know
If that is a sign of my period I have small boobs
and pubic hair and lately I have had some dischargee on my underwear so can someone
Please tell me if o am going to get my period
soon thanks !

January 28, 2011 at 9:54 pm
(1000) LolaBunni says:

actually u guys are lucky u guys dont want to start u period just yet all i can say is just wait!!
once u start u are going 2 b hurting alot trust me i started wen i was 12 n im 14 now n its killin me so JUS WAIT!!!!

January 28, 2011 at 11:56 pm
(1001) ifeelya'll says:

i have to say that im also almost 14 in 2 months and i still havent had my period but i have benn doing alot of research and i have found out that once you have started your whitish clear disscharges its should be around 6 months intil you start your period. so ill be hanging in there with you because i havent been keeping track of how long i have had the disscharges but i think its been 5 months.

January 29, 2011 at 4:37 pm
(1002) Amie says:

I’m nearly 14 and ain’t started yet most off my friends have started, I feel a bit left out but everyone says it’s horribly and I’m lucky that I ain’t started yet!! I don’t see y some of you 10/12 year olds really want their period I know loads of my friends who are 11 and theyave started they hate it!! It’s better to start later than earlier!!:)

January 30, 2011 at 9:05 am
(1003) Rachael says:

im 12 going on 13 i really want it i am going into year seven in 5 days i am the only ones i cryed for most of last night because i wanted it i have had dis chatge since grade five boob frade five and arm put hair half way thoygh grade six i really wanf it im the obly one

February 1, 2011 at 4:22 am
(1004) paige says:

Ok girls, listen up….

for those that are 11,12,13 and even 14… you don’t NEED your period yet, i mean it is less of a stress without it!!! when you get it, you get it… and you may not get it until your 17 or 18, so don’t worry.

I don’t exactly see why you want it so badly i mean its not a nice thing to have..

and to the girl thats 13 and wants a baby, i wanna slap you because its these type of girls that carry around STD’s, get used and manipulated and end up being miserable.

like seriously you still are a baby dumb b**ch! can you imagine going to school being pregnant, and having a baby? i can tell you it would not be that great…

and scientist have proved that if you have a baby under the age of 16, it’s 48% more likey to have a disability or problem so don’t do it and I’m almost positive that it will ruin your childhood and your family and friends will be so dissapointed in you forever.

thats al i have to say !

February 2, 2011 at 12:53 am
(1005) kylee says:

alright SO. i do have some solutions:) yay! anyways, you can drink : green tea, parsley tea, soy milk, and apply heat to your lady area ( ovary/uturis erea) :) hope this helps girls (:

February 2, 2011 at 6:44 pm
(1006) IM SCARED!!! says:

I’m 11 i don’t have my period yet…..not that i reallywant it. Mom got it when she was 12. I dont know what discharge looks like but i think that i have it its like this slimy stuff on my underwear…not that much. I kinda have boobs, i dont wearbras yet. I have pubic hair its curly& dark and covers almost all of my ‘down there’. I’m scared that it will happen at school or when im tutoring or somthing. i feel weird telling my mom about my period and stuff.

Does anyone have any idea of when my period will come?

February 5, 2011 at 6:04 pm
(1007) natalie says:

hey i know what u r talking about i am 15 and have not started yet i want to though and i have even started using tampons to make it start u should try that too

February 7, 2011 at 5:50 pm
(1008) When?!?!?! says:

This is so annoying! I see your point about it being better to have your period later but it’s just that we are curious and want to find out what it’s like. I haven’t had mine yet but my mum said she had her’s at 14 so I have a while to wait yet.

February 10, 2011 at 4:58 pm
(1009) shannon says:

Ladies, trust me when I tell you be thankful you havent gotten it yet. you will have it plenty once it does make its first appearance.

February 12, 2011 at 6:38 pm
(1010) Alana says:

ok so im 12 going on to 13 in july and i dont want my period but im concernd, see i have ALL the signs, like discharge boobs, hair.., mood swings and i still dont have it. I have had discharge sence 5th grade and im in &th going on to 8th, tell me if thers somthing rong with me!!! pleaseee

February 15, 2011 at 12:24 am
(1011) AutumnEliz•* says:

Dear Luisa,
i am going through the EXACT same thing..((and size))..
Thank you for the milk tip. I have spotted some, but not regularly. I would say I have about 3 times. It worries me that my mom got it on the first day of 5th grade, but i turned 12 in October and am in 7th grade. Its embarrassing! My friend says, “Aww, pooh wittuh Autumn, stiwh a wittuh gewh.”

February 15, 2011 at 9:19 pm
(1012) didnt have my period....YET! says:

its really annoying bcuz all my frends in 7th grade haf it!! i swear all if them! theyre always going oh did u get it today? and they call me names like munchkin, little girl, etc.

i REALLY want my period but at the same time i dont cause my BFF said it really hurts like a bad stomach ache that doesnt go away. im only 12 though(so what??) but i think ive had discharge for a few months and small boobs. i wear a bra but i still feel young. my doctor gave me a physical chekup(its soooo gross, she looked at me everywhere!!) and said i still have 2 years. i was really mad.i think my mom kind of was too cuz she went WHAT? i got mine wen i was twelve;can she get it earlier?cuz i think my mom kind of stocked up on pads and stuff for me.

im supposed to be in 6th grade but im in 7th and ALL my frends are soooooo tall.so are most sixth graders, 5th graders and some 4th graders.its really embarrassing. and i pretend i dont know anything about this stuff in front of my mom, but i know almost everything i need toand dont need to! and my mom treats me like a little kid cuz i dont have it.

February 15, 2011 at 9:32 pm
(1013) still dont have my period....YET! says:

me again. i just want to say lets have fun those of us who havent gotten r periods yet(akkprding to ppl who have it.)

i feel srry 4 thse of u in high skool and stuff who dont have it.

and im pretty jeluss cause i was with my cuzin in india for a whole freekin year and she was the exact same hight as me(im SHORT) and small boobs. i came bak to amerika and 2 weeks later she said she got her period. i waz reely pissed.

February 15, 2011 at 9:37 pm
(1014) Sadgirl101 says:

Ok i am 13 going on 14 in 4 months. I have small boobs i get discharge and i am like really sad. All my friends have it and i get so mad when they talk about it. I feel soooo left out. I know you guys say it sucks but listen it sucks even more being left out and it make s me sad. I want to grow up and be mature pleeease helppp and teell me when you guys will think it will come even though you cant really determine that. THanxx tho plz comment back.

February 16, 2011 at 6:16 pm
(1015) .....still havent gotten my period ......YET! says:

Sadgirl101, i am feeling exacly like u!! you just said it girl. ditto for what she said ppl. :(

February 17, 2011 at 9:22 pm
(1016) Ashley says:

Hii (: Im 13. Turning 14 This Year. I Have Had Lots Of Discharge I Havee Okay Boobs. I Have Pubic Hair 2. Idk Its Just Weird. Im not Saying I Like “WANT!” It. But Its Embarassing. Alllllll My Freinds Have It. Everysingle Onee. I Have Been Having Tummy Aches Lately Though..My Mom Got Hers At 16! My Bff Is 13 And Has Hers.

February 17, 2011 at 11:36 pm
(1017) sarah says:

i have been SO scared to start my period and i have all the symtoms the other day i was with my friends and i had really bad cramps and te next day i had to pee alot and it had blood in it not much nut all the comments have helped and i know i am not alone i am going to be 13 in a copuledays im nt as scared as i wasnow i wait for the day to happen.oh and 2 all the people who want theres your wronge your parents tell u u will miss wen u were a kid now u want 2 be a kid agin

February 19, 2011 at 1:13 am
(1018) stillhavent gotten it. :P says:

Whenn you have your period is the discharge always brown? or cud it be white 2? (btw this is as in your first) btw im 13.

February 21, 2011 at 4:18 pm
(1019) Leah says:

Is it true that you get it around the same time as your parents ?

February 24, 2011 at 3:29 pm
(1020) dizzydevzy says:

i am 12 years old i am also scared about when i get my period most of my friends have it and i dont whant to talk to my mum because i am scared. i am also scared to ask eather off my sister. help me please.

February 24, 2011 at 10:04 pm
(1021) Leahh says:

2 dizzydevzy: you shud try to tak 2 yurr mom i know its probably awkward becuz it was for me. but all moms have had it so they no wat 2 do! after i talked to my mom we went to the store for some pads, just in case. so when your alone with yurr mom try 2 bring it up. just tell her you wud like to get some things to carry around!

February 26, 2011 at 9:37 pm
(1022) Carolina says:

I got my period one time and it never came again. I have a lot of discharge but 5 months have passed and it never came again. Ppl say if u don’t eat lot it won’t come… So idk

February 26, 2011 at 11:01 pm
(1023) Jen says:

Ok so i just turned 14 and i really want my period. All my friends have it and i feel so left out. Eveyone tells me you dont want it but then some people like joke by saying maybe your a man or something. I am not looking foward to the blood and side effexts but i am willing to deal. I only want it for two reasons im already 5 ft 8 and i want to be done growing in way ro tall for a girl and also i want my boob bigger in barley a 32A. I tried drinking green tea and ive been doing it for around two weeks but still nothing.

February 28, 2011 at 7:14 am
(1024) JBLOVER says:


February 28, 2011 at 8:46 am
(1025) HHHIII says:

so let me get this straight

you all want to have your period, so you can talk about it to your friends about how much you hate it?

I have mine right now and it is awful. I have cramps, i’m bloated, i have to change my pad ever like 20 mins, i am getting awful mood swings which annoy my friends and plus it aches down ‘there’…

when you pee blood comes out too

and you can feel it dripping and it is like you are wetting yourself

and in the bathroom at school you have to go thru the awkwardness of taking the plastic off your pad/tampon

then you have to ask your mum for more pads which is realllly awkward..

and also the blood isnt like liquid it comes out with all of this goopy stuff

its soo gross

periods are like the most horrific thing you experience in pubery

gross :P

February 28, 2011 at 8:22 pm
(1026) Daelynn says:

I don’t have my period and I don’t want it u guys are a bunch of immature little girls ,u should b happy u don’t have it ,it’s better to brag about not having to deal with it ,why do u want something that is Gona hurt ,ur time will come ,don’t worry

February 28, 2011 at 8:27 pm
(1027) Mia says:

right I am 13 1/2 and I haven’t started my period, i dont really want to start it as i am the youngest sibling and it would be awkward, basically all my friends have started and they moan about it! but i have got all the symptoms and have had them for about 3 or 4 years now, as i said i dont really want it, but if i had it i would try and keep calm and carry on :L i used to worry and expect it all the time but over the years i have learned that there are good and bad points to it, and it will come when its ready i just really hope that i dont get it at school or something like that! and i dont have an older sister and me and my mum find it very awkward almost like she doesnt want me to grow up, but i will be ready for it although i dont mind waiting! :) <3 xx goodluck ladies ;) xoxo

February 28, 2011 at 8:51 pm
(1028) HEEHEELOL says:

can someone predict me?
age: 12
moms age:14
breasts 32A-30B
discharge:15 months
height:5′ 2 1/2

March 1, 2011 at 10:40 am
(1029) midnight13 says:

Girls, don’t worry about it – it only delays your cycle more if you stress out. Besides, it’s super normal to start anywhere between the ages of 9 and 18 (even as late as 20). And besides, you should enjoy your life sans period as much as possible while you still can. Having to keep track of a monthly happening and bleeding for 5 days straight isn’t as fun as it sounds. Also, keep in mind that just because you have your period it doesn’t mean you’ll mature into a ‘womanly’ body. I’m 23, have had my period since I was 12, and am proudly the owner of some lovely 34A boobs and absolutely no curves. It all depends on your genetic makeup, and possibly a bit of luck. If you’re worried about getting your period by surprise in class, I’d suggest maybe start wearing some panty liners – they’ll generally hold you over until you can get to the bathroom. Also, if you’re 13 and already having sex – I very much encourage you to stop, you’re not emotionally ready for all of the things that come with being sexually active. But if you feel that you need to continue, be smart about it and always use protection. The responsibilities that come with having a child or getting an STD or STI are ones that a 13 year old should never have to worry about. Anyway, good luck girls – hope I could help a bit!

March 3, 2011 at 3:00 pm
(1030) tinkssxx says:

:O, i was in the same position as you, i was 14 and it was coming up to my 15 birthday and i hadnt started and all my friends had :/ i thought i had somthing wrong me or something, then one day about 3 days before my birthday with our ANY signs at all i started it :D i was sooo happy! iv only had it about 6 times now and i am already sick of it and finding ways to stop it :/ its soooo anoying you DO NOT want it at all, i really cant believe i was soo anoyed because i hadnt had it yet :’( i wish i still hadnt started yet :’(, soo its completely normal that you dont have it yet, i knew someone who didnt get it until she was 19 :O and she is fine and healthy :) trust me you DO NOT want it! just think how lucky you are, you can do things like swimming and stuff when other cant :’( <33

March 6, 2011 at 8:44 am
(1031) Grace says:

Hey everyone

I posted a comment back in august i think, but i couldn’t find it cause theres too many other comments. Anyway, i wrote that I was gonna calm down about my period. It would come eventually. Well, i got it early january, and have been getting it regular ever since (in my family, thats normal. We all got it straight off the bat regular). Anyway, what I’m trying to say is, calm down. You will get your period. You might not even know it was your period. When i got it, i was in the bathroom, saw brown stuff in my panties, and ignored it, thinking it was something else (i know, tmi) thank goodness the first period is light, cause i didnt realize till i got home.

So don’t worry, it’ll come. And Btw, zinc is essential for sex organs to grow and for your periods to come. Although i doubt anyone has a zinc deficiency, it wouldn’t hurt to look up some sinc filled foods and see if you’ve been skimping on zinc. Just don’t overdo it.

March 6, 2011 at 3:54 pm
(1032) Mikayla says:

Omg this was me two months ago!!! I’m 14 and i got it late january. I’ve had it one other time, and that was late febuary. Honestly, its not that bad. Cramps are annoying, but I’ve noticed that if you exercise the pain goes away. At least, for me. It can be hard during school, but its worth it. I remember looking at period apps in agony, wishing i could download just one. I remember lying to almost everyone who asked, except for a few really close friends and my mom, saying “i got it”. I remember looking at tampon commercials thinking (lucky bitches). And I think going through a little pain is worth it, because now i can get the thing I’ve been dreaming of since 6th grade. And the girls who used to want it but now say they wish they didn’t have it obviously don’t remember life before their periods an how much they wanted it. :)

March 10, 2011 at 11:44 pm
(1033) Ellie says:

Hey everyone I’m 11 going on 12 and I have all the signs of pueberty I even have to shave my armpits. But no period and all of my friends have theirs and my friend that is 10 just got hers and I am way more developed then her. She is very flat chested. And I’m going to trythr green tea thing but yeah!!!!! HELP!!!!

March 11, 2011 at 12:43 pm
(1034) alm says:

I’m 13 and I haven’t started my period yet me and my best friend were the only ones to have not started in out friendship group I was really upset when she started yesterday I really want to start and get on with it I feel left out now!!! :’( I just want it to come. My sister started when she was 14 she said I will start when I’m 14 will I ??

March 11, 2011 at 1:06 pm
(1035) I've had enough!!! says:

I’m exactly the same as alm but I have 32b size boobs I have quite a lot of hair down ‘there’ I had my 13th birthday 2 months ago I want my period to hurry up I also have quite a bit of hair under my armpits. but I’m confused over 1 thing I have had discharge for over 2 maybe 3 years now all these websites tell me that I will get my period 6-18 moths after I get discharge I get really upset and I feel left out in most thing when my friends talk about it. I’m quite sporty but the last 3-4 months my belly has got bigger does this mean I’m gonna start?? I dont want to ask my mum I think Im too young to talk about stuff like that today I was going to ask her about it today but I just done have the courage too :/

March 12, 2011 at 8:28 pm
(1036) KIKI says:


March 14, 2011 at 8:44 pm
(1037) :P says:

My boobs hurt so bad! i got spotting but i havent had it..the spottiing was like a week 1/2 ago. km not sure when i am going 2 but i have been having some cramps here and there..i just DONT wanna start t school!

March 15, 2011 at 9:15 pm
(1038) *O* says:

I am 11 and I really really really want my period. Why can’t I get it. I have discharge but no period.

March 15, 2011 at 9:43 pm
(1039) summer says:

wow, really?! you girls actually WANT you period?! its suuuuuch a pain in the butt!! i got mine in freshman year of highschool. it really depends on your height and weight and overall health for when you’ll get your period. so stop freaking out! because, trust me, once you have for about a few months you’ll hate it!

March 16, 2011 at 8:06 pm
(1040) Mysterious Person says:

OMG! Im 14 and i STILL dont have my period! Ugh im in 8th grade bout 5’4″ and around 110..I just wish there was a way to get it…ALL my friends got it..and i have bigger boobs than most of them…i wear 34B and they wear like 32A!! Ugh and they talk bout it ALLLL the time…I just wish i could get it…I feel like a little girl…i have all the signs!! can someone please help me! if you eat healthier will that help? :’( Someone please help!!!

March 17, 2011 at 8:29 pm
(1041) *Jessie* says:

Hey im 14 and have NO period….. i really DONT want it hearing all the bad stuff that goes along wiht it. i am as flat as a board! i dont want to talk to anybody about it cuz its a weird topic…. i read some of the comments and i feel a lot better knowing that im not the only one going through this….. im really confused and all i want is BOOBS!!!!!!!!!!!! im going to a freshman next year and i dont want to get it in the middle of class! i have been having discharge for about 2 years now and my hips are huge! and ive been getting hair down there and its enbarrassing when i take showers in the locker rooms and changing clothes in front of my friends who HAVE their periods…..

any advice?!?!?!?!?

March 20, 2011 at 3:36 pm
(1042) Help says:

Ok i have had the signs of having my period and have had dicharge for over 6 months and nothing i am12 going on 13 and all my friends have had theeirs and i feel left out do that green tea method work plz help

March 22, 2011 at 3:45 pm
(1043) :P says:

Green Tea Only Works If You Have Your Period. You May HAve Your Period Soon But You Have Discharge For 6-18 Months Be fore You Actually Get It.

March 24, 2011 at 9:41 pm
(1044) *O* says:

It is me again. Are headaches signs of my period coming? Also I have been getting cramps. Someone please answer me. Thanks!

March 25, 2011 at 1:36 am
(1045) Boreddd. says:

Yeah Headaches, Cramps, Moodswings Stuff Like That Are Signs Of Your Period Comingggg

March 28, 2011 at 8:26 pm
(1046) Angel says:

i have not had mine yet i am 12 about tu turn 13 and i want it so that i do not have to worry about when i am gonna get it and always check and i have ALL of the signs!!


March 29, 2011 at 7:53 pm
(1047) iluvmonkeys says:

im 11 and i have a considerable amont of hair in my south and a little on my armpit alot of discharge my boobs are overlapping and jiggle will i get my period soon

March 29, 2011 at 8:45 pm
(1048) Lillllly says:

Angel: Do Yu Have Brown Discharge? Are Yu Spotting? Cuz If Yu Are Then Yu’ll Have It Really Soon !

March 29, 2011 at 8:47 pm
(1049) Lillllly says:

iluvmonkeys: It Depends..If Yu Have Brown Dishcarge Or Spotting..And If Yurr Cramping..Then Yess. Very Soon

March 31, 2011 at 5:32 pm
(1050) iluvmonkeys says:

so some one said you have weigh enough to surpport a baby to get ur period ps im 105

March 31, 2011 at 5:38 pm
(1051) iluvmonkeys says:

idk how cramps feel like and i dont have red spottings and something weird i have a pimple on one of my boobs is that a sign ?????????????????????????????????????

March 31, 2011 at 9:56 pm
(1052) Lillllly says:

Yeahh Ahha, Spots Are Normal, Its okay. Lol..Its not A Pimplee(:

March 31, 2011 at 10:19 pm
(1053) Somethingtothinkabout says:

I’m a pretty honest person and I totally understand what mostly everyone is going through. I’ve had that feeling of wanting to feel and look my age. I was 16 and my little sister who is 12 got her period before me. It was devastating to me, I was in tears. However the funny thing was after she got her period a week later I got mine. ^-^ I have wanted my period for awhile I was a sophmore and I still haven’t gotten my period. My boobs were pretty much non-existent. I felt like I looked like I belonged in my sisters grade, which was 7th grade. As a sophmore it was embarassing!!! However like I said I eventually begun my period. It was totally unexpected and like I’m sure everyone has told you a million times it will happen when you least expect it. haha my mom must have told me a thousand times it will happens when it happens. So don’t worry I totally understand what your going through and how it feels but don’t worry everything will work out. Its normal you will get it eventually. ;)

April 1, 2011 at 10:46 pm
(1054) Rosalynn says:

I was reading the questions you girls asked,why are all of you so anxious about getting your period? You cannot make it come faster(not possible).Okay,some of you might say ”ugh..I don’t know anything,”but I’m a girl well adult so I too have gone through this. Plus you don’t want to be in school having to worry about it,and when it is coming.It will come when it’s time(you can’t force it in any way,or form)

Just wait**

April 5, 2011 at 4:19 pm
(1055) arhhhhhhhhhhh 14 no period says:

i have read your comments and i am the same been having sines but i just want it to come now!! I have looked about and seen that green tea could help hope it works!!!!!!!!!!!

April 10, 2011 at 2:20 pm
(1056) nikki says:

im 13 i have had mine for almost a year now and honestly cant understand why you would want it.ITS NOT A BIG DEAL! dont worry about getting it in class just keep a pad with you.trust me i wanted it too but it isnt that great! i wish i hadnt started yet coz i hate it.

April 10, 2011 at 5:28 pm
(1057) Anonymous says:

Is darker urine a sign of a period

April 11, 2011 at 8:40 am
(1058) annymous says:

I wanna start so badly man seriously!! I am 11 nearly 12 and its so not fair!! Apparantly green tea helps so try it girls

April 12, 2011 at 2:29 pm
(1059) Rhiannon says:

Girls I just got my period 2 days ago, and it’s
NOT fun! I just turned 12 in March and the
6th grade dance is coming up soon! I don’t
want to have to where a pad to the dance!
None of my friends have gotten it and im
MAD!!!! And when I got my period I was in
Hawaii! Really!

And Messia, I may be younger than u but I
know that having sex at that age is wrong.
U don’t know what could happen, u could
have a child and u wouldn’t know how to care
for it, or u could get a diease that could
possibly kill u.

April 12, 2011 at 7:37 pm
(1060) Someone who might help says:

Hey i just got my period last month and all those girls who say you don’t want it, well i like it becasue i get to say i am a women and not a kid, but it does have down sides like cramping, mood swings, acne, ext.

Rumored tips:
Green Tea
Heavier wieght

April 13, 2011 at 3:52 pm
(1061) LISTENTOME says:

OKAY GUYS LISTEN UP, i’ve read ALL those comments, its basically people saying “WHY WOULD YOU WANT YOUR PERIODS!!!!?” and the answer is “I’M LEFT OUT, I WANNA MATURE” well, i turned 13 in december, and all my friends started 3 months after they turned 13, so since i was the youngest i though i’d get mind february/march time, i haven’t though, and i got really upset about it, especially when they were all talking about it, i kind of laughed it off, but then i realised, periods are gonna affect us in so many ways, we’re going to go on holidays and have our periods, in school when we’re sat in class, we’re gonna feel self consious, sports is gonna be a struggle, arguments with our mums and family and friends cause of our stupid mood swings, growing pains in our breasts, and yet, this is gonna be with us for most of our lives, so see how i realised in a way i’m really lucky i can enjoy the time i have left, my mum was 14 when she started and so was my sister, i know i’ll start when im 14 if not before, so i’m just gonna enjoy this summer and all the time i have left, as a liberated teen! don’t worry about your breasts, sometimes you can be an a for years and then suddenly shoot up to a DD, believe me! I’m a 32B, medium height, pubic hair thats not yet darkened, i have discharge all the time, and i know my time is coming, just relax, and not doing exercise isn’t gonna slow down your period, i do 5 hours worth of hard running trainning, and i’m blossoming into a young woman, my friends who have started have a smaller chest than me, i’m gonna grow more when i start my periods, and i know you might all me saying I’M TINY!! don’t worry, seriously i’m in the same boat as you, i’ve been there, we don’t have to deal with the crippling cramp the moodswings or te self consiousness yet, and when it does come, we’ll be wishing we were back here, so LADIES, ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM!<3

April 13, 2011 at 7:03 pm
(1062) Female says:

I’m 18, and you guys can have my period. It sucks. >:(

April 14, 2011 at 12:59 am
(1063) Secret says:

I have the same problem!I am 14 and I am so scared!someone help me!!!!!!!!

April 15, 2011 at 2:57 pm
(1064) Rebecca says:

Periods SUCK I started mine on Tuesday and I really wish I would have enjoyed the time that I didnt have it:( ENJOY LIFE WHILE OU STILL CAN!!:D lol

April 17, 2011 at 11:51 am
(1065) Scared says:

Im 12 and have all the signs of having a period i have discharge and boobs, cramps and mood swings ,and my vagina hurts all the time i have and apitate amd foods cravings and my back hurts all my friends have theres and i feel left out any advice plz?

April 17, 2011 at 6:09 pm
(1066) periodlessgirl says:

im 11 wear a 36B have all the signs and have had them for like 3 yrs and still havent gotten my period i told my friend i got in but i feel bad! I WANT MY PERIOD! ANY ADDVISE?

April 20, 2011 at 4:23 pm
(1067) Disgusted says:

To Brittney from comment 632….that is completely disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourself! You should not be ‘doing it’ until you are married! You need to knock that off, or you will end up pregnant when you get your period. Please stop now! And, what happened in the world that made kids think they can have a boyfriend or a girlfriend in middle school?! Blech!

April 20, 2011 at 4:35 pm
(1068) No need to fear says:

All of you 11, 12, 13 year olds have nothing to worry about! Don’t feel left out! I am 15 and I have a thyroid disease that causes me to have delayed puberty. I have a feeling I will be 18 when I finally get my period(if I ever do). My boobs can’t even fit into a bra! I felt a little left out at first, but your body will work itself out. You need to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, and to realize you are no alone! If you treat yourself right, and get exercise it will eventually come. Oh, and if you want it because you want to be mature, you need to realize your period won’t make you mature. If you want to be mature, act mature. Also, don’t stress about it! Stress causes delays in puberty, and it really isn’t that big of a deal. If you are 14 or older, you should probably go se your doctor and get a blood test to see what is going on. Everyone needs to take a deep breath and relax……it will come eventually! good luck, ladies!

April 21, 2011 at 4:51 am
(1069) heyyx says:

hi im 12 and i started my period last month – but this month i havn’t had it and im almost 2 weeks late. i am not sure if there is something wrong or if its normal when you r new to thw whole thing – plz help i need some answers! :) xx

April 21, 2011 at 9:04 pm
(1070) Unknown says:

I am 12 … I have had discharge for like 11months to a year
And I am finally getting the symptoms
Like mood changes and irritability ..
And stuff ad it’s been like a week or two
And I haven’t started .. I’m in a bad mood all of the time .. The worst thing is I told my best
friend I started and if I don’t start by summer se would have known I lied .. Ughhhh can
Someone please tell me if I might be about to sstart .. PLEASE HELPP THIS IS

April 23, 2011 at 3:55 pm
(1071) Lauren says:

eerm… hey everyone. im 13 and havent got mine either. it sucks. but anyway, ive been doing some browsing and ive found that some people have tried the green tea trick and its worked for them! :-) its were you have 3-4 or as many cups of green tea as you can and after 2-3 days or so you will apparantly start your monthlys :-) okk ive like just got some tea bags and just finished my 3rd cup on my first day and it sort of feels differant in a way. im getting belly aches and stuff. :-) ive also found out that (kinda gross) masturbating can like get your hormoens going and everything so yeah. im having a go on the green tea thing and seing how it goes but ive seen on many websites that it works between 2-4 days. your supposed to have breast pains on the second day and just carry on going really. im trying that and i’ll let you know if it worked :-) <3 by the way guys: please dont be upset and stuff cause your just gonna make yourself depressed and down. keep smiling, couple of green teas and relaxing may do the trick.. <3<3

April 24, 2011 at 5:30 pm
(1072) I'm back.. says:

I this will sound really really weird but…I don’t want it for the physical change, I want it for the bond you make with your mum when it happens, the bond thats so strong and knowing you can both talk about being woman…:(, I know I’m going to art in like 6 months or so, but all my friends have, I feel discharge come out my vagina…i just crave it :(

April 25, 2011 at 9:52 pm
(1073) Katie j says:

Hey guys read all these comment listen many people dont have their periods and their your age so dont feel bad ur not the only onE im 13 and i havnt gotton mine

May 1, 2011 at 7:24 pm
(1074) Girls help says:

Its totaly normal not to have it at age 14. But I heard that by drinking green tea. Dont get discouraged though this doeant work for everyone. Green tea starts to work by drinking 3-5 cups a day for 3-4 days. if you dont notice any thing after a week then its not for you. Wanting your period is not unnormal. Just because you dont have it doesnt mean your not a women. That stuff is the physical sign of being a women not the mentle. Hope this worked!!!

May 4, 2011 at 7:57 pm
(1075) skittles says:

my sis is 14 she just started so chillex

May 5, 2011 at 7:33 pm
(1076) Amy says:

I’m only 10 and so are my friends but 3 days ago my friend got hers and I find out 2 days ago that my other friend got hers when she was 9 I asked my other friend who would never lie to me and she said no but right after I said that she went into the bathroom with a period bag we all have one we went shopping just incase it has pads tampons and I know what they all look like I felt left out so I told my friends I got it is that bad? I feel bad I’ve showed all the signs since the end of 4th grade and still I haven’t gotten it ever since we started school I had really bad cramps! I want it so bad all my friends have it and I don’t I feel really feel left out when they make sessions to change their tampons or sit at the end of the table so they can talk about their periods or cramp remedies and one of my friends and I grew apart but shes friends with my other friends she says to me everyday ” u can’t sit with us you haven’t gotten ur period yet” and I really feel bad!!

May 8, 2011 at 7:21 pm
(1077) Unknown! says:

I’m 13 going on 14 in a few months. I have got my period yet. All my friends have gotten their periods and I feel left out! My mom started her period when she was 13. I’ve had discharge in for the last year and a half, the last few weeks I’ve been having cramps, but I have size 32A boobs. It sucks! Whenever I’m at a sleepover with a group of friends they all talk about their periods and how sucky it is, I’m sitting there like I WANT MY PERIOD! I just feel left out :/ at school people talk about it in front of me and I just feel like a little girl who hasn’t hit puberty. Is there anyway you can help?! If so please help me!

May 10, 2011 at 9:17 pm
(1078) Megan (someone that might help from april 12) says:

hello me again, my period just came yesterday and am telling you that I had drank lots of milk for strong bones and health and i just started three days early!! i drank it three times everyday for a week and a half.
Just don’t think its a popularity thing because its
seriously not a bragging right to say “i have blood coming out of me so ha!” just think of it that way!

May 11, 2011 at 1:16 am
(1079) Am I a freakish girl?. says:

I’m 14 and I will be 15 next month and I still have never gotten my period. I’m scared, yes. I’m scared I will never get it. BUT, my mom didn’t get hers untill she was 14, and my aunt didn’t get hers untill she was 15. Hopefull I’m just a late bloomer and theres nothing wrong with me.

But I do have a question. Can weight effect the coming of your period at all? I am 5″9 1/2, and I weight 235lbs. I do not look like it at all, and I am being truthful here. Most people think I am in the 170lb range. Even the Dr. was confused when she weighed me. I have love a little weight though, about 5 lbs since January. I plan on trying to lose at least 35lbs.

I have swamsince I was 7, and alot of the time I did hard work outs. I am still swimming now, and I herd that when girls do full body workouts, their periods can sometimes get delayed.

But right now I’m feelin’ like I really want to get it. I am going to try to lose some weight, and see if that helps.

Oh! and I have these brown stains in my underwear! Any sign of what it is?

May 11, 2011 at 8:19 pm
(1080) Jessica says:

So im 15, and i just started my period about a month ago, i was just wondering if ill get it again this month? or will it be super irregular and not come for like 6 months? I have pretty bad spotting eevery day still..is this normal to?

To all the other girls, its fine i wanted it badly before, then i gave up b/c i new i was never going to get it, but one day it came and i dont mind it. As long as i wear a tampon its not bad.
just try and forget about it and before you no it it’ll come!

May 13, 2011 at 11:17 am
(1081) ChloeRoseex says:

Hay Guyss;) I knowww, im 12 nearly 13; I REALLY want my periodd, a bunch of my friends have it and they all wear nice brs and have big boobs, I know theyres quite a few who havent as well but I want to be like them! I mean im not completely flat like a 30A and I have all the hair and shave and stuff, I have had the discharge for like one and a half years and ive been wondering when I will start, ive been waiting for sooo long now andi just want to get it obver and done with, if there is anyway toway to get my periods faster I would love to know them, I AM BEGGING YOU PLEASE, thank you and btw mellisa,i dont think you should be having sex a 13 its just not rightt:L

May 13, 2011 at 8:41 pm
(1082) Been There says:

Getting your period may seem like the most important thing in your life right now, but trust me, there are much more important things in life. I used to worry about getting my period all the time because all of my friends got their period and I felt left out.
But, everyone matures at different rates and that is what makes everyone different…the world would be so boring if everyone was the same. I didn’t get my period until I was 15 (and I was in high school too). I wanted it so bad, but it is not that special …actually it can be a pain sometimes.
I am not a doctor, but if you don’t get it by 16 make an appointment. There is still much time to grow up don’t rush it :)
Good luck to all :D

May 13, 2011 at 8:48 pm
(1083) diaba says:

ive had discharge for about a year and i dont have a period

May 13, 2011 at 10:34 pm
(1084) Alexisthebest says:

Hey girls. Listen, I am afraid there is no way to process this. I just turned 12 three months ago and I have it. You guys are so lucky that you don’t have it yet. Your friends are not lucky either. It is Hell. You get alot of cramps, headaches, bloatness, and heavy flooding. It lasts for five days. I am pretty sure you will regret saying this in the future. So lucky… :(

May 14, 2011 at 1:47 am
(1085) mary says:


every girl is different. some girls start as early at 11 and some dont start till 15 or 16. it doesnt mean anything is wrong with you. and dont worry about startign your period in class because usually the first time you get it, theres hardly any blood. the first time i got my period i hardly even noticed it. embrace the moments before you have your period. because soon you will have them 12 times a year till your 40 and it SUCKS.

May 14, 2011 at 1:32 pm
(1086) kayla brown says:

i turned 13 but i have my period and i don’t like it but i just want to say i want to be like you all cause i do not like having a period at all so just be free cause on monday it’s coming off and i get to be free

May 14, 2011 at 1:45 pm
(1087) kayla brown says:

hi i am 13 i just turned 13 today and i have my period and you do not want it and i just want to say good luck and i want to be like you so i won’t have my period because it is so uncomfortable well on Monday it ends can’t wait i will be free so you are free and good luck having the worst nightmares

May 14, 2011 at 4:10 pm
(1088) *O* says:

Today I was in the bathroom and when I wiped myself I found blood does this mean I have my period or like is it just spotting. P.S. It was only a little blood

May 15, 2011 at 1:31 pm
(1089) I lied about my period HELP says:

so it was at camp adn my friends all have there period and this girl just announced that she just got her first period and i said that i did tooooo!!!!! turns out that after camp we were hanging out and she got hers thatt night and she told us that she actually didnt get it at camp and i felt relieved. i asked what i was suppost to do becasue i told her that i didnt really get mine and she just kinda blew me off for this other girl sooooooo please help me i need to fix this before it spreads across the world.

May 16, 2011 at 8:49 pm
(1090) eva says:

am 18 goinq to be 19 on july n i dnt have my period at all idk wat to do no more am realy worry that it might b sumthinq bad =(

May 17, 2011 at 10:36 am
(1091) Anomonouse says:

Gosh guys seriously u don’t want to have ur periods they are so annoying changing the pads/tampons recess and lunch and iit is very embarrassing to buy the sypplys
And tge cramps are so f***ing bad that u want to curl up and die
And I wish I never got my period all I wish for is it to go away and never come back

May 21, 2011 at 5:46 am
(1092) mystery says:

soo like;; i have every sign;; i have pubic hair all over armpets, bikini spots and acne. i just started for 1 year and a half… but NO SIGN OF MY PERIOD…. BTW im 15 years old… everyone in my family says THEY ALL STARTED EARLY!!!! and im the only late** one… EVERYONE in the family HAS HUMONGOUS BUSTS!!! and im flat;; plus plus;; im lop sided!!! plus im like 4 ft 8,, ONLY!!!! i feel like a little kidd… just my luck!!!

this guy that i have a crush on says i have the same physical looks of my 11 year old cousin!!! i was like WTFF!!!! forget you!!! dudd im losing selfasteen** how ever you say it!! and btw my cousin has bigger busts than me>>> T_T i feel sorry for myself… dangg it gosh!! why cant my period come to make me feel a little better,, ive been waiting for 3 years now;; i hate life…

May 21, 2011 at 5:47 am
(1093) panda says says:

soo like;; i have every sign;; i have pubic hair all over armpets, bikini spots and acne. i just started for 1 year and a half… but NO SIGN OF MY PERIOD…. BTW im 15 years old… everyone in my family says THEY ALL STARTED EARLY!!!! and im the only late** one… EVERYONE in the family HAS HUMONGOUS BUSTS!!! and im flat;; plus plus;; im lop sided!!! plus im like 4 ft 8,, ONLY!!!! i feel like a little kidd… just my luck!!!

this guy that i have a crush on says i have the same physical looks of my 11 year old cousin!!! i was like WTFF!!!! forget you!!! dudd im losing selfasteen** how ever you say it!! and btw my cousin has bigger busts than me>>> T_T i feel sorry for myself… dangg it gosh!! why cant my period come to make me feel a little better,, ive been waiting for 3 years now;; i hate life…

May 21, 2011 at 5:18 pm
(1094) Kiera says:

Girls dont worry…
I got mine when i was 12 and trust me its not that fun…its not really bad but i would prefer not to have it. it may seem important now but its really not!!
There are so many other things in life that are important, (well more important at least).. Every girl is different and there is no way to get it sooner. Mother nature will make that decision. Please dont make getting your first period or wearing your new bra be the most important thing in ur life,,, cauze thats what i am hearing.
And dont let mean girls bother you about getting your first period there is notin u can do about it!!!!
girls may be mean fro cramps or mod swings trust me i know the feeling i get that way too!!!!
So dont worry it will eventually come for girls who want it.. And ps… if ur worried bout getting it at school and have some signs, play it safe and pack some pads or tampons


May 21, 2011 at 5:18 pm
(1095) Kiera says:

Girls dont worry…
I got mine when i was 12 and trust me its not that fun…its not really bad but i would prefer not to have it. it may seem important now but its really not!!
There are so many other things in life that are important, (well more important at least).. Every girl is different and there is no way to get it sooner. Mother nature will make that decision. Please dont make getting your first period or wearing your new bra be the most important thing in ur life,,, cauze thats what i am hearing.
And dont let mean girls bother you about getting your first period there is notin u can do about it!!!!
girls may be mean fro cramps or mod swings trust me i know the feeling i get that way too!!!!
So dont worry it will eventually come for girls who want it.. And ps… if ur worried bout getting it at school and have some signs, play it safe and pack some pads or tampons


May 21, 2011 at 10:32 pm
(1096) Me says:

I’m turning thirteen this year and I already started.. Don’t worry because when you first start it’s not gonna be a HUGE amount. Probably just some spotting.. Some people start soon and some start early. It really just depends on your body. Don’t worry about it, you will know when it does.

P.S: If you think you might be starting or could be soon, keep pads, extra underwear, or pantyliners in your backpack. And don’t be scared to tell your teacher that you have to go to the bathroom. If you are too embarrased, then write a note if you don’t want to say it.. Possibly go to the nurse to if you don’t know what to do or are confused. Hope this helps!

May 23, 2011 at 8:41 pm
(1097) Debra says:

I’m 13 and I just got my first period yesterday. But I knew I was getting it because my Mom got her’s at 13. I was also getting the discharge. My boobs were growing more, I was getting a few cramps, and I was cranky. I got a pimple. Then I got my period. At first, I was happy and I was telling all my friends. And now I’m suffering through a tough cramp. They suck. Periods suck. But if you aren’t eating right, or sleeping right, it might affect if you get your period late or not. Ask your Mom when she got her period, because that can help you know when you might get your’s. So make sure you eat enough, sleep enough, and exercise often. Because once you get your period, exercising = less cramps!!!

May 23, 2011 at 11:11 pm
(1098) Brooke says:

I’m 13 years old and I turn 14 on July 15th. I’m in 8th grade and still haven’t gotten my period! I really want it because I feel left out when people talk about it so I usually lie and go along with it pretending like I have it. I have pretty big boobs and I’ve had discharge for about a year now and grow hair here and there and have a lot of pimples but-nothing. My mom got her’s when she was 11 and my sister got her’s when she was 12. Help!

May 24, 2011 at 11:43 am
(1099) liah Barrett says:

OMG my nan started at 18 !!!!!!! i asked her how she felt and she sed that allllll of her friends picked on her at skoool, by all the boys x and she sed that she always wanted 2 start her periods but the 2nd week she had it she sed that she hated it!!!!!!! i am almosed there and im 12 in a half xx loads of people hav started thier periods and there all talking bout it xx Ive only had a lil show 2 months agoo xx trust me x it aint very nice xxxxxx

May 24, 2011 at 5:03 pm
(1100) meeeeee is my name says:

ok i am 12. I have been having vaginal discharge for 2 years! i have a lot of hair everywhere (if you know what i mean haha) and i am wearing the same size bra my mom was wearing when she got pregnant with me, and she was 21. BUT I STILL HAVEN”T GOTTEN MY PERIOD! i mean i don’t want it, im just confused on why i don’t have it!?!?! haha and ive had the whole greasy hair thing, changes of thoughts, acne, and STILL! blah im waiting for it to come to get it over with, and when i have vaginal discharge, it has started to be in a cycle like a period, except it isn’t blood! hahait comes about once a month and stays a bit longer than a period.

May 28, 2011 at 10:28 am
(1101) Sarah says:

Oh that’s not bad I had mine once when I was 10 and am now 14 and haven’t had it again. It just worries me that maybe something went wrong and now I won’t be able to have kids or something!

May 30, 2011 at 11:56 am
(1102) Jessica says:

Hi girls , I know some of you are worried because people younger than you have had their period. But we’re all different , some girls have their period at as young as eight! And some have theirs as old as 16! Let nature take its place , it’ll happen when it happens. Don’t feel ashamed , everyones different .
Hope this helps!
:-) x

June 1, 2011 at 8:17 am
(1103) kasey says:

OMG im 15 156cm tall flat flat cheasted (like a wall) im only 42kg and i dont have my period all my friends hav it and i no nothing about it i tell my friends that i have it and i hate lying the girl next door to me got hers and she is only 12 i dont feel like a women i feel like a 8 yr old i hate not having it iv tried ever thing iv cryed iv prayed and iv even tryed gaining weight also i cant gain weight 4 some reason i can eat fatty foods coz my parents want let me in soooo thin i h8 kids teasing me coz in thin i want to b normal like all my friends help

June 2, 2011 at 9:02 am
(1104) Emma says:

DO NOT worry if you aren’t getting your period! It is only considered Abnormal not to have it when you are over 19 years old!
WHY DO YOU WANT IT SO MUCH??? it’s HORRIBLE!!! You cry for no reason, your stomach hurts, it’s a mess, you have mood swings, it’s really uncomfortable! I don’t understand why you want it so much!
I got mine on my 13th birthday, an I wish I had gotten it later!
So just be happy you don’t have them for god’s sake

June 2, 2011 at 4:58 pm
(1105) Kate says:

OMG. Guys, I feel your agony! I turned fourteen last FEBRUARY, and feel seriously worried and left out. ALL my friends have started, and cos of this ive even pretended to them all (even my BEST mates) that I have started. I feel like a freak. :S
Also, my breasts are not very big either – they’re like bee stings. SO DEPRESSING X

June 3, 2011 at 5:51 am
(1106) indy says:

i am nearly 13, and i started puberty nearly 3 years ago, and have discharge for over 2years, i just want to get it over and done with:/

June 4, 2011 at 6:01 pm
(1107) 16andinever says:

Hi I am 16 and I never had it

June 4, 2011 at 8:58 pm
(1108) Jess4life says:

Omg im 13 in one month and i want my period badly! only a few of my friends have it and I’m ahead in puberty than a couple of them, but i still want it! i no that stressing over getting it slows it down, but ever time i tell myself it will happen soon i just get all worried! :( plus, i have a reason to be extra scared, i have read that u usually get your period within 1-2 years of hitting puberty, but i started puberty when i was 6 years old!!!! (no joke :/ )i have been having all the signs that are mentioned for 3 years now but I’m freaking out! :( i used to think that its just cause all girls start at different times, but should i be worried of not getting my period after 6 years of puberty!?

June 5, 2011 at 5:50 am
(1109) heepycoolgirl says:

green tea might help :)

June 5, 2011 at 5:13 pm
(1110) yoyoyoyoyo says:

ok all of you guys are 12 to 13 to 14 and i am only turning 11 but you know when all your body parts start to grow that started in year 5 and now i am going to be in high school in september and i am scared because i thought that when your body parts grow you are supposed to get it but i havent so i would like to know some of the signs you get ok leave a comment (i)

June 5, 2011 at 9:12 pm
(1111) Period hater says:

Hey girls!!! I’m reading all of your comments and saying how lucky you girls are trust me you don’t want to get your period the later the better you won’t to know why? Because it is the worst thing ever for about 5 days or more every month you are in so much pain with cramps and lower back pain , you are bleeding out tons of blood wich smells terrible by the way an if you were pads you have to change them every time you bleed because its so uncomfortable. I’m 14 and got mine last year and boy am i mad i wish that girls didn’t get periods because they all ready have to go through so much pain. If you think that having period will make you feel more mature or make you fit in trust me it dosen’t hardy anyone in my grade has their and nobody talks about because its really embarassing and private. Worst part is i’m a model so i am always having to worry about having my period on the job and trust me that is not a pretty sight. So just enjoy life as best you can because once your period starts it dosent end for about 35 years ! Best wishes
Period hater

June 8, 2011 at 12:28 am
(1112) leslie says:

don’t rush getting your period it SUCKS !
if i were you i would enjoy not having my period at all !
just let nature take its course cuz once you get it ur going to wish it never happened its annoying and messy !

June 9, 2011 at 5:02 pm
(1113) C says:

Don’t worry. I am thirteen too and I just got my period a month ago. Like you, I really, really wanted to get my period too- I felt so alone and I was really jealous of all my friends who did have their period. Because it IS a big deal, because no one wants to be left behind. Don’t worry about it. Let nature take its course. Having your period can be a major part of your life, but don’t stress about when you are going to get it. I know sometimes it seems like it may never happen to you- trust me, I went through the same thing. But, if you’re sixteen and still haven’t gotten your period, you should see a doctor- you could have a health issue. Stay happy, don’t worry! <3

June 9, 2011 at 7:00 pm
(1114) Ericka says:

I saw you were worried about having it in the middle of class and that could happen. but if you were a pad if it happens you will be safe! no worries when you get it in the summer you will wish you never had it!

June 11, 2011 at 8:49 pm
(1115) courtney says:

Stupid girl having sex at thirteen and wanting a baby! Are you serious? You haven’t even had a period, you’re a baby yourself.

June 11, 2011 at 11:51 pm
(1116) baby 456 says:

hi im 11 i have no boobs my period has not started n i just have a bootie mi doc said ill will get mi period soon she said until i have a forest ik a 4 grader that wheres a c cup n her period started on mi b day so hope it started dis summer while im at home.

June 13, 2011 at 3:48 am
(1117) Kait says:

Hi, I am 14 and without a period. I want to have my period just because I am worry about health defects, but i know that once I have it, I will hate it. it is hard pretending that you have already started because you are worried about admitting that you haven’t. My mom is amazing but we never talk about puberty, thank gosh, i would die if embarrassment!

Thanks to all of you who have postponed my worries!
Oh and 11-13 year olds who want big boobies, get padded bras … Don’t worry about developing!


June 13, 2011 at 4:05 am
(1118) Elise says:

I got mine when I was 14, I’m 16 now and already sick of it, so don’t worry :/ stay a kid as long as possible!

June 13, 2011 at 2:28 pm
(1119) Eleanor says:

Hey, im 14 in 2 months. I have pubic hair, underarm hair, i have started growing boobs but im still REALLY tender. I have had discharge for about 1 1/2 years now but its started getting thick and sticky and a lot more lately. But anyway, back to the point, I havent stared my period! I am so worried! All my friends have started and i mean all of them! I have told them that i have started but i really havent! And my boobs? SERIOUSLY! THERE IS NOTHING THERE! I AM ONLY A 30AA! I am actually REALLY worried that i will NEVER START! HEEEEELP! I want to start! my sister and my mum started at 9!!!!!

June 14, 2011 at 5:31 pm
(1120) Layla says:

I’m so upset I want my period SOOOO bad I’m 12 years old and I have a 32B cup and I want boobs!! All my friends have had there period and are getting boobs! My friend even got hers and shes sooo small and has like no boobs! but I want to have boobs b4 her. And the worst part when you get your period you loose baby fat! and im skinny everywhere but my stomach is a HUGEE bump and it looks really bad in swimsuits and I just want my period to be skinny like all my friends. My mom got it when she was 16 and I AM NOT WAITING THAT LONG!! I just really want it with all my heart, and I don’t care if I have the worst cramps ever!!!! or if I get it in school!

June 14, 2011 at 6:17 pm
(1121) Layla says:

OH and I got my first discharge in April it was white and sticky and I hope I’m close and I have small boobs there just like little plumps on my skin but I wear a 34A bra to make them look big! and I have alot of hair on the downside! I just really want my period I want to be skinny also alot of ppl want to be friends with girls that already got there period. Like last week in school my bestfriend got her period and this other girl was in the bathroom and my bestfriend said ughhh my period sucks and then the other girl was like IK and then my bestfriend was like how would you know and she was like How do you think and the rest of the week she has been hanging out with her!! and my bestfriend stopped calling be boo and sayin ily :( and I feel like shes not hangin out with me cuse I’m like the only girl that still doesn’t have her period. I WANT it so BAD!

June 15, 2011 at 12:03 am
(1122) Maturbate says:

Umm theres this thing called masturbating and I heard its healthy and normal do you guys do it too? I started at age 5

June 15, 2011 at 12:16 pm
(1123) Gator Girl says:

Hi, Girls.

I am 12.. Going on 13.

I got my period last year, at 11, and I want you to trust me.. It ssucks. It’s not fun. At all!!

• Having to wear a tampon or pad
• In the bathroom people can hear you open the wrapper
• Fear of having blood on your backside
• Cramps
• Migranes
• The munchies
• Cravings for things you don’t have
• Breast pain
• Ruining your favorite pair of underwear or jeans
• You want to kill EVERYONE
• You get grouchy
• One week a month
• You don’t know when
• Suprise ‘attacks’
• You can’t swim, [ If you don't use tampons just yet ]
• It’s blood. BLOOD.


• Bigger breasts
• You’re developing

Wow. That many to TWO.

It’s not fun.. Trust me!

Live life while you can, without a period. It sucks.
Don’t wish your life by, live it to the fullest. Enjoy your freedom.

Yahoo — bayleebrox@yahoo.com

Baylee B, 12

June 16, 2011 at 11:56 am
(1124) annonymous says:

I am 13, going to be 14 in about 2 months.
I haven’t started my period, and have recently really been wanting to get it. a few days ago I got really emotional, i cryed at the smallest things, i have had discharge for pretty much a year. PLUS my BEST friend who is 14 and 1 month got her (first) period YESTERDAY and now i feel kind of pressured to get it:/
I haven’t got big boobs, but I wear a size 30A bra, and i am ok with them. I am quite skinny, but I eat a lot! I think it is something to do wit my metabolism or something like that. can anyone help me? all i want is a rough idea of when i’ll get it???? thanks xxx

June 16, 2011 at 10:11 pm
(1125) periodless says:

I am really upset…. I mean I am like 27 bust wise and I I am very hairy on my legs …. but I don’t think I will be getting my period anytime soon.. I am eleven years old turning twelve in 3 months…my mom won’t even let me Shave my legs with a razor she thinks its too “dangerous”. I have like no hair under my arms or any sort of pubic hair I am afraid I will never get my period will I and I don’t want answers like you don’t want it or having your period sucks plzzzz thanks for any advice

June 17, 2011 at 1:45 pm
(1126) C says:

Hey girls, I just posted on comment 1113. I’m just saying that, before I got my period, I would get insanely jealous of my friends. They would be all like, “You don’t want it. It sucks.”

But I really did want it and I felt left out and immature. I know how you feel. Don’t get desperate, please. There is nothing to do to speed up getting your period, though. The only thing you can do is wait.

Don’t be afraid you won’t gt your period. I thought the exact same thing, I thought something was wrong with me, I felt I would never ever get it. Then I got my period and all of those fears vanished.

Please don’t give up hope. If you want to talk to me just ask for my email. :)

June 17, 2011 at 11:21 pm
(1127) Lategirl says:

I’m Megan. I’m SIXTEEN!!! I have had boobs and pubic hair dice sixth grade. No underarm hair. No pimples. I’m actually a little overweight. Slightly!!!!!! My little sister, ELEVEN!!!!!!! started hers!!!!! All you kids complaining about not having it at 11, 13, get over yourself!!!! The range that most girls start is ababout 9-16. 16, go see a doctor!! Umm I’m sixteen!!!! Ot an answer for me?? NO ONE On the internet has this question. And noone seems to have an answer either.

June 18, 2011 at 8:14 pm
(1128) boobless says:

Hi, my name is issy and i am 13… i’m freshman this year and all of my friends have their period and boobs… i’m the only one who hasn’t got her period and i have no boobs…. the only reason why i want my period is so i can finally have boobs… i’m sick of being the only one who is practically flat chested….. i just want my period… my mum said that she got her period when she was 14 and she started growing her boobs when she was 11 and all of my family have big boobs and had their period when they were like 12… why am i different to my relatives….

June 19, 2011 at 12:29 am
(1129) ZOMFGWTF says:

Can you girls shut up about “I feel your pain” and just answer the damn Question?! By the gods, it seems as if all this thread was, was “I feel your pain” over and over again! If you don’t know the answer, then shut up and let someone who knows the answer, answer it.

June 19, 2011 at 7:30 am
(1130) qwerty says:

well some of us just want to express our feelings!!! sorry if we offended you!

June 20, 2011 at 3:58 pm
(1131) annonymous says:

hi im back again from comment 1124
I really want some advice, something to make me feel better. recently i have been emotional, dizzy, had headaches, discharge stopped for about a day and a bit, now just light…..
anything to help?????
i just want something, i know how EVERYONE on here that hasn’t started their period feels, i feel so left behind, and i found out the other day, i am literally the only one of my friends who hasnt started! im going to be 14 soon, and i beleive that is quite late to start? i think my mum started at about 14-15 :/ people please just talk to me:) thanls xxx

June 20, 2011 at 4:01 pm
(1132) annonymous says:

woops, made a mistake :D

June 21, 2011 at 12:48 am
(1133) Anne Marrie says:

im 13 n goin into 8th grade and i havnt gottn my period ever!!! i am not small for my age at all!!! my mom got hers at 9 so y havent i had mine around that age??? i want it soooooo bad!!!! all my friends had theirs in 7th grade so y dont i have mine!!! i even lied to them to try n fit in… i feel soooo alone… :( i even am crying just thinkin about it!!! :(

June 21, 2011 at 2:35 am
(1134) annonymous says:

me again from the comment just a little bit ago…
Anne Marie:
i know i havent started, but i can help you too :)
just be honest with your friends and you might feel a bit better, i am honest to mine and it does make me feel better that it means that when i do start i can say to them all ‘i finally started the other day guys!!!’
and just remember, (i know everyone says this but i’l say it anyway :D ) you are not alone! i get really upset about it too. there are even some people i’ve heard of who dont get it until they’re 17-18.
it may even help to talk to your mum!
but just try not to let it get you that upset!!!! because it is something you have no control of, and you shouldnt let yourself get hung up on it….
just try your beest to forget it, and then when you get it, it will be a pleasant (or unpleasant:L) surprise :) i can help you, and so can everyone else on here, dont feel alone because just read how many other girls on here feel the same way as you!! hope this helped xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 21, 2011 at 3:01 am
(1135) annonymous says:

also, if you dont want to tell your friends that you havent started… then if they have their period and you dont have yours, think about something you have that they dont!!! like… are you more clever, prettier, even just better at drawing!!! think about that whenever they start talking about their period, just think to yourself ‘i’m more clever than you!!!’ or something like that:L
just enjoy yourself and have a bit of fun with it xxxxxxxxxxx

June 22, 2011 at 7:51 pm
(1136) scared and lonely says:

hey guys, i am 13 going on 14 in a couple of months i have read nearly all these comments… there was one about crying themselves to sleep, so do i, i havn’t started yet and have no boobs, nothing there i swaer my younger sister has bigger bobs than me its embarising:/
i havn’t got discharge hair or anything infact i have hardly started pubity, i feel really young and immiture and self consius alll the time, the boys at school always try and grab your boobs for a laugh at school but i hate it beacause i know once they have, they know i have nothing, please i will try anything to start and to get boobs, i just want to fit in and feel normal and good about myself so i can be confident without worrying about being teased:L
seriously HEELPPPP:’l

June 23, 2011 at 6:59 am
(1137) kasey says:

can someone please tell me when il get mine thanks
boobs- AA
discharge-like more than 2 years
mum @-12
i am not sporty i am extremely thin (but healthy) i cant gain weight no matter what i do please tell if u have any idea how i can get boobs, my period or gain weight.
all my friends have it and i told them i did oh and iv grown in the last few mounths and iv gained about a kilo (iv givin you the hight and weight i am now)
so please help and comment or email me at kasey_l_h@hotmail.com thanks xxx

June 23, 2011 at 7:00 am
(1138) kasey again says:

oh yeah and i have lots of hair down there for like 3 years thanks again i love this site xx

June 23, 2011 at 7:22 am
(1139) kasey again opps says:

i also for got sorry a few days a ago my discharge was brownish with the yellow discharge in it was does that mean it hasnt came back though

June 23, 2011 at 8:21 am
(1140) :( NOT MATURE says:

I know right i hate it I’m 13 and dont have my period and all (most) of my friends have it. I hate it sooo much i have done research and you need to be ‘heavy’ in weight but not to big. I am the right weight and i have been having discharge for like 2 years ahhhh.

June 24, 2011 at 2:54 pm
(1141) jenni says:

im 15 and i haven’t started my period either, i used to get really worried ect, but now im kinda happy because i can go swimming without shoving some tampon up me;) you’ll find that some of your friends havent but they just say they have. im a 32A but i usually just wear a push up bra, there really good and you cant tell:) dont worry about anything, you’ll start one day, just enjoy not having it!xx

June 24, 2011 at 6:16 pm
(1142) Me says:

I get it, don’t comment that people shouldn’t just being saying be saying emotions because its important for people too. I am 13, 14 next week – periodless -.- i try to stop caring but its not all that easy, so these tjreads are a comfort. Everytime i get a cramp or feel dischargy in my underwear, my mind hopes i have started. I am writing this because somebody who feels the same will read it and understand.

June 24, 2011 at 11:35 pm
(1143) Lex says:

OMG these girls need to chill… Who would WANT to get it… I’m 16 nd has gotten it for 3 nd I already hate it… The worst part is- u know another rounds coming next month… Nd the one after that… Nd after that… It’s like going into a boxing match with lik 1427254 rounds…. My advice to all the kids who “want” it… Enjoy the time ladies… It makes ur body mature (barley considering me) not the thing important thing that needs maturing… That’s all about the way u think and start acting…

June 25, 2011 at 8:58 am
(1144) annonymous says:

it’s me back from comment 1135 :) to “Me” from comment 1142, I completley understand!!!!!

June 25, 2011 at 9:04 am
(1145) annonymous says:

hi its me again from comment 1135, to “me” i completely understand!!!!!!!
if you have read my other comments then I’m going to be 14 soon too :) i still haven’t started, and i do the same, like every time i have a stomach ache, or feel some discharge coming out, or any of the “signs” i get so hopeful! but then it hasnt come and I get upset! but i know i am not the only one that feels like that:) and to all of you who have got your period and tell us “you dont want it”…. we understand that when we get it, it will be a pain!!!! BUT we still really want it!!! believe it or not, it makes us feel left behind, and immature, I dont want to insult you, but seriously, we know what you mean, we just dont like feeling like this!

June 25, 2011 at 4:25 pm
(1146) monkeysrockgirl says:

hi i want to know when i will get my period every (lady ik dreads about) im 11 im turning 12 oct 14 and i wanna know if some one cant predict when ill get it wit the info
- 106 LB gain weight got higher in two weeks
- 4 ft and 10 in
- once saw a reddish brownish dot in underwear with out loking closely and never got it again
- not that atheletic
-cup size 30 aa
- mom got it at age 13 but she said that she was more than half the size of me when 11 so i might get it earlier ?

June 26, 2011 at 9:52 pm
(1147) ... says:


I’m 12, just turned so in February. I’m in a 30A.
I have pubic hair “down there” but no armpit hair
My boobs have been sore for about 1 1/2 weeks
I have been having discharge for about 1 yr
I grew 4 1/2 inches in 1 yr.
I’ve been moody a lot lately. (and gotten yelled at
a ton for having an attitude)

R these signs of my period?? I really want it
To come. All my friends have it. What can I do to
make it come quicker. I WANT IT SO BAD!! =(

Plz help me!!


June 28, 2011 at 9:55 am
(1148) Mayoo says:

im 13 and im a 32A. actually i think im nearly a B now but anyhoo…
i think pretty much every girl in my year (and i go to a girls school so thats like everyone) have started their period. people say they hate it and i dont really want it but it would make me feel more grown up.

but i need someone who’s started already to answer this: how close am i to starting?

ive had LOADS growth spurts and now about 5’8.
Ive had discharge since i was 11 (so about 2 years)
i always get cramps round under by belly button and for about 1 month now
my mum started around when she was 11. apparently you start around the same age as your mum?
we had a sex ed leson the other day and apparently the average is 11-12! i know there are loads of girl here who are like 14/15 but i was an early developer so im confused to why my periods arent starting… :/

June 28, 2011 at 10:19 am
(1149) Mayoo says:

oh yeah, i forgot.
ive got this weird crease like on the front bit of your vagina, not inbetween you legs but actually at the front. and it looks oddly like a uterus. i researched this but nothing has come up. im really skinny because i have hypermotablism so its not fat rolls and when i lean forward i cant bend there so its not the way im sitting…

has anyone got anything about this? it might be nothing but i like having explanations for things…

June 28, 2011 at 4:54 pm
(1150) yasmin.2000 says:

Yes, i think i might no, you know the fact you said you were skinny it might have something to do with that. im not sure for certian. Possibly is. And guys dont worry to much about your periods, im only 12 and ive already had mine, it started when i was about 10, just turning 11. its nothing to worry about everyone is different some people start at around the age of 20, some people dont! hope i get a reply! thanks.

June 29, 2011 at 3:55 pm
(1151) Natalie says:

Hey, im 15 and I havent started my period yet. I dont know if i should see the coctor?

June 29, 2011 at 7:14 pm
(1152) Lilly says:

I Actually Just Got Mine. I Was Really Excited :\ then my stomach started to hurt and i got headaches and I Was tired alot. :P

June 29, 2011 at 11:56 pm
(1153) brianna12 says:

omg i want my period so bad! i want to feel mature and when you get it your pot belly goes away and you get boobs im skinny but my belly sticks out a little and in bout 5.2 in height and all my friends have boobs and they call me tiny! :( but im not actually that small because in 12 and im a 32B but i think they call me that because at the beginning of 6th grade year i didnt wear bras and they like sagged and i was made fun of they i started wearing the padded bras and they look normal but im still called tiny!! but i think im gonna be like one of those people that doesnt get it until there 20 because my mom got it at 16 and i keep praying for it and thinking about it and no one should say “oh u dont want it its horrible” well idc if it is i wanna fit in so bad and have boobs!! and stopped being called tiny! and btw ALL the girls in my grade have periods and boobs! and there all younger than me and im older than them all!!

June 30, 2011 at 12:27 am
(1154) brianna12 says:

oh and does masturbating effect your period ive been doing it since i was 5?

June 30, 2011 at 1:17 am
(1155) Cassie M says:

Okay. Seriously. To all the people who are like, ‘OMG u guys r soooo stupid, u don’t want you’re period, it suxxxxx, so bad, omg omg omg u guys r weird…. wow, abnormal ppl rite her lol…’ First of all, learn to spell goddamn words. two, It’s OUR choice if we want it or not. Don’t go bitching on this site bcuz of ur opinion. If u don’t like what WE want, then you can just simply click the ‘back’ button in the upper left corner of the screen, or URL some other site. Whop de doodle doo. That took a lot of effort, didn’t it? So the people who are bitching about anything the pro-pplz are saying, just get off the site if you are going to do that. honestly.

Now, for my input.

I’m almost 13, and I have some boobs, not much tho, like just a smidgen too small for A cups. I have dark (almost black) hair ‘down there’ and I am def getting moody. I cry more easily than i did when I was ten, and some things make me more angry now, and i get randomly happy. And I get cramps here and there. But no discharge(far as I can tell, don’t rlly know what it would look like..) and I got some spotting for about a week a few months ago. Also, I don’t have any growing pains. Is that normal for someone who grew an inch in two months to not have any growing pains? idk. My legs are rlly long, (far as I can tell) and my torso is on the shorter side. I’m about 5,1 (give or take an inch or two) and my mom and dad say i’ll be taller than m mom(5,5) but shorter than my dad was at his peak(my dad shrunk about an inch so far, and he was 5,11) so thats good, cos I want to end up around 5,8 or something around there.
My mom got her period when she was 14, and had no boobs whatsoever untill then, so maybe I don’t take after her or something. I dunno what arm workouts to do to make my boobs larger… Anyone plz give me some advice? (not the bitching people who blab about how we don’t want our periods)

Thanks for reading this if you did read this! :)

June 30, 2011 at 2:06 pm
(1156) hey guyss! says:

Hiii!!!!! i dont understand why you guys want your periods…it doesnt make sense. i got mine when i was 11 and i just turned 13!. i have really irregular periods and havent gotten one for the past 3 months! its just becasue im really active i think! but for once i really want my period cuz i gotta go away next week! UGH!, i have 32A bra, so it really doesnt depend on your boobs, so get over your boobs people!

June 30, 2011 at 4:31 pm
(1157) celest says:

OMG!!! im soo madd! i am 15 years old! and i have not started my period yet! i am 80 to 85 pounds! i am 4 ft 10 and a half! i have had discharge ever since i was 11! that means 4 years!! i have had buds for 2 years, but by breasts are lopsided! one is in between a 32A and 34A. the other is 30A. a big difference! i have had pubic hair for 2 years! which includes in the genital and armpit area! my mother started her period when she was 14! many people said you had to be at least 100 pounds. and healthy to start, i am not healthy and only 85 pounds. i am a picky eater! i am the latest one that hasnt started their period yet in the family! my 11 year old cousin started hers a couple months ago. she is the same size as me but she is 92 pounds.. and i am around 80 to 85 not sure! i lose weight and gain easily but never past 5. as in gaining and losing! what is wrong with me! i have every sign except my WEIGHT!!! im soo mad i might really shove parsley up my A*S!!!! sorry i said that.. but it just gets me soo depressed!!! x[[

June 30, 2011 at 6:23 pm
(1158) OH hey says:

I’m 14… 5’10… I’m pretty skinny and fit for my height…114 pounds, but i eat a ton! I was the only one in my class who hasnt gotten it yet and i was the tallest person there too. I have nooo boobs what so ever so it is impossible to find myself clothes :( I have no signs of getting it either. My 11 year old cousin (we are cousins by both mom and dad) got it at 10 and she has boobs way bigger than me. I need an answer to how to get it earlier! HelP!

July 1, 2011 at 7:33 pm
(1159) celest says:

heyy # 1158,, did you see what i wrote just the one on top of you, our difference in age and weight and height! what do you mean you have no signs of getting it? pretty sure you got buds! thick discharge? maybe not pubic hair but pimples and acne? something like that??? if not? i think it might be a long road for you ^^

July 3, 2011 at 5:03 pm
(1160) Sarah says:

Ok girls, I know this may seem like the most important thing ib the world right now, but really, it’s not. I got my period the summer after my eigth grade year. It was the second to last day of summer camp. I went to the bathroom an there was so much blood! I was absolutely completely freaked out! And to make things worse, I didn’t have any supplies and was ti embarresrd to ask for any. I’m just grateful that it was the second to last day and not the beginning of the week. Yeah, having your period can suck, big time!

You may not have gotten your period yet because you don’t weight enough, but I’m nit saying you should try to gain weight. You will get your period when the tine is right! So, just relax an everything will be ok!

July 4, 2011 at 1:38 am
(1161) Julie juliajjj says:

. Ohmygod this is crazy!!! You guys DONT want your periodssss!!! I git mibe late, middlr of fteshman year and I was nervous but I knew it was a pain so I enjoued life! Now I get TERRIBLE cramps ythey hurt so na ad that I doyblr over in pain and cry and cant move thw whole day. Trust me you SONT want your period. Relax chick yiur s.oh, and most people get their puertriods while aleeping. Thats nice:) well for the.bb f our st time anyways! Goodluxk! Ans you 10 year olda, ac alm sown!

July 5, 2011 at 1:26 am
(1162) samantha says:

i swear you guys don’t want it to fit in. i got it near the end of 7th or 8th grade i believe during the end of a school day with not protection. it sucks later on. like this guy i like invited me to a fair later this week but the only day of the fair that i won’t be on it is the last day. i understand that you don’t want to start in class but if everyone else has started then you can just ask a friend for a pad and your teacher will let you go to the bathroom if you tell the your vagina is bleeding i swear. but you don’t start at a certain age you start when your body weighs enough and is healthy enough to carry a child. that doesn’t mean you should carry one though!

July 5, 2011 at 7:41 pm
(1163) Kittykat255 says:

Girls it may seem your not normal cause you didnt have your
Period yet. I had mine when i was 11 but i was just like you. I wanted soooooo bad but oince i had it i cried. So its ok to want it but you cant really say “give me my period now” its takes time and growing up. Usally s people can have theres from 11-15 thats normal. Some girls have theres really early like 8-10 and you can it late at 16-18 if you have it at 19 (i domt know anyone) u should see a docter. You girls prob want it cause (1) all your friends have it (2) you want to go through puberty (3) you want to know how it feels like and more but you will all get it and enjoy it wile you dont have it yet :)

July 6, 2011 at 11:13 am
(1164) Laura says:

well im 10 and i am starting to have some of the symptoms and i dont know what to do!!!!

July 6, 2011 at 5:06 pm
(1165) anna kate says:

Okay im 10 about to be 11 i started my period during a play and it sucks i hate having one i wish it would go away stop being babys about not having a period or you wont get one my sister was14 when she got hers and i was 8 when i got discharge i hate it stop being babys. oh andd of yall want it so bad then soke your feet in water and drink green tea and junk food

July 7, 2011 at 2:16 pm
(1166) uiffiur3igfliergufihwquhfiuqw;hfiuwrguilrqwuifhuirwql says:

Go to Beinggirl.com Where people can Actually HELP you. Not you jusg asking a bunch of teenage girls that are just as clueless as you are..

July 7, 2011 at 4:41 pm
(1167) girliezzzz says:

alright so i beat everyone here… i mean every single comment on this page. I am 16 turning 17 in ten days. i have not gotten my period. i started discharging at age 13. my boobs are a 30AA.
those of you who are 11 wanting your period; first off yall are still babies so dont even talk. and that random 13 year old girl who wanted a baby, your dumb.
okay im done ranting.
but i dont really care about getting my period or having boobs. small boobs are kinda nice and it lets you show off your body as a whole, not just big boobs. and who wants blood coming out of your vagina? or mood swings or feeling like someone is chopping out your uterus?
so everyone just chill.

July 8, 2011 at 12:47 am
(1168) big-tits-magee says:

Okay. i’m 17. and i’ve had my period since i was 9. lol. just saying to all of these girls who want it… no you dont. truuuuuuust me. lol. cuz cramps. suck!!!! (: just saying :D

July 8, 2011 at 11:53 pm
(1169) Marie says:

Im 13 And I havent Got my period yet! omg i have had most of the signs for 3 years!! I got Underarm Hair in year 4! and I got Discharge in year 5! im in year 7 and i still have discharge just no period! Like WTF!?! I have hair Down there too! I also Have Boobs Not big ones though and i have had cramps in year 5 and year 6 but not regulary like OMG everyone in my year has had there period but me :/ ITs So annoying! Omgg ! and i have to clean my vag regularly cause i get discharge then my vag smells ! Omg Please help! I just want my period I have had Signs for 3 years but i havent got it yet like I should Have it NOW!! and Mellisa Your only 13 you dont want a baby trust me…. My friend Was in year 8 and she got pregnant and it was The hardest thing! she hardly could go to school go out and party! had to buy food, Nappies! can You afford it ? and most likely the guy that got you pregnat Isnt going to be there! So Just Think about it! you wouldnt be able to carry a baby anyway! Your an idiiot! So Yeh someone help i have had the signs for 3 year but nothing!!!!

July 9, 2011 at 10:28 pm
(1170) waiting says:

im 14 and a half, 15 at the very start of next year and i still dont have my period. i have the discharge but i think it like dries up because its goo so much up until it reaches my underwear when it is more crusty… is that normal? i have pubes too, and very recently (a week) my underarm hair has been growing faster than before; and i have to shave it more often. my boobs have grown recently too… but will i have my period soon ? i know everyone goes “waa waa, you dont want your period” but i just want to be reassured because im afraid there might be something wrong down there?
all my friends but 5 of them think i have my period, and i dont want people to know otherhand. what do i do? im also tryng to lose weight but im scared if i diet & excercise vigurously; i wont get my period! help !

July 10, 2011 at 3:58 am
(1171) ughhh says:

im 13 14 in 2 months! my mom started hers wen she was 10 and im getting worried!! i have all the signs and even cramps! and discharge for 2 years will it ever come?????

July 10, 2011 at 7:05 pm
(1172) Period Plz says:

Ok I am 13 years old and my mom died when i was 4, so i have NO idea when she started her period and neither does anyone else in my family. I STILL haven’t got my period yet but i have had discharge for over at LEAST 1-2 yrs. My ten yr. old cousin has hers and i don’t. She said her mom told her she wld probably have discharge for 6 months and then start her period and she DID. But i’ve had it for over 9months and i still don’t have it. I have ALL the signs too. My breasts are sore, i have discharge, pubic and underarm hair, and mood swings with the occasional cramp. But the discharge is still white (in case that means something). All of the girls in my fam. and all my friends already have theirs and i just wanna die every time they talk about theirs and talk about womanhood. It makes me feel small even though i’m older. and they all say, “Don’t worry you’ll have it when you get older too”. My mom had scists on her ovaries too if that means something. I am having other health probs. and when i went to the doctor he asked me how regular my period was. When i told him i don’t have it he said “if you don’t get it in 1-2 more years come back and see me about it and you have a prob.” that was a year ago!!!! Also doctors can feel at the very bottom of your stomach where your female organs are and see how your periods are or something like that. That’s y she thought i had already started mine bcuz she said everything felt normal. i am FREAKING out here. also my aunt started hers on her 13th birthday so i thought maybe i wld too. N-o-t-h-i-n-g. also i eat unhealthy, but i eat a lot of chicken which has hormones in it. Does that matter?

July 10, 2011 at 7:10 pm
(1173) Period Plz says:

P.S. to all of those girls who say that u dont want ur period shut up plz! ok? i just sat thru 2 wks. of hearing all about my cousin (whos the same age as me) talk about her period. When u don’t have it it makes u wonder if something is wrong with u ok? we just need some reassurance so if u wld kindly SHUT THE HECK UP… it wld be greatly appreciated.
NO offense intended :D

July 11, 2011 at 2:21 am
(1174) Stormie says:

Ok, i just turned 13 about 2 months ago. i am about 4ft.11in. (i’m really short and it sucks). i just started to BARLEY get boobs, i just bought 2 begginers bra’s a week ago. and i still haven’t started my period. i even have to wear pads some times cuz i have alot of discharge. it sucks. all my friends already went through puberty. even my friend that is about an inch taller than me and barley has boobs started her period. i’m going into 8th grade and i’m probably the only one of the entire school (7th and 8th) that hasn’t hit puberty. i don’t have hair on my vajayjay yet. i just wish i would get taller and start my period. the boobs are already developing and the hair i don’t care about. my friend makes fun of me sometimes cuz she started her period and started getting boobs and hair when she was 10. all this stuff is old for her. ihateit. and all you little girls at age 9-11 on here complaining, STOP. cuz its stupid. espesially the little girl saying she’s 12 or 11 and is already having sex and she wants a baby now. your a lier. i don’t believe those kind of comments. and if you want a baby already, then your really stupid. it’s going to ruin your life. i mean i’ll eventually have sex and want a baby, but not until i am ready to take on this crap. it’s accually kind of scary

July 11, 2011 at 6:12 pm
(1175) banana says:

I’m well into 15 and I still haven’t started. I would really like to know how many of the girls in my class have started but obviously I can’t just ask them. I won’t drink milk because I’m a vegan and besides, you’re just eating the hormones that they inject into those poor cows. I will try the soy products thing though. I’m glad to see from this 3 year complain that many other girls my age are going through this, too (although half of them are like 12).

I think this whole thing is just a vicious cycle. Girls who have started pick on those who haven’t because they were picked on themselves. Really this whole thing is just about whether your vagina is producing blood or not, yet over the years has developed all sorts of stigmas, wives tales and the ridiculous implication that sexual maturity is in any way related to mental maturity. I really don’t care when I start… right, I’m off to drink a carton of soya milk :’(

July 11, 2011 at 7:47 pm
(1176) I want it :( says:

I’m 12 turning 13 in about 5 months and I have small breast development and I’ce had discharge for more than a year my mom had her peiod when she was 12 and my sister when she was 13..i really want mine i know ill say i wont after i do though but i just feel left out :(

July 11, 2011 at 10:28 pm
(1177) Ashley says:

I got mine in 5th grade i was 10 or 9 theres no reason anyone ever wants there period the more your anxious to get it the less it will come.Just wait theres nothing fun about periods.

July 12, 2011 at 1:58 pm
(1178) im sad says:

OMG!!! im soo madd! i am 15 years old! and i have not started my period yet! i am 85 to 90 pounds! i am 4 ft 10 and a half! i have had discharge ever since i was 11! that means 4 years!! i just noticed that they have started to get very thick and GOOEY.. only now. i have had buds for year and a half, but by breasts are lopsided! one is in between a 32AA and 34AA. the other is 30AA. a big difference! i have had pubic hair for 2 years! which includes in the genital and armpit area! my mother started her period when she was 14! many people said you had to be at least 100 pounds. and healthy to start, i am not healthy and only 85 to 90 pounds. i am a picky eater! i am the latest one that hasnt started their period yet in the family! my 11 year old cousin started hers a couple months ago. she is the same size and height as me but she is 92 pounds.. and i am around 85 to 90 not sure! i lose weight and gain easily but never past 5. as in gaining and losing! what is wrong with me! i have every sign except my WEIGHT!!! im soo mad i might really shove parsley up my A*S!!!! sorry i said that.. but it just gets me soo depressed!!! x[[ i guess all i can do is try soja and green tea!!!! HELPPPP!! ME,, i pretend i have started my period to fit in…

July 12, 2011 at 9:53 pm
(1179) brianna12 says:

OMG!! I want my period my mom got it at 16 im 12 now bout to be 13. I have sooooooooooo much hair down there its annoying i also keep pinching myself when i pic a wedgie

July 13, 2011 at 12:44 am
(1180) tara says:

all you grls begging for you period , and crying over it . you guys dont want it . it could start anytime , school, date, etc.
most of you all arent in highschool . they rarley let you get out of class and if you start , your teacher wont let you out , what are you supposed to do ? all a period is , is saying that your growing into a young lady , and pretty much that you can have babies .
really? dont ask for itt.

July 13, 2011 at 6:06 pm
(1181) Emily says:

I’m 13 years old, 14 in 5 months and have never gotten my period. My bra size is barely a 32a!! I’m the only one out of all my friends who hasn’t gotten it and I feel so left out!! My best friend is only 12 turning 13 in a month and just got hers and she always tells me how much I don’t want it, but I HATE it whenever people say that! They dont understand how it is to feel so late and un-normal!! I have had discharge for almost 3 years now, I have pubic hair, and underarm hair,I grew about 4 inches this year, and like I said before my boobs arent big at all. My doctor said I should be getting it really soon, but I know that doctors are wrong about predicting that sometimes. I want my period so bad I don’t even care if it hurts I just want it!!! :(

July 13, 2011 at 6:20 pm
(1182) Amber says:

I am 14 in march havant started my
period yet but I’m worried because all
my mates got it in year 6 but I’m
going in to year 8 this summer and I fell left out
How can I get it to cone sooner

July 14, 2011 at 10:44 am
(1183) t says:

please tell me how to make my periods faster

July 15, 2011 at 10:38 am
(1184) Ahhhhhhhh says:

i no im only 12 and i could still have ages but my friends have all started and it frustrating

July 15, 2011 at 1:54 pm
(1185) kelly says:

Hi, im 12 years old.
I just got my period this year.
The last time i got my period was june 11 and it ended 6 days after…
i havent got it since then.
In 7 days im leaving on vacation and i really dont want to get it on vacation.
Please help me!!
Give me suggestions. xx

July 17, 2011 at 3:11 am
(1186) Uhhuh, Good to know. says:

Im 14 and i HAVE started. but so advise to you girls who haven’t; Stressing isn’t going to help you start. Periods also hurt alot if you end up being really heavy. If you let your bodies go at their own rate, you will eventually start. Personally, I hate being on periods, I can’t run around, I get majorly angry when on, or start crying. Cravings and eating loads. Periods don’t truely make you feel mature, They give you a slight feeling of your body changing, But maybe that is different to everyone. Just try to keep calm, you’ll be fine :)

July 18, 2011 at 12:41 am
(1187) Pretty pretty plzs!!!;'-( says:

Ok my mom was 14 my grandmother was 9 I am 11 and actually happy with my boobs b34 and growing but I hav under arm hair and well down there but wat makes me almost cry is ok I’m not fat but I’m pretty tall for my age compared to some I hav a friend named kathrine c. And she started b4 me how??? And she’s like 75 pounds then I fingered out that everyone of my friends had already started ;’-( everyone and this is terrible I’m 12!! I’m so upset I could cry. And I would like to now one thing too those girls who r on here saying U SHOULDN’T WANT UR PERIOD WELL GUESS WHT? I WANT IT AND THOSE WHO R ADULTS ON HERE LIKE 27 YR OLD EARLIER U MUST HAVE LOOKED THIS SIGHT UP SO STOP ACTING SO SUPERIOR

July 18, 2011 at 9:15 am
(1188) Becca says:

Guys please think about how your comments can affect people especially if you dont actually know your facts. Some of you say you should be worried if you havnt started at 15.
This just isnt true! You shouldnt be worried at all infact! 15 is still young -its still only halfway through teenage life. My best friend is small and very active and she, like me, is 16. She hasnt started yet but i tell her a lot that she shouldnt worry.
The age to see your doctor if you havnt started your period is more like 18.
The feeling of being left out from your friends and being “left behind” are completely understandable. Girls are always comparing and this is completely normal. But dont let it rule your life.
And if you do start at school just be on guard, its not going to be pouring out like niagra falls-keep some spare knickers in your bag at all times. Dont worry about it girlies. It’ll come. Just dont feel alienated by it. Everything is acceptable and normal. And dont fear it either. Some people have made it out to be terrifying. Its different for everyone and womens bodys were given the job of having periods because we are the ones that can handle it. Just relax and enjoy whatever happens for you

July 18, 2011 at 7:33 pm
(1189) loz says:

I am 12
I have pubic hair 3 years
I have leg hair
I dont have any boobs….Ide say the smallest size !!!
My mum said she started her period when she was 15
I have discharge 4 years…WERID

You see the thing is Im not so crazy about my period i just want boobs. The only thing im scared about period wise is that because i ware a skirt every day to school, Im scared that its gunna sli[p down my leg. THAT WOULD BE WELL EMBARRASING!!!!

July 18, 2011 at 9:13 pm
(1190) julia says:

its ok im 14 i started when i was 13 i really didnt want to have my period so if you want to finally start your you probaly dont want one but i am going on vacation in two week and i want to start my period so i wont get it during vacation i was told to just eat fruits and dates also drink green tea like 4 times a day you can also put a heating pad on your stomach or just simply take a hot bath with salt but dont worry if non of these work you will get it

July 19, 2011 at 4:54 pm
(1191) Waiting and Dreading says:

Yall soo aren’t alone, seeing all of these posts, but if it’s a matter of fitting in I’m left out. I don’t care for fitting in one little bit. In fact, I am dreading the day when I do start my period. I know it will totally suck! But I’m a plan freak, and I’m almost positive I will get it when I turn 13 some time, and I’m 12 right now, so I’m hoping that somehow I can speed up the process and get it this summer! I would much rather start it this summer and plan my course of action than have to wait around school until I start it, carrying a purse of emergency pads and tying a jacket around my waist every day. And when it comes to the boob area, I get an F, but I don’t care too much for that, either. I have bigger problems like my terrible case of acne. But I sort of understand your need to fit in. And I really do hope you girls realize how awful it will probably be when you start. But I’m still hoping for the same thing, which is a way to bring our periods around.

July 20, 2011 at 8:34 pm
(1192) :) says:

from reading through all the posts ( i got here a bit randomly really, looking for something slightly different!) it seems like most seem to have the same worry! at the beginning of your teenage years you really shouldnt worry! there is nothing wrong, and as far as i can see there is no real way of defining yourself when it should start! you shouldnt worry about what age your mum or sister started, everyone varies in their own way, some a lot sooner, some a lot later. i know its very frustrating, i started at 13, and was quite happy really, its nice to get over that hurdle, but honestly girls, at your age there is no problem at all! enjoy the freedom! trust me when you get to 18 youll just find it annoying, and wonder why you ever worried! your period can start before your boobs grow, or the other way around, just find your own way! :) and dont worry about what anyone else says or ‘claims’ they are going through, or what age! be yourself, and youll be fine!! :) x

July 22, 2011 at 12:55 am
(1193) Kelsey says:

trust me girls I’m 15 and I got my period when I was 14, and trust me, you DON’T want your period. I used to think I wanted it but now that I have it, I wish I didn’t! All the side affects suck, when you guys get yours, your gonna wish you didn’t have it! So don’t rush it, enjoy your time without it:) who cares when you get your period, it’s not like your missing out on anything good!

July 22, 2011 at 10:57 pm
(1194) Scared girl 101 says:

Relax i haven’t started my period yet and i’m almost 16 if u don’t start your period by 16 see a doctor you might have ovarian cancer or a tumor in your ovaries when i turn 16 if i haven’t started i’m going to the doctor just be happy my grandmother didn’t start hers till 18 and don’t be scared because i have all the signs too yet i haven’t started you’ll be fine even though i do agree starting in class would be horrible to get to the main point if u haven’t started at 16 GOT TO THE DOCTOR!!!!!

July 22, 2011 at 11:04 pm
(1195) Scared girl 101 says:


July 23, 2011 at 2:55 pm
(1196) Willow22 says:

I am 14 and haven’t started either any way i went to the doctor about it and she said people who are slim and taller tend to start it later then people who aren’t because of the way their bodies distribute energy, so she said not to worry. Also the later you start your period the more fertile you are when your older, so its easier to get pregnant

July 24, 2011 at 3:19 pm
(1197) Tina says:

i got mine not too long ago and i am 14 almost 15 . DONT WORRY! as a matter of fact when you will least be thinking about it is when it’ll happen i promise you that much! ok bye :D

July 25, 2011 at 12:07 am
(1198) syd._.i want my period ;( says:

ahhhhhhh i just want to get my period my best friend has it and she got wen she was 11 im 12 years old!!!she’s already a bigger bra size than me i get wet down there…discharge but i dont get anything! And my friend has showed me how to use a tampon(not naked just the tampon how to take it out) and im still un sure about how to use it and wen i do get it ill have to use it i play hockey and i love to swim:( and i dont ever feel naked in frount of anybody not even my mom so idk how shes supouse to show me…

July 25, 2011 at 5:41 am
(1199) Srush says:

i am 12 n will be 13 this dec. i have still not got my periods yet!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 26, 2011 at 7:27 pm
(1200) Me says:

I understand, i am 14. No period… :( i know i shouldn’t want it but i do so don’t tell me what i want… I have had signs for about 2 1/2 years now and i hate the way i look. I am cute. I hate that. But oh well, i hope it will come in the summer…

July 27, 2011 at 9:06 am
(1201) The chick who is tired of little 1014 year olds crying says:

1) Why the hell do you want your period to start? It hurts, it’s annoying, and it changes your moods during it.

2) Stop with the annoying sob stories about not getting your period. You might miss your answer.

July 27, 2011 at 12:01 pm
(1202) airoticv says:

/agree with the above post.

its not a great thing, and there’s a whole 30-40 years of your life that’s going to be spent having it every month, you can afford to hold out longer.

besides, having menses early puts you at risk for future development of certain gynecological cancers. and not having it yet at 14 is -PERFECTLY- normal, unless if you are abnormally thin, or have other health problems.

July 27, 2011 at 7:10 pm
(1203) Hi says:

I just want to say to those who keep say why we don’t want our periods and that these “i understand” comments are pointless. But you have to realise that there are people on the webpages just looking for people who share there problem. Its not easy being a late developer when its all people seem to think about. Telling us to stop caring won’t work, we have tried that, so please just let us winge to people actually feel the same.

July 27, 2011 at 9:43 pm
(1204) Cleo:( says:

I’m 11 and I’m so sad bcuz I haven’t got my period
Practically everyone else got it,I’m scared I’ll never get it!-

July 27, 2011 at 9:52 pm
(1205) Cleo:( says:

Hi my name is Cleo,
Mom gt it at:age 16
Hair:VJ and armpit
Boob size:30AA (cup size)

When will I get it?anyone know?

July 28, 2011 at 10:43 am
(1206) XDHELP says:

I΄m 12 and i’m having boob development but no period and my boobs aren’t even boobs as a matter a fact. please HELP ME!!! i’m begging u i’ll do anything. I heard that shoving parsley up ur VJ helps u get ur period. please give me more idees!!!!

July 30, 2011 at 1:01 am
(1207) who nos says:

i havent had my period im 11 and very chest (got boobs)

July 31, 2011 at 3:18 pm
(1208) jade says:

im 13 and have just started but i wish i hadn’t. Periods and boob size does not matter. if you are like 16 and have not started go to ur docter and ask them for advice. they will help ya. Sometimes just because ya mum started early dont mean you will. so just enjoy life and take it how it comes! :)

August 2, 2011 at 1:14 pm
(1209) Cece says:

Girls girls trust me u don’t want your period and if you don’t fit in that’s fine nobdys the same !!! Enjoy not having your period caz it sucks Go play in the sand enjoy being a ki while u still can

August 6, 2011 at 2:22 am
(1210) soo says:

im 10 turning 11 and in my class all the girls have their periods . i feel sooooooooooooooooooo left out

August 7, 2011 at 8:54 am
(1211) person says:

Hi I’m 11 nearly 1w and wear a 34C bra yep you heard me right 34 C I’m like a giant (I’m 5 foot 8) and I am really scared that I am going to start my period soon I don’t really want to start but I am getting all the signs, discharge of all colours daily, cramps in back and lower tummy, mood swings headaches everything, anybody good at reasuring people??

August 7, 2011 at 10:08 am
(1212) person says:

hey its me again i meant to say im 11 nearly 12 and that i am 5.8 foot :L

August 9, 2011 at 4:23 am
(1213) Flipflops says:

I’ve heard there is a pressure point in your ankle that is rumoured to make your period start, its like 4 finger widths from your inner ankl bone, you are meant to hold it for a few seconds then let go rest and do it again, I have no idea whether it works or not so please let me know if it does :)

August 10, 2011 at 5:21 pm
(1214) Alexa says:

I’m 14 nearly 15 and I’m thankful i haven’t started yet, my friends complain and cramps & that all the time and plus enjoy being able to do things without having to worry about whether your period will effect it. So be great full your a late maturer :)

PS. If you hit about 18/19 and haven’t started then yeah go to the doctor’s.

August 11, 2011 at 4:12 pm
(1215) I GOT IT!!! BAHAHA says:


August 11, 2011 at 4:26 pm
(1216) igot great news 4u says:

ii8 so all yuh girls: i got amazing news 4 u if u really want yah period… i did this, mah friends & i did this & it works! (but only if u have discharge) it may sound wierd but practice fingering yourself on a daily basis. u may get horny/wet and u can also try kegel exercises. look it up if u dont know what they are

August 11, 2011 at 4:37 pm
(1217) **MUST READ says:


August 11, 2011 at 4:40 pm
(1218) BOOBIES says:

i already have my period but really small boobs. what can i do to make tham grow if i can even do anything! HELPPPP

August 11, 2011 at 4:54 pm
(1219) Olivia says:


August 11, 2011 at 5:18 pm
(1220) OLiViA ^.^ says:


ONCE AGAIN MY EMAIL IS livvqer@aol.com

-olivia <3

August 11, 2011 at 11:24 pm
(1221) WTFFF says:

seriousely why do u want ur dam pd. its soo annoying like im 14 i got it about 2 mos ago and i would rather give it to one of u desperate little idiots anyday than deal with this irritating process so stfu. once u get it ull regret ever crying over it. honestly ur begging and crying bc u want blood to come out of ur vag… its as simple as that

August 11, 2011 at 11:31 pm
(1222) VERY IMPORTANT says:

to all u girls that think “being moody” is a dam sign gtfover it bc it NOT. its all in ur little head that u have to be moody when u get ur period. its a myth and a filthy lie and an excuse to be rude and disgusting k? nice try though -____________________-

August 12, 2011 at 4:26 am
(1223) kasey says:

please help me………………(iv never had my period before) well 3 weeks ago when i wiper myself there was a bit of blood on the paper and on my undies in the discharge i thought id got my period so i put on a pad i looked a while later and there was a big drop of blood on the pad i wore the pad or that whole night but when i went to the toilet the next day to look there was no more blood and i havnt had it again…………so what was it plz help was this my first period or what……….im 15

August 12, 2011 at 12:31 pm
(1224) HELP FROM OLiViA for u^ says:

well the same thing happenned to me beofre i got my period. how many days after did u wait? because it all depends on that. i would say it was a warning so have a pad on just in case, u may soon become a woman (; ! but u dont have to wear those big pads just the small ones or something that will keep u protected from a few drops. if u like KASEY, u can email me at livvqer@aol.com for more questions;, i hope this helped!

August 12, 2011 at 12:35 pm
(1225) TO KASEY says:

no it was not ur 1st period ): however it could be a warning that it will come soon. be prepared by having a small pad on though! i strongly advise u to tell ur mom thou! they always know what it is.. don’t be shy to ask her whats going on, they have much experience :D
feel free to email me at livvqer@aol.com

hope this helped!

August 12, 2011 at 12:45 pm
(1226) livv says:

i aqree! there is a post (#1216) and it does work after a few months u see the result. fingering yourself and getting horny/wet stimulates sexual activity and sexual instincts in your brain. your period is basically creating sex cells so they all have to do with stimulating the producction of sex cells and hormones. IF U R TRYING THIS LEMME KNOW at livvqer@aol.com

August 14, 2011 at 2:32 pm
(1227) Catie says:

Omg ok in the first few comments i saw tht mellissa is 13 nd wants to hav a baby ok if u wnna hav a baby in the future ok. But do youu meen now? Thats wikckedi wack yo. Im sorry but it is you should wait a lil kore to have sex your still just a kid. And for all you girls who didnt get there periods yet your very lucky. I got mine at 10 and now am 13. Its not fun but i suggest if you dont get it and your 16 see a doctor. I hope there are no problems

August 15, 2011 at 3:12 pm
(1228) Mollie;) says:

I don’t see why everyone wants there period sooo bad, i’m 13 and i got mine when i was 11, and i wish i havnt started because it’s depressing and my stomach kills, i’m sometimes grumpy and i dont want to talk to people when i’m on.

so for everyone who hasnt started you should feel lucky, you might feel left out but everyone who has started wants to switch places with you.

and sometimes it not true when you start when your mum did because my mum started at 13 and so did my sister but i was younger so it doesnt make a diffrance.

my friend hasnt started yet and she is worried like all you, but i told her about it and now she feels better about it.

and if your worried about starting when your in class then take a pad with you and dont start straight away with a tampon.

Hope i helped:)

August 15, 2011 at 11:17 pm
(1229) Lauren says:

I kinda want 2 start and no if lik there’s a way 2 I’m the smallest 1 in my class and I hate plzzzzzzzzzzzzz helpZ

August 16, 2011 at 12:24 am
(1230) Ciara says:

I want to start my period soo bad ! But i dont want to worry about it . All my friends have it and they keep on asking me if i start it or not . they say i dont want to but i really wanna fit in. i have all the signs and have had it for 1 1/2 or maybe 2 years. im 5’4″ and i way 105 pounds. im also 13 1/2 years old.Im in eighth grade. why cant it just come ! i mean yes i am excited but school is also starting in 14 day’s .. i dont want to have it at school because im starting at a new school . I want it during the night or something . ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

August 16, 2011 at 6:18 pm
(1231) Lola says:

I am 14 and I am having signs of spotting but I didn’t get my period I never had sex so I know I’m not pregnant but I have sat on my boyfriends lap in the water at the beach I was also making out with him but he was wearing pants and I was wearing a bathing suit and he didn’t ejaculate or have a erection so that’s not really possible but is it normal that I’m spotting?

August 17, 2011 at 3:00 pm
(1232) lalala says:

What about dating when you haven’t had your period yet? iI’m fourteen years old, going into high school, and i want to date, but will this period thing change anything about that? I have little breasts and no hips yet. I’m worried that in high school if i like a guy they won’t even consider me an eligible girl.

August 18, 2011 at 3:59 am
(1233) kasey says:

hi im kasey from post 1223……..after a month after i had that i got my period YES im on it right now im so happy and to every one that says it sucks well it does make you feel like a real women but pads suck never try them i hate then try tampons they are soo much better………..oh and i think i no how to make you period start…….well first stop worrying about it i no its had but worry about something else it helped me to worry on my boobies every night i would rub my boobs it made my boobs bigger which i loved and it kept my mind of me wanting my period also when ur about to get your period i just no its coming………..and last green tea helped me heaps…..try gaining a few killos its really fun and also keeps you mind of your period or lose it………but just remember no one is ever alonee i am 15 and just got itxxxxxxim gonna keep looking at this site i love it so much

August 18, 2011 at 4:01 am
(1234) kasey says:

oh and if your getting some syptoms like i did in 1223 it was your first period next month or so u will hav a normal one

August 19, 2011 at 1:30 am
(1235) Periodless.:( says:

Hey girls so im 13 amlost 14 in november and like most girls on this site i havent gotten my period! alllllll myfriends have it and i just reallllllllyyyy want it i have had discharge for 3 years! NO EXAGERATION! and my boobs are farely big (32b) and I just cant wait any longer i dont care if it sux i just want to be normal and im scared i wont ever be able to have kids:( and yeah just wanted to share my story too :P i hate this and alll my friends have it and…. my friend whose completely flat thinks shes onna get before me! im sooo mad:(

August 19, 2011 at 4:45 am
(1236) kasey again says:

ok to all the girls that think there not gonna get there period because they have none or small boobs your period has nothing at all to do with your boobs its got to do with going through puberty. i just got my period and im flat as a board ok…….and to number 1235 just tell your friend (the one that thinks shel get it b4 u) you have your period make it out like u have it by saying “omg periods suck you never want them their so gross”. she will feel like a complete jerk (she should) you should never feel like shes better than u…if you dont like the first plan just say “yeah i think im gonna get MINE before you”. or if she does get her period before you say “i dont care it just means your gonna die befor me”

August 20, 2011 at 12:48 am
(1237) Kitty says:

I feel your pain… I’m 13 almost 14 discharge everyday for 3 years…37a cup boobs..no period I actually could care less about the period except for the fact that it makes me feel grown up..I feel like a little girl bc I don’t have it:( I really want bugger boobs and to feel mature I mean being in 8th grade and being bullied about being flat is stressful/:

August 23, 2011 at 9:13 am
(1238) Kay kay says:

Hey guys! you really shouldn’t be worried about this :P You will get it soon enough, and if it DOES happen in class, no worries just bring extra pads and say you have to go to the bathroom! You don’t have to freak out about this! You guys are being dramatic about this! It’s actually a good thing you don’t have it, that means you are fit! I didn’t start till 15, and I am 15 now and NO ONE cares! SERIOUSLY!

August 29, 2011 at 9:40 pm
(1239) brianna12 says:


August 31, 2011 at 5:35 am
(1240) Natascha says:

Hello everyone… i just want to tell you that its a natural process and happens with time… periods are one of those things that makes a woman feel feminine… its a sign of femininity…. so dont worry just relax… i got mine late as well… around 16-17… so its all perfectly fine…

September 1, 2011 at 12:47 pm
(1241) disgusted says:

okay so i’m sickk and bored so i was readin this and i am disgusted u 10-12 year olds stay off this i am 14 turnin 15 and i startd mine when iwas 13 and its not toooo bad but u feel like sh*t and you dont feel like goin out adn u dont fit in anything and u dont fit in anytin and if it drops at schoool then u r s.o.l
trust me u dont want it and wow 11 year olds/……. so sorry for dem 18 year olds :(

September 1, 2011 at 5:47 pm
(1242) Kristi says:

I am 12 years old and in grade 7 all my friends have it and i feel left out but i am looking for ways to make it come faster they say relaxing and/or drinking green tea will make it come sooner

September 4, 2011 at 4:52 am
(1243) Annon says:

I have 16 DD boobs and I got my eriod in yr 5( i was 11) and i really want to tell all of you that it sux really bad. i dont get cramps or anything but my sis has to take medicince b/c she has a too strong period and my mum is telling me i got it soo early b/c i was fat but i only weighed 30kg soo i just wanted to say i had no idea about any signs or anything when i got mine and just be patient. image saying 2 ur dad that u need tampons ot something or that ur boyfriend has to go buy em for u at 14 yrs old. It is SSSOOOOO embarrasing.
Keep Holding On!

September 7, 2011 at 4:33 pm
(1244) zoe says:

im pissed off im a twin and my twin sister just got her period yesterday we r 13 and in 7th grade. my sister is immature and im shocked she got hers b4 me i mean she has smaller boobs than me! she sits at my lunch table at skool and evry single 1 at my table has there period except me! i rlly want my period now
i also have scoliosis (curvy spine) so the doctor sed wen i get my period my back will stop curving plz help me.

September 7, 2011 at 8:06 pm
(1245) ^me again says:

she lso rubs it in my face and says how messed up i am so…
yeah thats the only reason i want my period so that i dont have 2 b made fun of by my sister

September 8, 2011 at 9:18 pm
(1246) zoeeeloveshorses says:

discharge:yes a lot of it
boobs size 36a
mom got it at early 13
i weigh 89pounds
i am 5ft1
greasy hair and skin

*ive been drinking milk alot
wen will i get my period approximetly

September 10, 2011 at 8:39 am
(1247) SMILE (= says:

LOOK !!!
first if u hav got a bra or crop top then its forr uu wear it to school but put some tissues underneath your bra or crop top and take a pad to school and tell your friend you’ve started #


then mumss !!!
this is how u handle ur mum…
wen u go to school and u go to ur mum just lean ur soldur it forward so u look flat
then wen u go to school try and look like if u got boobs
then padsss
werever ur mum puts a pad get the pad out wen ur mum is not there then put it in ur bag


p.e. physical education
when u have p.e. then on top of ur bra or crop top put a vest on
EASSYY ther sorted out ur probelms……………..


September 12, 2011 at 6:54 pm
(1248) Katrina Landry says:

You don’t need ur period to feel mature. Maturity is the way u act in situations. It has nothing to do with age! don’t worry i started when I was 14 trust me u really don’t want ur period to start! It’s so gross and nasty that you will actually at time wish u were a boy instead!! You feel like u need to take a shower 10 times a day! I said when i was 12 that I wanted it so bad! now I wish I didn’t start my period. I know it is a common thing to worry about what people think about you but it’s not important!! Just be yourself! People will like u more!! have confidence! just remember you were born special! God loves u!! He is doing what he knows is best for u! if he wanted u to start at 12 you would have!! don’t worry about it and don’t worry how big your boobs are it won’t matter!1 Date someone who loves you for ur heart not ur boobs or butt for that matter!!

September 13, 2011 at 8:15 pm
(1249) heather says:

ok all you girls that are sayin you want ur period no you dont it suck! so dont be so excited to get it. trust me im 17 it sucks

September 15, 2011 at 4:37 am
(1250) confused.... says:

omg i got my period in the middle of class today and i am only 11 and dont know what to do help!!! i dont know anyone of my friends who have it :(

September 15, 2011 at 8:14 am
(1251) Tiny says:

I am 12 . 13 will get over soon all my cousins got it im the only one left out ! I need my periods . I feel im left out . Some of my best friends have got it and they ignore me bcs i have not got it still . Someone please help me!!!! :’(

September 15, 2011 at 4:14 pm
(1252) Ginge says:

I’ve had boobs for 2 years pubescent an did hatch for 4 an nooo period what’s wrong with me btw I’m 13

September 15, 2011 at 8:38 pm
(1253) popkittytart says:

i started when i was 12 and now im 13 almost 14……ITS THE WROST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU.your so lucky you dont have your period cuase you get dirarea,very bad cramps,and theres alot more.you’ll feel so sick and you’ll be in so much pain.

September 16, 2011 at 12:29 pm
(1254) kyara says:

i am 12 yrs and i would like to have started this year so could some one help me plese plese nplese help

September 20, 2011 at 9:16 pm
(1255) Katelyn says:

Hey guys what are tge signs of a peripod and how do you fell sick because for tge last few days my stomach and head have been hrating and i am 11 and a week or two i will be 12 so please help

September 21, 2011 at 1:51 pm
(1256) Miss.confused says:

Hi I really want to start am 12 and I feel like am never going to start puberty

September 22, 2011 at 10:52 am
(1257) oggleboogle says:

Well sorry to all but there is really no way but if you do : This is kinda weird and scary but it totally works copy and paste this 3 times into one comment then recite the pledge of allegiance in one whisper then tomorrow night when you go to bed you will get your period and know how to insert a tampon.Well sorry to all but there is really no way but if you do : This is kinda weird and scary but it totally works copy and paste this 3 times into one comment then recite the pledge of allegiance in one whisper then tomorrow night when you go to bed you will get your period and know how to insert a tampon.Well sorry to all but there is really no way but if you do : This is kinda weird and scary but it totally works copy and paste this 3 times into one comment then recite the pledge of allegiance in one whisper then tomorrow night when you go to bed you will get your period and know how to insert a tampon.Well sorry to all but there is really no way but if you do : This is kinda weird and scary but it totally works copy and paste this 3 times into one comment then recite the pledge of allegiance in one whisper then tomorrow night when you go to bed you will get your period and know how to insert a tampon

that probs dont work , i heard green tea milk yoghurts ant meat fat works though

September 23, 2011 at 1:21 am
(1258) Jenna says:

Im waiting for mine and Im 12- going on 13. I have had discharge for 17 months, pubic hair for 9 months, underarm hair since I was ten, and breasts since may of fifth grade(im in 7th now) and still no sign of it coming(except moodiness and increase of appitite.) Im a 34 A cup, while my friends already have it. I weigh 79 pounds and Im 4’8; still waiting for my growth spurt. Any estimations?

September 23, 2011 at 11:41 pm
(1259) :( i think im weird says:

I’m really shameful, my bestie already get her period, eventhough she’s smaller than me, im almost flat. Help me! Im 12

September 26, 2011 at 10:33 am
(1260) Desperate for period says:

I WANT MY PERIOD. As I am a indian, I will mature faster than chinese, caucasion or malay. Okay, I have huge boobs, extremely curly and dense hair down there,’starting to get curly’ under armpit hair and I have discharge everyday.All this started at about early in 10 yrs old. Yet I dont have period. All my indian friends have got atlest a day of period, but not me. Well, my chinese and malay friends dont have discharge yet, but I cant compare with them, I have to compare with my indian friends. The feeling of non-matureness is unbearable. I guess it might be that I am slightly overweight.Pls tell me what I can do to make me get my period faster. And dont come around telling me to shut up because im 12, cause indians mature faster than other races(NO OFFENCE), and I am so freaking out that I dont have period.

September 30, 2011 at 12:02 pm
(1261) please estimate says:

Boobs:36C had them since I was bout 9
Pubic hair:loads since I was about 8
Armpit hair:lots shave every other day had it since I was about 10
Leg hair:shave daily very dark
Disharge: everyday sfor about 2 years all colours
Other symptoms: moodiness
Food cravings and cramps
Please estimate

September 30, 2011 at 12:11 pm
(1262) me says:

Hi its me again and I meant to say ia m 5.10 foot

October 1, 2011 at 7:17 pm
(1263) Lulu says:

I know the secret to get your period :P

October 2, 2011 at 9:11 pm
(1264) ashee says:

im 13 and i just want to start my period i have boobs and everything im THE ONLY!!! one of my friends who dont have my period im scared i want my period

October 4, 2011 at 8:08 am
(1265) Ahhhhh says:

I really really really really want my period as well. All my friends had it. And our teacher gives us special talks as well. And all the girls are grinning at each other, and I feel so left out.

I want it so badly

PS, i’m 13

October 6, 2011 at 9:57 pm
(1266) Nicki says:

It’s ok! I’m 16 and still haven’t started. People are so jealous of me and I’m glad I don’t have to o through it right now with school

October 9, 2011 at 11:47 pm
(1267) Answer Me Plz! says:

Ok I know that everyone has left a comment but will someone anyone that knows what they’re talking about answer me back? Ok well I’m 11 years old and my mom got hers when she was 14 I dont really want to wait that long so how can I get it fast? and also like most girls I have a lot of signs such as Discharge, Headaches, Sometimes tummy aches, and it sometimes feel like I have it but when I check its just Discharge. I need it I want it and I gotta have it. And to the people that says we dont want it well lemme tell u somethin, we wanna feel like someone too and not nobodys so do me a favor and be quiet! Someone please tell me what they think I should do b4 I scream!

October 16, 2011 at 9:57 pm
(1268) raaraa says:

im 14 almost 15 and never had my peroid… im glad but im always afraid im going to randomly get it at school. but i have pain in my vag.? scary

October 25, 2011 at 4:27 pm
(1269) hannah says:

seriously guys you do not want your periods to come yet . dont wish a way the days of freedom you have im 13 and i started 4 months ago but i was very upset i then lost alot of weight and became very ill and all of this was because i got stressed very easily cuz i was thinking aboutm my periods . it had nothing to do with the actual periods it was just the stress of having them i felt alone . but i hated having to think of excuses for swimming at school .

October 30, 2011 at 5:56 am
(1270) renae says:

Im 21 and got my period when i was 11. I was always told by parents and teachers that it can come later than 17, some girls just need to wait and be patient. remember while you are young now and have not started your period, this is good to know you cannot get pregnant ;P Wait and stop your complaining, seriously.

October 31, 2011 at 3:02 am
(1271) kate says:

Hi ! Im 12 ., i just want to ask if there is an idea how to get our breast and period faster ., and i want it quickly … my mom and sisters has it when they are grade 5 ., and now im grade 6 ,, still none .. can someone please help us or give us some of ur advices ..

November 1, 2011 at 5:25 am
(1272) katielolipop says:

Guys! Don’t stress about it, i’m nearly 14 and just got mine. It’s not all that great. i wish i didn’t have mine, it’s actually such a pain. You are all individuals. Different. everyone grows at different rates. Just be happy with what you look like and who you are. cause you can’t change that. You don’t need your period to be mature. I didn’t feel the slightest bit more mature when i got mine… & i don’t really think there is a way to make it come quicker. Just keep healthy I guess. But just be patient, it will come. :) hoped this helped xx

November 2, 2011 at 10:19 pm
(1273) samantha says:

Ok… I am 13 i hav not had my period and Everyone else has… i hav no bust at all but i do hav a discharge… i hav pubic hair and i hav once again no boobs at ALL. ive had discharge for about 5 months now … is there any chance i may get it soon???

November 3, 2011 at 5:38 am
(1274) 12345 says:

you could get it at anytime. Don’t stress, everybody grows at there own rates, i was 12 when i first got mine didnt get it again for a year and a half, i just had it again im 13 too and reasonably undeveloped. so really dont worry everyones different.

November 3, 2011 at 5:25 pm
(1275) Laila says:

Hey, I’m 12 going on 13 and want it to me over with! my friend just had her the other day in school and i dont want the same to happen to me!In my grade everyone is really strange about it and wont tell if they had theres or not. i’d rather have mine now so i can help my friends out when they get theres. I have been showing signs…i keep looking for the blood but is none! ugh! i know lots of you are 14 and i shouldn’t be saying how much i want mine but i wish all you ladies goodluck.

November 5, 2011 at 5:09 pm
(1276) Leanna rocks says:

I want my period so bad my sister had hers when she was 12 im gonna be twelve in may of 2012 u hope i get it soon :(

November 5, 2011 at 6:58 pm
(1277) a4243647 says:

I’ve said that least 4243647 times. The problem this like that is they are just too compilcated for the average bird, if you know what I mean

November 5, 2011 at 8:41 pm
(1278) here to help says:

hi im 11 and just turned in september (iits november now ) i have boobs im 34 A and i thought because my chest has develped or started to that my period would shortly start . i do not know what the sighns are but i have had discharge. my sister started hers when she was 11 and my mum when she was 11 too so im hoping i get mine soon, i know lots of you are moastly way older than me but im just saying people develope boobs and get their periods at diff times so dont worrie and if your flat chested dont worie its not that good because when i go swimming in school im embarrest to wear a low costume because all the boys stair. and your boobs hurt ! sooo dont worrie they will come in time and back to the periods i know im young its just me and my sis talk alot and i feel like a 5 year old cuz i dont have my period and i know i should just wait because im only 11 but i just need some answeres plzz help .

November 5, 2011 at 8:56 pm
(1279) HELP !!!! says:

Hi I am 13 going on to fourteen and kinda scared no matter what someone says on here!!!
The last I would need is to get it in the middle of class at high school. Now I always have headaches, I am always tired, my stomache usually hurts and its all to much. Now I have read all the comments above and totally agree!!!!!!!! My friend ligit just got hers tonight…..
Now when I was in grade 5 I got it for like a weeeek but now nothing so


November 9, 2011 at 7:00 pm
(1280) Elena says:

hi im literally 11 and i used to say that when i was nine i got it last year in december trust me u dont want that im serious when i saw that blood stain i was kind of happy at first because i thought i was growing up and blah blah blah but after that cycle my pains just got worse it makes you wish you were dead i get cramps my mom gets back pains and my sister gets serious head aches and seriously i wish i could go back and tell myself to stop wishing for my period i wish i could get at 15 but its to late for that and atleast it only lasts a week but trust me you DO NOT want you period im serious you should be happy you dont have it! and just wait for your time to come the latest it could possibly come is 17 or 18 but dont rush yourself youll regret it

November 9, 2011 at 8:23 pm
(1281) :_( says:

Okay, I am 14 and i have hair everywhere and discharge and everything. I thought i was the only person out there that didn;t have their period yet reading this has really helped me calm down about this all. I really want my period! not so i can feel cool and not just to have it, but just so that in the future like when im 20 ik that i can have a kid. I love kids and i deffinately want to have them when im older but i can’t if i dont’t have a period!!! gahh i have had discharge for like 2 years! I weigh 180 lbs(ik im fat and overweight :/ ) also I am a 40 B in bra sizes!!!!! Please think of anything that can help me start sooner!!!! I have been drinking green tea…but still nothing!

November 13, 2011 at 5:48 am
(1282) period person says:

Don’t worry if your boobs have developed and you still have not got your periods I read somewhere it can be up to two and a half years after you start developing for your periods to start. I’ve just started yr 7 and most of my friends have started theirs and I’m rly desperate , eating a healthy diet and not being stressed seems like the best way to make your period come faster, don’t eat junk food to make you weigh more it doesn’t work. Also it helps to know when your mum and grandmother started my mum started at thirteen and she thinks I’m goin to start soon.
hope this helped.

November 15, 2011 at 1:33 pm
(1283) anomas says:

i am 12 13 in march and i have had discharge and has had pubic hair etc for a long time when will my periods start coz i am desperate

my friends say i am lucky i wanna be an adult and have something to put in my purse:-(:-(:-(

November 16, 2011 at 7:43 pm
(1284) hi???? says:

ok so i am only 11 BUT…… i have had pubic hair for a long time… i am size 34A is bra and i have arm pit hair my mom got her’s around the time she was 12-14 (she doesn’t remember) i really wish i could get it soon i am literati PRAYING..AHHHHH!!! Help please….. i would at least like to know there is a girl like me…….PLZZZ HELPPPPP

November 17, 2011 at 4:40 pm
(1285) Kell says:

Hi guys I’m 12 and I know how you all feel I’m still period-less my mom got hers when she was 12 and my older sister got hers when she was 13. Lately I have had bad back pains like wanna curl up and die pains and iv gone to my school nurse and ask her if she knows what it is and she said she’s like 99% sure I’m getting my period. I am having all the symptoms currently. I’m hungry all the time I get stomach cramps I crave slot of food and I get bloated a lot. I wish there was like a test to see if ur getting it. I also way 102 pounds and 100 is when u cud start getting it. My sisters mean and says she doesn’t think I have it because she thinks I’m over reacting because I wanna know the symptoms she’s annoying she doesn’t even care I’m crying now c major mood swings I was happy a couple minutes ago I hope it’s my period I wud feel like a loser. Neway 4 the girls who say there developing boobs that happens after you get your Period so if ur flat by the time you get ur period they will start growing. Before your period you do start developing boobs like me I have a 32A but I fill it and so most of my friends used to be flat then there period came along and they started looking like a woman so don’t worry about the boob thing.

Hope this helped!!

November 20, 2011 at 3:55 am
(1286) A person says:

Hi guys im 10 years old and i really want my period! Some of my friends have got boobs but not too big but still i want to wear a bra and i want boobs!

I dont really care about the period i just want boobs.


November 20, 2011 at 10:37 pm
(1287) 1122megh1122 says:

i’m 14 too and i still don’t have my period
all my friends have started and i’m the only one
its terrible

November 20, 2011 at 11:19 pm
(1288) Jo says:

Ik how u all feel my great gma was 9 when she started my gmas was 10 mom 11 sis 12 other sis 13 so I’m hoping I start over the summer near my bday. But bad thing is we start the year round schooling next year so I may have to start during
School and that’s suck cause then I’d have to get a pad or tampon from a friend. I’ll b 14 this summer so don’t freak out if ur only turning like 11,12 or 13 cause I don’t have it either. My sis knew a girl that started at 6 so that’s messed up u better just b glad for a while. An ik everyone says u don’t wan it but u think they r lying who knows they could b right. I hope u feel better after reading this. I’m just as desperate as u.

November 22, 2011 at 11:29 am
(1289) ana says:

im turned 15 6 months ago and was scared i hadnt gotten my period. but then i foung out its normal and that other girls have gotten theirs as up to 17 years old.

November 23, 2011 at 1:05 am
(1290) Staci says:

My goodness. You girls are crazy. Do you really want to have your period right now? It is not fun whatsoever. I started when I was 10 and I am now 19. I never even thought about having a period or even wanting one when it just came one day. Think about this are you willing to go through cramps, headaches, feeling nauseous, tenderness in your breasts, fatigue, appetite lost or wanting to eat more, taking hot showers just to ease the pain in your stomach and lying there in agony until the pain goes away? If you are absolutely ready for all that then you are a brave person. Periods are not that special of a thing. Yes, when you get your period is when “you become a woman”, no that’s not exactly how it goes. When you become a woman is when you take on the responsibilities of the real world. Paying bills, living in your own house, having a job, etc. So while you are young have fun and live free. Don’t stress too much right now, because in the future is when you stress the most. You will look back and think that what you are stressing and complaining about now was just stupid. You will eventually realize that there are way more problems than you will be able to handle at once when you grow up. So to these 10-14 year old girls, be happy that you are young, be happy that you have the freedom to make the right choices right now, so you wont have to regret them later, be happy that you still live with your parents and have them pay for everything, because when you have to start paying for it all… It’s harder than you think.

November 23, 2011 at 1:07 am
(1291) Staci says:

(With the above comment ^^^) Also, please, I ask, even beg you, please do not even think or get into your mind the concept of having sex right now. Be smarter than most the teens, be one teen that makes a good choice in your life and doesn’t ruin it. Be the hero, leader, have the smarts to do what is right for your life an your body. You don’t need to have a baby at this age, you are just a baby yourself. So girls, please listen to what I say, please stop stressing and understand what I mean. As I said earlier Have fun, because you are young and you have the right to. I may not know any of you girls, but make the right choices. Your parents will be hurt, grandmother, grandfather, brother, sister, family in general will be hurt by the bad choices you make and the outcomes that come along with it. If you feel like nobody cares, there is always someone that does.

Sorry for making this so long, but I would like you girls to know and understand what I mean. Have a good Christmas and do the right thing.

With Love, and hopefully good advice, Staci. :)

November 23, 2011 at 1:11 am
(1292) Staci says:

(With the above comment^^^) Also, please, I ask, even beg you, please do not even think or get into your mind the concept of having sex right now. Be smarter than most the teens, be one teen that makes a good choice in your life and doesn’t ruin it. Be the hero, leader, have the smarts to do what is right for your life an your body. You don’t need to have a baby at this age, you are just a baby yourself. So girls, please listen to what I say, please stop stressing and understand what I mean. As I said earlier Have fun, because you are young and you have the right to. I may not know any of you girls, but make the right choices. Your parents will be hurt, grandmother, grandfather, brother, sister, family in general will be hurt by the bad choices you make and the outcomes that come along with it. If you feel like nobody cares, there is always someone that does.

Sorry for making this so long, but I would like you girls to know and understand what I mean. Have a good Christmas and do the right thing.

With Love, and hopefully good advice, Staci. :)

November 24, 2011 at 7:18 am
(1293) Dajah says:

Trust me,getting. Your period. Is not gonna feel like a good thing..I first started wen I was 11 now I’m soon to be 14 nd I wish I didn’t start yet

November 29, 2011 at 2:26 am
(1294) ilovegodmyfamilyandofcoursemydoglifeisbeautiful says:

Hey guys,
I JUST got my period and I’m 15! There is absolutely NOTHING to worry about, getting your period later just means you’ll have more time to grow while figuratively, still being a child!To be honest no one can tell whether or not someone has a period, so if you just act mature or simply avoid the topic, no one will have a single clue. Besides, I would rather have my period at 15 than at 8.. At least I know that figuratively speaking, I had more time to enjoy childhood! :) )
Hope this helps, remember, not having your period yet does not define who you are!
Wait a while and as your body matures, you’ll understand!

November 29, 2011 at 2:45 am
(1295) E* says:

Hi I’m 14 I’m a freshman and I still haven’t gotten it yet!! I have TINY boobs like minuscule!!!! Little baby boobs!!! I really want boobs and my period cause I’m the only one of my friends thar doesn’t have either yet:/ Please help!!! :(

November 30, 2011 at 1:31 am
(1296) E* says:

^^^ this is me again I wanted to add that this site really made me happy cause this means I’m not the only one going through this and I’ve always felt so alone on the topic.. So thanks everyone and let’s keep our spirits high!! (but again, I REALLY REALLY want my period and BOOBS!!! :)

November 30, 2011 at 2:18 am
(1297) Boobless and Periodless says:

Hi I’m 14 too and I know how you feel E* because I’m on the swim team and it’s really embarrassing cause I’m so flat chested and I just really want my boobs to grow!! I wear a 36A but I don’t fill it in all the way and I just feel so left put cause all my friends always tease me about my boobs and I just act like I dont care but I really do and I get really hurt when they do it. Anyway thanks everyone I wish we all went to the same school so we could all go through this together and not feel so alone and awkward (atleast that’s how I feel) so yeah I have list of hair everywhere and discharge fior over a year but no boobs and no period :(

November 30, 2011 at 4:25 am
(1298) poop says:

wonder if those girls that posted years and over 1000 comments ago ever got ‘em that wanted periods so damn badly. i got a period when i was 12 and absolutely hated it as well as all the symptoms that came with it. cramps and headaches aren’t fun. what else isn’t fun? having complications with it and hemorrhaging blood for 4 months straight to the point where you’re anemic. really nothing beneficial about getting one. it doesn’t guarantee one large boobs (or necessarily any boobs) and not having to worry about pregnancy must be a joy.

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