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By Tracee CornforthApril 25, 2004
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I had unprotetcted sex today even though it was only for about a minute, and my boyfriends promises he didnt cum or have any pre ejaculation cum inside of me. I was just wondering if it can still be a possibilty that he couldt have pre ejaculated with out knowing and if there can be a chance of pregnancy in this case.
I had almost the exact situation happen to me and was wondering the same thing about the chance of pregnancy.
i ve had unprotected sex vd my boyfriend,but in the first round v did use condom but for the second time it was not used we are worried that a drop had been ejaculated inside me,its been 1 complete week .pls help me and what should i do now??
I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX LAST NIGHT. IT ONLY LASTED LIKE 1 MINUTE (NO JOKE)…HE PULLED OUT…HE SAID HE PULLED OUT ON TIME…AND I BELIEVE HIM…BUT I’M SCARED…I DON’T THINK I COULD BE PREGNANT…BUT I’M STILL JUST A LITTLE WORRIED.COULD I BE PREGNANT FOR HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX FOR 1 MINUTE?
ive had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he says he never came inside of me, but im worried because a few days later i lightly bleed is this a sign of being pregnant or just because it was to hard
everytime i have had had sex..it was unprotected.. It has been a while since i have had sex. and i have had my period.But here lately i have been feeling different.. I am not on birth control either.. What should i do?
You people need to learn how to keep your legs closed, use birth control,or make him wear a condom. At least learn the s**t most people learn in middle school.
me and my boyfriend have been having sex for nearly 6 months, nd lately we have had unprotected sex 3 times, the third time he came inside of me, ive taken a test but it came out negative, i still thik that there is a big chance i am pregnant, x
me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex all the time, but im on birthcontrol and he never comes in me, ever. but lately ive been really tired, moody, and im just worried. could there be a chance im pregnant?
I am 15 and i recently lost it to my boyfriend (14th febuary 08). Ever since then we have been having sex alot and my friend went to the clinic and got told that you could not get pregnant a week after coming off your period but i have recntly found out you still can but its unlikey, now i have been having sex with my boyfriend about 6 times aday unprotected (week after period) and i havn’t got pregant or was late on my period once during this time. I am worried that i can not have children now, is this the case? or is it just luck? what can i do? Many thanks for the help. x
My boyfriend and I have been together off and on since we were 17 and we are now both 19 and we’ve always had unprotected sex but i’ve never gotten pregnant some of this time i’ve been on birth control and I don’t have my periods normal they come and go as they want we’ve tried getting pregnant in the past than my period went away so I have a couple question’s one can you get pregnant without having a period and two could this mean I can’t have a baby? Thanks
i have had unprotected sex over 23 times(with the same person)and he released sperm inside me almost 20 of the 23 times but i still have my peroid and 1 of the times he released sperm while my peroid was on so am i pregnnt
me and my boyfriend had lost our viginity together and didnt use protection, im late on my period and dont know if im pregnant. Can you become pregnant after the first time?
Me and my boyfriend been having unprotcted sex since we have gotten together but he always pulled out but he had gotten locked up for a month on Saturday when he came out we had unprotcted sex and he came in me as he was cumming he was still stroking.and today we had unprotcted sex he pulled out but some got in me
wow, im sorry. but you people are not smart. obviously if you’re having unprotected sex, you can get pregnant. if you’re that uneducated, should you really be doing the things you do?
I’ve had unprotected sex with my girlfriend.
i believed i pulled out at the right time, but when we were done she said that she was really wet. I thought i pulled out in time, but when she said that i was worried…
is there a morning after pill, or any other types of tings i can try that doesnt involve surgery?
i’ve had sex but im under age im really scared about being pregnant my boyfriend said he pulled it out in time i haven’t had my period yet i cant sleep im that worried about it i would kill my self if i was pregnant im that scared about it my boyfriend is so caring about it he keeps asking me if im ok and that i tell him whats the problem and he by my side i just dont know what do to do my friend told me to stop getting worried about it all im going to the family planing its making me feel sick
Im 18 and my boyfriend and i lost our virginity to each other. its been about 3 weeks since THE SEX and i feel like i have to throw up all day every day. I had a really light period the day i was supposed to get my period but it was brown and only lasted about 2 days. im sooper bloated and am sleepy A LOT. im also constipated and am having weird food cravings. i havent taken a pregnancy test, but my best friend is sure i am pregnant. Im still in highschool and am no longer with the guy i lost my v-card to. I am graduating in 4 months and have decided to not tell anyone if i am pregnant. That way, no one will feel the need to “spread rumors” even tho they are true. Im moving 6 hours away right after graduation. i hope i can pull it off…..
i haven’t had my period in 5 months and i had unprotected sex and i have really bad stomach pains and my stomach is starting to get hard a lot am i prego (but i didn’t have sex before the 5 months so whats going on
I had unprotected sex the day after I took my first birth control pill. My husband ejaculated inside of me, in order not to get pregnant would it be in my best interest to take a morning after pill?
me and my boyfriend decided to try unprotected sex and it was for not even a minute, and we made sure to be very cautious about it and we made sure that there was no drips and made sure it was dry
would it still be possible for me to get pregnant?
and if so how accredit can that be?
after reading all these comments im not about to make some sarky comment about keeping your legs shut.
but just some advice to those who’ve had sex unprotected; i’ve done it a few times and yeah feels great and all but i felt guilty and worreied like mad until my period came.
So just think about this; if your not ready for a dear little sprog, just try going to connexions or a place where you can get condoms for free.
It’s embaressing and yes you’ll feel objected and go bright red. But answer the questions and they can give you condoms for free.
now you may say this;
“but i can’t find those kind of places”
save up and get the older looking of your relationship to go get the condoms. Oh and make sure you don’t go to your local boots/loyds. Your mum or dad probs goes there so the attendant person can tell. Find somewhere a little remote, where your parents wont go and get the condoms there.
just some advice, feel free to use it, hope it’s helped.
me and my lt bf had planned unprotected sex last week mid cycle.we have 2 kids already and im now unsure if i will cope with another.also dont know if i will b pregnant but it was mid cycle so most likely time to conceive any comments? we usualy use condoms and decided to go for it as i want a big family and he does too!
just advice for all the teens. dont have unprotected sex even if its only in there for aa second you could get pregnant it only takes one sperm. use every time!! plus dont forget pre ejaculate fluid contains a lot of sperm too. u can also get desises eugh!! do you want one of those?? plus having a baby is hard trust me i know i have two! next time think about these things before you let him put his [uh hum] in you with out a condom! think of your future!
OK I think we all lack the common sense factor,not useing a condom or thinking that pulling out is just as safe.But the truth is there is always a chance of getting pregnant with or without birth control.For example I have a 13 month that me and my ex concieved on birth control.So what Im trying to say is.If your not matture enough to understand the consequences or deal with them.Than maybe you shouldn’t be doing them.Just my opinion.
I’m scared out of my mind… about a week ago.. my boyfriend and i were using a condom… like i always do…. i’ve been planning for months to go to the doctors before we both even started having sex to get on birth control. i had the date all planned out but with my like the condom broke in the middle of it… i was suppose to start ovulating yesterday. i’ve heard that sperm can stay in the women’s body up-till 7 days. I’m scared to death that everything i’ve planned for is ruined… i could be pregnant as all this people who tell me sperm can be in the body while still ovulating i could be caring a child. what do i do it’s still to soon to know.. and reading all this people who are luck not to get pregnant after unprotected sex… how could it be that i could get pregnant after i’ve been using condoms and is going to get birth control.. how is it that it breaks a week before i come home from college… i can’t sleep because i’m so scared… what do i do… please help.
i had unprotected sex about 2 days after my menstrual cycle had finished could u get pregnant like that even though its after my cycle had ended?
i have had unprotected sex when on the pill but am worried about STI’s. what should i do?
had unprotected sex twice 3 times on sunday and 6 times on monday.
on the pill but iv missed 8 pills. (cerazette)
iv just started and this is my 2nd month and my 1st month i was bleeding throughout. is this normal?
and is there a high chance that im pregnant?
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 5 times three days ago and he cums in me everytime. i have irregular menstruation. i tested yesterday but it came out negative.i noticed that my breasts grew larger and tender and my nipples are erect all the time and very sensitive and sometimes they hurt.i’m not feeling any other symptoms. could i be pregnant?if i am is it still safe to have sex?
i had sex 2 weeks after my period…on tuesdayy the 16th and my boyfriend nutted but pulled out…but iidk like i know its still early but can i be preg or no b/c he pulled out
I’m sitting here feeling totally stupid and really scared…..my boyfriend & I started having sex about four months ago and to start with we were really careful about using condoms. Two months ago we took a chance and didn’t use one but he pulled out and I wasn’t pregnant. This month on about day 11 of my cycle he pulled out and then again on day 13 I think. I know the middle of my cycle is the most risky time, so we used condoms the next couple of times. The thing is my boyfriend and I had full unprotected sex (he came inside me) on about days 18, 21 and then 25. My period comes every four to five weeks but now it’s day 30 and I’m so scared. I’m seriously wondering if I’m pregnant because of course it’s a possibility….I’m only 17 please help!
Hiya will someone help me, i am really confused. I normaly wear these contrapcetion patches to stop me getting pregnant and other day i ran out and didnt have any more to put on. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 3 times over weekend and its the right time to be ovalating. My stomach started hurting the day after and monday night i put my patches back on, the only thing is that i am bleeding and i arnt meant to come on til next week? What could this mean ? PLEASE HELP x Steph x
heya im 14years old and i really need help i had unprotected sex 6days ago and 1day later im on my period that weird shouldn’t i be pregnant not on my period..?? I really need help i don’t know what to do but i am 100% sure im not pregnant someone help me plz am i pregnant or not..?? many thnx xxxx
is it possible 2 ge pregnant 1 day after menstration
i have had unprotected sex and i have done the unprotected sex even though i have had my period for alomost 3 months.do ihave a high chance to stll end up pregnant? my preiod will not stop!
Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for a while now and just about everytime he has ejaculated in me.
I am on the pill and havent missed one tablet yet, Is there a chance i could be pregnant?
me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex fr a while now and just about every time he has ejacualted inside me.
I am on the pill and havent missed one tablet yet, is there a chance i could e pregnant or does the pill stop that?
hey Mii names Kirsty and my problem is….on the Holidayys on the first week on friday i had unprotected sex and he told me that he came in meh!!! two weeks later we did it again (unproteced) OMG N Then ii got mii period a week or few days later AM I PREGNANT I NEEDAH KNOW WHAT ARE MI CHANCES IM SO CONFUSED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP NEEDDED REALLY APPRCIATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me and my boyfriend have had sex a number of times and have alwayz used a condom, but one night we were drunk and had sex but we used a condom, but when we finished he looked at me and told me the condom had split and it did not catch a drop. Im really worryed because just lately i have been gettin really dizzy and going light headed, and have also been feeling sick, and really tired. My mum has said that if i do ever fall pregnant then i should tell her straight away and she will help me what ever my decision is. But im only 15 years old, i dont want my life to be ruined im onli a kid myself. Could i be pregnant?? many thanks xx
hey my names kirsty
and i had unprotected sex last wk on fiday!
mah period started the week b4 on sunday and finished on thursday last week n i had unprotected sex on friday!!could i Be Pregnant n how long do ii gotah wayt t2 find out???help Pls Im ONLY 16 turning 17 in october..Thanx
hey my name’s kim and well i had unprotacted sex and like im only 14 and i did it TO get pregnant coz i reli do want a baby but like i dno if i am and i cant tell anything either because they hate my booyfriend so ive been tld to lie and say it was my ex’s because he raped me a couple of weeks ago and i cud of been rpegnant then but im not but i dno if my bf no made me pregnant AHH its soo confusing im all bleh atm =[ please some one help
Okay, so, I’m 15 and Got on the pill about 3 and a half weeks ago. I read on the internet that the pill actually starts working after a week so my boyfriend and I tried sex without a condom. We’ve had sex without condoms now like, 6 or 7 times. That was almost two weeks ago. I’m really scared that I’m pregnant because I’ve been wanting unusual food that I wouldn’t normally want, like, baked beans and things like that. I’ve also been peeing a lot, my boobs are sore to the slightest touch, I’m so, so, so mad alllll the time, my lower stomach is getting hard, tired, backaches. Anything you can think of, I’m having it. But I’ve had a little bleeding. And it’s brown and light. From what I said, is it possible that I am?
I’m 26 and consider myself a lesbian and I had been a virgin with men up until 2 days ago…I was out drinkin with some friends and ended up having unprotected sex with one of them…he pulled out before he came and said it was alright,but now im being told I should go get plan b…I feel normal so far…
Im not here to get in anyones face about what they’ve done, are doing, or plan to do. I just think there are some things you girls need to consider.
For alot of you, your young – and you have your whole life ahead of you! There are so many wonderful and amazing things in life you can miss out on because you have a kid – college, job/career opportunities, travel opportunities, ‘Mr. Right’, athletic and scholastic achievements etc. Don’t get me wrong, kids are an amazing and beautiful part of life, but they should come later. Especially if you are still in highschool, and even college. Having a college degree gets you better jobs with which to support your children later on. Its hard to go to college or work alot when you ahve a kid to take care of and worry about. So my advice is, as fun as sex is and as much as your peers pressure you to have it, try not to. At the very least have safe sex; its worth it in the long run. If a guy says he loves you, but really has to have sex, then he doesn’t love you or he would respect you more than that. If you haven’t even made it out of highschool and you have a child and your boyfriend who ‘promised never to leave you’ runs off with a hot cheerleader, whose life is made more difficult as a result? Yours, not his. And if you think that you have the maturity and other character traits necessry to have a child when you are so young, think about it this way- if you have a hard time dealing with your own problems and drama just in high school, consider how much harder that will be with a child to be a parent to, to take care of, and watch and go to work every day to support and nurture, at a time in your life when you need YOUR parents to care for and nurture you!
If you are pregnant, try talking to a friend or family member who you think is most likely to help you. Even if you have a kid before your out of highschool. At first your friends or parents may not understand, or be nice, but in the end if they truely love you they will help you do what is best. I do have to say, please please do not consider abortion. From the second a sperm is inside of you and makes contact, its a living being – whether fully formed or partially there, it is a child inside of you, of your own making. Heck, the sperm is alive before it even goes into you!! And every day that living organism grows inside of you, waiting to be loved. Even if it was a mistake, we don’t have the right to take ITS life for a mistake WE made. I mean, think of how our lives would be if our moms had said ‘Eh, I don’t think I want a kid in my life right now, even though I had un-protected sex’ No, wait… we wouldn’t be here to think about how our lives would be!
The fact is girls- if you consider yourself old enough to have sex, you also need to consider whether your old enough to handle the responsibilities that can possibly come along with it. And most likely will, eventually. You can truely concieve at any time, even while on your period, even while on birth control. And if you don’t think you are mature enough to handle a child right now, then maybe you should say no or at the very least play it safe. Hey, Im married, almost twenty, and I dont think I am mature enough! So if your in highschool and being offended that Im saying you might not be mature enough, please don’t be! Im not trying to offend, just make a point. Even I at almost 20 don’t feel up to the challenge, so don’t be afraid to admit to yourself that your not either and tell the next guy who just ‘loves you to death but needs some you-know’ that if he really does love you, he will care about your future just as much as he does about the present.
Respectfully and with high hopes for all of your futures,
hello, my name is jessykka im a senior in highschool and ive been on and off with my boyfriend for 3 years , well yesterday me and him had sex and he didnt pull out and im a fraid i made the worst mistake in my life and im scared of what my mother and sister might say , im old enough to get a job and my own place and car. and go to community college , if i am pregnant my baby will be born in june of 2010. after graduation ill be 8-9 months pregnant. my boyfriend works and has a car, and he told me he wanted another child yes he has a kid, but thats beside the point. im just scared that im going to lose out on alot as a 19 year old. my family thinks of me as a little girl which annoys me and im tired of it thats not the point why me and my boyfriend decided to do that. but at the time my mind was in a trance and im scared that im fertile and the test will be positive in 2 weeks. and i dont believe in abortions. and i just dont know what to do im not ready for a child like i thought i was.
hi my names am am 15 years old nd i was wounderin y aint i got pregnant cs me nd my boyfriend hav unprotected sex nd he always tell me he cums nd thn we stop but i neva seem to get pregnant why crnt i is it neutral
last night i have unprotected sex i had my implant taken out about a week ago. then i had a period i’ve just come off and been off for a few days..and im feelin a tad sick im worried could i be preg?
i had unprotected sex sep 22 09 with my boyfriend i told him not to ejaculate in me …he paused and then said too late i flipped then he turned around n said i was kiddin any way he is no minute man and i want to believe him but idk i am due to start anyday now it is nov 4 could i be pregnant
i had un protected sex with my girl friend 3 times in last week then how to prevent pregnency
help me…….i had unporetected sex for the first time tonight i didnt really know the person well enough to askk if he cummed in me and was too drunk to think about it. What is the risk i could be pregagnt cause i am so scared i could be. it only lasted a few meinutes. xxx
so ive been taking birthcontrol exactly 3 weeks to the date, today.
and i went over to my boyfriends house,
and uhh, we had sex,
see ive been rapped before, so this wasnt like the first time,
but like it hurt, and we both didnt know what we were doing, i dont even think we did it right, because it hurt so bad,
now im not super worried, but kinda,
im kinda scared i havnt been taking birthcontrol long enough,
how llong do you have to take it?
and we did it unprotected.
me and boyfriend had sex tonight.
we were protected.
im worried that i can still be pregnant
and i dont start my period til the end of the month
what should i do to make myself feel better?
My advice have sex when your married then you wouldn’t have to worry if you are pregnant,or you forgot to take the pill..jeez…grow up learn sex ed before u even have sex.and there’s a difference btween love and lust? N I’m sure for the 12,13,14,15 year olds ur all way to young to have sex.if ur a girl at this age u say it’s love and you want to show it but ur boyfren says it’s love bcos he wants to get in ur pants but it’s lust.if it’s true love ur partner would wait.choose the right path in life.go to church be a good person,
i agree with wise girl. i myself made that mistake and had unprotected sex and now i’m freaking out i know the guy pulled out but still. for any virgins STAY that way. sex is not worth all the worrying and miserie it brings. i’m a christain so it’s bothering me spiritually and emotionally. and i’m just hoping my stupid decision from one drunk night didn’t cause me something that will last a lifetime.
Okay so Ive read every single one of these. They all remind me of well me.. As far as people telling you not to do it, thats just not gonna stop you, but let me tell you it is very illegal to have sex until you are 18 or older. Im only 16 I started having sex when i was in 9th grade so I was 14 or 15 well at 15 I got pregnant. And at 16 I had her on April 23rd 2009 at 6:59 p.m. Now mind you im not some trampy person I believe in god Even after the worst of things happened Even though my dad shot himself I WASNT LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES. I had sex with ONE person and ive been and still am with this ONE person to this day me and him have been with eachother 3 years and we still tell eachother we LOVE eachother ever day. and yea a baby makes our lives a little more difficult. But we wouldn’t trade her for the world. And for all of you who are older Just need to step off and stop tellin them to shut their legs that aint gonna stop them no matter how many times they worry if they are pregnant or not. No I don’t know it all But i have a Beautiful Baby Girl who is now 8 months old and in a few day about to celebrate her first Christmas. Now im not recommending get pregnant its fun Because believe me Its the roughest thing i had to and still am doing. I dropped out but im still going to graduate with my H.S.E im working on getting my C.N.A license Then im going to college all before im 18. With that being said Its not easy but its possible to be a mom and graduate. But after getting pregnant i got severely depressed (i was already diagnosed with depression previously had gotten rid of it and it came back) I have extremely bad days And because of the depression and extremely horrible mood swings i don’t think i will ever celebrate Mothers Day again. So be careful and try thinking before you do. For all of you who think you might be preggers Take a test a few days before your period or a few days after or anytime if you miss your period. A lot of pregnancy symptoms can just come from your head. You know the symptoms of pregnancy so your mind automatically makes its seem that way if you think you are. But don’t get alarmed it could be all in your head. Everyone is different so every pregnancy is going to be different. I knew i was pregnant 2 weeks after conception without taking a test and took a test 2 weeks later and it came out positive. I knew i was because I was constantly falling asleep in classes id normally stay awake in. I couldn’t lay on my belly it was to tough and tender. And when it was finally time to sleep i couldn’t. I always felt wore out and i ate everything with sugar. I never got sick or had morning sickness through the whole 9 months. but i couldn’t eat meat. And my mind was nothing but cluttered i was always confused.. (and by the way girls even though they pull out there is ALWAYS and i mean ALWAYS PRE EJACULATORY FLUID whether he knows it or not. So everytime you have unprotected sex he doesn’t even have to cum and you can still get pregnant.) Just be careful being a teenager is rough enough don’t add the stress of being a teenage mom. And all you know it alls. Back off and keep your mouths shut. Just because they have sex with someone doesn’t make them a whore or immature It doesn’t mean they don’t believe in God or they aren’t staying truthful to their faith.It makes them NORMAL!
If you didn’t like it im sorry. But im not here to satisfy you all im just here in hope to help at least one.
I don’t need any false negative comments because I’m a responsible teenager but I made a mistake just like everyone does. Me and my boyfriend always used condoms but one day on the 9th day of my period ( spots were coming to an end) we had unprotected sex andit was less than a minute I would say 30 seconds he says he didn’t precum and I beleve him and it was durin the last days of my period . We have the option of buying plan b but I’m not sure if it would be a waste of time and money plus it has horrible side effects. Advice please I’m 17 and we always protect eachother
I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend I know he relesed inside me but I got my period a day later can I still be pregnant????
I wanted sex yesterday but did not go through with it then at night I went to a party and had sex with my bf but I forgot that I did not take the pill but he said he pulled out when it started to get wet and now I am scared but want more sex and today I took the pill and we are supposed have sex but I think instead I am gonna tell him
i think that if you are really worried about getting pregnant or catching sti’s you should be using condoms, using birth control. if u dont want to use them then dont be shocked if u become pregnant or have a sti. sex+sperm= baby.
Me and my boyfriend have sex alot without a condom an sometimes 3O mins after the next but he pulls out . Can i still get pregnant or can i be .? Thanks.
I had unprotected sex but he he didn’t cum in me and I’d only just finished my period the day before we had sex. Could I still get pregnant?
hi, i hav same prob w/ other girls who share their experience, i hav unprotected sex 2 days ago, it was 6 days after my period stop.in this case, is it possible i get preg for having sex 6 days after my period? my bf tell that he not cum inside but stil i am worried…i need clarifacation
hey babe. i had unprotected sex too and i was really worried. but trust me, it will come. juz give it time. it’s the stress you guys are dealing with that makes your so scared. calm down and it will come!
I have had unperteced sex alot of time and I’m getting really scared like last time I had sex my boyfriend said that he diden cum In me but I dnt believe him….well it’s been like 3-4 mouths now sence my last time but meany time befor that and my nipples hurt and my boobs are getting biger and I have tuckin lots of test that say -no so I though that I’m not pragnet but idk I need help ….I’m onley 15
im 13 and i have had unprotected sex with my fella and he said he pulled out in time but im 5days late i have done all this before andi didn’t get pregnant help me please
So I would say I had unprotected sex like at least 3 to 4 days outta the week. About 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend did what we normally do, he just pulls out but that time he didn’t kno if he did it in time. So here I am a week late no signs of starting my period anytime soon. I have insurance but I don’t use it. I kno I should go to the doctors and get a p test but I guess I don’t want to kno.I kindda just want it to all go away. :/
HELP i am 18 and I went to my friends party and got really drunk I had sex with this guy and I remember feeling really wet but when it was wet he was still humping me I woke up with this guy in my bed and I found out it was my ex boyfriend we woke up and had sex agin and my roommate walked in I almost screamed it was so weird but I guess I had feeling about my ex boyfriends but I am worried I feel weird I am really scared help me
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the other week. but it only lasted about 1 minute and then he pulled out. i am now 6 days late for my period. could i be pregnant?
I consider myself so stupid and dumb this pass few days… I’m only 15 and I had unprotected sex like a week after my period ended. and now like 3 weeks later we had unprotected sex AGAIN… That was yesterday… >.___> Then I was moody after that, he smiles at me and say what’s wrong, I said, “I’m worried…. I might be pregnant.” He said then he have to drop out and find him a better job to take care of me and our baby. I was raised by a pretty strict mom. I want to tell her what happened but then I scared… idk what she would do, kick me out or help me get through all of this. And plus she’s Vietnamese, that’s even scarier. I swear to God I would never have unprotected sex again!!!!!!! I know I am too young for all this and stuff… And THANK YOU Teenage Mother, you said it all!!! I love chu!!! This pass few days, I feel very sleepy and tired and moody, of course, because I am worried sick about this stuffs. And oh, my period is ery irregular, it can come and go when it wants to, and my boyfriend is 17. Even though we’ve only been together for more than a month, we love each other to death. XD I believed him when he say he will never ever leave me.
Well, guys, I’ll come back for updates. Stay tune?
Let’s all be strong and get through this!!!!!!
(Yes, we’re young and… stupid? it’s just the way it is!)
Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex twice in one day the first time he nutted on my vagina the next he nutted on my ass but the first time i think i came while we was having sex cus i waz really wet and can feel his cum drippin dwn ma vagina and idk if he pre-cumd n side me but am i pregnant im worried but he said if i am he will take care of me and his child im 14 and hes 17
i had sex on 4/4/10 at 7.09am my partner told me that he wanted dirty sex but i disagreed with that saw what he did whikle i was asleep was he came on top of me and he comed inside me and im on depo privera every 3 months he wants another baby but i dont want another thats why ive had this depo privera shots every 3 months he doesnt want to wear condoms he likes coming inside a woman i did a pregnancy test on monday it camed back negatine means not pregnant
ive had unprotected sex (alot) last month, my boyfriend said he was worried and said he did cum in side of me im 15y old and i cant get a pergancy test, i had a light period two weeks late
than two weeks ago me and him had sex we used a condom for like a minit litterly he dident like it so we took it off just before he came in side me we are boath scaired and he said that we probably did all the things like some one who was wanting to get prego.
my boobs have gotten noticely fuller in the past copple of weeks and they have ben hurting. i cant tell my parents till i know for sure or now my odds at least. i know your probbabaly going to say my chances are high i just realy hope i not.will you plz just give me some advice plz im despret.
i dont know what to do plz help me.
(sorry about my bad spelling)
I really need help, i’m a 89 year old man and I plunged my womans clunge and burst my pipe inside her now I think she’s pregnant, she is also 89 and hasn’t come on for the past 30 years, she’s having really bad mood swings, for 30 years! whens the bun coming out of the clunge? the mood swings were so bad, she told me she was going to make me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich but she didn’t have any jelly so she used cream cheese and she didn’t have any bread so she used my underwear! how much longer do i have to put up with this!!!!! help!!! sos!!!
depends on how tight this clunge is and how long shes had that mono!!!!!!!
I think the fact that your 89 yr old wife has been pregnant for the last 30 yrs is the least of your worries, i’m more worried about your mental state!!!
Hi, I’m 93 and would like to know how this clunge plunge works?
Me n my boyfriend of almost two years had sex for the first time yesterday and we didnt have a condom but he promised he would pull out and he did and we only had sex for 5 minutes no joke and i read that pre cum can still get you pregnant and my stomach has been hurting today and i feel like im going to throw up when i try to eat. I was wondering if i could be pregnant neither of us want a baby!! Hes only 14 and im 15 our parents would kill us!! Please help:/
hai my name is santhu, my age is 20,i have done sex with my boy friend in the last month may,aftr 6days i got my periods, nd in june again i have sex with him bt he told he take out before it comes did i get pregnant at this time, i m worring a lot abt this, we have unprotected sex, bt he put only littile into my pussy, do i get pregnant, i was scared abt this plzzzz hepl me// if my parents knows abt this they me kill us, plz hepl me
i had unprotected sex while on the pill and the first time he pulled out then the second time he said he busted in me and I felt it what you think is going to happen?? Is there a chance i can get pregnant??!!!
im 18 i had sex just once 8 days ago n took one pill after it…..i had no side effects except a lower uti n mood swings n a mild headache….r there any chances of getn pregnant??
((is it neccessary to take the pill the next day too? even if i dunt hav sex/??)
plz answer me
am so scared
I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on July 3rd and protected sex on July 8th with a friend, i was suppose to ovulate between the 4th and 5th now I’m pregnant and doubting whose it is. The friend claims the condom didn’t break’ but now I’m confuse and in the question, need advise pls
Help i had procted sex with my girlfriend sex weeks ago and saturday night her period came a week late, her period came yesterday but she’s vomiting and eating light is she pregnant?
hello i had unprocted sex on the 071310-081410 & 071910 and i have my periid a few days latee and and it was long then normal i only have it for abt4 dayss and i had it 7dayy straight but it wasnt jux a lil and like i was scared the first 2weks cuz i was hurttingg alot most symptoms for pregnancy and then no period so when my period came i wasnt scared no more untill i found out i can still be pregnant wiff my period cuz my mom still had all tha periods wiff me and after my period 2 dayys lata all the symptoms came bakk again and like i want a kid but really not at this age and like idk if i can have an infection still even if i might be pregnant? also like my mom had 3 dreamms in a role of her prego and woke up wiff a bad stomach ache but she cant get pregoo cuz of my step dad is fixed and like she asked her dad and he said its a sign from god saying a new birth and then the next day she found out abt me of wats been happening and then she said now i knw y tha dreams were forr so plez helpp mee oh and we did it like 2 timees eachh of those dayss and he didnt come out when he cum aand plus tha pre cum!! and i also took 5 test all said negetive and 4 at home and 1 at the doctor & still feeling th same wiff the symptoms till this day and today is 081210 &&& PLEZ HELP AND ANSWER MEH AM I PREgNANt?!?!?! and ima asking god to give me a sign and all i think is baby so idk wat is the sign cuz everyone is saying i am some saying ima not and baby things i keep seeing and keep seeing babies every where i go out side on tv and everywhere so plez HELP AM I? or NOT? i NEEd to KNW NOW BEFORE i DO ANY SPORTS
I had unprotected sex n its the 6th day from whn my period started…I got over with my periods on the 3rd day.So,can I get pregnant??
It was the first time for him,n we had sex for like a minute.
I had unprotected sex last day. It was my first time and my boyfriend’s first time to. I’m worried because I am irregular, but when we did it he didn’t ejaculate inside me. But I’m still worried, I’m 18, he’s 20. Im afraid of being pregnant. What are my chances of being pregnant? What are the signs that I’m not pregnant? If I’ll have my menstruation next week, does that mean I’m not pregnant?
JEEZ where can I meet all you willing babes!!
hi this my sound weird but im 14 and i have a bf named terrell me and him have been very close for the past year now i started to fall for him and then he asked me the big question i told him i dont know if im ready for that he respected my answer and i lovedhim more after then i decited that because of the way i feel about him that i was finally gonna take the big step and i did we had sex and when ever the condom got full i made him take it off and get a new one but some times he didnt have one so we went off and did it with ouit it we r useing the old pull out trick but monday of this week we didnt use one at all and i think im pregant but yett im not scared at all this isnt the worst thing that has ever happened to me but its not the greatest ether i kno that the father of my kid will step up if i am and im not gonna get rid of my kid because if i was mature enough to lay there and enjoy it then im mature enough to take of my kid with or with out surport and i wanna thank teenage mom because she is telling the truth about everything its not gonna be a walk in the park but at the same time its jus a lil more of some thing tough but yah hope who ever reads this is helped
1 week and one day ago, i lost my virginity at a party to some guy i didnt know i was very drunk but still knew what i was doing and my ‘virginity’ didnt mean anythign to me tbh cause ive doen everything else, but the problem is that he didnt use any protection and im almost positive that he didnt cum in me but ive heard loads of rumours that you could get pregnant from pre cum, i have been feeling quite weird but i dunno if its just physicological :/, i dont know if he had pre cum or not cause before we had sex i didnt do any oral to him he done it to me… also going by my last period etc i was ovulating. im really worried please help!
Shut up about keeping ur legs shut ur all a bunch of virgins people make mistakes im sure uve made mistakes 2 maybe u should try having sex there is a reason y people do it without a condom it feels heaps better but 2 risky i think
Okay. So I had sex november 12th and that was the last day of my period. But todays Sunday november 14th and my boobs kinda hurt and my stomach has been having really bad cramps. And we had unprotected sex for about 15 minutes. And he came inside of me. But I’m really worried that I’m pregnant and I haven’t been on birth control for awhile noww… help? Can u let me know how likely it is that I’m preggerss?
my name is ashlee and i’m only 15 yearsz young. well i have had un-protected sex 2 times. i had sex with my bf last week[first time]tuesday .& wednesday! he said he didnt cum in me .& i believe him because he didnt nut both times[he says he's not a minute man] i started feelin back pains friday, but my mom says it’s from sleeping on the couch. it still hurts .& no medicin worked.! when i talked to my home-boi he said that i betta make sure dat mi bf didnt pre-ejaculated in me….uuughhh i’m so scared because i dont want to live this fast life but i should have never had sex at this age.!
Hi advice needed?
I had a 1 night stand last night and was unprotected – he did come inside me. I was unable to get the morning after pill today. So am planning on going tomorrow. The problem is I had a miscarriage about a year and half ago and part of me wonders wether or not to take the pill at all?? I feel that a part of me is missing.
Also i have been having stomact cramps all day and my back is hurting – could this be any sort of sign of pregnancy or is it way too early to tell.
Help im so confused and really dont want to make the wrong decision.
I had sex on friday night, it was unprotected. Im really really nervous, this was the first time he didnt wear a condom while we had sex. And when i got home i noticed i bled alot in my undies but got my period 2 weeks ago. & im not on birthcontrol. Im afraid to ask my mom or go to the doctor. Do u think i could be pregant? or is that normal because this is the first time i had sex with him using a condom?
i had unprotected sex last year sometime in august or september with my boyfriend he nutted in me 3 times and im not sure if im pregant because i been getting on my period ever since then. but i have bumps around my nipple and soreness too… what is a sign of pregency… im 16 years old and afriad cause im so confused cause i dont know whats wrong with me… my cramps be hurting i have headaches from time to time… i just wanna know whats going on with my body..
i had unprotected sex i didnt drink anything i was so nervous but my boyfriend didnt culm inside me
Iread every sinqle one,hmm ii can relate to everyone.heres my story my name is michelle im 15(: Im datinq my, best friend rafael<3 hes my liife we recently started having unprotected sex febuary 13 ,we both finished and he cumed I didnt care then friday saturday and sunday we had unprotected sex and he cummed everyttime! I should start this week but hopefuly ii wll ii wil be happy cuz ino we can do it with or without help.and I know im readi.sum qurls arent but this may be a one in a life time thing becuz sum women or gurls arent blessed to have kids AT ALL so its watever to me.yes I do have symptoms im moody sore nipples hard
Stomach cramping eating alot!.nausiated nd back aches and dizzy but
Still no sign of period im still waiting
I M 22 N HAD UNPROTECTED SEX ON 9TH FEB.…HE PULLED OUT…HE SAID HE PULLED OUT ON TIME…AND I BELIEVE HIM…BUT I’M SCARED…I DON’T THINK I COULD BE PREGNANT…BUT I’M STILL JUST A LITTLE WORRIED.MY PEROIDS USUALLY HAPPENS ON 9TH OR 10TH OF EVERY MNTH BT I HAD A SEX WITH MY BF ON 15TH JAN N AFTER DAT I HAD A BIRTH CONTROL PILL, DUE TO WHICH I HAD MY PEROID TWICE IN JAN ONE ON 9TH JAN ANOTHER ON 22ND JAN..BUT TODAY IS 23RD FEB, 31 DAYS SINCE MY LAST PERIOD, I M SCARED PLS HELP ME OUT……
ok l had sex wi+ my bf earlier +oday about l7 +imes ech time he pulled out nd they all lasted bout a min…. im 15 and i am scared bcs we have sex everday at lest 12 times…. i am on bc but i think im prego bcs i took 4 tests and they were all pos…. im hoping all the sex i have will change tht..
^^ ARE YOU SERIOUS. FFS kids these days
Then again i’m not one to talk, i had unprotected sex today, and he did cum in me. I can’t afford the morning after pill and im only 17 and i’m just thinking F*ck.
me and my boyfriend had sex 3 times over the past 2 hours. all 3 times we used a condom, but after we did it the first time, i went down on him for a while and then he put it in me without a condom for like 2 minutes… im reading all this stuff about the pre-cum and its freaking me out. im worried that maybe there was still cum on his penis from when we did it the first time.. he told me not to worry since i gave him head and pretty much cleaned his penis with my mouth. but im still super worried im never letting this happen again…
i just had unprotected sex to day and he cummed in me im so scared but my mother has a doctor’s appointment scheduled for me today but not because of this reason she doesnt know i dont know what to do!!!!
You should always keep a log of your menstruation cycle, from start to finish. You also may want to consult with your doctor because missed periods are not always because of PREGNANCY. You could have irregular cycles or another medical condition that can be taken care of (get educated on these things! IT’S YOUR BODY YOU SHOULD START LEARNING IT!!). Having more uncorrected sex will NEVER stop you from being pregnant, that is the wrong thing to believe. Pre-ejaculation (IT’S STILL SPERM) can cause pregnancy because of the spermicide that are in it! Buy condoms if your sexually active and if you cannot afford them go to a Free Clinic and ask for some. They are there to help! If you are under aged in your state of providence it’s illegal to have any king of sexual intercourse. If your mate is of age male/female it’s called statutory rape and they can go to jail. Just because your on your cycle DOES NOT MEAN you can not get pregnant. Some women ovulate more than once a month. If you do not want children stop making excuses and use protection. Oral Contraception “The Pill” DOES NOT protect you from Sexually Transmitted Infections. So before you infect someone else with or without knowing of the possibilities Get Tested & Use Protection! If you’ve never had sex your NOT pregnant and you should go see your doctor.
okay so all the questions on here are repeated over and over again. while the comment before me is very detailed (thank god there’s other educated people on here) i will tell you everything that i know and try to answer all the questions as best as i can.
women are supposed to ovulate on around day 14 of their period but everyone ovulates at different times so from the first day of your period all the way around to the day before your period you have a chance of getting pregnant.
sperm can live up to 7 days inside you while your egg may live up to 2-3 days. so any time you ovulate (whatever point of your cycle this may be) thats your highest chance
sperm usually all die once they exit the penis and are exposed to air long enough without nice living conditions. so if you have made the guy cum beforehand and are having unprotected sex most of the sperm left on the head of the penis are dead while some may still be living inside the tip of the penis which could be forced out during the actual intercourse, so there is still a chance of pregnancy whether he cums inside you or had pre-cum or not.
pre-cum can make you pregnant, cum can make you pregnant. but even if you have unprotected sex everyday of the month there’s still a very low chance of you getting pregnant.
Im 15 & i had un-protected sex with my bf about 10 days ago & my period was supposed to come around the 27 of June , its now the 7 of July & i still have not gotten it. Im Terrified that i might be pregnant I read up on pregnancy symptoms but i havent had any exept wet spots here & there & ever since the day he Came in me i havent been in the mood for sex or any sexual interactions With him & i barley want to cuddle with him Which is super weird cause before i always wanted him. Yesterday my landlord gave me & my dad an eviction notice So that puts even more stress on my shoulders & Also i havent told my dad bout anything yet im Terrified bout what he will think & i dont want to stress him out even more so then he is right now. My life is WAY to stressfull for any 15 yr old, i have had to basicly Answer my own personal Q’s cause all my life i was scared to talk to my dad, The past 2 night i have been awake but thats cause of something my friend put in my drink she ddint want me going threw this stress case i already have a TON of it Shes stuipd for doing that & i am pretty mad But im Just Confused Scared Angry Sad . Please Help Me Im so scared & i need Help I need advice on what exactly is going on with me So please Anyone HELP ; (
If any of you girls are preggers, just have an abortion. Abortion is better than what Casey Anthony did and cheaper than raising a little monster of a kid. Let’s face it, a lot of you girls are young and not very bright. I mean, you’re going to raise a messed up kid if you have one and keep it. It’ll end up a junky, hooker, or gang-banger, or all three. Just get vacuumed out and you’ll be cool. Then Get on the freaking pill if you’re going to let him shoot inside you. It costs like 20 bucks and you can get it from the County for less than that. Again, cheaper than one pack of diapers.
Okay, so im 18. Im engaged & getting married next may. I want a baby!! I cant seem to have one. Ive been having unprotected sex w/ my mann for 3 1/2 years. Still. Nothing? December of 2008 I was perg. Butt 4weeks in lost my baby. To this day it makes me cry. Knowing I could have a almost 4 year old son/ daughter. Butt any ways I need help on how to get preg. comment back please. We greatly appreciate it.
my boyfriend and i always talked about have more kids Jokely we never had a serious conversation i have a 2yr old son and he has a 8month old (both with different people)
We had unprotected sex last night and we werent planning on havent sex til we got more comdoms but it happened anyway i just got off my period 2 days ago
So has my egg alredy been released?
How long before his sperm die?
do i have more or less chance of getting pregnant since my period just stopped???
hi im caroline im 18 iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first time since iv had sex with him we never had and durex so we took a chance it only lasted for about a minute and a half because he didnt wonna carry on ince he pre ejaculated i was wondering is there a chance i could be pregnant? the day after iv been gettin a few sharp pains on the left side of the belly but im jew on my period monday in 2 days could that be the reason please help me thank you xx
i got my penis just touch wid my gf’s vagina.i m afraid that she may got pregnant and she is afraid of being pregnant.i dont know whether i have pre ejaculation.noe she said she missed her period,dizziness.is she really got pregnant.plz answer me soon.
Girls dont listen to that stupid guy mike he is just an dick who doesnt understand how hard it is to be faced with a decision that big!!! If one thing you can learn from that insensitive pig is to watch out for guys like him!!! I had my son young and let me tell you girls its hard,but at the end of the day its worth it!! If you decide to keep it to full term you can look ino adoption and help someone who cant have a baby!!
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend over a year ago now and im now 14 he pushed me into doing it and said it would be fine, i am now worried that i have caught chlamidia and go through every day thinking it i never told my mum because i couldnt face up to it and still cant the thought of what she would say, i really dont kno what to do:S
I had got my period august 23 2011 it finished the 28th of august and my partner and I had Unprotected sex on September 6th threw the 14th is their any chance I might be pregnant I have a three yr old and we want a second child please answer
hi im 17 years old just recently i have had unprotected sex 5 times.. my boyfriend took out his penis before he cummed.. but im just really scared cause we got abit high on weed.. and then one thing led to another.. unexpectedly.. what are the chances that im pregnant?
im 100% sure he didnt cum in me cause he took it out on every occasion.. i no this sounds grose.. but he cummed on top of me.. nowhere near the vagina tho.. then he cummed on my clothes.. then i squirted once when we were high but im not sure whether that was his cum.. “/ help
Ok so I’m 13. I know all about this sex crap. But my boyfriend convinced me to have unprotected sex in september. Hes 15…. He said he pulled out on time, but when we were doing it, I swore I felt him let himself cum. I’m confused and worried. We broke up recently due to other things, I took 4 pregnancy tests… 2 read pos and 2 read neg. I don’t know what to do because there is no way in hell I’m telling my mom and dad. I have no family members to trust. I haven’t had my period since right after unprotected sex. I never told my boyfriend. I know I will never ever EVER get an abortion, or put it up for adoption. These are not options in my mind. I’m worried and need some support and people to talk to…. I’m not a slut. I will NEVER have unprotected sex again.
its seems that ther are alot of questions but no answers. if you havent had ur period since you had unprotected sex i would test again and if it comes up positive go to planned parenthood. they are very descrete but they will try to beat abortion into your head. jus ignore it. dont let it phase you. i was 16 when i had my first kid and this is what i did. i also made sure to seek medical attention. if you have no family you can trust find a friend thats what i did. its worse if you feel alone. your only 13 so getting help will be difficult on your own. go to a cvs rite aid or some place that sell prenantal vitamins so your baby developes normally. dont harm your child in order to hide your pregnancy. adults have sex and they deal with the consequences. you must now do the same. if you need any help you can email me at email@example.com ill keep you in my prayers
hi i had unprotected sex about 2months ago it was the first time id had sex im not sure if he ejactulated or not i dont think so it was only for about one minute but im scared i have like white discharge and im worried i could be pregnantt??
okay my situtation is I had unprotected sex, on November 6 and I took plan b on November 7. Then I had unprotected sex again November 13, should I take another plan b pill?
i sex for the first time in close to 6 months, but we didnt use protection. I had sex november 5th. We waited for the pre cum with oral sex. He pulled out in plenty of time before he came. Now its the 18th and i am experiencing bloating, weird cramps and barely any discharge. I got my period October 28th and it lasted about 4 to 5 days. Im not due for my period for another 10 days. Could these be signs of a pregnancy? I am stressing about it, its all i can think about. If i take a pregnancy test now would it work?
I just want some answers because im very scared and ashamed of myself.
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