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Top 10 Causes of Bleeding After Sex

By June 8, 2008

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You've just finished making love, and you're in that pleasant dream-like state when you go to the bathroom and discover that you are bleeding. Nothing can bring you back to reality faster than vaginal bleeding after sex. Find outwhy post-coital vaginal bleeding occurs.
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July 2, 2008 at 2:05 am
(1) Never Again says:

My boyfriend and I had anal sex 3 days ago, we have done this in the past. At first there was some light bleeding with has happened before. Today when I used the toilet I had heavier bleeding. I made an Dr.’s app. but it is 4 days away what are some causes and could he have caused some serious damage.

August 18, 2008 at 10:23 am
(2) Scared and confused says:

Dear never again. This happened to me lastnight. Was everything alright or was there serious damage? I am scared and I do not want to see a doctor. I am afraid of being judged for exploring. Could you please advise as you have been through this. I am searching for answers but they all basically say the same thing. Thanks,

August 25, 2008 at 12:31 pm
(3) Scared says:

If anyone can give advice i need.I hav ethis problem that when i sleep with my boyfriend the condom come out filled with stains of blood and i don’t fill any pain and i bleed a little and somethings the is nothing>what could be the course of this problem?

September 23, 2008 at 2:11 am
(4) Worried says:

I recently had sex with my boyfriend and every time we finish having sex, his penis is covered with blood. I already lost my virginity already, but the problem is what is causing it to bleed? I’ve read the cause of it and I’m really worried that I might be infected with some sort of disease that I’m not sure of.

October 9, 2008 at 5:12 am
(5) OrchidSuicide says:

If you bleed after sex and you are not on your period see a doctor. If you have abnormal bleeding or spotting between periods than that could be a symptom of an STI and needs to be looked at. Although it is scary to think about, ignoring the problem could make things alot worse. Bleeding after sex with your partner could be a numerous about of things, ranging from a side effect of the contraception pill you are on to a naturally occuring virus known as HPV which causes cervical cancer. Any abnormal bleeding must be looked at.

October 9, 2008 at 5:17 am
(6) OrchidSuicide says:

and to scared and confused.
Doctors never judge patients and the best way to feel comfortable is to request a female doctor. the only way to help answer your questions is by being honest so they can help you and with treatments. Remember that it is confidential and just think about how many people a doctor sees in a day and some of the crazy stuff they get asked. Just relax and take a friend or your partner with you for comfort

November 15, 2008 at 11:46 pm
(7) what should i do? says:

The same as NEVER AGAIN

well i’m nearly 19 i was virgin when all this happened

My 1st boyfriend and I had anal sex 3 days ago, we have done this in the past. At first there was some light bleeding. Today when I used the toilet I had heavier bleeding.I’m very consert about it. What’s that bleedings should meen at the begining?

November 16, 2008 at 3:30 am
(8) anonymous says:

im 14 and i had sex for the first time at a party last nite with a random 19 year old. im now lightly bleeding and i dont know why and i dont know what to do. is it normal? i WILL NOT tell my parents… but if it could be serious then i dont know what to do…im realli scared. please help. how can i get treatment or something without my parents knowing? PLEASE GET BACK TO ME!!!!!!!!

November 16, 2008 at 3:32 am
(9) anonymous says:

also if i leave it be and it goes away, should i just pretend it never happened? becuase i dunno it was my first time so is bleeding expected?????

December 1, 2008 at 11:27 pm
(10) anxious. says:

i’m really scared, my boyfriend and i have had intercourse over the last two months but i didnt track my period and i was certain that i’d already had it last month. well im suppose to have already gotten it and i thought i had gotten it but it was just spotting, then today we had intercourse and i bled very little. and i also thought that this was my period. but i haven’t gotten the full flow and i’m worried. what’s going on?

December 2, 2008 at 11:55 pm
(11) scared dosn't know what to do says:

my boyfriend and i just had sex, it was my frist time but not his. hes 18 and im 16 we’ve had sex twice and both times i bled after, i dont want to tell my parents though but im scared it may be something bad. He told me he dosn’t have a STI but i dont know what to do can i just ignore it and pretend it never happened?

December 28, 2008 at 1:53 pm
(12) a friend says:

please tell your mum you need your mum’s help you are only 14 and what happened to you is rape weather you agreed to it or not you need to talk to your parens please they will understand talk to yor parents plase sweetheart. take care

December 28, 2008 at 10:36 pm
(13) big sexy says:

The truth is ladies it most likely due to be be pounded very hard and deep. You were opened up like the little tight school girls you are. Have no worries eventually you will get used to the large size. Most ladies do eventually and often start to enjoy the feeling of being bottomed out in. Hope this helps and remember be responsible

January 8, 2009 at 10:10 am
(14) worredhelp says:

i had sex on tuesday .. i have been on pill 4 2 years now or more not sure really so ya i started my other pack liek 3 weeks ago now i got bout 5 days till i shoudl have break of da pill 2 have my period bt i dna what to do cuz after we had sex on tuesday next day i had bleeding n still bleeding nw i dna if is my period cm early or is something eals ei been cheaked out and i dont have anything .. really worred now what you think??

January 21, 2009 at 2:14 am
(15) key says:

i had sex last night and this morning i started bleeding slighty..i came off the contraceptive injection in nov and a week ago had my bleed that lasted a week so im assuming it was my period…it happens every once in a while and i am to scared to go..there is no way either of us has an std or anything like that…we have been together for 3 years..and have a child and i know he wouldnt play away..im confused..anyone help???

January 21, 2009 at 11:26 pm
(16) racel brown says:

i just have sex and find a little bleeding am mad what is it.

January 30, 2009 at 10:36 pm
(17) scared says:

me and this guy tried having sex and it kinda of happened but didn’t go all the way in because it couldn’t fit but the next morning he woke up with blood all over his hands and pants it was horrible, then about a month or two later tonight i had sex with this guy and im bleeding again im not sure if its because he fully popped my cherry or what is this normal? please help!!!!!!

February 5, 2009 at 5:05 pm
(18) Annoyed! says:

Rape my ass, that is a bunch of CRAP! she is 14 yes but made a grown up decision to have sexual intercourse and now she is suffering the consequences. Just talk to your parents and see a doctor. If you were not prying you would not be scared right now.

February 14, 2009 at 11:47 pm
(19) SoSorry says:

Well, I had been doing some anal play and when I finally finshed I noticed a little blood. I am 16 and cant tell my mom or anything but since it was only a little it should be fine, right? I am a little scared but its happened before….What should I do?

Will I be ok?

February 17, 2009 at 1:05 am
(20) Man WTF says:

im 16 years old and ive had sex befor for a while and i just hooked up with a new guy hes 19 and i slwpt with him and i wento the bathroom and noticed blood and so itryed to figure out where it was comming from sure enough were he went in…was he bigg enough to spit my hole to make me bleed like i dont know whats up???can i please have some guidence

March 6, 2009 at 6:02 pm
(21) Don't know what to think says:

Ok last night i had sex and im no the pill but when i woke up this morning and i was bleeding does this mean im pregnent??? Whats going on?

March 12, 2009 at 10:17 pm
(22) Bobbi says:

you all are lil girls trying to play a woman’s game , Give it up your just that lil girls and no matter how many men you screw you will still be just lil girls .
Go be a kid womanhood will come to you soon enough and you will be wishing for it again(childhood being what u are lil girls)
Boys just want to put their dicks in something and believe it or not your just a jerk off box for them lol and you lil girly girls fell for it , I want you oh I llove u or I am so connected with u ,we have so muchhhh in common lol or this one your so beautiful u turn me on let’s go for a walk and then he is all hands sound familiar lil girls lol you have all been used and tossed all because you wanted to be an adult lol
I learned alot from working in a bar and having a dysfunctional family no no incest ewww but 3 sis who were abused sexually and turned into druggie crack headed sluts
So do yourself a favor and grow up when your married and have gotten the lil girl out of your system
Remember when the wrong one comes along his words will be sweet and full of honey and his hands will wander and his urges will become your nightmare do not put yourself in this position know when a man or actually a pervert is bullying you and the good looking guys know they can bag you so blow them off and you wont get a std’s or vd or a baby in the oven

March 12, 2009 at 10:20 pm
(23) Bobbi says:

You should use your head anal sex is not natural or normal for obvious reasons lol
You do not have to please him in bed to prove you love him or afraid he will leave you if he is that shallow he is gonna leave you any way and to have a baby with this person guess who gets hurt not you you will get over it because you will see what a fool you were but the child will see your mistake and what it caused him/her is a pain that will last for always and not ever go away unless the guy is not a jerk which is very rare

March 16, 2009 at 4:29 pm
(24) Confused & Worried says:

Hiyah ,, recently i was at my mates birthday party and was very drunk but i remember alot i had unprotected sex and am scared because everytime i go to the toilet i find blood. I duno what to do am so confused,, Am getting these funny feelings in my belly aswell.. Please help me i dont want to tell any1.

March 22, 2009 at 4:30 pm
(25) emma says:

ok so i lost my virginity when i was 12! i know people thing, that’s bad. but to be honest i don’t regret it, i was in a long lasting relationship and i felt ready and i loved my boyfriend, even though i was young, it doesnt mean anything to me now. i bled the tiniest bit after and then nothing, i wern’t in my much pain, but maybe it helped because i felt ready and i wanted to do it! i am not that much older now, but i find it uncomfortable to go on top.. its like when i get on top i feel like my mind goes blank and i forget how to do it! how can i stop this its really like i dont know how to, but i know i can! its to confusing!!

March 30, 2009 at 12:21 am
(26) u_dontneedtakno says:

Bobbi shut the hell up seriously.. lol O_o

April 7, 2009 at 12:29 am
(27) UnKnown says:

Okay, so me and my boyfriend did it the first time and he popped it and i bleed. but now we keep doing it without the condom but befor he cums he puts it on . but now its bee like the 10th time weve done it. and im bleeding again . I NEEED ADVICE .

April 8, 2009 at 6:44 am
(28) been rhere says:

ladies, the female body is not quite ready to bear children until you are 18-20 years old, but you are doing what it takes to make a baby, meaning your body is not mature yet. When you first start to have sex there is some bleeding, not a lot. If you need a pad the next day because of blood, get to the doctor! Anal sex – that is exit only, you can tear your insides and not know it, you can get nasty infections in your rear end, it is even possible to do so much damage you can’t control your bowel movements. If you keep bleeding from anal sex, go to the doctor now! Wouldn’t want one of those poop bags hanging on you for the rest of your life. And stop that! I’m not a prude or anything but you are doing things your body is not made to do with guys who are just too young and inexperienced to stop if something isn’t right.

Slow down. why do your parents try to stop you from having sex, because the boys just want to have sex. It is true, I know, I know, THIS guy is different. Guys often don’t know they are using you just for sex, all they know is that sex feels SO GOOD. Guys really truly shut down the brain when they are close to having sex. You are mixing up sex and love. Big mistake. Girls think different from guys-guys DO NOT think that sex equals love, they’re not bad or evil, just different from girls. That never changes, ever. Look out for yourself, and honestly, how many teenagers have lived happily ever after? Or even graduated still together?

April 9, 2009 at 11:27 am
(29) woried and scared says:

To Who I May concern,
i had sex with my boyfriend and he went on me I saw the sperm after that i went to the bathroom and i saw i was bleeding but my pee was normal my vegina had blood and i don’t know if i am pregnant and my period is soppose to come in these days please help me

April 9, 2009 at 11:50 am
(30) woried and scared says:

and the bad thing is that i am 14 and he was 17 and i don’t wanna tell my mother but i was not virgen wht should do
PLEASE HELP ME I AM BEGIN

April 14, 2009 at 8:02 pm
(31) Trying not to insult anybody says:

I can’t believe how uneducated you girls are and already having sex. Its not even about your age, although some would disagree with me. Its about doing something you know nothing about!!
You wouldn’t build a rocket without reading a manual first, ya know what I mean? If you don’t have a caring adult to speak about such matters with, look it up!!!!
READ girls!!! You have the internet at your fingertips!!! Start looking up sex education stuff, basic things about the body. Start at the beginning and work your way up.
You girls are working backwards!!!!
You’re not supposed to do something… and then learn about it!!!

April 19, 2009 at 8:26 pm
(32) talrnww says:

this is to answer the girl who lost her virginity at 12 the reason you shut down when you get on top is cause you’re so used to lying on your back and letting a man do all the work(NO OFFENSE I’M DEAD SERIOUS!)

April 27, 2009 at 3:59 pm
(33) analworries! says:

recently i had anal with my partner, there was poo everywhere! is this normal? also there was blood im worried as im not sure if i can face my boyfriend ever again

April 29, 2009 at 11:58 am
(34) Confused says:

Since I’ve been with my current boyfriend of 4years, I have been having heavy bleeding after sex, not every time but majority of the time. I’ve gone to the gyno (3 different ones) and still no one has any idea of why this is happening. I don’t feel any pain what so ever but it will bleed as if I’m on my period sometimes for a day or two afterwards. Wasn’t sure if anyone has heard of anything like this or experienced anything like this….

May 2, 2009 at 1:17 am
(35) WORRIED says:

EVERYTIME I DEFICATE, WHEN I WIPE MYSELF, I FIND THAT I AM BLEEDING FROM MY VAGINIA AS WELL AS I NOW KEEP A SLIGHT ODOR. I AM WORRIED ABOUT THIS. I WENT TO A DOCTOR AND I WAS TOLD THAT IT IS NOTHING. I NEVER IN MY LIFE HAD AN ODOR.
PLUS AFTER HAVING INTERCOURSE, WHEN MY HUSBAND GOES TO URINATE, HE IS BLEEDING FROM HIS PENIS…CAN SOMEONE HELP ME WITH THIS PLEASE

May 10, 2009 at 11:03 am
(36) stephanie says:

hi, im 18, and have been sexualy active since i was 16, i have had PID, & bacterial vaginosis, my body is a mess….i had them wen i was 16-17, i slept about alot, and im not proud ov it….but now its hitting me i think…..becoz iv slept with soo may people i think my body is in bits…i am bleeding after sex every single time…im in a steady relationship now, i bleeed and bleeed for 1 week, then wen i have sex again it happens again..its not my period…i have irregular periods too. this has been ongoing for 1 year now….bleeding after sex is not right…iv read and read and scowered the internet for reasons and answeres and cancer is a big one….i went to doctor and they examined me and they cudnt see anythng…but wat do i doooo, leave it !! forget about it…pretend it will go away…how do i tell my bf tht i bleed after sex everytime, i have to say to him im on my period again, hes like! eh?! soo it is humiliating…..but at the same time i ammm petrified to find out it may bee to late if it is anything severe!!!! PLESEEEEE HELP ME!!! im getting no answeres from anywhere!!! wot do i dooooo :(

May 10, 2009 at 3:04 pm
(37) Su says:

Stephanie,
See your Dr! Although it is probably very embarrasing and horrible, you don’t want to have an infection that leaves you infertile!Need to think long term love, take care

June 9, 2009 at 1:52 am
(38) scared says:

i just got off my period on the 4th this month. (its now the 9th) and i had sex on the 5th. now im bleeding again.. can someone please tell me what the f is going on

June 9, 2009 at 11:36 pm
(39) Concerned parent says:

A bit surprised with all the younger ones having sex at such an early age. My advice to you, is have a good rapport with your gyno. He/she should be able to discuss anything which pertains to you.

June 13, 2009 at 10:23 pm
(40) Scared says:

Me and my husband just had sex and I noticed I was bleeding badly, andI am not on my period. Im scared and I dont know what to do.

June 22, 2009 at 10:35 pm
(41) been there says:

Hey girls, I just wanted all of you youngn’s to know that i have been where you are. I was sixteen when I had my first child and I was very blessed to have married her father. But what all of you should know is that sex is something that you should only give to the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, not for every tom, dick and harry that comes along. Guys know what to say to get what they want and the good ones are FEW & FAR BETWEEN!!! I just happened to be very fortunate. I don’t want you to think that I came to this site just to snoop or judge, I came here with about the same problem as all of you. I have been spotting and at times heavily bleeding after sex and I was trying to find out what could be wrong. But I was heart broken to find all of you young girls giving yourselves away like you are. Take it from someone who knows: be responsible! Live your life first. Get an education and be able to support yourself. Then find a man and have fun having sex and making babies when you are old enough for marriage. I threw everything away to have my baby. Then I got married at 17. I wouldn’t trade my daughter for the world, I only wish that I waited until I was older. But for the grace of God, I am now 26 yrs old and going back to school and making a better life for us. I found out the hard way though.
And for the anal sex, I did a research paper about homosexuality, and trust me: it is exit only! There are so many things that can go wrong down there. You can get an infection, pass an infection to your partner, weaken or tear your sphincter muscle and have trouble with the bathroom, be more at risk for STD’s and HIV, the list is endless. Do your research if you don’t believe me. Please be more responsible. We have to live with our decisions good or bad. Please don’t think I’m a hypocrite. I know where some of you are now and I would just like to help if I can. I hope all of you find the answers you’re looking for. God Bless!!

June 23, 2009 at 8:42 am
(42) wat will i do ? says:

hey im 15 and i had unprotected sex on the weekend we did it bou 3 times that day and i did bleed just a lil bu then two days later i had sex again with the sme person and this time the blood is heaver wat am i supposed ti do i ant tel my mam ? please help me if you noo anything bou what is happning to me
thanks too whoever posts a commnt with help back too me
xxxxxxxxxxxx

June 23, 2009 at 8:10 pm
(43) lindi says:

you need just to relax :D and dont think about terrible things

July 1, 2009 at 5:00 pm
(44) Kirstie says:

hi ive been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks + weve been having sex. i was due on my period today so wen i started bleeding monday night after we had sex i thought i had just came on early but a few hours later i had stopped.
next day i thought i was fine as i wouldnt bleeding so we had sex again and once again i started bleeding for a few hours and now im fine im due on my period but havent came on yet whats rong with me please help!!
Email me a reply anyone Kirstie-Baby-Ox@hotmail.co.uk wil be seriousli appreciated!

July 3, 2009 at 3:05 am
(45) Becky says:

I was fingerd for the first time about a mounth ago.my boyfriend said he heard a tore such didn’t scare me I figured his hand stole my virginity but I started bleeding really bad and sense then he has fingered me about 4times and blood is everywere and I’m really scared and cunfused.I’m currently talking trinessa birth control but I don’t know if it’s a side effect or if somthing is wrongs and need a doctors help.I’m afraid and don’t
Know how to tell my mom though.HELP!!!!

July 20, 2009 at 11:53 am
(46) is dat possible? says:

I just had sex wit my boyfriend about 3 days ago for the first time. So I’m not a virgin any more. But I didn’t bleed at all after we had sex. So I wuz a virgin and didn’t bleed. Wut does it mean?

July 28, 2009 at 12:55 am
(47) Faerie says:

Hi, I’m 24 and still a virgin (waiting 4 marriage, lol!). Everytime my boyfriend and I are together and he tries to finger me I dry up completely. I try to think “happy thoughts”, but this doesn’t work and it frustrates us both. I’m not sure what the problem is. Is it a mental thing or am I just sexually retarded?? Please help!!

August 2, 2009 at 3:45 am
(48) hurt and scared... says:

well..i lost my virginity for the 1st time to my current boyfriend but it hurt so much and his penis didnt go all the way in…i think im really really tight…then the nxt day i found i was bleeding and i was a bit bruised down there….im worried that i will never get pleasure out of sex cuz im to tight…..HELP i need help…please….why did it hurt so much..how do i loosen up and why am i bleeding???? its only faint blood but still its BLOOD..

August 2, 2009 at 4:06 am
(49) hurt and scared...plz HELP im only 13 says:

im 13 years of age and last night i had sex for the 1st time eva…it hurt so much that after only a quarter of his penis went in we had to stop…he was caring and understanding and he said we will just take it slow he said that he will wait until i am ready…but i am ready…it hurt so much tho and this morning i found faint blood coming from my vaginal area…it also looks a little bruised…i want to talk to my mum about this but i know she will kill me (not literally) but she wil go off cuz i promised her i wouldnt have sex til im 18…i went to his house ….his parents were away and my best friends boyfriend lives across the road from mine and me and my bestfriend wanted to lose our virginity in the same night so we did…but mine hurt and hers was great…maybe im to tight??? HELP….plz im only 13 and i dont know wat to do,,,but i talk to my boyfriend about this and he was so sweet and caring about it all,…i luv him and i want to keep satisfying him but it hurts me…we tried diff positions to see if it helped but it kept hurting…x

August 2, 2009 at 4:09 am
(50) hurt and scared.. says:

oh and im also only 13…Help

August 5, 2009 at 2:00 am
(51) confused says:

hey i had sex with my boyfriend last night, and no im not a virgin. my period usually starts around the 6th of every month, and after we had sex last night, there was a tiny bit of blood on the condom. ive been wearing tampons and theres no blood on them. im scared i might be pregnant because i know you can have implantation bleeding. can somebody help please? im so confused

August 7, 2009 at 8:14 am
(52) compassionate says:

okay what?? anal sex?? You know that a penis is meant for the VAGINA?!? come on!!

12, 13 year old girls losing their viriginity? i have alot of compassion for you girls. no self control these days! i’m 22 and got married when i was 21. my husband and i both chose to wait to have sex until marriage. (Like it’s meant to be) I’m telling you girls! it is so beautiful and special when you wait for that special someone! i know it’s hard to wait (i’ve been there and i know it’s hard. especially when the man you have is hot, like my husband :) ) but that’s why we have SELF control!
sex is amazing inside of a bonded marriage. God made it to be for husband and wife. that’s what sex is.

August 16, 2009 at 12:16 am
(53) Confused says:

I had sex last night and i found out afterwould i had bled heavily.. i’m really confused cause im not a virgin. i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and we have had sex. last night was my first guy other than my ex. i don’t know why i bled. please help :S

August 16, 2009 at 5:19 am
(54) Worried Teen.. says:

I recently had sex around Feb 09… And i bleed seen as it was my first time. Then at the weekend i then had sex… i was really tight and we got it in but then i bleed again.. but i thought that seen as i bleed on the first time, that ment i “popped my cherry.” Is something wrong or could it be that the first time didn’t “Pop my cherry” and this time i did?

August 17, 2009 at 10:32 am
(55) anonymous says:

please please help me

i am 15 i lost my virginity about 1 year ago and i am still with the same person now we only have sex around once or twice a month but about 3-6 months ago i started to notice that my vagina was bleeding slightly after sex it looked like there was a tiny cut at the bottom of my vagina hole but im not too sure. this has happend for all this time and hasnt stopped its been every time weve had sex.

i have only just today come up with symptms of thrush but im not sure whether this is to do with it or not.

and about two months ago after me and my boyfriend had sex a knob like thing that was stiff and pointy was poking out of my hole at the bottom.It was about two centimetres. I had noticed this before but in the past it had been stringy and small.itwas really uncomftable because i could feel it when i walked

i told my mum but not about the sex part she didnt know what i was talking about she was going to get me a doctors appointment but i started my period and it shrinked anyway but not back to its origional size.

my vagina is always quite sore after sex but im not sure whether its because ive been doing it too much at a time

.. and ive heard that bleeding after sex could be loads of things including cervical cancer

i really dont want my mum to find out about me having sex but is it best for me to tell her or is a simple cut okay ? and are all of these things normal ?

please help me i really dont know what to doo!! :s

August 18, 2009 at 11:23 am
(56) sam says:

dear dr,listen im 13 and i really really am scared cuz me and my bf went to a park and i think his thing went in me after words it hurt alot then when i got home i noticed i was bleeding and i feel so much more differnt than usal please write back to me asap thank you bye

August 18, 2009 at 4:57 pm
(57) nelly says:

I GOT MY PERIOD JULY 26 AND I HAD IT FOR LIKE 2WEEKS AND A HALF. ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX IN THE BEACH IN THE WATER 2 DAYS AGO.AND NOW IM BLEEDING.CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT BEACUSE I HAVE NO IDEA WHY I KEEP BLEEDING. PLEASE WRITE ME BACK AT MY EMAIL QBANCHULY4U@HOTMAIL.COM

August 26, 2009 at 8:55 pm
(58) rosie slut says:

you think his thing went in you 13 yr. old? Damn either it did or it didnt. You would definately know it if it did and your a virgin. so either it did or it didnt which one? My guess is it did and you dont want to take responsibilty for it.

September 21, 2009 at 12:34 pm
(59) ellie says:

im fourteen, i still haven’t started my period, but i had unprotected sex 3 days ago for the first time and im still bleeding? does this mean iv started my period? or have i been broken in? how could i tell if im pregnant because iv never had a period?

September 28, 2009 at 4:45 pm
(60) nervous says:

okay so i recently had sex with my boyfriend. im nineteen. we did it twice in two days. once, every two of those days. it was normal and didnt hurt the first. but the next day we did it again, i just started to bleed a while ago, not badly but its just a few spottings and i have a stomach ache. what is this? i had yeast infection before from fingering. is there something wrong with my body?

October 1, 2009 at 10:35 pm
(61) Miranda Kelpe says:

okay so im 14 and i just has sex for the first time. 3 days later i started to bleed slightly and i have no clue wat it is. im soo scared that im pregnat or sumthing. please help me..

October 11, 2009 at 9:02 pm
(62) miss concerned says:

Im not a virgin. Im 16. Last nite i got fingered by my boyfriend and nothing hurt. But when i got home my underwear was covered in blood and its on and off and its bleeding heavily at times today. But my period ended last week..
Im really concerned. Am i infected with something?

October 12, 2009 at 5:33 am
(63) You caught something says:

There should never be any blood after, before, ore during if there is blood it’s a chance you caught something. tell your parents because if left untreated it could get worse.

October 13, 2009 at 4:09 am
(64) Sal_AP says:

I got home after having sex with my boyfriend and I realized I was bleeding. I don’t know what that means. I’m a little worried but at the same time I dont know because my period stopped the day before we had sex. It stopped earlier then usually, but I didn’t worry. Does it have to deal with my period? Should I see a doctor?

October 14, 2009 at 10:55 pm
(65) Curious says:

I am 21 years old and i am with a new partner and have been for aproxx. 4 months. For these past four months every time we do certain positions(doggie) I bleed. Is this because he is larger then the inside of my vagina?He is aprox. 9-10 inches, He hits my cervix when we do it that way, can i be badly damaged? Because I think it feels great. Please help, he has been tested before he was with me and does not have any std’s.

October 29, 2009 at 8:19 pm
(66) Concerned says:

I’m 19 and have also experienced the bleeding after intercourse but only with my boyfriend who im with now and we have been together for 2 years…. I eventually went to the docs…well cause i knew i ddint have an STD but i’d always rather be 100% sure and so should you. Basically, he’s just big for my body….. If you have your period and do it like a day or 2 after n bleed….that actually is semi normal to experience its like the excess coming out of us….. BUT, i suggest still going to the doctors or they gyno just to be sure. Cos i can be numberous amounts of thing from std’s, cancerous things, to just being to big. Overall its not very healthy to happen wel cos we already lose blood once amonth. If u just lost ur virginty thats completly normal…. Or maybe both the first time but a time after it may happen just cos ur cherry didnt pop! but please go to the doctors cos u never know who the guys u are screwing with have done. Esp if ur not in a relationship or theers no trust :) GOOD LUCK!

November 2, 2009 at 9:17 pm
(67) Ashlyn. says:

when bleeding after sex does not mean your pregnant. But if u want to make sure see a doctor

November 3, 2009 at 9:49 pm
(68) Freaked out! says:

Okay, here’s the deal, I just got off my period last Thursday, and me and my boyfriend had sex that weekend, and when I went to the restroom I was lightly bleeding. I’m so worried right now! I don’t know what to do! Can someone please please help me? I really don’t want to tell my parents.. But can anyone help me out here and tell me what might be happening?!

November 5, 2009 at 9:07 pm
(69) Answer says:

Wow you guys are freaking out over nothing. You will bleed after sex if you are new to it so dont worry. Anal will make you bleed if you do it for ages before you’re used to it and a couple of you sound like you have STIs so go to the doctor and have it checked out. they have clinics for a reason. also maybe go to sex ed or read some books k :)

November 9, 2009 at 10:00 pm
(70) Maritza says:

Well I bleed after having sex but only after the first few days that my period ends is that normal or is it still my period. I don’t think it is because i’m not bleeding the rest of the day only after sex.

November 11, 2009 at 7:26 am
(71) No Jugment Here says:

To all the young girls to each there own, you will bleed the first couple times after sex its your body way of getting to use to it. And despite what you may think your parents will not kill you just tell them or if you are to scared tell them you would like to be on birth control because your period is not regular and tell your doctor the truth they cant tell your parents; just be safe you dont need to raise a baby when you are still a baby or young adult as you may think. Babys are a lot of work and a lot of money and you cant get a job when your 13. I did not wait till I was married but I did marry my first and only. When you have sex make sure it is with someone that cares for you as much as you do for them. I know thats corney but thats the truth and the truth hurts. Just like sexs the first time. PEACE!

November 21, 2009 at 10:34 am
(72) WiseGirl says:

Wow.I read all the comments.I’m fifteen years old and I’m proud to be a virgin.it’s not because of my beliefs it’s because I chose to celibate.I’m in love with a guy who is truly everything a girl wants.he’s good looking,smart,loving and understanding n he was the one who confessed that he was in love with whilst I was too darn afraid to say it.we talk about everything except one that is sex.I asked him about it one day n he told me personally that he’s a virgin n wants to wait til he gets married to eventually make love.he even told me that even if me n him won’t last forever bear in mind that making love on ur wedding night with the person you love is everlasting n will be the most beautiful thing to ever experience.I’m so glad to have met someone like him.to all the girls,find someone who is willing to wait.it’s worth it.u don’t have to have sex just because your fellow peers are doing it because you wana fit in n all.don’t get brainwashed.and even if u have had sex before u can always change n reclaim ur virginity.that’s my advice to you girls out there,sex is a beautiful thing don’t turn into something dirty.take care all and godbless

November 29, 2009 at 10:16 pm
(73) not sure says:

I have sex with my boyfriend almost everyday we use condoms but only when hes about to cum. Ive already had my period this month but when i last had sex with him he pulled out and there was blood on his dick. it has never happened to me before . the blood looks like period blood but ive already had my period and im not sure whats going on. ive had sex with 5 people and im 16. Im worried this could be a disease . Please help.

December 1, 2009 at 12:06 am
(74) jeffs wifey says:

im 23 & married & even have a 3 yr old and still have bleeding some times after sex and im not on my period nor pregnant so whats up with that

December 1, 2009 at 11:40 am
(75) brianna says:

wow. this happened to me like three days ago. after me and my bf were having sex. i put on my underwear and i wait for a couple mins and i had blood in my underwear like i just got my period.

December 10, 2009 at 3:53 pm
(76) sitara says:

Funny when i go through all this girl and boys chat about how nice sexs are, how scared they were and the most stupid imaginary love and fantasy of sexs makes me wonder is it virginity are no more valuable and pride to the girls because for me yes, i will only have sexs once i married and give my virginity to the right man and value my honour. Hard to find but not impossible. Futhermore i’d rather being a nerd or being isolate from those girls who want to be popular and glamour but no pride and dignity. So what, as long i am happy with my life.. so far i am still maintain my grades and virginity.Still having a lot of friends. Lots of thing that teenagers lost actually when sexs playing in their mind because life are more beautiful and lots of things to explore rather than biology discovering.

December 14, 2009 at 7:57 am
(77) really worried! says:

i had unprotected sex 2 days at a party and i was pretty drunk. my friend and i went to the loo afterwards and she told me the back of my skirt and down my legs was covered in blood. i didnt feel any pain and my period isnt due for another week or so. i took the morning after pill today because i was stupid and let the guy use the ‘pull out’ method. im pretty careful usually but im worried it could be something serious. what the hell happened?! it was alot of blood. i dont really want to see a doctor.

December 15, 2009 at 1:13 am
(78) OMG! says:

after having sex with my boyfriend he called me all worried because he said that when he went to the bathroom he peed like blood. im worried because i dont know why that happened to him. what could it be?

December 15, 2009 at 1:17 am
(79) omg!!! says:

me and my boyfriend had protective sex but after havin sex he went to the bathroom and peed blood. is that normal?

December 15, 2009 at 1:26 am
(80) oh says:

is that bad?

December 17, 2009 at 3:40 pm
(81) omfg says:

Well, I’ve been “spotting” for three days and it’s not like me to bleed before my period. I had sex four days ago and i had a weird pink color coming out.

December 20, 2009 at 12:31 am
(82) dsfhjkl says:

me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about six months, right around there. and today we were having sex and it was normal. but he did bust in me a litttle bit, i mean not all of it went in me but a good amount. i am on the pill. i have been for seven months. but just switched to a new one last month. and im currently on my sugar pill. my periods been over for about two three days now. but so after sex, five minutes later i went to the bathroom to get it out of me as good as i can. and it was more than i hoped. so about idk four hours later i came home, and i went to the bathroom and there was blood all over my underwear and when i went to pee it was there when i wiped. and idk, im really scared now. b/c i didn’t even take my pill the last week cause its my sugar pill and he got some in me:/ so what does this mean?!

December 27, 2009 at 1:43 am
(83) ummm... says:

My boyfriend and I just had sex… he is 18 and im 16.. neither one of us was a virgin and we had had sex twice before… but when i went to the bathroom i found out that i bled and i dont understand why

December 29, 2009 at 1:25 am
(84) mother of two says:

To the one that had anal sex lucubration in really needed. We don’t produce much in are anus and the tissue is very soft. You might also have hemorrhoids as well. To all the young ones having sex and having no clue get some education on sex before you have it. I bleed for four days after my first time and it hurt several times after that it took some time before it stopped hurting. It happens. If you are to scared to go see a doc you shouldn’t have sex sorry you should be reasonable enough to take care of at lest your self before you have sex because there is so much things that can happen from sex.

December 29, 2009 at 10:09 pm
(85) Its funny says:

Im seeing a lot of people knock at others for having sex at a young age. Get real “your bodies not mature enough” thats a load of crap 12 I understand but 13 and up come on! In case people have forgotten not even a hundred or so years ago 13 and 14 year old girls were getting married to 20 and 30 year old men and bearing many children! There’s no age limit that’s societies stupidity. Maturity has no age limit our generation stay children for so long because we hold them in a child’s place for so long. We don’t let our children grow up! Now if you say no because of religious purposes waiting until marriage which like I said was done with younger females back in the day anyways then its understandable, me myself I wouldn’t want my daughter having sex at a young age but sexual curiosity will occur and then the act.

January 2, 2010 at 2:23 am
(86) ifkdup says:

Why am I bleeding after getting fingered and having sex! I’m very scared to go to the doctor! Do I have an std??:”(

January 2, 2010 at 10:08 am
(87) worrying. says:

Im 14 yesterday my boyfriend and I had anal sex twice. i had to stop him a few times because he was getting to into it and it started hurting. but when i went to the batroom I was bleeding. it wasnt much but it really shocked me. we didnt use lube because were both 14 so where would we get it?
but anyways do most people have this happen? it really freaked me out and Im just hoping nothing is seriously wrong?

January 2, 2010 at 1:43 pm
(88) Confused! says:

So, I’m 15 and have been with my boyfriend for two years now… This year we have started to engage in sexual activity, but we have both agreed we are not ready for sex yet. He has fingered me loads before but he eased
into it and went slow the first few times… A few weeks ago… When he fingered me, I bled a little. I didn’t think anything of it as it was only a little bit and I just assumed my hymen tore. But today he did it again and later on, when I went to the toilet, I saw a little bit of browish blood in my underwear. I’m a bit confused as I am not sure if I was bleeding while he was doing it, and his fingernails are quite short so i don’t think it was that and it can’t be an sti because I haven’t had sex. Although I have given him oral, so I’m not sure. I really want to know what this is, could it just be that he is going too hard? Should I be worried?

January 2, 2010 at 10:46 pm
(89) christy says:

me n ma boo had sex liik 4 or 5 daiz ago n i start bleed first it was lil now itz alot bu i kno itz not ma period im scared

January 3, 2010 at 2:46 pm
(90) worrying. says:

well i posted a comment before about bleeding after anal sex but Im not anymore and of course since my sister is 20 still living with us i searched her room and found some lube. so i me and my boyfriend do it again i will have some..but if ANYONE has any tips for me on it please email me at lovemyflawz@aim.com

January 4, 2010 at 7:53 am
(91) Terrified says:

So my boyfriend and I lost our Virginity in August, and its not like we have sex on a regular basis, but I had thought that by now it would be more comfortable and that the slight bleeding would have stopped. I bled a lot when my hymen was broken, and I figured that it would take a couple weeks to get to the point where I wouldn’t be bleeding anymore. but lately, whenever I get fingered or have sex my bf comes out with blood on him. I’ve heard different theories about what it could be, and I plan on making an appointment with my gyn for this week, but it would be nice to have a less cancer-sounding explanation as to why I still bleed while being penetrated. Its never painful, it just happens. Please help!

January 4, 2010 at 11:13 pm
(92) Tonys wifey 2105 says:

Ok well I had sex on da 28th of December and the nxt day I came on my period the very nxt morning i was scared becuz I had my pd already 4 December does dis mean I’m pregnant some help…also,today I had anal sex wit my the same person “bf” and I bled afterwards but it wasn’t my 1st time some1 plez help me email me wit help at lilcupcake219@aol.com anytime but plez 2nite I wanna go 2 da free clinic tomorrow but I still want help 2nite thanx ;-)

January 6, 2010 at 4:03 pm
(93) i need help please says:

okay so i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend last night and he came inside of me and this morning i found blood in my underwear like it wasnt alot but its never happened before i dont know what to do, i dont know what it is, ive been trying to look about what it is but i cant find anything, like im on the pill and i just wanna know what the blood means, someone please help

January 7, 2010 at 8:37 pm
(94) EBONY MAESTRO FUKER says:

im 10 i had sex wif my bf last night he pulled out his 20 inch cock with loads of blood he was really ill aswell i started my period last month and we did it unprotected i think i have STI’s or im pregnant

January 8, 2010 at 4:14 am
(95) HELP says:

i finger myself alot and just recently when i have been doing it i bleed every time. Help i’m scared lol i’m such a wimp!

January 8, 2010 at 3:37 pm
(96) SOS! says:

I had sex with my ex boyfriend three days before I went out with my recent boyfriend now and I was two weeks late on my period and im on birth control so my periods are regulated so i dont get my periods late..so i found it weird.. and when me and my boyfriend now recently just had sex and i bled.. and i had phone sex with my ex for two nights in a row and i bled each time… could i be pregnant with my ex?.. so im bleeding while having sex? Im really confused and i dont know what it is, and im really scared. PLEASE HELP! Thank you.
oh Im also a smoker and im not supposed to smoke on my birth control.. so could that have anything to do with it? but ive been smoking for the a couple years now and i was smokin since i started birth control and this has never happened…

January 10, 2010 at 1:29 pm
(97) Wow! says:

Wow! girls what are you doing at 10-14 years old, you haven’t even matured yet like seriously, your bodies aren’t ready for the things that your doing, Why are you having sex so early, I’m 19 and I’m with my first boyfriend ever, he was my first everything, we waited until we were sure we loved each other, to have sex, I was a virgin but he wasn’t he waited til I was ready. I just don’t understand how KIDS can be having sex these days, yeah sure blame it on the media, blame it on what other people say, like oh it’s so nice to have sex blah blah blah. I personally think it’s stupid to have sex young, you probably are still playing dolls, or stupid stuff like that! You think you girls are ready to have sex, sure you might be thinking your ready, but your body isn’t!!!!!

January 10, 2010 at 5:48 pm
(98) Chlor says:

If you haven’t started you period and you 14 but read to have sex do you still bleed

January 12, 2010 at 4:49 am
(99) hazel says:

all you 14-17 year olds are straight up ridiculous. i’m not perfect, i know, but can you keep your legs closed? goodness. stop having sex with all the random guys and maybe you won’t need to freak out over something and post things on here. i was searching for a problem i was having on google and i can’t even find the answer to it, instead if ind a bunch of comments spammed by immature, irresponsible KIDS (thats right, you’re kids, nothing but STUPID kids.) who don’t know how to keep their legs closed. Use your brain more than your vagina. It helps. The world is obviously going to an end very soon if this is a website for women’s health and a bunch of little girls are posting questions about the random anal sex they had. Do you people think about this and how disgusting it is? you can leave harsh comments back to me all you want. but i know i’m right. Anal sex is disgusting anyway, even someone my age shouldn’t be doing it! What in the world would cause so many people to be turned on by it? Diarrhea and terds come out of the anus. it stinks. its full of bacteria. yet retarted 16 year old sluts who should be painting, doing homework, helping their mom clean house, or eating pizza and watching movies like normal 16 year olds, are letting boys make love to their anus. its an exit only. you people make me sick. what makes me even more sick is people who don’t deserve STDS get them, curious innocent girls that have sex for the first time because they’re in love. yet you whores that have anal sex at 16 get away with everything. try going to the movies with a guy. holding hands. slow dancing. french kissing. hugging. cuddling. and if you’re in love and absolutely positive the guy doesn’t have an std, then maybe, if you can’t help yourselves, have sex WITH PROTECTION. its not that hard people. stop being so disgusting and control yourselves! the things you’re doing now is just a road to a lifetime of depression, self hate, and regrets! GOODNESS YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SO ANGRY.

January 14, 2010 at 11:26 am
(100) Z. says:

I think alot of you children need to stop making jokes, I’m sure at least half of these comments are false.
I’m 17. Im not a foolish child so dont even go there.
I had sex 2 days ago, not with a random.. but it was my second time. The last time I did it was in 2008. Yah.
From reading this, the reason I can gather is its just your body getting used to it, stretching, popping your cherry, or if you’re tight; ripping.
I started bleeding a few hours ago, but I now realise its normal.
You need to think about how hard they were doing it, and if their penis was too big or something simple like that.
It really is common sense.

January 14, 2010 at 9:30 pm
(101) Bigblack says:

I have a big penis:)

January 20, 2010 at 6:43 am
(102) k.k says:

my word 10 yrz old gals i 18 nd i tnk u gals shud wait.u stil babies.okay i had sex wen i was 16 i regrtd i did it to knw wat sex flt lyk evn tho it was wit a family frnds son dat i knew frm b4 i was born. i regrtd it cos i found a guy dat reali likd me nd i liked bak he was a virgin nd i wasnt.we dating almst 2yrz nw nd it stil effects him.so lyk oda gals who just cum to see wat ppl ar going thru lyk i did.gals u al ar special wait 4 hm cos ther.ar gud guys.peace ppl nd make love wit a glove nva 4get dat.

January 23, 2010 at 10:22 pm
(103) scared says:

i just lost my virginity last week and then this thursday i started bleeding and i thought i started my period so i got in the shower and then i didnt bleed any more and then earlier today it happened again and i really scared because i dont know whats wrong and i could really use some advice.

January 27, 2010 at 9:47 am
(104) I'm soooo scared says:

I’m 16 and me and my boyfriend have sex all the time but I started my period and it goes on for a week but I’ve noticed that it’s going on 2weeks now I don’t no what’s up ? Plz help

February 14, 2010 at 12:05 pm
(105) lucy says:

well, im 15 and ive had sex about 5 times in the last month.
but i had sex on thursday unprotected and today i spotted light blood comeing out when i go a loo what does this mean im scared ?
please write back :’(

February 15, 2010 at 10:56 am
(106) worried lady says:

dear,
i am a 40 yrs old lady with 3 children. married for 10 yrs. on friday I had sex with my husband and noticed that I was bleeding afterwards. I am also having cramping on my lower abdomen. I am very worried and confused. I konw that I do not have std as both me and husband have not cheated on each other. six months ago a vaginal ultra sound shows that i have fibroids when I visited doctor as I was finding it difficult to get pregnant. please help me with some answers.

February 15, 2010 at 11:20 pm
(107) valentine says:

hello everyone. i was 16 when i lost my virginity, i only had sex once with that person and later that summer i had sex one more time with someone else. that fall i met my current boyfriend whom i have been with for two years and we have been sexually active the full time we have been together. about six months ago i had started taking the pill. when i started taking the pill i also started getting frequent urinary track infections. i still receive them on and off and my doctor just keeps giving me medication when i bring the matter up. about a month ago i starting experiencing vaginal bleeding. i had my period on the fifteenth of january, and by the twentyth was all done and dry. then about a week later, after me and my bf had sex, i went to the bathroom and noticed a blood clot. the next day i basically started my period again with cramps and bleeding for another four days. after that the bleeding stopped. we had sex after that and there was no blood. but today which is the fifteenth i had bleeding again after sex. any ideas as to what could be wrong if anything?

sorry for all the info, i just wanted to have the full story out there (:
please help !

February 16, 2010 at 5:35 pm
(108) scareddd., says:

well ; me && my boyfrann just had sexx yesterdayy && the day before yesterday was my last day when i was off my period && im not a virgin && we’ve did multiple times but this time when i woke up dis morning i had just a little bit of blood && then that was it && now again there’s just a little bit && it is really a tiny bit . idk what it is && its scaring me . what is it ??? help me.,

February 17, 2010 at 7:04 am
(109) DanCer79 says:

Years ago I had sex with this guy that was really big. It hurted and I bled everytime we had sex. I eventually had to break up with him. Afterwards I went to the doctor and got a PAP done and I bled on touch. I have no STD’s but the doctor told me that rough sex is the reason for me bleeding.
Since then, I had a boyfriend and a very active sex life. I never bled with my boyfriend but every year that I get a PAP done, I bled. I broke up with that guy and am currently seeing another guy. He is not as big as the 1st guy but bigger than the 2nd guy and he makes me bled as well. It doesn’t hurt when I have sex with him.
Is it possible that the size of the penis is causing the bleeding?

February 18, 2010 at 6:43 pm
(110) valentine says:

ok so im pretty sure that now i have a period again. is it possible that if he gets deep enough it can trigger my period to start haha idk how dumb that sounds. its the second time i have bled after sex then the next day a period.

February 21, 2010 at 9:28 am
(111) Worried Mom says:

Wow!!! I hav been livin in da stone age…It breaks my heart to c all u young girls 12 -13 yrs not knowing what u putting yr body thu….R u ready to be a mom? Reality is dat yr body is not ready…Stop it!! If he cannot wait 4 u he is not worth it…Hav u no self control and pride 4 yr body. Sex is special and shud b spent wud dat special person when u are ready to face the consequences of yr actions which includes becoming parents…Pls start to respect yr bodies…

February 22, 2010 at 11:14 pm
(112) Answers says:

Guys, if you are bleeding cuz of sex he probably broke ur hymen. If it’s anal tell him to lube up and take it slow.

February 22, 2010 at 11:20 pm
(113) Answers says:

Dear anal worries,
you are not alone next time poo first=)

March 3, 2010 at 11:08 pm
(114) Kris says:

Me and my boyfriend have had sex mulitple times now. After everytime i bleed but on like a tiny amout. I’m on birth control too. Is this bleeding normal?

March 7, 2010 at 7:23 pm
(115) Delilah says:

I would just like to say that this is very shocking. Everyone seems to be blaming the young girls, and it is society that puts sex everywhere. Think about it, there is many movies showing young girls having sex, so girls look up to that and think its the right thing to do. Maybe the parents should step up and talk to kids when they turn 5 about sex. Maybe that’ll help them. People choose the lives they want to lead.

March 8, 2010 at 2:07 pm
(116) jessica says:

lately when me and my fiance have sex i bleed a tiny bit just when i wipe after i use the restroom..i dont have any pains or anything…and its usually in my discharge rather than like a period

March 10, 2010 at 8:32 pm
(117) Kirsten says:

i’m fifteen years and i’ve had sex many of other time with my last boyfriend. and i have a new boyfriend and we’ve had sex a few times, but the last time we had sex there was blood on the condom and i was bleeding after wards and still was bleeding the next day, what does that mean?
The reason i’m so scared is that like two or three weeks ago when we had sex the condom busted and we came in me, so i really don’t know if i’m pregnant or not. Please get back to me, i’m scared out of my mind!!!!

March 13, 2010 at 10:11 am
(118) We are all Crushed and Created.. says:

Well..I have read a lot here. And i see most people don’t want to be judged. I have a secret that i haven’t told, or plan on telling to people I know personally because of that. It’s just out of character for me..
Im 20, went to Panama City for Spring Break. had a great time. I’ve been through some rough relationships..2 specifically. and i have always planned on waiting. However, where i am from, I am thee only virgin. So yes it is quite tempting at times. I just dont trust people enough to give my v-card up..Well,, I was heavily intoxicated one night..dont remember anything from when I got out of the club until I was walkin with some guy who I still do not know his name..I guess I was slightly desperate and horny..I am 20! ha! And enjoy being a tease. The only control I have. Well we ended up making out and fooling around and I kept repeating im a virgin im a virgin! which he was okay with..but he jammed his cock in face. I told him I had never done anything like that..and he still went with it..next thing I know he had a condom in his hand, flipped me over..and we will say. my ass hurts! He took me back to my place, made sure i was ok and then I woke up the next morning and realized I had just started my period. I’m not sure what to think of all of it. In a way I guess I kinda wanted some attention too. Just feel like someone cares. I dont really have family anymore and ‘real’ friends are difficult to really have. Im very nice and outgoing. I just don’t know what to think of it all bc its not like me in anyway.. advice?

March 15, 2010 at 4:37 pm
(119) worried also scared says:

I have had sex with my bf 4 times and I bled a little bit the first time, the 2nd time I didnt bleed, the 3rd time also bled, the last time we had sex i bled a lot..I want to know if this is anything serious??

March 17, 2010 at 2:39 am
(120) stressed:/ says:

im 17 years old lost my vcard at thee age of 15 ive had sex w. a few guys over these past two years and just recently i had sex with someone who i thought i could trust he told me that he was clean b.c hes on probation and supposedly they do monthly checkups so i believed him but one time we had sex and thee condom broke he bought me those plan b pills and i thought everything was ok until we had sex again i started to have pains when i urinated i thought it was just a UTI and tried to ignore thee fact tht it could be more serious it went away and thn a couple weeks past and i started to bleed when i pooped im worried tht it could be something EXTREMLY serious..please help me im to scared to tell my mom b.c shed flip out and plus were really broke and i dont think tht shell be able to pay for thee treatment even if i did tell her please help me!!:/

March 19, 2010 at 2:17 am
(121) confused says:

i am 15 i am a virgin i just had a pap test i have had light bleeding for about 3 days after the pap, did this pop the cherry

March 21, 2010 at 9:00 pm
(122) allgrownup says:

i am 21 yrs old. and ii have recently had a baby. i had sex for da 1st time 3 weeksz ago and everything was okay. but i had sex last nigh wit a diff partner and as soon as we were done i was bleeding. and my period shouldnt b coming for another 2 weeksz. i dont no if he damaged something or i wasnt completly healed inside but i am worried.. wat do i do?

March 27, 2010 at 7:38 am
(123) hedda says:

this answer is for unknown (comment 27)

(27) UnKnown says:

Okay, so me and my boyfriend did it the first time and he popped it and i bleed. but now we keep doing it without the condom but befor he cums he puts it on . but now its bee like the 10th time weve done it. and im bleeding again . I NEEED ADVICE .

You could be pregnant you can get pregnant from sperm that escaped while you were having sex. (pre-cum) you should have been better educated about sex, like using a condom as directed on the box, or birth control. (although safe sex still has a small chance that you should be aware of)

March 28, 2010 at 6:12 pm
(124) lexx says:

sometimes when i have virginal sex, the next morning i wake up and use the restroom, my stool and my butt have blood. I does not hurt me. Whats wrong with me?

April 1, 2010 at 4:31 pm
(125) tinkerbell says:

To: We are all Crushed and Created Idk i read your comment and it kinda touched me I originally came on here to find out about anal sex bcuz me and my bf tested it out last nite n today im bleeding dnt really knw wat to think…but i kno how u feel about the whole fiiends think ppl suck sometimes…just want u to knw theres someone out there that cares…about your situation sorry it happened to you glad you keep your v card for so long tho im 21 now and lost my v at 17 wish i kept it for the guy im with now he’s totally worth it….something similar happened to me but didnt go as far i was staying the night at a friends house and he decided to wait til i was sleeping and force himself in the anal area he was not successful and thankfully i kicked his little ass but this guy scarred me for life and im sure your pissed about the guy on your trip sucks not knowing who he was….i feel for you… you sound like a great person just keep your head up and stay positive thats all we can do :)

April 1, 2010 at 5:12 pm
(126) SPEEDY says:

i had sx and the next wek after my period i started bleeding in my stool and urine

April 2, 2010 at 8:40 pm
(127) beentheredonethat says:

I agree with bobbi!!!

true story…
I lost my virginity at 13… Thought I could play the game. He was 16. He was more mature than the other guys. (the fact that we were in the same grade should HAVE told me something. I was in love. Yes I was… 9 months of being with him, skipping school with him, doing drugs, drinking, and smoking cigarettes with him seemed like heaven. But it didn’t last. Right after we broke up, after he cheated on me… or rather after I found out about all the other girls… I had a miscarriage. Didn’t even know I was pregnant. If you think I got lucky cause I miscarried, think again. I bled for 2 1/2 months. I was too scared to tell anyone. I am 27 now. Do I regret what I did? YES!!! I’m lucky I didn’t get any diseases. I was only a child. Ladies it’s not worth it, I promise!!!!! You still have a long life ahead of you and being promiscuous will hinder your life!!!!

April 5, 2010 at 7:02 am
(128) paranoid says:

I’m on the pill cerazette and I started it on the 3rd day of my period like the doctor said, she gave me a leaflet and in it, it says you can start taking it up to and including the 5th day of your period, but if you start as late as the fifth and have a short menstrual cycle then you need to use other forms of protection 2 days after, and I had sex woth my boyfriend the day after I came off my period, we had unprotected sex for the first time but we’ve had sex before, it hurt as we hadn’t done it in a while and he is big for my body but I did bleed a little which is what I expected but everything should be ok, I think I’m just paranoid, there’s no way I could be pregnant is there? Thanks :)

April 9, 2010 at 7:17 pm
(129) CrazyScaredd says:

Hello . I had intercourse two days ago for the first time (Unprotected) & now im lightly bleeding . My period shouldnt be coming till about a week or two . Im worried :-\ . Is this normal ??!

April 12, 2010 at 5:44 am
(130) Rough &nd Dry says:

well I just had sex not even an hour ago, when we were done I got up to use the bathroom and when I wiped myself I had blood on the wipe. Not alot just a little and it was really light. I’ve recently had cryosurgery so I’m thinkin maybe that is the reason. Idk. But he was being really rough and I wasn’t that wet. Did I ruin something on my insides???

April 15, 2010 at 6:46 am
(131) anonymous says:

hi!
im jst 17 yrs
i had an intercourse 4 days before but used a protection n today when i used the luu
my urine was red in colour n burning sensation
i did the urine test thr r some crystals fromed
im confused i dnt knw wht it is
can u please
suggest me a solutin 2 this
im worried
is ir due 2 intercouse
help!!!

April 17, 2010 at 10:42 am
(132) cristina says:

hiii, i had unprotected sex on april 12. he didnt cum inside me as far as i kow, he pulled out & about 30secs later he came. i havent been feeling any symptoms except i feel bloated which i usually do before my period, which isnt due until april 28. what do i do??

April 26, 2010 at 7:38 am
(133) Innocentia says:

Me and my bf we have been having protected sex all along this years.This year when we decided to have unprotected sex each and every time i we have sex i am bleeding a little bit.I really don’t know what is wrong any info?

April 30, 2010 at 5:17 pm
(134) kimmy says:

hiii im asian and im 18 me and my boyfriend have had sex a lot. and last night we had sex and he didnt use a condon i went to use the bathroom i started bleeding what can this mean? am i pregnant?

May 1, 2010 at 3:34 pm
(135) Worried. says:

When ever i go work out or apply pressure to my uterus I bleed. I bleed when I run, i bleed when i do sit ups or crunches, i bleed when i have sex, and when im stressed. I don’t know what’s wrong. I have the mirena IUC and have had it for the last 3 years. This has been going on for a long time, I went to the doctor and she said it was because of stress and she gave me pills to lighten up my flow. But the thing is.. i have not had a period for 3 years. I do not bleed except for what i said above. I recently had pre cancer cells lasered off my cervix.but the bleeding has probably been going on for the last 2 years. Whats wrong?

May 1, 2010 at 7:47 pm
(136) scared and worried says:

When me and my husband have sex and im on top after words im in pain and when i go to the bathroom i have some what diarrea and when i wipe its bloody i know it sounds nasty but im scared someone plz help me

May 9, 2010 at 8:59 pm
(137) jessica says:

Me and my fiance had sex and i just got off my period and i went to the bathroom to use the restroom and there was blood… i figured i was still bleeding from my period… then it stoped and we did it again and i started to bleed then too.. i dont what to tell him and worry him and i dont want to go to a doctor so what should i do…

May 11, 2010 at 4:03 pm
(138) Confused says:

I miss my period and today i started bleeding really heavy do u think i could have a miscarrage? i cant tell my parents cause they would go mad

May 16, 2010 at 12:29 am
(139) cici says:

Hi I’m 18, I’ve not long lost my v….the first time I had sex was unprotected, went clinic nd everything was fine but then 3months later I had unprotected sex again 3 times in one night and I bleed quite bad that night….nd then the next morning I had a pierod very light nd only for 3 days this was in january then a week lata I had another light pierod which was for 6 days febuary I had no pierod and was confuesed about it so took a preg test in middle of march nd was negative then on da last day of march I came on for another 3 days and was light nd it carryed on like that but it keeps coming at any time of the month and haven’t been normally pierods that I used to have…..my belly has got really big quite a few people have asked if I was pregnan nd have been qraving mushrooms and digestive bicsuts with cheese sprinkled on top….took anoter preg test nd sayys negative…..recently iv had sex and I bleed a tiny bit the next morning wot could be wrong with me ????? Please could someone give me some advise

May 17, 2010 at 8:20 pm
(140) SCAREDTEEN' says:

me and my boyfriend are sixteen, and on Friday we had unprotected sex. He ejaculated inside of me, i started bleeding two days after. I’m suppose to get my period on the 21st of this month. Could i still be possibly be pregnant?

May 30, 2010 at 6:15 pm
(141) sad says:

i lost my virginaty about 7 months ago.
my boyfriend has had sex with 9 other girls before me
we stopped using condoms about 3 months ago
the past two times we have had sex i bleed the smallest amount!!!
not even really a whole drop of blood but im still worried,
why am i bleeding should i even care?

May 31, 2010 at 3:33 am
(142) erica says:

i barely had sex with my bf. . when we stopped i’ve notice that i was bleeding & i didnt stop . . it was my second time doing it . . when i did it my second time i bleeded alot why is thus happening to me ? :(

May 31, 2010 at 8:53 pm
(143) unsure says:

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months and we have sex well..often. and the other say was rougher than normal and when he was done there was blood every where. We just assumed it was my cheery, But a week later he fingered me and there was alot of blood agian. Cant tell parents, What do i do? scared :(

June 2, 2010 at 5:35 pm
(144) daisydeyn says:

I m 23 years old.I lost my virginity from a 56 years old man.I mastur/ed before i had sexa lot of times.As soon as he tried to put his pinnes inside me i sreamed and tell him to stop because of the pain.Then he did a few tries to enter his pinnes inside me but in was sooo tight…So he stopped and when i got up i saw clear re blood!!A lot of it!I used a tampon and went work.The bleeding stopped in 20 minutes.But the next day i saw blood everytime i was peeing and when i was pooing.And after 4 days i feel burning and pains inside my vegina.Yes i should pay a visit to the doctor but i live in a very “fine” family and i cant talk about this.In few days i got my periods andi m terrified because my mother told me i could get pregnant even if he didnt came a lot or even if he didnt stick his whole pines inside me or worst bleeding will start again anytime and i even could lose the vagina organ (sorry dont know the word in english) that carrie babes….AM SO SCARED BECAUSE I FEEL PAINS ON THE OVARIES SIDE…..could she be true??PLEASW I REALLY NEED HELP PLEASE PLEASE COULD HE HURT ME SOMEWHERE ELSE WITH HIS ORGAN???? Please and thank u.

June 2, 2010 at 5:55 pm
(145) daisydeyn says:

I MEAN IS IT NORMAL TO HEAVILY BLEED AFTER LOSING VIRGINITY? COULD HE HURT MY VAGINA ORGANS WITH HIS PINES SO MUCH THAT HE TEAR THAT AREA? COULD BLEEDING START AGAIN ANYTIME EVEN AFTER A FEW DAYS ? WHY I SEE WHITE FLUEDS NOW AFTER FOUR DAYS ? COULD A MAN STICK HIS PINES TO A WRONG HOLE? COULD THE FACT THAT I MAYBE HAVE A CYSTIS CAUSE ALL THIS BLEEDING?? please help me please if u know am in a very bad BAD situation! Since i lost my virginity and saw this blood,having those pains i sit most of the time and even scare to excersise

June 12, 2010 at 4:53 pm
(146) 30 and concerned says:

I’m 30. My husband and I had intercourse last night. We have had intercourse for the past 9 years. I worked out this morning & after urinating I noticed I was spotting. I have scheduled menstrual cycles that occur every 24-28 days, that last 3-5 days. My husband is my 2nd sexual partner. Today was the very first time I experienced spotting 2-weeks before my scheduled menstrual cycle. Should I be concerned? Should I see a doctor? Please respond.

June 12, 2010 at 8:57 pm
(147) Michelle says:

I had sex yesterday, and this morning when i used the restroom i noticed a little bleeding,is this normal?or is it a sign of pregnancy?

June 14, 2010 at 2:14 am
(148) Me says:

My consern is that I really didn’t bleed when I lost my virginity but it also didn’t hurt as much as it did 2daii when I had sex with my boyfriend…I just think is because of itz size that he might of hurt the walls inside my vigina.. that when I went 2 the bathroom nd wiped there was blood…because I know he doesn’t hav any disease…what do you think,??oh nd of couse we used protection nd I don’t take the pill…..

June 17, 2010 at 1:07 pm
(149) scared says:

why do u bleed after sex im scared what does that give you whenu bleed

June 17, 2010 at 3:22 pm
(150) IDK CHIC says:

I JUST STARTED TO DATE A GUY THAT HAS A BIG *** AND I WAS THINKING IF I SHOULD HAVE ANAL SEX. WHEN WE FIRST HAD INTERCOURSE IT HURT LIKE IF I HAD NEVER BEEN SEXUAL ACTIVE. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WOULD I BLEED?

June 29, 2010 at 8:31 am
(151) Annmarie says:

That comment is bad because it is not a pretty sight to see

July 1, 2010 at 8:35 pm
(152) love says:

heyy, i’ve been with my boyfriend for about two years now.. and the last time we had sex, it hurt when he put it in, but it went away an we went on with everything.. an when we were done i went to the restroom, and noticed blood in my underwear.. not alot, but enough to alert me. my period is very irregular. it never comes.. but i’ve went to my doctor about it an he said it’ll regulate by itself. i’m not on birth control, nor do i have unprotected sex.. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!

July 3, 2010 at 3:26 pm
(153) anonymous says:

so strange, i had my period about a week ago, and it was a full one. but now i’m spotting and i havent had sex in a while, i’ve heard it’s a sign of pregnancy but i am in no way ready for another one, but i don’t wanna jump to conclusions i’ve searched site after site to find an answer but there isn’t anything that can explain it, should i just bite the bullet and go to the doctor or even more so take a test? has anyone experienced this if so fill me in on what it could be? one little handful is enough for me and hope it’s not another child on the way.

July 4, 2010 at 1:59 am
(154) Armywife says:

Geez… I agree with getting some common knowledge on sex. Some of you girls are not only still in middle school but if you are not old enough to even get a job then you really shouldn’t be having sex. No matter how much you protect yourself you can still get pregnant. I was 18 and a senior in High school when I got pregnant with my first child and as much as I absolutely love my baby boy that was too early and a really hard thing to work with. I got pregnant while on birth control and using a condom! NO JOKE!!! I was protected and thought I was perfectly safe but guess what ladies I wasn’t. I wasn’t lucky enough to have help from parents (which doesn’t matter, it was my mistake so NO ONE BUT ME should of had to deal with it anyways, NO ONE IN MY FAMILY RAISED ME TO JUST HAVE TO RAISE MY CHILD ALSO) so I had to work 2 full time jobs plus go to high school. I didn’t start college right away because I couldn’t afford to miss work so I lost my scholarship to the local community college. The father of my baby was younger than me and got scarred. He left but eventually came back. I didn’t hold it against him, I was scared to but I didn’t have the option to run away because I was carrying the baby. Make smart decisions, bad decisions can change your life forever.

Girls, if you are scarred of something sex related, talk to your doctor. Most of you are generally going to be scared to talk to your parents, when you are as young as you are you should be afraid, lol. You have every right to talk to your doctor alone and unless its life or death your doctor shouldn’t say anything to your parents. Personally though, if it was me, I would talk to my mother because saying ‘I am worried’ is a lot easier than ‘I’m pregnant’ or ‘I am HIV positive!!!’

My mother had sex for the first time when she was 14, she was protected and made all the decisions she thought was right. She then got pregnant with me, then after the pregnancy found out that she had HPV from the one and only time she had sex (which was protected with a condom and a pill). She was forced into marriage and has lived with the HPV for years. 2 years ago she was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer. She had to get a hysterectomy and is currently going through radiation therapy. One stupid decision might of ended up with me but is costing her her life!

NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO PROTECT YOURSELF, YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT, A STD, OR AN INFECTION. NOTHING BUT SAYING NO IS 100% AFFECTIVE. IF MAY SEEM STUPID TO ALL THE SEXUALLY AND LIFE IGNORANT LITTLE GIRLS OR BOYS NOW BUT ONCE SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS YOU WILL THINK TWICE ABOUT THE GROWN UP DECISION YOU SHOULD OF MADE. THINK ABOUT IT THIS WAY… IF YOU ARE SO WORRIED ABOUT SOME BLEEDING NOW IMAGINE HOW WORRIED YOU WILL BE WHEN YOU ARE PREGNANT, STD’D, OR EVEN HIV POSITIVE.

July 6, 2010 at 10:59 pm
(155) JustCurious says:

okay, so Im 17 almost 18 years old. Im proudly a virgin, but Im def no angel. Today I was with my boyfriend and he was fingering me pretty intensely, well after that I went to the restroom and realized that I was bleeding. It wasn’t heavy and was just little bit but it semi concerned me. It wasn’t the first time I had been fingered by any means, so any suggestions on what it could be? Is it possible that he popped my cherry with his fingers? I would appreciate any advice or suggestions! Thanks :)

July 13, 2010 at 7:57 pm
(156) helpwanted says:

hey after i have sex 1 or 2 days later i bleed. i have the implanon inserted in my arm i think this might be the reason. any answers r good ta

July 26, 2010 at 6:34 am
(157) juan says:

ok im 19 years old n i had sex for the first time n my partner said she had sex with two other guys in the past n she said that the first guy didnt make her bleed but the second guy did n last night when we had sex last night i was using a comdom n when we finish blood came from her what does that means

July 27, 2010 at 9:35 pm
(158) unknown says:

my boyfriend and i had sex and he came in me then three days after i started having pains in my vagina area then i started having heavy bleeding!! i dont understand is it a sign of pregancy or i just have my period! help me

July 28, 2010 at 1:12 pm
(159) jessjones says:

i have recently had sex & im scared, he pulled out before he cummed but im due for my period & havent came on, who can i talk to?

August 1, 2010 at 5:30 am
(160) mariah says:

i am 12 years old.. last night i and my boy friend had a sex i didnt wanted it but he compeeled me he is 18 …..when we had it from then only blood started comming out when we had it and last night near one cup had been bleeded and now also there is bleeding going on please help me … i don’t want to tell my parents they will kill me reallyi told my boyfriend he said not to worry this happens ….i don’t want to consult doctor i am really fred up please help me……….

August 3, 2010 at 8:15 am
(161) tahir says:

you shuld have to see any specilist ladi doctor who has in your city of near by yur house

August 5, 2010 at 5:59 am
(162) msknoitall says:

mariah honey please see a doctor! Your bf is a liar and for him to tell you such a lie should also tell u he doesnt really care. If ur a virgin yes ur gonna bleed the first time but A CUP????? sweety that is not normal! he mustve been a virgin also! please dont b offended the reason i say u should see a doctor is because what ur experiencing could b something that can cause serious long term damages like causing u to not b able to have children when ur ready and i can guarantee u that this boy will not be around when that time comes u probably wont even remember him!

August 15, 2010 at 5:16 pm
(163) Sarah says:

Okay. I’ve had sex before, several times with my ex. But not once did I bleed. Then I just had sex with a guy two nights ago. And I just got home and I was bleeding. I just got off my period on Friday. Do you think it can just be that my ex never really poppped my cherry? Is it normal to bleed two days later and not right after sex? I’m a little worried….

August 20, 2010 at 12:17 am
(164) VANESSA says:

OkAi S0 iM AlMOST AND AB0UT T0 BE 3 M0NTHS
PREG0. AND iTS G0NNA BEE MAH FiRST 0NE
WEll I HAvE SEX EVERY DAY BUT ToDAY WAS WHEN I HAD
Like REAllY hARD CoRE SEX. aND I USED ThE
BAthroom and noticed a light light bleeding with my pee u could barley even notice it was blood is that normal
Some one help I’m scared maybe I shouldn’t
Do it that rough next time.;)

August 23, 2010 at 11:00 am
(165) need some advice should listened in school :S says:

not going to write a whole story but im 19 been with my boyfriend 8 months, iv just went off the pill last month i had my period a bit when i went off it. This month i had my period on the 19th and it was completely away by the 22nd which was yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex last night and today my stomach hurt all over right from my hips down to my lower stomach and back were my period cramps usually are but it didnt feel like a cramp at all and it onli asted all of about 10-15 seconds and my period was back but not heavy…. Iv had unprotected sex with 2 people and my boyfriends the same and he says he got tested the 1st time we had unprotected sex and i dont think he would lie to me about that as both of us want to have a baby and he wouldnt want it to come to any harm. Well any1 have any ideas???? X x x

September 6, 2010 at 9:29 am
(166) worried says:

iím really scared, my boyfriend and i have had intercourse over the last two months but i didnt track my period and i was certain that iíd already had it last month. well im suppose to have already gotten it and i thought i had gotten it but it was just spotting, then today we had intercourse and i bled very little. and i also thought that this was my period. but i havenít gotten the full flow and iím worried. whatís going on?

September 7, 2010 at 12:14 pm
(167) a little advice not trying to offend says:

I am amazed but not surprised at all the young girls on here having sex and experimenting. Like others have said, if you are not old enough to have a job to take care of a child then you should not be having unprotected sex (in my opinion, sex at all). It is a scary thought of all the children out there having children.
My mother had my brother when she was only 17 years old. Then she had me when she was 19. She had no idea about sex, periods, pregnancy, or anything of the sort. For some reason, my grandma never discussed any of this with her. It was a taboo subject. I think a big issue today is the fact that parents aren’t discussing sex with their children.
My mother wanted to make sure she broke the chain. She bought an educational cartoon video for children about reproduction and the changes our bodies go through. I watched it when I was 8. Afterwards, my mom discussed with me what I watched and answered any questions I had.
I am proud to say because of this, I waited until I was 20 to have sex. I knew that it was a big responsibility that I wasn’t ready for. I wanted to be a kid.
All these young girls on here worried about pleasing their boyfriend and making him happy. Why not worry about making yourself happy. Make some good friends, good decisions, do something productive with your life. Do you really want to be another unwed teenage mother? Just another statistic? I want to know where the hell the parents are and why they make it so their children can’t talk to them about any of this. Hasn’t it been long past due to break the silence. These children are seeing enough about sex on TV…why not start discussing it with them before it’s too late…like above!

September 9, 2010 at 12:58 am
(168) Helpless says:

im 18 soon to be 19 and i was with my boyfriend for the weekend and we went to this fair and the next morning i was bleeding we had had sex that morning before we left for the fair and i felt fine and idk whats wrong any advice???? iv been with him for 9 months and have had sex with him before and this never happened before its not a rich red its a brownish red like at the end of your period.

September 9, 2010 at 9:17 pm
(169) helpme says:

Okayy ive had anal sex before and ive never bleed or gone to the bathroom as much and i have now. we had anal sex this afternoon and im really scared and dont want to think the worst. not alot of blood is coming out, but im very scared

September 12, 2010 at 8:14 pm
(170) randomeyez247 says:

im dating this boy and we have had sex a few times and everything has been fine. we had sex the last day of my period it was gone but there was still a little bit of of spottong it was very light… everything was fine and then a few days later it hurt to pee and i read up and i belive i got a urinary tract infection… but it has cleaded up and gone away the last 3 times we have had sex i see on the condom when he pulls out there is some blood on it and when i go pee after and whip there is slight spotting NOTHING HEAVY! but there is blood this has never happend before and i am very nervous to when i am bleeding when we are having sex and the spottong will stay with me for about a full day then go away and i think were ok but have sex again and its back…. what do you think is causeing this i am concered so i am going to go to the doctors…..

September 13, 2010 at 3:25 am
(171) bliss says:

ok so my partener and i (partner is a man im a woman) had sex the other day…and i am use to rough sex have bleed in the past but never knew y it only happens wen i sleep wit someone for the first time but i bleed alot i made sure it wasnt time for my period…it wasnt and the blood wasnt dark it was pretty pink like if it was clean not bad blood i dont know why this happens can u please tell me if i need to see a doctor

September 17, 2010 at 2:22 am
(172) Light says:

hey, umm im 18 and i had sex for the first time a few weeks ago and i expected to c a tiny bit of blood the first time but my babe and i have had sex a few times since then and everytime after there is always a tiny bit of blood is this normal… and today i started cramping afterward, we used protection every time except the first cuz i waznt fertile, really is this normal?????

September 21, 2010 at 1:38 am
(173) Bella says:

i was dating a guy 2yrs ago and he was the only guy i had sex with. it was a long distance relationship. he would come visit me every 2 months or so. We would have sex and i would bleed every now and then. Then we broke up in 08′ and now i’m talking to another guy and just started having sex with him this past weekend and i was bleeding again. is it because i haven’t had sex for a long time? also i was with him the whole weekend and i was sore towards the end of the weekend. why was i sore? just curious

September 21, 2010 at 7:05 am
(174) seriously needs help says:

well , just the other day i had sex. i was not a ‘virgin’ but i basically was because i has only had sex one time and with one guy, so i was still tight. the other night the sex with this guy. and it was rough and ever since i feel like i got to go pee but i can’t. when i do get the chance to pee its not the usual amount. I even randomly pee on myself. so , is this normal? or did i get an std? i have tried to find answers online but can’t … as of now im trying to avoid telling my mom. WHAT DO I DO?!!

September 22, 2010 at 10:00 pm
(175) flyy girl says:

am 19 now abd my boyfriend is 20. we are both thinking of having sex together for the first time. am a virgin but he lost his one at 17 and he has had sex couples of times. we just meet but i knew him when we were young and we kind of grew up in the same house. i came to london and now he has found me again and we are dating. I want to lose my virginity to him because his family knows me well and my mum is ok with it. after reading about some of these girls with bleeding problems after sex am think other wise. an not so sure i will have sex with him untill we get married. am i doing the right thing or am i driving him away

September 25, 2010 at 7:24 am
(176) worried says:

hi, im 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We’ve been together for nearly a year. I had sex about 4 times with my ex but i got with my boyfriend at the start of feb. Its now nearly october and since may or june im really tight. Like tighter than i was when i lost my virginity, its unsatisfying for me and my boyfriend. Whats going on?

September 25, 2010 at 12:08 pm
(177) confused says:

Yesterday my boyfriend fingered me. I am (or was) a virgin. I know for a fact that he popped my cherry. It didn’t hurt until a few hours afterwards and it still hurts today, plus now I’m bleeding. Is this bad? Also, does this mean I’m not a virgin anymore?

September 27, 2010 at 1:31 am
(178) wow, you people are very illiterate says:

hah, like every single one of you broads are illiterate, instead of thinking with your heads in the gutter, maybe you should all go back to english class, lol. Learn to spell and learn how to talk proper, then you won’t embarass yourselves so much when you type, and maybe people will take you more seriously.

September 27, 2010 at 9:24 am
(179) nichole says:

i no i might be a lil young but im 16 turning 17 in a month and i was with my boyfriend yesterday and he wanted to no if i wanted to do it and all i said was i don’t know nd he is really nice and wouldn’t do it if i didnt wanna but i kinda did so i said ok but just like in and out and that’s what happen and i started to bleed kinda heavy. it didn’t hurt either just was bleeding. he asked if i was ok nd i said yea ill b fine cause i could tell he was scared nd he didn’t wanna leave me but i told him i was fine anyway i just want to no like how long does it last is it heavy is it normal nd like whats the best thing to do wen this happens. im to scared to talk to my mom about it nd my doctor is supposed to call me tonight to talk about it but ii just wanna get as much info now. thank yu everyone who reads and helps me

September 29, 2010 at 4:48 pm
(180) samantha says:

okay so i had sex for the first time ever on saturday thinking that my cherry has been popped , and i just had sex and when we were done i was bleeding and my boyfriends penis was full of blood , we both thought that he popped it on the weekend, should i be bleeding ?

September 29, 2010 at 8:48 pm
(181) Shania says:

I’m 19. Me and my boyfriend had sex last week. He ejaculated inside of me and after we were done, I went to the bathroom. I noticed some pink blood. My boyfriend does not have any STD’s and neither do I. What would cause this?? Also, that same night, right after he ejaculated, I began to experience stinging and burning in my vaginal area. What does all of this mean? Any help is appreciated.

October 9, 2010 at 8:31 pm
(182) danielle says:

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in 2 months because he was away and now he is in town and we have been having sexual intercourse and every time I bleed after and this is not period blood this is actual blood and I am really worried something may be wrong with me. The bleeding stops right awau but every time we have intercourse I bleed sometime worse than other times.(depends on position)

October 12, 2010 at 8:22 pm
(183) stranger says:

I had sex with my boyfriend for the third time and when we were done I saw blood. I lost my virginity a while ago and hadn’t had sex for 7 months and the first time I had sex with him I did bleed but the second time I didn’t and this third time I did. Nothing else hurts I just dnt know why I started bleeding. We are both worried and scared. Can you please help me? Advice?

October 19, 2010 at 7:12 am
(184) Nierah says:

I lost my virginity three days ago, I’m due on too, but i’m always late. I didn’t bleed after I had sex, but two days later, i did, so i persumed i was on my period. Turned out i wasn’t. We never used protection either. It’s only been three days. But is there a possibility i’m pregnant? Please help.

Nierah-Drama.

October 25, 2010 at 8:18 pm
(185) mrsdean says:

hi im 18years old.. i would just like to say to all the young ones havin sex young is not fun or good.. i was 14 when i lost my virginity and i thought it was with some one who loved me but it turnt out he was usin me for 3 mnths until he got bk with his ex.. i really dnt knw wat i was thinkin..i didnt have sex again until i was 17 and tht was another 3 mnths of mistakes.. and thn 1mnth with another person which i also regret..i’d been with 3 losers and i had fallen pregnant by each one and miscarried every time :’(
i am currently with my husband now :D been together 8mnths married for 2.. i knw quite early but we love each other and as i also lost his child at 7weeks he was so understandn and stuck by me at docs and hosp wen i needed him unlike my ex’s..
the reason why i went thru a rough stage wen i first started havin sex is coz i was sexually abused my my sisters dad from 11 til day before my 14th bday.. i didnt think i would be interested in sex as wat i went thru :’( but police and hosp told my mother i could turn the other way and to try support me in evvery way she could..my husband knws every thin tht has happened to me in the past and he cares and respects me like no other has b4! young girls you need to find a boy tht loves you and not some one to use you as a sex toy wen they feel like it.. iv been thru a lot in my short life and never will i forget any of it :’( but life goes on.. i hope iv opened your eyes.. take care.. R.D xxx

November 2, 2010 at 2:49 am
(186) Curious says:

hi, im 13 years old and ive been very interested in sex …. i fheel i am ready even though i am at a young age . bhut im scared also because i dhont kno what can cause of it the diseases and bleeding i need advise on what i should do i really think i am ready . will it hurt ? will i bleed ? please i need advise

November 3, 2010 at 6:05 pm
(187) justcurious says:

Hi, I’m 15 years old nd I lost my V 3mnths ago, and so i used a condom with both guys nd only had sex once with both guys, when I lost my V to da first guy I bleed nd it hurted, so yesterday I had sex wit da first guy nd it felt like I was losing my virginity all over again , and it hurted and bleed also with him too..!!! Also I couldn’t really feel any pleasure out of the sex with the second guy.!!! Any answers

November 6, 2010 at 4:15 pm
(188) :S? says:

,hey im 13 i had sex with a 15 year old last week and after i bled it did hurt and when i had sex again 2 days ago i bled again and still am bleeding is this normal or not , please help im to scared to tell my mum ? thanks

November 6, 2010 at 5:18 pm
(189) confused says:

hi i dont know if normal or not but i havent had sexual intercourse for 2 yrs now and it seemed like my vagina had closed up when i had sex recently it was very painfull still continued afterwards i noticed i was bleeding and i feel sore even after a few hrs is this normal??? (also male rather largein that department)

November 7, 2010 at 1:55 am
(190) Teighlor says:

Hi, i’m 18 and i’ve been dating my boyfriend for a long while and he’s the only person i’ve ever had sex with (lost myself to him this september) so I know that I couldn’t have caught an SDI or anything however me and my boyfriend had sex two days after my periode was over and I bled. I figured it was just some left over but it’s been a week now and every time we have sex I bleed. I’m getting very nervous and would like to know if I should get this checked ASAP?

November 8, 2010 at 1:47 pm
(191) loveit says:

i had sex last night and the night before and the last 5 night s and everytime after we both woke up with blood al over us my boyfrined is 16 and i 14 i love having sex like its just the blood bit it puts me off sometime will someone pls help me

November 12, 2010 at 12:52 pm
(192) Xyz says:

Just relax everyone…. It’s really nothing seriou. It Is just that the inner muscle of the ass is very sensitive and is also very tight …. During anal intercourse ( rough usually) what happens is that muscle gets damaged and tears and as a result of which bleeding occurs. After few hours due to the damage the muscle gets swollen from the inside which u won’t feel and that is why every time u go for poop u will feel some pain and have some bleeding. This continues for few days till the muscle gets back to normal. As u are not used to anal so there is very tight space inside so the muscle gets damaged… But after having anal for sometime ur internal space will expand itself and adjust and u won’t bleed. Hope this will help u.

November 14, 2010 at 2:34 am
(193) Megha says:

Hi.. i had a sex with my boyfriend a day ago for the first time. wen i was having sex it bleeds. whether it wil affect me? but my boyfriend has removed his sperms when it is coming. we had without any protection. is it will cause a pregnancy? mainly he removed his sperms when it is coming.

November 14, 2010 at 7:05 pm
(194) jessie says:

well after sex with my boyfriends sometimes i got to the washroom to clean up and there is blood when i wipe, it happens sometimes not all. and i will bleed for a couple of days, what is going on here? and i usually have cramps after, and its not a period because i am on depo shot and i dont get a period, thanks

November 17, 2010 at 10:39 pm
(195) idkwat2do!! says:

Me and my boyfriend had sex and everything was fine I had not bleeding after the sex but, the day after at the same time the sex happened the day before i started what i thought was my period. It only lasted 5 days and was very heavy, my periods always last 7 days and are light. It has now been 9 days from the sex and I been feeling really sick in my belly and my lower back hurts. I also have bad head-aces, could i be pregnant or is sumthing really wrong?? Can sumone help me??

November 21, 2010 at 4:03 am
(196) Nameless says:

Hi may i ask why i didnt bleed when i had sex for the first time ? I had sex for the first time with my guy on my 6th day of my period . It was my first time , so why didnt i bleed ?

November 23, 2010 at 8:22 am
(197) sojadane says:

I recently had sex with my boyfriend and every time we finish having sex, his penis is covered with blood. I already lost my virginity already, but the problem is what is causing it to bleed? Iíve read the cause of it and Iím really worried that I might be infected with some sort of disease that Iím not sure of.

November 23, 2010 at 7:48 pm
(198) confused says:

Okay I’m slightly confused, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and when I fisrt had sex I never bled, and I didn’t bleed with my boyfriend either, I’ve been having sex with him well over a year and last week after my periods were over for a couple of days we had sex and I was beelding quite a bit, couple of days after that was finished we had sex again and I had more blood? Why is this? I’ve had the implant for a year and a half so I don’t see it being that? Can you please tell me why this is happening?

December 5, 2010 at 9:30 pm
(199) Scared out of my brains! says:

PLEASE HELP!!
Okay, so i was a virgin right? Buh my cherry was popped. Not from a dick obviously. Two days ago: 12.5.10 i had sex. We did use a condum and he said he didn’t feel any sperm come out. Buh today: 2.7.10, i went to the bathroom, and saw i was bleeding. Buh it is not my period, cause it has only been 14 days. I’m supposed to get it on the 24? I think. What does this mean? I don’t know if i’m pregnant, or if its possible that i am. I’m scared and i’m 13.
Help me please.
By the way, my mom would kill me if she found out):

December 13, 2010 at 2:16 pm
(200) wORRIEDD says:

HEY,WELL IM ONLY 13 & I HVE A BF WE HAD SEX MANY TIMES! BUT NEWAYS WE HAD ANAL SEX 2 DAYS AGO 12.5.10 HE STOPPED BECAUSE HE WAS BLEEDING WHILE HE WAS PUTTING IT INSIDE & IT WAS HURTING HIM IS DAT NORMAL WAT COULD HAPPEN I NEED ANSWERS? EMAIL ME PLZ! DHURTADO77@YAHOO.COM

December 16, 2010 at 4:11 pm
(201) quit over reacting... says:

your still alive aint ya…. so quit freakin out, go to doctor and ask them, they may be stupid but i dont think theyre that stupid not to figure that junk out

December 18, 2010 at 11:55 am
(202) Ellante' says:

@Annoyed shut yo dumb hurtin’ ass up! Yes she is 14 and she did make a wrong and naÔve decision, no doubt about that! But she is NOT the only one to blame! I’m tired of these nasty as perverts sticking their dicks in minors when there are clearly women their age who will gladly give it up. He really knew better just as much as he did. And yes that was a form or rape! Please talk to your parents sweetheart, they are the best ones to know what to do in a situation like this! I’m 20 years old and I have a lil sis that is the same age and I would have been really upset. Talk to your parents hun

December 19, 2010 at 10:32 am
(203) morons says:

Lol. I am guessing all of you are pregnant now :D

December 19, 2010 at 4:02 pm
(204) mahat says:

sometime having sex with girl i bleed through my penis.help me to find out

December 20, 2010 at 7:36 am
(205) Scared says:

Hi , I’m 13 And i had sex for my first time 11 days ago with a 19 year old , i have Not Had My Period Since But Yesterday i Lightly Bled And Then Stopped Completely , If Any One Knows What Could Be The Cause Of This Plz Text Back .!

December 21, 2010 at 7:00 pm
(206) Need Help says:

okay so last wednesday, i had sex with this guy, im 16 so im legal and i felt totally ready. it was a great exerience and i know that after you lose your virginity that you do bleed for a bit and i did but now its stopped a week later, but im suppose to be on my period now and it hasnt come im actually starting to freak out a little. we were totally protected and i am about 90% sure the condom did not break, is it like normal? did the bleeding after losing my virginity substitute for my period or am i pregnant or even have some kind of STD? please help it would really put my mind at ease to know whata going on.

i am fully educated about sex fron school and stuff but they never mention anything about this, ie googled but cant find answers.
thanks.

December 23, 2010 at 2:05 am
(207) Chelsea Strickland says:

I am a female and had sex with a girl. She was deep inside penetrating me with her finger but i didnt bleed does that mean im still a virgin?

December 23, 2010 at 12:43 pm
(208) thepolice says:

@ scared the problem is that you slept with somebody that sholuld be locked up and forced to sign the sex offenders list

@ chelsea yes you are considering the fact you have not had sex with anyone else

@ worried he has probably torn his foreskin or if he has been going from your anus to Vagina more likely to be infected which has probably affected both of you and really are you happy doing this stuff at 13 sounds like your boyfriend watches to much porn

December 25, 2010 at 1:54 am
(209) Alexandra,HELP!! says:

Today is December 25th 1:51 am…and exactly 4 days ago i had sexual intercourse with my male friend. This isn’t our first time but this time i have no idea what the problem is. But yesterday I noticed that i was bleeding and the bleeding hasn’t stopped yet. Its not heavy like a normal period but still i have light cramps like a I’m on my period. Does anyone have any information before I go to my doctor????

December 25, 2010 at 2:33 am
(210) Im not sure says:

Well I am 13 and I love my bf. He actually is the one who wants to wait. Ive really been wanting to have sex with him because I know I want my first time to be with him. And TO FUKING HELL WITH ALL THE PPL WHO SAY”that’s not right, Ur just a baby. Blah blah blah bah” that’s crap. But I’m actuallyworried about getting an STD ripping or bleeding. So tell me, does anyone no the percent rate of how many times sex ends in disasters like these? If so pls say so. And don’t dare judge me.

December 29, 2010 at 4:57 am
(211) Sthephanie Celaya says:

I am only 14, & i lost my virginity3 days ago. we had oral sex too. also we had anal sex, when i had my virginity, i diden’t bleed. but the next day i bled alittle is that normal? what does it mean? where would the blood be coming from? is it normal to bleed the next day just for a few while.

also we took a long time. we just used one condom we had sex for one hour in a half. would he have busted and the condom would brake? what if i’m pregnant, how will i break it down to my parents? they will KILL ME D:

December 30, 2010 at 2:43 pm
(212) marie says:

i am 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and weve been having sex for a long time now and i bleed a little everytime we have sex. i lost my virginty to him so ive never had any std or sti and we made him get tested before we 1st had sex and he was clear and after we started having i got tested to i get tested evry 6 months and so does he just in case and im clear everytime.so i wondering what could it be, now we never use a condom either. its starting worry us. I was reading how it could be tearing but we have sex to often wouldnt it stop bleeding after a year of having sex??

January 8, 2011 at 9:08 am
(213) worried says:

does flipping myself make me lose my virginity?? um worried

January 10, 2011 at 12:07 pm
(214) Charlene says:

I’m 16 years old nd I have sex with my boyfriend almost everyday I am worried because I have been spotting when I was on my period like my period wasn’t normal I’m scared now I don’t want to tell my mom because she would KILL me I don’t know what to do should I see a doctor ??? It’s been 2 weeks nd wen I use the toilet I see blood I’m very scared I’ve been trying to find out the couse of this but I just dont know wat to do no more please help me out :(

January 12, 2011 at 12:36 am
(215) Please Help says:

hi ive been with my partner for nearly three years he was my first n i was his.. We had sex last night and after when i wiped i noticed a tiny bit of blood it stopped after less than 5mins and i didnt start again.. My partner told me to search the internet to see if it serious and to see if i should contact my doctor. It didnt hurt or nothing.. Please could someone give me advice.. Ive also felt very bloated and im scared incase it could be somethin serious.. Please help me..
Many thanks
xx

January 15, 2011 at 3:13 pm
(216) Jenny says:

Hi, I’m Jenny. I’m 14 and i had sex with my boyfriend he’s 17. My boyfriend is good sized and we’ve been having sexual intercourse for awhile. A few nights ago i had vaginal bleeding. I wasn’t really sure what happened if i was alright. It didn’t hurt during and it didnt hurt after. The amount of blood was just like the amount of starting your period. Enough to leave a round spot on your underwear but no soak through. I went to see my doctor and all that simply happened was he hit the back of my pelvic wall. Causing a bit of tearing. I healed within a few days, the only side effect was soreness. You’ll be fine ladies. Just try and take sex a bit slower and switch positions.

January 23, 2011 at 8:35 pm
(217) scared out of my mind says:

im 14 and i had sex friday night with my boyfriend im not a virgin but the first time was w/ a smaller penis and that was a year ago but friday it was with a bigger penis and it was the most pain i’ve ever had i loved it but now im spotting and bleeding a little when i whip my vagina hurts in some spots and when i peed once alot of blood went splashing im so so confused and i need help im scared . !

January 25, 2011 at 8:00 pm
(218) Hachi says:

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for the past four years, and recently when him and I have sexual intercourse I bleed as though I just got my period but its not and its become concerning even though he just says he was to rough, which was partly true but there have been times when he wasnt and I still bleed. Not sure what to do before I go to see the doctor…please help? :(

January 26, 2011 at 5:24 pm
(219) very worried says:

So yesterday I had sex with my bf. I started bleeding… we stopped and I assumed that it was my period because this is the time I should be starting. The following day nothing appeared on my pad or tampon… why?? I am worried

January 28, 2011 at 7:53 am
(220) WOW says:

Well me and my boyfriednd finally did it for the first time. I lost my virginity to him and everything. After we did it the next night i experienced bleeding like mye period was on but it wasnt. So I got kind of scared. I only told one person, then the night after that it was a lot of bleeding but i didnt pay it much attention. I just out on a pad. Some people say that mye cherry could have popped and thats causing me to bleed . but im happy because the bleeding stopped but now i have a discharge odor and i dont like it but i had it before we did it . any suggestions??

January 28, 2011 at 7:54 pm
(221) scared says:

i gust had sex for the frist time but my partner didn’t have a comdom and he said i am not going to git you pregent am soooo scared i am and my parents would kill me if i am i don’t know what t do am soooo scared how do i tell my parnets if i am????

February 9, 2011 at 3:55 pm
(222) LaurenAbitScared says:

Hi im 19 years old and i have been with m boyfriend for 4 years, for the last… month or so evrytime we have sex i bleed after the last 3 or 4 times its been quite bad like wer i seem to come on my period afew hours after sex and i have to wear a tampon for about 3-5days afterwards. Its freakin me out now coz im scared ive got cancer but i doubt that. I dont have any other symptons but i had an abortion about 13months and now i have the implant which has been in for 13months. i used to be on microgynon pill b4 that. can anyone explainnnnn this :(

February 10, 2011 at 5:44 pm
(223) lonely heart says:

I have been on the birth control shot for almost two years for the pasted month when me and my boyfriend is done haviing sex I start bleeding and its a oder that come after this has never happen before and its really scaring me…..I just scared that its that I was prego and the baby dead or something

February 10, 2011 at 5:49 pm
(224) friendly says:

I have been on the brith control shot for like 2 years I dont supposed to get a period but I do and sometimes it last all month For the pasted month after me and my boyfriend is done having sex I bleed Im kinda scaed because I dont understand why would I be bleeding can anyone please explain this to me what should I do

February 12, 2011 at 12:45 am
(225) lissa says:

ok…im only 14 nd dhis happened tu me nd it was my first time doin anal but it was my second time overall cuz dha first time wasnt stuck all dha way up dhere in my vaqina nd it hurted real bad nd i used a condom….dha next day i was bleedinq alot nd i was supposed tu qet on my period in about 2 weeks from now….i dont noe if i should tell my mom or however im supposed tu proceed dhis concept..i had a liqht bleeedinq wit vaqinal but alot wit anal…whuts happenin tu me..??

February 17, 2011 at 12:34 am
(226) confussed says:

Well I been on birth control since sep of 2010 and I forgot to take them last month so I started this month… every since that happen when me and my boyfriend have sex I end up bleeding slightly so we stop… which sucks because I can’t really enjoy having sex with him so now I’m wondering if this could be from starting and stoping the pills suddenly then starting them again… because I never had bleeding before till I stopped taking them I’m scared what should I do

February 20, 2011 at 2:52 pm
(227) Panicing Much says:

Hi, Um me and my boyfriend just had sex a few times after we finished, i went toliet as you do and i was lighty bleeding. Is this because we had sex more than once?

February 21, 2011 at 6:27 am
(228) emz says:

everytime me and my partner do anything i bleed a little and im really worried but don’t want to go to the doctors in-case i get judged, my partner is scared to do anything now coz of the bleeding, i don’t no what to do

February 21, 2011 at 10:25 pm
(229) Karma says:

Im seventeen years old ,my boyfriend is six years older than me.The few times we have had intercouse i ended up bleeding.Is it becuase the age differnce if you know what I mean.should I be concerned about this.

March 3, 2011 at 8:57 am
(230) Charl says:

To be perfectly honest to all of you. The internet is not a place for finding out if you have any problems with your body that is a dr’s Job. If you have any worrys or are concerned over something then you should see a Dr. People on the internet will only tell you what they think they know and not the actual cause of the problem . I am a fully trained nurse and have been for years. We hear so much in the hospital saying but i found this and that on the internet , my friend told me this and the majority of the time the friends/internet are totally wrong and lead people to believe its something whren its actually nothing or vice versa. So i guess my words of advice to all of you weather young or old. stop messing about online and GO SEE A DR!!

March 5, 2011 at 5:54 am
(231) lost and confused says:

So I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we just started having sex last week. I wasn’t sure what to expect I mean first we were having mac and cheese next thing I know she is all over me like a wild boar. Well pants starting flying off and what not and we were what you call…frottage. Well we were up 26 hours just basically doing that and the next day I woke up to a blood puddle on my kitchen floor dripping from my vulva. I am really scared to go to the doctor because I am a lesbian . Why am I bleeding so much???? Please someone help and NO it’s not my period.

March 5, 2011 at 3:36 pm
(232) muslimgirl says:

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March 6, 2011 at 5:31 pm
(233) mrs.awan says:

me nd my husband ev sex 2day nd i bleed lyk hell, i duno whatz wrOng, i am very tensed nd he is also tensed… :( dis iz first time dAt i bleed lyk hell… i am 20 nd he iz 22… i duno what 2 do plz sombody help me i am scared… nd itz paining very much…??? plz help me…

March 8, 2011 at 2:05 pm
(234) mommy to be says:

i had sex with my fiance two days ago im 3 months pregnant and i had a lighty bleeding.. its it normal?? but thanks god stoped.. should i go to the doctor even tho stoped or just let them no in my next appointment.

March 12, 2011 at 3:30 am
(235) louise says:

ok to all the girls freaking out
one yes you will be that is natural it is not natural to bleed heavily tho you should call you doctor or go to the hospital rather be safe then sorry
two if your old enough to have sex your old enough to have a baby you think your mature enough to be doing that you better be mature enough to have a child
three yes you do bleed in anal some people bleed every time your tearing the anal lining so yes you will bleed again if its very heavy you should see a doctor also if it hurts alot when your doing it invest in some lube

i lost my virginity when i was 13 im know 18 im not being a bitch but you need to grow up and learn how to treat your bodies you should know when something is wrong with it.

you should also know how your body works and what to expect from it half of you can barely spell which leads me to presume your idiots grow up you give women a bad name

i have sex about twice a day but unlike half of you im actually a grown women i make my own money feed and clothe myself
silly girls grow up

March 12, 2011 at 3:31 am
(236) Concerned boyfriend says:

My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time. Well I have had sex once before. She told me today that she had her period like 10 days before, but like two days after we did it she started bleeding again. She thinks she might be pregnant so can you help me cause I don’t want her to I am really scared.

March 14, 2011 at 9:09 pm
(237) Pointing out the obvious says:

Concerned boyfriend,
Unless your planning on being a daddy anytime soon, you need wrap it up. You can get condoms free at many health clinics. Don’t mess up your future or someone else’s by being an idiot. It doesn’t matter when you girl said she last had her period, whos the man in this relationship? Man up, take responsibility for your self, and carry condoms. They are cheaper than diapers.

March 21, 2011 at 12:57 pm
(238) Shana says:

Me and my boyfriend had sex in a car last nite. We were in a akward postion and it hurt at first, but soon after i got use to the pain. When I woke up this morning I had blood in my panties. I havent had my period since Feb. 2 and Im concerned about what this could be. If you would please get back to me at SkylarsHoney@gmail.com I would greatly appericatie it. Thanks :)

March 22, 2011 at 2:15 am
(239) Anon says:

I’m 19 and me and my bf recently started having sex ( I lost my virginity years ago), we use condoms and I’m on Depo Provera but after about the 3rd round of sex we find just a spot of blood on the condom and that’s all the blood, I don’t bleed when I pee or the next say. Could it be because of my birth control shot?

March 22, 2011 at 2:37 am
(240) Slightly Confused says:

Im 19 and have been having unprotected sex for a few months. I missed my period and started to freak out a little bit so I took a pregnancy test but didn’t look at the results, I just took a photo of it from my cell phone and never actually looked at it.

Later on I was still freaking out and decide to take the plan b pill. Then a few weeks later took another pregnancy test and said I wasn’t pregnant. I finial look at the results from the first two tests (the photo from my cell) and those said yes. What does this mean? I was pregnant but the plan b pill stopped it, I know that is what the plan b pill is made for. But I thought once you were pregnant the plan b pill wouldn’t work. Im just a little confused about having the first tests say yes but then later the tests said no. Also I don’t think they are false no’s, so was it a false yes???

Can someone please help me!!!!!!!!

March 24, 2011 at 3:27 am
(241) samantha says:

hello my name is samantha and i really don’t no what to do because i had sex about 4 day’s ago now and this morning i got up and started burniing then found out i was bleeding abit… but i have just finished my peorid too
please help … :( x

March 24, 2011 at 9:20 am
(242) confused... says:

Okay so i had sex for the first time in Feb of this year.. i bleed slightly for a couple days after and i havent had my period since.. but i have taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative.. what does this mean? someone please help me because I have NO idea!

March 25, 2011 at 10:43 am
(243) bellamaldita says:

hello..i am missy,i am 21 yr old..and im having this problem..it was almost like 3 months that i havent had sex with then 3 nights ago ive had sex with my boy and as he was fingering me i bleed a lot ..i thought it was just maybe im having my period already but it stops after 3 days wen we stop having sex..and im having a disturbing discharge with a disturbing odor..what this could be..pls help me out..contact me if u anybody can give me some advice or help.
nice_mom40@yahoo.com

March 25, 2011 at 6:37 pm
(244) macy turner says:

I’ve been in the contraceptive pill for nearly 2 weeks, and every time I’ve had sex with my boyfriend since I’ve had post-intercourse bleeding I’m worried as I don’t know what’s wrong and I’m embarrassed to see a doctor. is it something I need to worry about or do you think I’ll be okay?

March 27, 2011 at 10:46 pm
(245) Geena Romano,NYC Staten Island says:

sex is not worth it sorry……
Most are cheating more now from internet etc.low moral/low self esteem/without a care in the world.so become CELIBATE,stay a virg,for as long as humanely possible,there is NO FUN in getting chemo trust me.and she help many who are sadly going through this.

LOVE YOURSELF.COME ON NOW. THINK BE 4 U ACT.
LOVE YOU.PERIOD. PUT YOUR LOVE,HEALTH FOCUS FIRST.

DO NOT BECOME A STATISTIC,THIS IS A SIGN FROM GOD TO STOP! BEFORE IT IS WAY TOO LATE,IF A MAN OR WOMAN LOVE YOU TRUST ME THEY ARE GOIN TO WAIT,OR GET FULLY TESTED,THEN SHOW U THE RESULT,IF NOT CUT HER OR HIM LOOSE PERIOD.

so be careful,NOT WORTH IT,get him tested,or LEAVE HIM
off,or her off period,RESPECT YOU/AND LIVE LONGER in life
a happy good CLEAN life,or see a early DEATH,your choice.
Email me anytime…

G.Romano1970@Yahoo.com

March 27, 2011 at 10:49 pm
(246) Geena Romano,NYC Staten Island says:

G.Romano1970 @ yahoo.com
it is as simple as this,STOP f—king men women etc. cause
your thinkin he or she is HOT or so cute,or”really like u”as a real man or a real lady will WAIT until YOU are ready and showing each other PROOF of being DISEASE FREE.
Way much more bi-sexual going around,and causing such illness double risk there.as MY FRIEND Is a nurse and read on as she do this daily,and know what your carrying are the trait of such serious cancerous std,and other worse one hiv etc hpv,other ones that are clearly going to undermine your health.;Bleeding after sex,during it etc.THIS IS A DISEASE.

March 27, 2011 at 10:52 pm
(247) Geena Romano,NYC Staten Island says:

well sadly,

your carrying the HPV virus almost 85 percent recent statistic establish,if your bleed after sex,anal or vaginal your carrying such trait of H P V that CREATE frightenly and factually so,the CANCER. CERVICAL CANCER,if your diagnose under stage 1a or 1b,or 2 or 2b,not the serious form HOWEVER your goin to still need RADIATION,so sad,and CHEMO daily,for a while. i know as a fact,this is what girls
12 and up are experiencing CERVICAL cancer,

and STOP HAVING SEX is the ONLY wAy to prevent it

as i know from personal experience as i have a very close
dear friend from new york brooklyn Tiffany whose a nurse
for many years almost 12 years in same field of having to tell the man/women/Teen etc. YOUR infected hpv hiv herpes.
etc. etc. etc.

to a nurse who work at a brooklyn clinic,she always talk of how teen girl to even BOY and men /women go for secret embarrassing chek up,to just be later finding out sadly they have cancer.from sex! she see this day in day out.have to tell them the”Result”& MANY guys,even and some smart women are now stopping from SEXUAL anal,as well as VAGINAL intercourse.they are not rushing it no more,takin’it slow,i LOVE that,as there is a such thing as being VERY CAREFUL,and now?1 of her patient she tell/help with the chemo radiation,is CELIBATE for now almost 1 year,
another one after diagnose etc.is celibate for
around five years.that is right FIVE LONG YEARS.

March 28, 2011 at 7:37 pm
(248) Kinda worried says:

Well my boyfriend had stayed the night with me this weekend and we had sex 4 times within 2 days. After dropping him off Sunday i had to pee and i realized my pee didn’t smell right, so i looked and i was bleeding very lightly.. this has never happened to me before and i’m kinda worried. And everytime i pee it hurts a little bit.. i’m not too sure what to do.

March 30, 2011 at 11:59 am
(249) candy says:

i’m only 18 and broke my virginity early this year..I didnt bleed at first but after i changed a sexual partner i started bleeding everytime we have sex and this is freaking me out cuz it never happened before..I’M SO SCARED

March 30, 2011 at 7:44 pm
(250) Me says:

I’m 18. I’ve had sex 3 times before. but I had sex 2 days ago with a 16 year old and I remember him going in deep and it was kind of rough. so yes I am lightly bleeding. and sore in my abdomen. is it normal? or… I’m not scared but I just want to know what to do… all this HPV and diseases is freaking me out!!

April 2, 2011 at 2:26 pm
(251) BreBre says:

Hi ppl. I am 20 yrs old, and I lost my virginity when I was 18. I hhad the normal vaginal bleed when I first lost my virginity. I’m now 20 years old and had been celibate for a year. Before then, I used to bleed abnormally after sex sometimes. I went to an obgyn and I found out that I had PCOS. I jus had sex a few days ago and the same bleeding happened. Because I checked with my doctor, I know that I may have discomfort or bleeding while sex because of my disorder. The best thig to do if you’re not sure is either see a doctor or JUST DONT DO IT!!! Your life and your body is not worth it. Also if you are you g, don’t rush into things like that. Even though you have reached puberty and you think your body can handle these obstacles, they can’t. You will have all the time in the world AFTER you turn 18-20 to experience these things but if you care about yourself and your body, please wait, I know I’m not that old but I waited and I’m glad I did.

April 3, 2011 at 2:44 am
(252) Ev says:

Im 13 and just had sex and it was in the movie theater and it was dark so we couldn’t see was painful but thts normal for me(I was raped) ive never had blood after sex normally but I did after this time I did bleed. I told my mom and She said it should be fine but I’m still worried about stuff because when I pooped I was dripping blood very ‘lil blood right now but ita been almost 12 hrs I need help any advice email me at lilparrothead7@aol.com.

April 12, 2011 at 4:20 am
(253) OMFG says:

Im 18 almost 19 nd i los my virginity this year nd the first two times i bled. the second time ALOT nd i had to go to the hospital a week later i found out i had ghonnoria (or however u spell it) but girls be careful guys are trickey creatures nd they know how to make us feel comfortable enough to get in our pants. dont get me wrong i found a new guy nd he is the best nd not juss tryna get in my pants. but bleeding is NEVER good babes pleaseeee pleaseee go to the doctor nd find out whats wrong. u can have other things wrong too. i know a girl who had rough sex nd it left her with a cut close to her cervix nd she bled like crazyy i mean clots of blood the size of a baby. so please be careful ladies nd wrap it up trust me you will be glad that u did. :)

April 12, 2011 at 4:42 pm
(254) worried. says:

I am still a virgin, but last saturday my boyfriend fingered me, my cherry alredy popped so i dont understand how this is possible? please help.

April 19, 2011 at 11:53 am
(255) anxiously awaiting says:

Iím 17 & me and my boyfriend recently had sex. My period ended April 1 into 2nd and we had sex on that day but used a condom. then we had unprotected sex twice on april 4 but he pulled out (which doesnt really work) before he cummed. Then we had sex again on the 16th but used a condom that time. My next period is due on april 19 or 20.
We had sex last night (the18th) twice and when i got home i notice i was bleeding lightly. Does this mean im pregnant from the time we had “unprotected” sex and he pulled out and im spotting? or is this just because he was kinda rough last night and it hurt after we had sex?
please help!!

April 20, 2011 at 10:52 am
(256) tyra says:

i had a blow job with my partner bt he bleeds thru his penis nt too much blood bt while i suck on it i taste it and when i look at it there is blood on it

May 5, 2011 at 11:28 pm
(257) confused says:

i came of my period a couple of hours before i had sex and after there was a tiny bit of blood not a lot, should i be worried or was i still a bit sensitive, this has never happened before.

May 7, 2011 at 7:01 am
(258) Neverending virgin says:

Hello! I am 21 years old and recently lost my virginity… I understand that when you do that your hymen breaks and you bleed, so I know why it may have happened the first time, but I’ve had sex several other times with several other people and each time during sex I bleed. What dose this mean? it still kind of hurts when they first put it in, but after that it feels good. Could it be that I’m still just getting used to it or what?!

May 8, 2011 at 6:32 am
(259) payal says:

I am 25 year old/f . i am done a sex with my boyfriend before year ago but know we broken our relationship and am going to married with some other men Can it be possible that blood comes out of the my vagina again after having the sex ? My husband don’t know about my past, is this past create a problem in my married life. please help me, how can am satisfy my husband that am virgin ? please help me.

May 17, 2011 at 6:28 am
(260) scared and confused says:

Okay so I’m really scared and confused. I’m not a virgin but its been about a year since ive had sex since I’ve been single for so long. Well three days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time to in a year, well ever since then I’ve been bleeding lightly and when I go to the bathroom to pee, it hurts so bad, like it feels like something is trying to pull the insides of my vagina area out and it feels like I always have to pee but when I go to the restroom, i don’t even have to and nothin comes out. Also, for the second night in a row, I’ve peed my bed in my sleep and I’ve never ever once peed in my bed before so I don’t know why all of this is happening to me.. pleaded help me…

May 22, 2011 at 10:16 pm
(261) vimi says:

i have sex with my boyfriend first time,i really feel pain.but in the next day, i have more pain and bleeding. i’m scared,that it injury. so what shall i do?? i’m just 20 now………

May 23, 2011 at 7:14 am
(262) Paola says:

I just had sex for the first time a couple of days ago but now i’m spotting and my period isn’t supposed to arrive for another two weeks. I do have a history or anemia but i’m not sure if that could be the cause.

May 26, 2011 at 12:10 am
(263) Aya says:

Hey Im 17, still a vrigian and for some weird reason my period just stopped for like 1 year now, i was wondering if i get my virginity taken away willl i bleed like everyother girl that has a regular period. I dont planning on loosing it to soon, but it was just a curious question i kinda want to know. Thanks!

May 27, 2011 at 10:47 pm
(264) Nisha says:

I have I serious problem… To start off I do have an irregular menstrual cycle.. But one nite me and my boyfriend had just finish having sex. I usual go to the bathroom after, but when I check myself I was bleeding. I never bled after sex before soihust thought he triggered my period and it was about to start. Then it was bleeding heavy the next two days then it stop, then the day after it started bleeding again, then it stop. Now it started again. I was just curious to hear y’all opinion before I set my doctor appt. Thanks

June 8, 2011 at 8:13 am
(265) Think gurls says:

Ok so I had sex when I was young with a guy I Thought I lovednow I don’t regret it but girls I new what sex was what precautions to take what may happen that I may bleed and so forth if you don’t no don’t do it is wat I say get educated I am now 20 and have never bleed since my first time I have always been clean and I may have done randoms that were older but I was on the pill I told my rents the day I first had it and told them I was ready and responsible they were mad ofcourse but got better when I brought condoms and hit the piLl I also do weekly cheek ups. So read girls once u learn u can have good sex with no worries.

June 10, 2011 at 9:01 am
(266) suzi says:

hi, my vegina is so itchy these days, when i put finger in it some yellow discharge comes out, i worried is that any infection,since last two times when i fingering in vegina blood comes out, but before it was not like that please help me what should i do, i scared to consult a doctor.

June 14, 2011 at 12:13 am
(267) mimi says:

so i had sex nd im 17 we used a condum nd no sperm came out… so its ben the third day that my period hasnt came im freaking out am i pregnent or not
PLEASEE HELP ME

June 16, 2011 at 5:00 am
(268) you dont kbow says:

I was regular on my menstrual cycle for six years; then I got pregnant for my youngest 2 almost 3 years ago. Ever since I have been bleeding about everyday. I can’t begin to explain how frustrating it is. Not to mention it can’t be good to lose blood everyday. I really can’t afford to go to the Dr. but I know I need to. I was on the shot for the first year of my sons life, but none now. I only have 2 sons by birth (C-section). Please help me.

June 24, 2011 at 10:32 pm
(269) Hannah says:

Had safe sex twice on tuesday June 21, now on
June 23/24 I have light spotting . Could it be I’m pregnant cuz
the condom broke ? Bc I haven’t had sex for 3 months ?
Pls help. Thx you

June 28, 2011 at 10:21 pm
(270) secret says:

Hi there, i have read through all these comments, but none of the comments seemed to answer my question. After intercourse my boyfriend and i realized he was bleeding out the end of his penis, right at the spout. We have planned to go to the doctors, but out of curiosity what could this be? And now that his blood has enterd my vagina could anything go wrong with me!? Thanks

June 30, 2011 at 12:45 am
(271) MMMM PENIS says:

PENIS PENIS PENIS PENIS

July 2, 2011 at 5:28 am
(272) kiddeh says:

ok so im 12 years old, and i have a dildo. its the size of a real penis and everything but when i was shoving it into my vagina in n out i relized afterwards there was a light bleeding problem. ive read alot of comments and it says its natural and my cherry probly poped….e.e this sucks bc i think i lost my virginity ;l but im going to wait to have sex with a guy bc i cannot risk the chances of getting a infection, disease, getting pregnant or any other things that could possibly happen. is there any suggestions anybody has for me?? ok ty

July 6, 2011 at 12:04 pm
(273) scared says:

evrytime iv had sex or masterbate i bleed really heavily and i have no idea what it could be

July 9, 2011 at 9:12 pm
(274) Just wondering. . . says:

So me and my husband have had sex many times and we are always safe. We always use a condom. Always pull out. But we had sex today and he came inside the condom. Then he pulled out to throw it away and we saw the condom had been broken. Instantly he went inside me and tried to scoop out as much as he could with a tissue. Then he stopped because I was bleeding. Now I am still worried because we don’t want children. But the chances for me having a child is very unlikely because he can only produce 50% semen and he scooped out some. Now I am about to take the Morning After Pill but I am still worried I might be pregnant. I also looked up when I ovulate but I get mixed answers. Should I be worried about being pregnant?

July 12, 2011 at 7:05 am
(275) sindhu says:

am 21 had sex with 23guy i got bleeding and i lost my virginity now my parents going to do marriage for they doesn’t know that i lost my virginity am fear for this and my future husband how ill hide this to him am thinking that he knows my ever life will spoil i dont know wat to do very scared for this please me……..

July 12, 2011 at 7:06 am
(276) sindhu says:

am 21 had sex with 23guy i got bleeding and i lost my virginity now my parents going to do marriage for they doesn’t know that i lost my virginity am fear for this and my future husband how ill hide this to him am thinking that he knows my ever life will spoil i dont know wat to do very scared for this please me……..

July 12, 2011 at 7:06 am
(277) sindhu says:

am 21 had sex with 23guy i got bleeding and i lost my virginity now my parents going to do marriage for they doesn’t know that i lost my virginity am fear for this and my future husband how ill hide this to him am thinking that he knows my ever life will spoil i dont know wat to do very scared for this please me……..

July 16, 2011 at 1:38 am
(278) Some advice says:

To be honest it is ridiculos how many young inexperienced girls are having sex. No matter how ready or willing you think you are for sex, 12 and 13 year olds should not be having sex! If you are to embarresed to talk to an adult figure or a doctor then you should not take on the major resposibility of having sex. Know one can tell you how to live your life, it comes down to you being smart and thinking about yourself and your future. If your boyfriend needs to be satisfied, he has a hand that im sure he knows what to do with. If you need questions answered the only way they will is if you visit a doctor. Dont be scared or feel embarresed, they see hundreds of people just like you. It will put your mind at ease. I am 18 and lost my virginity to a guy that i am still with and love, the difference is that i was prepared and not only physically but emotionally ready. Good luck to all of you and be strong, you’ll get through it, this is only a small chapter in your life. Life goes on know matter what! Best of wishes!

July 17, 2011 at 11:56 pm
(279) madison says:

hey ya’ll im a 14 1/2 year old turning 15 in november. My bf is 16 turning 17 in september. Would he hurt me if we had sex? And like im a still a virgin unlike some ppl. And i wanted to know before we did things and so i wont do anything

July 18, 2011 at 3:55 am
(280) brittany says:

I’ve been having sex for some years and I never Once bled. Well my current boyfriend and I had sex and I was bleeding during intercourse. What’s happening please??

July 18, 2011 at 4:27 pm
(281) lildiva says:

i am 9 yaers old and i have the sex with i thnk he was 17, and my v hurts and it hurt very bad when we made the sex. for sum raeson he put hes thing in my but too and i cant go to the bathrom. plaese help me poeple. thanks you

July 24, 2011 at 1:16 am
(282) mollie says:

so im 18 and on birth control and have been on it for awhile and have never had a period while using it and i had one that lasted like a week and now i am bleeding very heavily after sex. im scared that something might be wrong, can any one help?

July 27, 2011 at 11:12 am
(283) aim says:

wait a minute. you are 9 years old? and you lost it to a 17 year old? your body isn’t ready to have sex at that age so it will hurt badly. if you are not ready to have sex or if he is forcing you to do anal you should stand up the him or tell your parents. if you cant go to the bathroom for a few days i would tell your parents and see a doctor.

i didn’t bleed when i lost my virginity but i did bleed twice about a month after though. so it just depends on your body on how it reacts to sex.

it just depends on the individual person if sex hurts or not when you loose your virginity. the younger you are the more it will hurt. just make sure you are wet and in the mood to have sex. to make things easier you could use lube.

i recently had sex with my boyfriend and i bled a lot after sex. i am a little worried but i am going to wait and see if it keeps happening. for all us girls who keep bleeding after sex you should see a doctor because it could be an infection or even something worse.

August 6, 2011 at 1:01 pm
(284) scared 15 yearold! says:

hii umm i’m 15 and i’ve been having sex with someone last night i had sex with him and when i woke up around 12 there was a little bit of blood. idk what it is maybe my menstrual cycle? or what i’m really scared!!!!

August 6, 2011 at 5:25 pm
(285) kiki says:

Hello ladies and lil girls

i was readin wat some of u wrote and some of the responses ppl are givin u. All i can say is for the older generations things Re different now sex nowaday at a young age is the new thing so tellinthese lil girls not to do it is wastib your time. On the other hand lil girls if u dont want to talk to ur parents find someone else trust. As far as bleeding it is semi normal to bleed even if its not ur first time. Dont panic! Yes it could b a sti if unprotected it could be from the condom it could be from the size but until u see a doctor u will never kno. Also there are ways to see a doctor without ur parents knowing but i do think u should talk to them. But if ur goin to explore be ready for the consequences that come along with it.

August 11, 2011 at 5:18 pm
(286) ScaredGirl says:

Me &my boyfriend had sex the other day because it was my first time i was bleeding but we did it again the other day &i started to bleed again but i was only bleeding for that night, and i was really heavy and it went every where. I woke up the next day and i stopped bleeding &i was just wondering if i should go see my doctor or something, because im really scared with some of the things that people put about bleeding after sex.

August 13, 2011 at 5:06 pm
(287) donnie says:

the very first time having sex it is possiable u could have popped ur cherry bc my first time i had popped mina and i had blood comming out alot just saying its something to think about

August 23, 2011 at 11:23 am
(288) little bit worried says:

I’m 17 and I lost my virginity 2 years ago, I am on the implant and was told that I wouldn’t have periods after 6 months, i am still having regular periods. (I came off my period 8 days ago)
Me and my partner have just had intercourse, although after we noticed there was a lot of blood, sex didnt feel any different to normal, and there was no pain. I’m still bleeding quite heavily. Please help?

August 24, 2011 at 6:45 pm
(289) Help says:

I recently had sex and 16, it was withmy boyfriend who told me he doesn’t have any sort of disease, i was origanially a Virgan , but now 4 days after the sex I
Am now bleeding and it isn’t my period , it’s a very light red and it’s very light blood, can somee one please help?!

August 27, 2011 at 4:28 pm
(290) Charlotte says:

I’m 16 and i’ve had the injection (too stop pregnancy’s and periods) and i’ve had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times, and it’s been totally fine, but we did it today, and its like normal, then i come home and go to the toilet, and i have blood all over my underwear, like a casual period, but like i said before, i dont have them no more, but throughout the day, my stomach has been hurting alot, what’s happening ?? D:

August 28, 2011 at 10:28 am
(291) Lalala . says:

Well ,
Im 13 .
& I just recently had sex . (protected sex . )
& When he pulled out .. There was bloo all over the condom?
Then when I went too the bathroom.. There was blood when I wiped o:
But, then it went away?
& now, I woke up & , there was blood stains on my underwear ?
But , ik I’m not on my period ? Cause , i just got off of my period.
So WTF is wrong with me /: ? Help.

September 1, 2011 at 6:52 am
(292) Squash says:

Heyy i really need help. I had a contraception injection
And i started spotting the doctor said i. Had to wait two weeks
Before me and my boyfriend had sex and he could blow in me
So we waited for two weeks i spotted for two weeks till my
Boyfriend could cum in me he did and i stopped spotting is
That good cause im kinda really scared about it

September 9, 2011 at 1:10 pm
(293) Lol says:

Peendejaa hee poop urr cherry emma;P

September 17, 2011 at 2:13 am
(294) rukiddingme says:

for those of you kids you are having sex we all know u are not as mature as you think some of you are sensible enuff to open your legs for every tom dick and harry but not sensible enuff to not use your email address that is associated with your facebook page, anybody can search for you on fb with your email address i already found some of you so much for being annonymous……forget sex get an education

October 12, 2011 at 5:08 pm
(295) sarah says:

hi im 21 and been with my partner for 5 years and a 3 year old child. i got the contraceptive implant n 2009 and havent had regular periods since but i have started to notice more so since my smear test that i bleed after sex not straight after but the next day and its on and off for days after and i get cramps like im on my period i just finished my period the end of the week and had sex with my partner 2nights ago and noticed a day later i was bleedin i thought it could have been a sign for cervical cancer but have just had my results saying negative. then a friend suggested to get checked for chlamydia. i no this is a symptom of chlamydia but also a irregular bleeding is a side effect from implanon. just a little worried any1 got any advice? x

October 16, 2011 at 11:07 pm
(296) annie says:

Hi, I’m 23, I lost my virginity 6 years ago but the guy who I had sex with had a small penis (lol), it went in hardly at first but it didn’t hurt me much. I didn’t have sex until 6 years (until last night!) and the guy had a big penis, It hardly went in and it did hurt a lot. after it was done, I went to the bathroom and I noticed that i was bleeding, what do you think was the problem? shouldn’t I have sex with him again because he is too big? :-s

October 22, 2011 at 11:16 am
(297) Celeste says:

So me & my boyfriend decided to have sex two weeks ago, i was the virgin, & monday night we had sex, (we did it doggystyle) and when i got home there was blood.. Then Wensday we did it again .. This time we did it alot longer and he’d put my leg on his shoulder and put it in deeep and hard so i figured i bled that night because he officially popped my cherry ..
Then we did it on Friday & Saturday, i cant remember if there was blood ..
(This was all two weeks ago)
We didnt have sex the last week because i got a UTI and then my period .. But we had sex two nights ago and we were 14 minutes into it and he took it out and noticed blood all over, he said that its because he finished popping my cherry .. But I remain worried, and i dont want to have sex again and bleed all over him.. I was so embarrassed , he was turned off instantly .. We used condoms everytime and we always end up doing doggystyle .. Perhaps its the position ? I need help .. Should i see my doctor ? Ive done research on my situation and found out that it could be because he didnt fully pop my cherry or that its an STD but we used condoms ? Im worried & confused ..

October 23, 2011 at 6:16 pm
(298) colvingirl says:

Hi. Im 17 turning 18. ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. i wasnt a virgin but after i had sex with him i bleed. an i just though its because hes the biggest ive been with yet. but for 2 week once an awhile when we have sex ive bleed for a hr or two. an ive felt sick every morning not throwing you but feeling like i have to. but it goes a away then i get a small headache an hunger. i cry for no reason and get cranky. sides hurt sometimes. an lower tummy.

his mom had periods for all her pregnancy’s.
i looked up that it can depend on your man to see how ur pregnancy could be.

could this mean i am pregnant?

October 25, 2011 at 3:30 pm
(299) d says:

never any answers, just questions….GOD THIS SUCKS

October 31, 2011 at 5:21 am
(300) hello1234 says:

i was due to start re taking my pill on thursday so i did as normal, my period stopped as normal. me and my boyfriend had sex last night and i bled again. does this mean anything ??

November 3, 2011 at 8:19 am
(301) Men are losers says:

Bobbi…You are right. I have lots of regrets after letting losers use me thinking they loved me whereas all they wanted is to screw me. Now i went celibacy.

November 7, 2011 at 2:31 pm
(302) meow says:

I’m 18, I lost my virginity about a month ago and have been having sex every other night since (not including the week before last, which was when I had my period). Yesterday was the first time we had intercourse multiple times in a 24 hr period, and admittedly it was rough. I bled a bit after the 2nd time, very light pink, so I google’d and it said that was normal, so it didn’t phase me. After the 3rd time, we went to sleep and I woke up to pretty heavy bleeding, causing me to have to wear a tampon. Should I see a doctor or is this type of heavy bleeding plausible after 3 rounds of semi-rough intercourse?

November 8, 2011 at 4:02 pm
(303) bri says:

Me n my bf had sex a week ago n 3 days later I got my period n only had it for 4 days n I started my new pack of pills on a Sunday n this morning I was spotting. Im very worried ‘/

November 9, 2011 at 10:25 pm
(304) China... says:

Well me and my boyfriend lost our virginaty to eachother but today was probably the first time after having sex that I found myself bleeding.! I never had blood come out me when I lost my virginity and me and my boyfriend only have had sex less then 15 I don’t know what it is ,I need help I afraid to ask my mom I’m only 16

November 12, 2011 at 7:23 am
(305) neha says:

i have sex with my boyfriend but now my marriage has been fixed . at that time i don’t have bleeding in first time . so i wanted to know my husband will be able to know that i m not a virgin. please reply me on this . i m very depressed. please.

November 20, 2011 at 9:50 pm
(306) Confused says:

I am 18 years old and have had sex like 3 times protective and I bleed, but I have been raped 4 times unprotective and 3 of them have cummed inside me and everytime I have sex I bleed a lol. But once I didn’t. N I hurt near my vargina. Do I have a STD? or pregnant?
Please help me and can’t talk to my mom and can’t go to the doctor please write back

November 24, 2011 at 4:22 am
(307) sadia says:

I have just inserted a pencil up my vajina and when I gbo to the toilet blood comes out i dont what its is cuz i started my period that month and I told my mum that something poked up there I didnt tell her it was a pencil she sed its ur period theenn im confused am i a virgin still ???

November 28, 2011 at 3:43 pm
(308) worried 123 says:

I am really worried : I recently had sex with my boyfriend without contraception and straight after I started bleeding I thought it just triggered my period but I’ve been bleeding for over a week now and I am embarrassed to go to thed doctors and I don’t want to tell my parents about it
Please help !

November 30, 2011 at 1:33 am
(309) loveisblind says:

i had sex with my girlfriend and i was bleeding alot after sex
and i already had my perido soo i dont know what to dooo please hellp

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